Anger towards my Aries live in bf

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I truly worship my April aries bf and we've had a beautiful baby together...

However he's been texting an ex behind my back for months. I think its stopped now but its made me a very angry person. They never met up but it hurt like hell. His ex hurt him and finished it yet he messages her several years later when we are together secretly.

Issue is, my anger got worse and hostile and I've shouted and called him names and begged him to stop. The other night I threw 2 drinks over him. I hate myself, I've never been like this...

He now thinks I'm crazy, mad, liar etc etc as he admits nothing. We've just had our baby that's why it's hurt even more...

I do think it's stopped now but I want to repair my behaviour and hopefully he'll see I'm not crazy but it wore me down over 6 months. Regardless, even him doing what he was doing I should have been dignified. Can I repair myself in my Aries eyes?
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Posted by Sunmoonrising

Yes 100% cried on thr floor etc etc begged...

He isn't being too bad with me because he knows he's done wrong but as for admitting, just won't do it.


The only way you repair is for both of you to come clean.

This type is passive avoidance will appear in other parts of your relationship and in your personal lives. It’s going to spill over.

Plus he knows that he doesn’t have to admit to anything if you just roll over and ask him for forgiveness
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i mean, you have a right to be upset if you caught him texting an ex for several months behind your back.....and the two of you even have a baby together.....i'm not sure why he has you (the victim in this situation) crying on the floor begging for forgiveness when he's the one who needs to apologize to you and repair the trust he broke....??

you say you "worship" him but maybe that's the problem....

maybe that's what turned him into this self-entitled person who feels he can do no wrong....?











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Thanks for your messages.

Hes also an aries sun gem moon like you.

I've gone mental at him but seriously he's so concerned what people will think of him he just can't admit a thing.

I've looked into everything you've written above and I'm well aware of his tactics. I've also told him. I'm not so much a pish over but we've just had a baby and I'm trying to do the mature thing and make it work.

He says little things that is his way of saying things but he jyst can't be an open book. I've had to draw a line somewhere but he knows I'm not falling for 'I'm innocent' tactic
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Thanks for your messages.

Hes also an aries sun gem moon like you.

I've gone mental at him but seriously he's so concerned what people will think of him he just can't admit a thing.

I've looked into everything you've written above and I'm well aware of his tactics. I've also told him. I'm not so much a pish over but we've just had a baby and I'm trying to do the mature thing and make it work.

He says little things that is his way of saying things but he jyst can't be an open book. I've had to draw a line somewhere but he knows I'm not falling for 'I'm innocent' tactic
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he needs to first and foremost realize he has a baby now and to stop acting like he's still a bachelor or something. he has responsibilities now. time to man up.
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He sent a few texts to his ex girlfriend. Big deal it's not as if he's fucking her. Ask yourself why it bothers you.

You threw two drinks over him. If it was me I wouldn't stay.

I'm guessing they were talking about more than just the weather. Are you ok with your gf doing that behind your back?

My ex girlfriend texted her ex and had phone conversations with him for the first few months we were together. I didn't care for obvious reasons.

Imagine if I threw two drinks on her and started bawling.
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So did my ex but there's a difference doing it behind your partner's back. If you have to hide it then you know you're doing something wrong.
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He sent a few texts to his ex girlfriend. Big deal it's not as if he's fucking her. Ask yourself why it bothers you.

You threw two drinks over him. If it was me I wouldn't stay.

I'm guessing they were talking about more than just the weather. Are you ok with your gf doing that behind your back?

My ex girlfriend texted her ex and had phone conversations with him for the first few months we were together. I didn't care for obvious reasons.

Imagine if I threw two drinks on her and started bawling.

So did my ex but there's a difference doing it behind your partner's back. If you have to hide it then you know you're doing something wrong.

I think he wanted to get caught. It's a bit like serial killers who return to the scene of the crime.

Obviously I don't know his motives but it clearly ain't working.
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No I think he would have kept it going had he not been caught. 😅 But you're right. Things are not working for them.
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He sent a few texts to his ex girlfriend. Big deal it's not as if he's fucking her. Ask yourself why it bothers you.

You threw two drinks over him. If it was me I wouldn't stay.

I'm guessing they were talking about more than just the weather. Are you ok with your gf doing that behind your back?

My ex girlfriend texted her ex and had phone conversations with him for the first few months we were together. I didn't care for obvious reasons.

Imagine if I threw two drinks on her and started bawling.

They've been together for at least four years and just had a baby. It's not like they just started dating. Jesus Aries. Gem moons are hoes. He's obviously trying to cheat. A lot of men do when their woman just had a baby. Why is that?

