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I'm a libra he a Aquarius. My big question is when does a Aquarius commit to a relationship?? I being dating this Aquarius man for like 5 months . I know that with a Aquarius you have to be he friend first. We always get along in person everything is great after that I don't hear from him. Before we would go out . Now since we having sex he treat good romantic he cook for me. We cuddle and watch tv . But I think we had gotten far because of me I take your advance that we Aquarius they have a phobia to be in a relationship so I always have a good time with him when we just to go out . When he invited me to he place and have sex I treat him like a friend I never asked what are we are or talk about feeling . I always give him he space. I don't call him. And he very unexpectedly that why I date a Leo I go tired of this Aquarius behavior but then I notice that Leo play too much mind game. Alteast Aquarius is more loyal . And start to looking for me when I altleast expect. But I notice that now every week is going out with he guy friend I don't care but alteast he told me I give him space. What brothing me inside me what I hating is being a botty call. Last time we text me he I want to have sex with you I reply me too he replied back what time you can come to my place?? I was like at 7pm then he like I'm going to a bar with my friends I reply back then tommorrow Sunday I'm with my family now. So I was thinking to myself ohh him want to have sex and then go out with he friends?? But let me ask dxnet people that know Aquarius before I mess everything they advised.... I'm 29 years old a libra I go with the flow and let you pass one , two and I'm just observing your behavior then at the end when I find one Bette than you I send you to hell!!! I have make far with this Aquarius he 30 we very good friend on person before he take me out now he don't he treat me good like make romantic dinner we laugh we had great time. When you I tell him what I feel?? I know Aquarius have a phobia in been in a relationship!! When will he tell me I'm he girlfriend or what going on— Why does horoscopes say libra is the best match for Aquarius why because we have patience and go with the flow and beside you they dating another — And don't asked you anything instill we send you to hell— Then that make me feel like a hoe.. Any tips how to understand this Aquarius!!!!! Plz I already pass the stage of friend the stage of no asking where this going ... Now when does the stage of commit or send to hell take place—
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What I had read that libra females are the only one to control a Aquarius man and trap them... Yes I guess how because libra with go with the flow but libra will make everything possible to take you fall in love in a trap way with out not even let you know then libra ... With date another without tell you anything until we find someone better that you !!!! I know with Aquarius they don't show they love for you they go the opposite how they feeling. I'm very confused he delicate song to me since date 1 . We always have good conversations he very intelligent I know he loyal he the one that call me every week I know he going out with he guys . And if he dating another woman well in my mind what I think is he don't let any one traps him it take a lot of work. And I think I get far with him because I read how Aquarius man are. But they are very big headache of puzzles. He treat me like a queen in person . But me as a libra woman or any woman I would like to receive a good morning text. Or good text . Are invited me to go out . Or travel or a gateway together. Any advice when does a Aquarius commit—? I know they test you.... I know when he get close to me then he pull more back ...
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Tell him what you expect from him, tell him youd love to hear from him in the morning, that his words make your day brighter, tell him where you would like to travel with him.

If he caught any signs of you talking to the leo reassure him that he is the only one.

We are possesive af but the ego is too big to compete with other men for womens attention so we rather start avoiding/ghosting

Avoid ultimatums or zero sum choices. If he cooks for you, you are not a booty call.

Dont say the "commit" word, try being a companion he doesnt want to let go because he has such a good time with you. Commitment will come naturally after that without big words.

