A problem...

How often do you guys get infactuated?
How intense is it?

With my aries moon and mars, I constantly find myself infactuated with a new guy each week, and it's VERY intense and frustrating because my emotions run wild and I feel like I'm "in love" (even though I'm not)...


Now it's a Taurus...

FE .. having an Aries Venus and Gem Mars .. I go through this a lot, too. Only, lucky you get to be Virgo, so you have a better practical internal mechanism telling you to pull away and take a reality check.

It's hard .. I know exactly what you're feeling. Sometimes, you just feel like your blood is going to pump out of your ears, your heart beats so insanely when you get near him and you can't breathe.

Then, a week later .. it's completely gone and you're wondering what the heck was that all about? Still, to this day .. the potential to fall at somebody's feet due to pure lust/infatuation is present.

The scarry part is that love feels the same way .. so, how are you supposed to know the difference? 🙂

"It's hard .. I know exactly what you're feeling. Sometimes, you just feel like your blood is going to pump out of your ears, your heart beats so insanely when you get near him and you can't breathe.

Then, a week later .. it's completely gone and you're wondering what the heck was that all about? Still, to this day .. the potential to fall at somebody's feet due to pure lust/infatuation is present."

I Know P-A!!

sometimes the feeling is just too intense!! (especially since my moon and mars are in the 8th house)

I adore this taurus guy... (lol his venus is in aries)

and his mars is in gemini...

I have Aries sun, moon & mercury and have been really impulsive in relationships. Infatuation completely overtakes me when it does happen to the extreme! But it is rare because if a guy only has great looks but there's nothing else, I don't really get infatuated. I will use him for fantasy fodder and fill in the gaps of where his intelligence should be 😉 For me to really get infatuated there has to be chemistry; that spark that happens when you look into eachother's eyes.

Instead of infatuation, it could just be your libido. I think an Aries female can act like a guy more so than any other signs in separating love & sex. We get turned on pretty strong and it isn't always about infatuation.

Btw, Tauruses are very sexy. All earth signs are but my mars is in Taurus so that may explain things. His venus in Aries should be a big help. I dated one once, he was sensual, extremely sweet and treated me like a queen. *Sighs* Then I dumped him. ;(

I have an Aries moon and get infatuated as well.

Then it passes and I feel bad for the guy cuz he thought I was in love with him. His feeling might be deep & heart felt, but mine were fleeting. 😢

I try to control it.

Sometimes. 😉

Oops! Didn't even answer the questions. :p

Usually another infatuation will start within a week or so of an infatuation ending. I never paid attention to how long they last. They usually end either just with time & boredom, or because the guy did or said something that turned me off. Then it just turns off like a light switch. Until someone else turns it back on again. And sometimes there's more time in between infatuations if there's no one that I'm interested in.

How intense?

Crazy.
Trust me.
You don't want to know.
But that might be my Scorpio Rising....

"I have Aries sun, moon & mercury and have been really impulsive in relationships. Infatuation completely overtakes me when it does happen to the extreme"
- Wow Mistery, I have an Aries sun, moon & mercury too! It is very easy for Aries to become infatuated because we tend to jump right into things based on initial attraction and are very passionate. When I was younger it was more about the challenge and conquest, I'd like a guy, not really know the true him so I'd only see his good traits and think he was the best thing in the world. Then I'd start dating him and gradually start seeing his true self until a month later I was left wondering "how did I get myself in this situation?" Sometimes it is just a libido thing and once I sleep with them their mystery is over and the attraction dies. Being friends first helps because you get to know them better and see who they really are a bit rather than who you've though them up to be.

FE .. There's one good thing about these intense emotions of yours .. you apparantly have a lot of feelings welling up in you and when you find "The" man (hopefully soon), just think .. he's going to be filled to the brim. I'll bet you, you just need someone to flow these feelings to and because you don't have a man, it seems overwhelming to you.

Some people are like that .. they need to have somebody to love, a person who welcomes and embraces all these feelings.

I actually know a Virgo partnered with a Taurus (genders reversed), and they seem to get on quite well together. It's a new relationship, so only time will tell .. but, thus far, they share a deep respect for each other.

Just go with these feelings .. express and experience .. you can't go wrong with loving emotions 🙂

I want him so badly 😢 🙂

"FE .. There's one good thing about these intense emotions of yours .. you apparantly have a lot of feelings welling up in you and when you find "The" man (hopefully soon), just think .. he's going to be filled to the brim"

I know.