Obviously trying to cheat or just wants some consolidation from a woman he trusts. To put it into perspective I would never accuse someone of cheating unless they smelt like fruity lube.

Why is that? Lack of confidence and a lack of sex.
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And feeling pushed out and neglected. Weaker type men can see a baby as competition believe it or not...fortunately not all are like that.

I married one who was a great dad
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He sent a few texts to his ex girlfriend. Big deal it's not as if he's fucking her. Ask yourself why it bothers you.

You threw two drinks over him. If it was me I wouldn't stay.


Because he's been messaging her before me nearly everyday for 6 months since our baby was 12 weeks old. That's out of order and irresponsible. We tried for a year to have this baby and were happy. Even he admits that.
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He sent a few texts to his ex girlfriend. Big deal it's not as if he's fucking her. Ask yourself why it bothers you.

You threw two drinks over him. If it was me I wouldn't stay.

I'm guessing they were talking about more than just the weather. Are you ok with your gf doing that behind your back?

My ex girlfriend texted her ex and had phone conversations with him for the first few months we were together. I didn't care for obvious reasons.

Imagine if I threw two drinks on her and started bawling.

So did my ex but there's a difference doing it behind your partner's back. If you have to hide it then you know you're doing something wrong.
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Yes 6 months behind my back since our baby was 12 weeks old
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He sent a few texts to his ex girlfriend. Big deal it's not as if he's fucking her. Ask yourself why it bothers you.

You threw two drinks over him. If it was me I wouldn't stay.

I'm guessing they were talking about more than just the weather. Are you ok with your gf doing that behind your back?

My ex girlfriend texted her ex and had phone conversations with him for the first few months we were together. I didn't care for obvious reasons.

Imagine if I threw two drinks on her and started bawling.

So did my ex but there's a difference doing it behind your partner's back. If you have to hide it then you know you're doing something wrong.

Yes 6 months behind my back since our baby was 12 weeks old
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Not only selfish but totally insensitive too. The time you most need support is after you’ve had a baby.
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He sent a few texts to his ex girlfriend. Big deal it's not as if he's fucking her. Ask yourself why it bothers you.

You threw two drinks over him. If it was me I wouldn't stay.

Because he's been messaging her before me nearly everyday for 6 months since our baby was 12 weeks old. That's out of order and irresponsible. We tried for a year to have this baby and were happy. Even he admits that.

Still an overreaction. If a man did the same he would be called abusive and even violent.
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She’s a new mum

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He sent a few texts to his ex girlfriend. Big deal it's not as if he's fucking her. Ask yourself why it bothers you.

You threw two drinks over him. If it was me I wouldn't stay.

I'm guessing they were talking about more than just the weather. Are you ok with your gf doing that behind your back?

My ex girlfriend texted her ex and had phone conversations with him for the first few months we were together. I didn't care for obvious reasons.

Imagine if I threw two drinks on her and started bawling.

They've been together for at least four years and just had a baby. It's not like they just started dating. Jesus Aries. Gem moons are hoes. He's obviously trying to cheat. A lot of men do when their woman just had a baby. Why is that?

Obviously trying to cheat or just wants some consolidation from a woman he trusts. To put it into perspective I would never accuse someone of cheating unless they smelt like fruity lube.

Why is that? Lack of confidence and a lack of sex.

And feeling pushed out and neglected. Weaker type men can see a baby as competition believe it or not...fortunately not all are like that.

I married one who was a great dad

They're only jealous if the baby is holding an apple.
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Babies can’t hold apples

Their hands are too small
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Posted by Timone
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He sent a few texts to his ex girlfriend. Big deal it's not as if he's fucking her. Ask yourself why it bothers you.

You threw two drinks over him. If it was me I wouldn't stay.

I'm guessing they were talking about more than just the weather. Are you ok with your gf doing that behind your back?

My ex girlfriend texted her ex and had phone conversations with him for the first few months we were together. I didn't care for obvious reasons.

Imagine if I threw two drinks on her and started bawling.

They've been together for at least four years and just had a baby. It's not like they just started dating. Jesus Aries. Gem moons are hoes. He's obviously trying to cheat. A lot of men do when their woman just had a baby. Why is that?

Obviously trying to cheat or just wants some consolidation from a woman he trusts. To put it into perspective I would never accuse someone of cheating unless they smelt like fruity lube.

Why is that? Lack of confidence and a lack of sex.

And feeling pushed out and neglected. Weaker type men can see a baby as competition believe it or not...fortunately not all are like that.

