Will it still work out?

I was dating this guy (Venus Aries, Sun Aries) for the past 3-4 months. For the record, I am Venus in Pieces, Sun in Aquarius, Rising in Cancer.

So with this Aries man, we met 4 times.. 3 times consecutively within first 3 weeks and then the last time a few weeks ago. He was occupied with some family issues hence he couldn't really meet that often. But we still texted almost everyday.

There was once where he stood up on me, prior to that we were still texting everyday and even talked about the date itself just the night before. On that day itself there was just no replies and no callbacks. I probed him again the next day and he replied he is okay and will explain it to me. Gone for a few days again until I texted him and he mentioned something happened at home and he apologized.

We went on talking to each other for another two months. 3 weeks ago we met and 1 week after he just disappeared again. This time for two whole weeks. I texted once to check in on him within the first week and there were no replies at all. At first I thought something happened to him. So I waited... and I stumbled upon instagram and saw he was indeed still alive and was able to reply to people's stories. I thought I must have been ghosted..

Two weeks later he texted 'Are you feeling alright?' I was so mad. I replied no and asked him what's the deal? If he wants to move on he can tell me upfront cause I dont appreciate disappearing acts. Few days later he replied he was thinking about us, we can hardly meet and if I was alright with the arrangement.

I kinda jumped then. I told him I preferred to meet more often. Not everyday but at least once a week? I felt like I wasn't one of his priorities and I dont really feel secure with this kind of arrangement of meeting once every few months.

He said he was sorry if he made me felt that way and he should have told me earlier his relationship style was alot of independence and freedom. He still hopes to meet me.

I felt like he doesn't want a commitment and I didn't want to get emotionally attached to him further. So I guess I kind of screwed everything up by telling him let's not contact each other anymore.

He thanked me for the memories and wished me for my future love life. And.. he blocked me.

I felt like I screwed up. I really still liked him and I couldn't sleep well at all for the past 4 days.. I'm worried that I may have hurt him.. and I'm still hopeful something may work out. Any advice?

He probably has many others in rotation. Save your face.

But my aries ex was also an attention seeker

He would say things like that to see my response, not to necessarily be chased by me, but for validation and a 1-up kinda thing.

What they say about aries loving a fight, it seems true for me

Posted by besarlalluvia

He probably has many others in rotation. Save your face.

But my aries ex was also an attention seeker

He would say things like that to see my response, not to necessarily be chased by me, but for validation and a 1-up kinda thing.

What they say about aries loving a fight, it seems true for me

I had my suspicions too.. but I do have aries guy friends and they were all decent people. I really wanted to believe in him and I really like him. But the two weeks mia really just threw me off. I think I would go crazy if it happens often. It's just so hard to pull away now...

Posted by but_didyoudie

it simply didn't workout... the two of you were on two totally different pages... and that's just how it went. what should i've, could i've is now irrelevant.

I get that.. I think this will really take me some time to heal.

Posted by AnnaJ123

Posted by besarlalluvia

He probably has many others in rotation. Save your face.

But my aries ex was also an attention seeker

He would say things like that to see my response, not to necessarily be chased by me, but for validation and a 1-up kinda thing.

What they say about aries loving a fight, it seems true for me

I had my suspicions too.. but I do have aries guy friends and they were all decent people. I really wanted to believe in him and I really like him. But the two weeks mia really just threw me off. I think I would go crazy if it happens often. It's just so hard to pull away now...

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Tbh i think my ex would have made a really good friend. And i think what he really wanted was a friend he could fuck. Different expectations

He’s a dick

I’m an Aries when I like someone I’m never distant and flaky and disappearing.

I’m sorry this happened but leave it alone now and it will hurt less. Go looking for him and it will get worse.

He’s a dick

I’m an Aries when I like someone I’m never distant and flaky and disappearing.

I’m sorry this happened but leave it alone now and it will hurt less. Go looking for him and it will get worse.

Posted by but_didyoudie

Posted by AnnaJ123

Posted by but_didyoudie

it simply didn't workout... the two of you were on two totally different pages... and that's just how it went. what should i've, could i've is now irrelevant.

I get that.. I think this will really take me some time to heal.

it sux but you will survive, nobody ever died of a heartbreak.

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Yes people do die from heartache and emotional pain. Its a slow death but it’s death nonetheless.

Thanks everyone. I really needed those sense knocking. I know I probably fell for the wrong guy.. it's just that my heart is still telling me to try.

Am trying to pack myself things to do these few days to keep my mind off.