Call him sometime. If you never call we think you are loosing interest, start panicking and ego starts building walls around feelings for protection.
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Mr_pinchy thankyou so much!!!!! You really understand my situation!!! And yes Aquarius man are an challenge you have to be really intelligent to catch one to much headache!!! So you would say that I have to tell him like a suggestion what I would like from him.but don't say I want this from you .... Like I would like to go with you here for example.... In person I always have the greatest time in my life with this man . I know they are very social people . They love to be free.... I read that Aquarius will take a long way or years to finally be in a relationship ?. But I feel really bad when him text when the other day to go to he place and when I told he I was with my family that I could meet him later at 7 pm he was like I'm going to a bar with my friend me and him have to go over a project ( this Aquarius is a physician but work at a hospital at mon - Friday 9-5pm) then when I met him the other day I ask him did you have fun with your friend ? He reply yes we saw the mcwealther fight at the bar I told him nice glad you have fun 🙂 did you when over the project he told no we didn't I going to have to do it a Monday . Atleast he honestly I don't mind he enjoy he friend time what pissed me was texting me to go there and he has plan with his buddies at night like a butty call. Then this week I text him what he doing he was like cleaning my place and relaxing I reply back to you have any plan for later ? He replied yeah I'll be heading out with some friends. I reply back have fun . Him reply back to me thankyou enjoy as well . I reply " I will ".
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Posted by Wineaux15
I'm having a hard time understanding honey. So you guys are friends.... he's dating someone else and so are you? But you want to be with just him and don't know how to admit that to him?
Wiwineaux15 no this Aquarius man is not dating anyone just me.. Is that someone ask me or told me here that I should make my mind up and I reply that I was just asking a question about Leo what Leo man text me back after 2 months after we this Leo man dump me for his ex...... And I answered that another story!!!!!! This Aquarius man I get along well we have the best time we been dating for 5 months a ready !!! We good friend I getting tired of this situation and I asked when a Aquarius man going to commit or send me to hell if I ready pass the stage of friendship I give him he freedom but I can't be like that forever... I really enjoy this man but I know Aquarius have a phobia in been in a relationship. I know it take years for them settle in a relationship.. I ask what can I do without messing it up or what the next stage is I already got this far with this man
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I'm having a hard time understanding honey. So you guys are friends.... he's dating someone else and so are you? But you want to be with just him and don't know how to admit that to him?
She couldn't make up her mind which is obvious. She's also couldn't take any criticism.
Libra attitude lol — cant take criticism lol
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Haha my fav Gem is here ?
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I'm having a hard time understanding honey. So you guys are friends.... he's dating someone else and so are you? But you want to be with just him and don't know how to admit that to him?
She couldn't make up her mind which is obvious. She's also couldn't take any criticism.
Libra attitude lol — cant take criticism lol
Haha my fav Gem is here ?
You mean the crazy one? Lol we can tell her to talk to compy. They both seem stubborn so they can talk and leave everyone else out of it lol
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They'll get along lmao
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Posted by Zuletnilibra
Arrialview and Gemini why the f--k dont you leave out if here !!!! Oh just don't look at my post and don't opinion !!!!!!! And you GEmini this is Aquarius post thing I don't ask any gemini their opinions why don't you mind you business and ignore my post ..., you know what I'm going to do block both of you simple as that !!!!!
*triggered ———??
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Arrialview and Gemini why the f--k dont you leave out if here !!!! Oh just don't look at my post and don't opinion !!!!!!! And you GEmini this is Aquarius post thing I don't ask any gemini their opinions why don't you mind you business and ignore my post ..., you know what I'm going to do block both of you simple as that !!!!!
*triggered ———??
Ok. This is why the aqua wont commit to her. She gets overly emotional and aggressive, i reckon. She mentioned the guy texted her but has other plans in the evening and she comes here ranting about how to make the guy commit. Even mentioning finding someone better and the guy can go to hell. she didnt want to be a booty call but responds quickly if the guy wants her to come over and have sex. No boundaries at all. And she gets frustrated and lashes out because we said it wont work out. LMAO —