I married one who was a great dad

They're only jealous if the baby is holding an apple.

Babies can’t hold apples

Their hands are too small

Anybody would think we were still in mercury retrograde.
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Posted by Sunmoonrising

Yes 100% cried on thr floor etc etc begged...

He isn't being too bad with me because he knows he's done wrong but as for admitting, just won't do it.


Stop acting like a toddler throwing a tantrum. Aries is the child of the zodiac, not you!

Work up a scheme of reward and punishment instead, because empty talking will have little effect on this one.
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My ex Aries is a gem moon now married to a Leo sun and he's been trying to contact me before their wedding.

The reason for that was mainly sex and nth else, since we two had really good chemistry in bed, but he never loved me or will ever, he told me he was not satisfied sexually even after they talked about it and tried to work it out, or he might be just greedy and probably wants two women entertaining him.

I'm not trying to anger you or rub it in, I'm just trying to give you another side of him based on what my ex told me, there's probably sth missing between the two of you and he's trying to get it else where, but what about you? Are you also satisfied with this man? He's being selfish and looking for his own interest so maybe you should too.

There's threads going back years saying she ain't satisfied. The baby is the plea bargain.

Haven't read the previous threads,

her baby will be just fine if she's fine too.

I never understood why some men get involved with a woman when their dicks are still hard for another one.
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Stupidity

Then they have to live with the truth that their child will realize how their

father was too weak to stand by their mother because their brain was in their pants
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He sent a few texts to his ex girlfriend. Big deal it's not as if he's fucking her. Ask yourself why it bothers you.

You threw two drinks over him. If it was me I wouldn't stay.

The drinks may be an overreaction but I think the texts would still bother me...like why he needed to do that in the first place.
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I’d guess they’d bother most women especially after having a baby.
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Ime Aries men like to be looked after and spoiled, unlike Virgos and Pisces who are more the givers. When a baby comes along it’s difficult for them and they feel rejected. Grown(?) men I know, but I’ve seen it happen a few times. Women talk to their friends when the going gets tough and (some) men go look for sex or a bottle and just at a time when their woman needs them ...

I’m very grateful I didn’t marry one of those 🙏
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My ex Aries is a gem moon now married to a Leo sun and he's been trying to contact me before their wedding.

The reason for that was mainly sex and nth else, since we two had really good chemistry in bed, but he never loved me or will ever, he told me he was not satisfied sexually even after they talked about it and tried to work it out, or he might be just greedy and probably wants two women entertaining him.

I'm not trying to anger you or rub it in, I'm just trying to give you another side of him based on what my ex told me, there's probably sth missing between the two of you and he's trying to get it else where, but what about you? Are you also satisfied with this man? He's being selfish and looking for his own interest so maybe you should too.

There's threads going back years saying she ain't satisfied. The baby is the plea bargain.

Haven't read the previous threads,

her baby will be just fine if she's fine too.

I never understood why some men get involved with a woman when their dicks are still hard for another one.

Stupidity

Then they have to live with the truth that their child will realize how their

father was too weak to stand by their mother because their brain was in their pants
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Yes and basically choosing an ex that dumped him over his 8 month old baby that he desperately wanted...what a loser quite frankly...
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My ex Aries is a gem moon now married to a Leo sun and he's been trying to contact me before their wedding.

The reason for that was mainly sex and nth else, since we two had really good chemistry in bed, but he never loved me or will ever, he told me he was not satisfied sexually even after they talked about it and tried to work it out, or he might be just greedy and probably wants two women entertaining him.

I'm not trying to anger you or rub it in, I'm just trying to give you another side of him based on what my ex told me, there's probably sth missing between the two of you and he's trying to get it else where, but what about you? Are you also satisfied with this man? He's being selfish and looking for his own interest so maybe you should too.

There's threads going back years saying she ain't satisfied. The baby is the plea bargain.

Haven't read the previous threads,

her baby will be just fine if she's fine too.

I never understood why some men get involved with a woman when their dicks are still hard for another one.
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Our sex life is fine he's always been a womaniser. Knew it would happen one day but not when baby was 12 weeks old. Even had hope he'd change. Baby is no bargaining tool thanks, I've told him to f off and he can see the baby but toddler Aries doesn't want to look bad infront of others....his fifty little secret is out now. Selfish.

You weren't rubbing it in at all, it's hood to hear other stories. Did you take him up on the offer? Did he stop messaging in the end?
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Is no one here seeing the link between she just having a child and him msging the ex? Have seen that happening so much ,men cheat or try to or in the least make some attempt towards another women when their partner is pregnant or just had a baby . I have seen that happening so much .

