Are Aries upfront?

Are Aries guys upfront when it comes to relationships?
If they have lost interest for some reason, would they be straight with you or just ignore you until you leave them alone?

they just ignore you until you leave them alone...unfortunately...just trying to spare your feelings

they just go cold on you, you will know

he will ignore you. aries kinda suck at communication and they're really immature when having to deal with other peoples feelings. it's not that aries guys dont care, it's just that they think of themselves first and get frustrated with the complication of someone elses feelings so they ignore the situation

Definitely ignore...try to avoid you at all costs, make excuses. When I saw that my aries ex and I couldn't be friends, I saw those signs immediately. Aries just tends to run away and hope you go away.

I believe I love ewe has it down right. They really just dont like dealing with other people's feelings, problems, circumstances and they avoid it at all costs. Getting my ex to talk about our relationship for closure was like pulling teeth. I eventually gave up and told him never to talk to me again. He happily obliged and that was the last I heard from him.

hehe capripants, I'm afraid all the above sounds familiar.

It's a good sign they care a little about your feelings though cos if they don't, they'll tell you to your face .

would they be straight with you or just ignore you until you leave them alone?
this greatly depends on the type of character you are... if they know it's going to be more complicated with talk, then they just tune off and hope for the best --- a fire sign gone cold is not great eitherway - not a natural placement

Thanks everyone for your comments. It's interesting, as I've read some conflicting info re this on the Aries board in the past. Everything is actually ok at the moment - we have only been dating a month, but I seem to keep meeting guys who just flake out and I hate the whole 'not knowing' situation - it has given me a pessimistic outlook everytime I enter a new relationship as a result. If he does go cold, I'll know now to just leave him alone.

'not knowing'
seems like you're trying to control things...If you want a predicatable human, you know that doesn't exist right?

Not someone predictable, just someone who has the balls to say 'look, this isn't working out, let's not pursue it any further.' if the situation does arise. I do it, it's kinder to the other person.

^^^ there's no balls involved in relationships...otherwise, we could say, why don't we all have balls to take it when we get dumped...seems like you're looking to protect yourself from the unpredicatable... relationships are not that...

I would enjoy the good times, learn about the person you're with to know when things are not smooth when it arises...that's my way obviously

it's kinder to the other person.
we'll never know if it's kinder to the other person...you feel it's kinder to them but it's in your best interest at the end to do it that way 🙂 You can't expect people to be like you, right?

Enjoy !

'seems like you're looking to protect yourself from the unpredicatable' YES! You're exactly right. And I see what you mean about the balls thing. Oh balls.
Thank you xx