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Nothing wrong with that. She's perfect ?
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Imao.. I am telling u now. If aqua has not fully committed to u or call u his gf. He's dating other women on th side. If u r seeing each other only once a week or once every two weeks. High chance he's chatting n flirting with other people, libra can b somewhat naive... trust me I know lol.... let him treat u like a princess but if u wanna go out with him more just ask him nicely. It's not easy road with these men, esp he's 30 still a young aqua man. He's just enjoying his time with you etc. not expectation perfect for him. I don't think libra n aqua is good together. It is indeed over rated, ur libra need of romance is high n u will expect that to happen long term with aqua.. it's not the case. He's putting on colour roses now prob coz its still early days., they r stubborn n a rebel.., also.. being so nice all the time.,, might not b a good thing.... aqua like a mixed of personality... perhaps Model how a Leo female or gem work or aqua.l they say what they want. If u like exclusivity just say u would like that.. playing the everything is ok card for so long isn't going to really work.. 😉
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Jajajjajajajajajaja no SAweetz1988 I'm not going to block you ... Why cause I like the way you explain it.. Thank you I really love how you explain it ..., next time this Aqua men text asking me to come over to his place. I would text him.. "I would like to go out with you .I really enjoy your company but also I would love to go a hang around with you then after we can hooked but definitely would love to hangout beside hooked up thank you ..
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This is what I'm going to replied when he ask me I want to go over he place to have sex " It's completely your right to date more than one woman at a time, but I want you to know that I'm looking for an exclusive relationship with the right person. So I just want to find out if we're on the same page before taking things further". What you guys think should I tell him this ??
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Posted by Zuletnilibra
Jajajjajajajajajaja no SAweetz1988 I'm not going to block you ... Why cause I like the way you explain it.. Thank you I really love how you explain it ..., next time this Aqua men text asking me to come over to his place. I would text him.. "I would like to go out with you .I really enjoy your company but also I would love to go a hang around with you then after we can hooked but definitely would love to hangout beside hooked up thank you ..
Thank u I'm just sharing u based on my not so nice experience, observations, questions I asked the Aqua n stuff I found out myself.... you can also do that... explain why going out makes you feel loved etc... Aqua will go out in the beginning stages but when u two r comfortable togheee staying at home n billy silly at home with the person they r most comfortable with is what they truly crave... where they can fully let go and just be them without judgement... don't thjnkcits always a bad thing u guys hang out in private... if he slowly becoming more truly himself around u is a good sign ... Aqua might love socialising but those r superficial relationships. You need to start noticing the differences .
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Posted by Zuletnilibra
This is what I'm going to replied when he ask me I want to go over he place to have sex " It's completely your right to date more than one woman at a time, but I want you to know that I'm looking for an exclusive relationship with the right person. So I just want to find out if we're on the same page before taking things further". What you guys think should I tell him this ??
I wud say, I am only sleeping with you but I'm not putting demands onto what you do.. though please let me know if you are seeing other people so we can atleast be inthe right flame of mine .... say this 🙂 god I wish I did all these myself.. I learnt from my own bumpy Road lol
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@Zuletnilibra... tell to your aqua wantvyou want it. i had a relationship with my aqua. we begin as a friend for 6 months and than he told me that he is fall in love with me. and I told him i am not in love with him.. and it takes time for me as we enjoy our friendship and I told him I want have a commited relationship so I know where i stand. he is agree and we are in commited relationship even I am not in love with him. time goes by and I fall in love with him . we love each other. yeah.. it's puzzle with aqua. but he never ignore me and never disappear from me. one day he wants to broke up with me and said I am to good for him. I told him to think about it as we know we love each other.i was hurt and unbelievable. I knew this is not what he wants. 3 days I didn't contact him. the fourth day he comes back and wanna try again the relationship and promise will never do that again. now we start a new relationship after broke up for 3 days. yes everything different now. I make a distance with him. I am afraid he will broke up again without a good reason. so i feel more stronger now. I change my behavior , I am a different person with this new relationship after 3 days broke up. I hope he will notice that.
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Posted by Senorita_LL
It is not easy to get an Aqua to commit. You have to be unavailable and be independent.

Do your own things and treat them like they don't matter, and that's when they will trigger and came back chasing you, but...that is if they really have got feelings for you, else they dgaf.

They'd prefer the open minded type and not someone who's over controlling. I don't think Aqua - Libra is a good pairing, since Libra do need the attention from their lover most of the times.

For an Aqua, in order to get them, you need to be their bff. Someone who can deal with their crazy and sarcasm. This is just how I feel, after dealing with a few of them.

