will she comes back?

We had up and downs for the last 3 years and recently i broke off with her. After which I had realise that i miss her so much and i went back and look for her, she say she doesnt want to be with me. But she told her friends that she feel guilty for this relationship. She told me to leave her alone and dont bother her. I'm so tempted to text her but i didnt. will she contact me again and give our relationship a second chance?

any kind soul please comment i'm feeling so lost!

I don't think she will comment, she only told her friends this to save face, from humiliation. You bruised her ego if she knew you were going to leave her she would have done it first. Sad to say but even if she loved you and knew your true feelings to give up on her she would have left you with no return. She is ignoring you now, and now you realize you want her back. Chances are she will reel you back in with bait, and once she has you back in her court leave you to humiliate you how you did her. I don't think there is a possible chance for getting back together but friendship is possible.

I mean, I don't think she will come back*

so i guess she will be playing mind game with me? but what if i just be friends with her and win her back like last time will she still fall for me again?
do u think she will miss me ? or do u think she still love me?

i should not contact her and wait for her to contact me? right now i'm doing the no contact strategy with her. but will hope her to contact me instead.
i read up a lot of aquarius. if she really miss me she will contact me instead. so if she contact me i guess she will reel it and once i get into her court she will leave me huh?

Yup and depends on if she wants the attention from you or not, I think aqua women only give 2nd chances but do you know her venus and moon placements? she will glady be friends after she gets over her bitterness which could take a minute. Miss you I don't think so she's hurt. Love you yes, love doesn't fade those memories remain. I am thinking she is stuck in a stage of denial right now that you would do such a thing and why so suddenly. Have you broken up with her before?

Not contacting her will only cause more bitterness and she'll be more stubborn to hear you out afterwards when you do want to talk. pretty much contact her in about a week if she doesn't contact you. I will tell you what to say.

Posted by jyhuang
so i guess she will be playing mind game with me? but what if i just be friends with her and win her back like last time will she still fall for me again?
do u think she will miss me ? or do u think she still love me?

How is she playing mind games if you broke up with her? And now you want her back??

She is over you...

i was thinking of contacting her after a month later so she can calm down and talk about it. aquarius women are like wave when the wave is high she will zone out and ignored me. when we quarrel, i always let her have the huge wave first then once the tide is smooth i contact her. Yes i broke off with her many times and end of the day she text me first and in the initial stage i always go find her and patch things up with her after a break up. and when i dont go find her she will text me why am i doing this to her

and right now, i have no idea what to text her. could u advise me what i should text her for a start?

she been thinking i'm stalking her right now. and she told her friends that am i spying on her and i want to get information from her friends about what she is doing

What sign are you?

i'm a virgo my birthday is on 23 aug

i read a lot and they says that virgo always mind fuck aquarius girl

Ok... Why did u break up with her?

because she neglect me i feel so sad and whenever i say she dont reply my text, she would give tons of excuses but on the other hand she can reply her friends

Ok how old are you?

so is there any way i can make her come back and not let her hurt me?

i'm 30 this year and she's 24 this year

Posted by jyhuang
so is there any way i can make her come back and not let her hurt me?

So you broke up with her bcuz she hurts your feelings?

her birthday is on the 16 feb

is more about she neglect me and i flare up and scold her. after that she ignored me. and i went back to look for her twice about patching back the relationship but end of the day she told me she doesnt love me anymore.

is she saying all those words to hurt me because i hurt her first?

Posted by jyhuang
is more about she neglect me and i flare up and scold her. after that she ignored me. and i went back to look for her twice about patching back the relationship but end of the day she told me she doesnt love me anymore.

Well.. what if that's the truth? You can't force her to want you.

Posted by jyhuang
she been thinking i'm stalking her right now. and she told her friends that am i spying on her and i want to get information from her friends about what she is doing

This would worry me...

haha feby16aqua
but u ladies are so hard to read. i always want to communicate with her about our relationship. but she always zone out. and on her birthday , i book a resort and celebrate with her and i proposal to her and she agree on the proposal but i have no idea how come she can just change her mind in a split of a sec. and say she doenst love me anymore.

i handmade flowers and did those good memories of us together and i have yet to pass it to her because i have no idea if she will appreciate those thing i did. and i dont want her to feel that i'm needy on her.

why is that worrying? i never stalk her. and i know aquarius want her space so right now i'm giving her the space she wants

that's what i'm doing right now. i post stuff on fb and she told her friends that why am i posting stuff? am i trying to get her attention.

Well for starters apologize say you aren't trying to worry her but you just want to make sure you can be friends as you don't want to move on and have this become a fallout. Because above all you value her friendship. Then say I hope you can forgive me, have a great day.

Appear to not be interested she may be intrigued by you wanting to move on.
Eventhough you aren't trying to, try to because it may not be another chance after this.

so feby i should contact her and let her lead me instead. well tbh i am always very compromising with her. and she told her friends that other girls suits me better. on the other hand i can see that she cant let go too. because her friends was saying that she might not find another guy like me again. i'm wondering what is she thinking? i can see that it hurts her from ignoring me. and me and her are together for 3 years and from her eyes i can see that might still love me. but why is she making herself suffer from all this pain.

that is why i stop posting on fb and want her to have a feel that i had disappear from her life. all i can do is a waiting game and wait for her to contact me. should this be the right way i should be doing?

i heard from her friends that sometimes she even joke about me after we broke up

and i know she is crying at times because of me... i have no idea how to make her feel more relax i really doesnt want to stress her.

before we broke off she posted stuff like my mum once told me that a guy can be weathly but stingy on me. but a guy who truly love me will give all that he have to make me happy. and i think i found that guy. i thanks you for the time when u surprise and pamer me with all the gifts. you always catch me off guard. am super touched thank you for loving me

Trauma, insecurity, past relationships is why she does put herself through pain and self doubt. She is always worried on your next move and you are letting her down with all your confusing break ups. you need a sit down with her.

Posted by jyhuang
and i know she is crying at times because of me... i have no idea how to make her feel more relax i really doesnt want to stress her.

she may love you, but she knows that it won't work....usually aquas behave like that when there's a conflict between what they feel and what they think...

being a "mind sign"...sensibility will prevail....

so the best is i should move on? how about all those stuff that i did for her should i still pass her? and do i still talk to her how i feel towards her?

Yes moving on is the essence at this point, yes do send them to her or regret not at the end of the day. Probably after she calms down then talk to her about it.

Posted by jyhuang
so the best is i should move on? how about all those stuff that i did for her should i still pass her? and do i still talk to her how i feel towards her?

why don't you put it this way....if you are not satisfied with the amount of attention she pays to you and continuously argue about it [aquas are not conflictual people...like aries, let's say] and break up and so on and so on....what's the point of this relationship————?

you're being caught up in the events right now and don't think clearly...but...

and by the way...there are too many friends involved in the dynamic of your relationship...friends said that, friends said that....do you live this relationship through you or through your friends—

i think your story is a classical example of incompatibility.

She text me how am i. and i reply her
what does she wants?

She wants your attention, maybe bored?