I know many will say it was just a message but the person dealing with it mostly has some hint beyond just black and white . She has all the right to be upset .

And Op please stop feeling guilty . You wanted to be dignified fine and yes that’s a right way but even if you were not , you can’t feel guilty because it was your reaction and it came after his action ( technically his action is nothing but then it’s never nothing) .


Yes I see it hence my comment about men reaching for sex or the bottle
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My ex Aries is a gem moon now married to a Leo sun and he's been trying to contact me before their wedding.

The reason for that was mainly sex and nth else, since we two had really good chemistry in bed, but he never loved me or will ever, he told me he was not satisfied sexually even after they talked about it and tried to work it out, or he might be just greedy and probably wants two women entertaining him.

I'm not trying to anger you or rub it in, I'm just trying to give you another side of him based on what my ex told me, there's probably sth missing between the two of you and he's trying to get it else where, but what about you? Are you also satisfied with this man? He's being selfish and looking for his own interest so maybe you should too.

There's threads going back years saying she ain't satisfied. The baby is the plea bargain.

Haven't read the previous threads,

her baby will be just fine if she's fine too.

I never understood why some men get involved with a woman when their dicks are still hard for another one.

Stupidity

Then they have to live with the truth that their child will realize how their

father was too weak to stand by their mother because their brain was in their pants

Yes and basically choosing an ex that dumped him over his 8 month old baby that he desperately wanted...what a loser quite frankly...
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Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Libraandgenerous

My ex Aries is a gem moon now married to a Leo sun and he's been trying to contact me before their wedding.

The reason for that was mainly sex and nth else, since we two had really good chemistry in bed, but he never loved me or will ever, he told me he was not satisfied sexually even after they talked about it and tried to work it out, or he might be just greedy and probably wants two women entertaining him.

I'm not trying to anger you or rub it in, I'm just trying to give you another side of him based on what my ex told me, there's probably sth missing between the two of you and he's trying to get it else where, but what about you? Are you also satisfied with this man? He's being selfish and looking for his own interest so maybe you should too.

There's threads going back years saying she ain't satisfied. The baby is the plea bargain.

Haven't read the previous threads,

her baby will be just fine if she's fine too.

I never understood why some men get involved with a woman when their dicks are still hard for another one.

Our sex life is fine he's always been a womaniser. Knew it would happen one day but not when baby was 12 weeks old. Even had hope he'd change. Baby is no bargaining tool thanks, I've told him to f off and he can see the baby but toddler Aries doesn't want to look bad infront of others....his fifty little secret is out now. Selfish.

You weren't rubbing it in at all, it's hood to hear other stories. Did you take him up on the offer? Did he stop messaging in the end?

Unfortunately I did see him a couple of times I'm not gonna lie, I still love the guy we go way back, I know there are no excuses to what we did, he's got a hold on me tho, and I'm disgusted with myself for that, I blocked him the last time we talked cause I couldn't continue like that, haven't heard from him in a while and hopefully won't, but he keeps creating new accounts so it won't surprise me if he pops up again.

I had always believed he loved me in a way but I eventually realized he didn't, I was just a fuck buddy who then became a mistress, does he love his wife? I don't know but he chose her and he chooses to stay with her so maybe that means sth?

You do what is best for your well being, smashing glasses and shouting is not healthy for a new mom, maybe you need to just take some space, clear up your head and then decide what to do.

What do you know about the other woman? Have u confronted her?

When the dick's that good.
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Posted by Libraandgenerous

My ex Aries is a gem moon now married to a Leo sun and he's been trying to contact me before their wedding.

The reason for that was mainly sex and nth else, since we two had really good chemistry in bed, but he never loved me or will ever, he told me he was not satisfied sexually even after they talked about it and tried to work it out, or he might be just greedy and probably wants two women entertaining him.

I'm not trying to anger you or rub it in, I'm just trying to give you another side of him based on what my ex told me, there's probably sth missing between the two of you and he's trying to get it else where, but what about you? Are you also satisfied with this man? He's being selfish and looking for his own interest so maybe you should too.

There's threads going back years saying she ain't satisfied. The baby is the plea bargain.

Haven't read the previous threads,

her baby will be just fine if she's fine too.

I never understood why some men get involved with a woman when their dicks are still hard for another one.

Our sex life is fine he's always been a womaniser. Knew it would happen one day but not when baby was 12 weeks old. Even had hope he'd change. Baby is no bargaining tool thanks, I've told him to f off and he can see the baby but toddler Aries doesn't want to look bad infront of others....his fifty little secret is out now. Selfish.