They make excellent friendship, but relationship, I guess the females are way better than the males. 😄

Yay bfff all the way. Stuff like that. Def better for females than male
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It is not easy to get an Aqua to commit. You have to be unavailable and be independent.

Do your own things and treat them like they don't matter, and that's when they will trigger and came back chasing you, but...that is if they really have got feelings for you, else they dgaf.

They'd prefer the open minded type and not someone who's over controlling. I don't think Aqua - Libra is a good pairing, since Libra do need the attention from their lover most of the times.

For an Aqua, in order to get them, you need to be their bff. Someone who can deal with their crazy and sarcasm. This is just how I feel, after dealing with a few of them.

They make excellent friendship, but relationship, I guess the females are way better than the males. 😄

Yay bfff all the way. Stuff like that. Def better for females than male


I know, you know, they don't know that we knew. 😆

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Sadly we know what they don't know but they soon will know what we wish we didn't know IMAo I tried
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Posted by GeminiGirl052388
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I'm having a hard time understanding honey. So you guys are friends.... he's dating someone else and so are you? But you want to be with just him and don't know how to admit that to him?
She couldn't make up her mind which is obvious. She's also couldn't take any criticism.
Libra attitude lol — cant take criticism lol
Haha my fav Gem is here ?
You mean the crazy one? Lol we can tell her to talk to compy. They both seem stubborn so they can talk and leave everyone else out of it lol
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Sure, no problem. I can always have a private chat with anyone that needs a few guiding words about how to deal with an Aquarius. Thank you for the recommendation! I have had the pleasure to have many private conversations starting from this forum and I have met interesting people that showed me how they perceive dating (or trying to date) an Aquarius, at various stages. It was really useful for me also, while sharing my part of experience.

But please, GeminiGirl052388, if you decide to get involved into such a topic, assume your words and don't take them back in Gemini style . Libras can respond in quite blunt ways, but they are not the only ones to do that. As for me, I don't believe my own stubbornness was ever related to the Aqua man, but strictly to my career, aspect which you probably disregarded.

OP, if you wish, you can PM me.
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Arrialview and Gemini why the f--k dont you leave out if here !!!! Oh just don't look at my post and don't opinion !!!!!!! And you GEmini this is Aquarius post thing I don't ask any gemini their opinions why don't you mind you business and ignore my post ..., you know what I'm going to do block both of you simple as that !!!!!
Damn girl , ur making us libras look bad here. Why are you getting so defensive? You said your 29? Are you new to this site? It doesn't matter that she is a Gemini. Gems are great, I get along with them. But anywho, ur on a site asking for advice. All signs will respond. As I said before you need to as your boo. It seems you were expecting all positive responses. In a perfect world maybe. This here is real life. You are going to get the good ,bad and the ugly . If you can not handle it, don't post on this site. From one libra to another. This def proves not all signs are alike. We both libras but seem like night and day.
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I think she's new to dxpnet... T_T
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Posted by Senorita_LL
It is not easy to get an Aqua to commit. You have to be unavailable and be independent.

Do your own things and treat them like they don't matter, and that's when they will trigger and came back chasing you, but...that is if they really have got feelings for you, else they dgaf.

They'd prefer the open minded type and not someone who's over controlling. I don't think Aqua - Libra is a good pairing, since Libra do need the attention from their lover most of the times.

For an Aqua, in order to get them, you need to be their bff. Someone who can deal with their crazy and sarcasm. This is just how I feel, after dealing with a few of them.

