Why is he acting like this?

I recently met an aquarius guy.. we hung out almost everyday and we had a lot of fun together. We had kissed a few times, but that was about it.. I never considered us dating or anything, because he never said anything about it and neither did I.

Anyways, the other night he was over and he got mad when I told him we weren't dating! He said I was "playing with his head" and to give him a call when I figure out what I want. I already told him I didn't want to be with anyone right now.

I asked him if he was mad and he said yes, and that he just wanted more out of me, as in a relationship.

I don't know.. I thought an aquarius guy was supposed to be independent and non-clingy? This guy got super clingy.. and we only knew each other for a few weeks...

Hello to you Virgogirl and welcome!

The Aqua man needs to be in control....you took that away from him when you called the shots. They are very much independent and are by no means "cling-ons". They need to establish a relationship with you first and then they go off to regroup - think about things. They might return and they might not.

You were not playing with his head....he wants you to feel guilty - don't fall for that one sweetie. You were speaking your truth and I commend you highly for that.

Never in my life had I had a man say to me...."you are playing with my head." reason being is, they do not play mind games therefore that thought could not be expressed by them. The first time I did hear it however was while in a relationship with an Aqua. man and he did play the mind games. I was very, very fortunate to have the most wonderful back-up partner to decipher the games and I will be forever grateful for her.....*she knows who she is*

Say what you feel and honor yourself...do it for you...not for a man. They come and go...your integrity will stay with you forever. A good man will never make you feel guilty about anything.

I will share with you an ex. of what my aqua pal played with me....we met one day and he asked me to go to lunch with him...I said that i had plans with a girlfriend..he says, call and reschedule with her, she will understand. I told him no - I made a commitment with her and I will keep it. He says, so - don't I matter to you? this sort of stuff went on for a bit..he tried to wear me down with no luck. yes, he was very mad but....I did not let it get to me. What he showed me was that he did not respect my wishes or my decisions and it had to be his way or nothing. Know yourself and stay true to your convictions. I think I drove that man crazy.