You weren't rubbing it in at all, it's hood to hear other stories. Did you take him up on the offer? Did he stop messaging in the end?

Unfortunately I did see him a couple of times I'm not gonna lie, I still love the guy we go way back, I know there are no excuses to what we did, he's got a hold on me tho, and I'm disgusted with myself for that, I blocked him the last time we talked cause I couldn't continue like that, haven't heard from him in a while and hopefully won't, but he keeps creating new accounts so it won't surprise me if he pops up again.

I had always believed he loved me in a way but I eventually realized he didn't, I was just a fuck buddy who then became a mistress, does he love his wife? I don't know but he chose her and he chooses to stay with her so maybe that means sth?

You do what is best for your well being, smashing glasses and shouting is not healthy for a new mom, maybe you need to just take some space, clear up your head and then decide what to do.

What do you know about the other woman? Have u confronted her?

When the dick's that good.

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He sent a few texts to his ex girlfriend. Big deal it's not as if he's fucking her. Ask yourself why it bothers you.

You threw two drinks over him. If it was me I wouldn't stay.

Because he's been messaging her before me nearly everyday for 6 months since our baby was 12 weeks old. That's out of order and irresponsible. We tried for a year to have this baby and were happy. Even he admits that.
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Ask him why the fuck he’s with you if he still wanting his ex around
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My ex Aries is a gem moon now married to a Leo sun and he's been trying to contact me before their wedding.

The reason for that was mainly sex and nth else, since we two had really good chemistry in bed, but he never loved me or will ever, he told me he was not satisfied sexually even after they talked about it and tried to work it out, or he might be just greedy and probably wants two women entertaining him.

I'm not trying to anger you or rub it in, I'm just trying to give you another side of him based on what my ex told me, there's probably sth missing between the two of you and he's trying to get it else where, but what about you? Are you also satisfied with this man? He's being selfish and looking for his own interest so maybe you should too.

There's threads going back years saying she ain't satisfied. The baby is the plea bargain.

Haven't read the previous threads,

her baby will be just fine if she's fine too.

I never understood why some men get involved with a woman when their dicks are still hard for another one.

Our sex life is fine he's always been a womaniser. Knew it would happen one day but not when baby was 12 weeks old. Even had hope he'd change. Baby is no bargaining tool thanks, I've told him to f off and he can see the baby but toddler Aries doesn't want to look bad infront of others....his fifty little secret is out now. Selfish.

You weren't rubbing it in at all, it's hood to hear other stories. Did you take him up on the offer? Did he stop messaging in the end?
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There is your answer . N wtf are you playing with along with him not wanting to look bad. I would cover up

For him.
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My ex Aries is a gem moon now married to a Leo sun and he's been trying to contact me before their wedding.

The reason for that was mainly sex and nth else, since we two had really good chemistry in bed, but he never loved me or will ever, he told me he was not satisfied sexually even after they talked about it and tried to work it out, or he might be just greedy and probably wants two women entertaining him.

I'm not trying to anger you or rub it in, I'm just trying to give you another side of him based on what my ex told me, there's probably sth missing between the two of you and he's trying to get it else where, but what about you? Are you also satisfied with this man? He's being selfish and looking for his own interest so maybe you should too.

There's threads going back years saying she ain't satisfied. The baby is the plea bargain.

Haven't read the previous threads,

her baby will be just fine if she's fine too.

I never understood why some men get involved with a woman when their dicks are still hard for another one.

Stupidity

Then they have to live with the truth that their child will realize how their

father was too weak to stand by their mother because their brain was in their pants

Yes and basically choosing an ex that dumped him over his 8 month old baby that he desperately wanted...what a loser quite frankly...
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cardinal men yo.

my cap ex impregnated some girl a few months after our breakup coz of his cheating hoe self. tried to borrow money from me in between all these. then barely 3 months after, dumps her pregnant and all. then had the nerve to let me know that he left and trying to get back together.

selfish, arrogant, weak, unreliable, and shameless.
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I have been in such situation with ex cancer bf (without the baby), I didn't know that they were texting until he told me "I cut off contact with her" ... like hello I had no idea but now you come to me saying that and I'm supposed to feel happy about it?! ... I really didn't know how to act or even react.. I just froze cause I still felt betrayed. So admitting it or not.. I think the feeling will be the same. And this was not even the reason we broke up, but I can tell that I'm bitter cause of it.

I have no idea why some people like to bring trouble into their stable relationship... you have a baby together and this is such an awesome life to celebrate... but instead... they do that ... eh

I hope you find a way to forgive or forget.