They make excellent friendship, but relationship, I guess the females are way better than the males. 😄
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Señorita I know that getting an aqua man isn't easy ? like I say we get alone well. I see the chemistry between us. I know that he not dating another woman . I also know Aqua would not waste their time if they don't like you. I read article about Aquarius most of the the thing I read is that you have to be their best friend I guess I'm he friend . I also read that Aqua like theirs freedom , and it can take years for them to commit. Beside that he Islamic religious I'm catholic. I never ask he about at the beginning I said something and he got offended and he started talked a lil about he religious but he distance himself from me . But them I never asks about it .if I asks someone their going to say their can mix religious but he very modest about it . In another words I hope religious have anything to do with it.
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Señorita I know that getting an aqua man isn't easy ? like I say we get alone well. I see the chemistry between us. I know that he not dating another woman . I also know Aqua would not waste their time if they don't like you. I read article about Aquarius most of the the thing I read is that you have to be their best friend I guess I'm he friend . I also read that Aqua like theirs freedom , and it can take years for them to commit. Beside that he Islamic religious I'm catholic. I never ask he about at the beginning I said something and he got offended and he started talked a lil about he religious but he distance himself from me . But them I never asks about it .if I asks someone their going to say their can mix religious but he very modest about it . In another words I hope religious have anything to do with it.
Hold up. I am trying to understand your situation.

Did you guys had an argument over some religion thingy? I think, in general, Aquas are sensitive individual. It's just that they are good with masking that emotions.

Libra, on the other hand, can't understand why they have to do this and without realizing, your words might hurt them. Let him have his space for a bit and don't push him for any answers or such.

I understand it can be annoying on your end, but I guess that's just how Aqua operates. I have an Aqua friend whom I love to talk to, but after a while we will bite one another with our sarcasm and then leave the other alone. He will comes around or I will just pop by and say hello, things will be fine soon after.

Being a Gem, I do like them tho', cos' they are not defensive that much and always take things easy. The only thing I have to tolerate, likewise, them running away from emotions.

I wish you all the best. 🙂





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Señorita that was At first that we had a argument about religious. At first It was me always said hello intil I got tired and move on then he get more close to me after I never text he and never call him he the one calling me every week and one time I told he I was sick I was having a headache and he was like if you want I can go pick you up let take a shower together he put the song he delicate to me . Make a love to me . Then we cuddle and watch tv. But I never call him . At first I was the one calling him and texting when I move on without tell him anything I act normal he came to me every weekend now asking me to see him you see him very unexpected
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Posted by NymphGoddess
I dont hate to be in a relationship, i hare being with the wrong one. But thats just me. It takes me months to commit to someone, ans even then im not so sure. I always feel like i can get something better. So why am i gonna commit? I dont commit simply because i like you. You have to meet my standards. If theres something wrong that i dont like, i will not commit.

Personaly, im not a fam of Libra and aquarius relationships. Libras are too dormat like for me and theyre prone to lying and manipulation. Id rather pursue a gemini as rhey are more honest.
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About arguments: Aquarius always loves debates. Debates are not arguing, though. Their tough nature will not allow you to interrupt their rage of fury, if engaged in one. Just listen to them. They always have something interesting to say, even though their logic may be completely wrong and out of books. Just listen and process. They are very spiritual, so do not be surprised if many of them are quite fanatic when dealing with religion. Do not lose your temper, since this destroys any bridge of communication and brings only distance. They can get temperamental when they feel universal injustice. As unpredictable as they may be, having such outbursts in your presence is actually a very good sign that he opens up. Many of them bottle it. Just be careful how you respond
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Posted by aquarius_man
Posted by Zuletnilibra
I'm a libra he a Aquarius.
we never commit unless you're aries or sagitarius. libras bore us to death.

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excuse me. i'm sorry but this is fault

a cap woman married an aqua on here

a taurus lady with aqua moon trying to break aqua ass

a few gems here committed to aqua on here..

where on earth r u getting those facts from?



(YES I HAVE SOMETHING AGAINST ARIES female ) at the moment but thats not the point lol

whats your FULL placements—??

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Posted by NymphGoddess
I dont hate to be in a relationship, i hare being with the wrong one. But thats just me. It takes me months to commit to someone, ans even then im not so sure. I always feel like i can get something better. So why am i gonna commit? I dont commit simply because i like you. You have to meet my standards. If theres something wrong that i dont like, i will not commit.

Personaly, im not a fam of Libra and aquarius relationships. Libras are too dormat like for me and theyre prone to lying and manipulation. Id rather pursue a gemini as rhey are more honest.

What are your so call standards exactly? 😉 what are those something wrong thing?
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