arians? why do we think the way we do? I mean the strive for perfection and constant need for fun

quickly disappointed by people without giving a chance! are we hard wired to keep having it together at all times or what! lately I found this about me that I just could not stop and relax and be irresponsibly drunk like my girlfriends are ( girls night out) or go out with a random stranger! I just had to make sure everything is planned properly and have a supervision aaaarrrgggg it's just so exhausting! my bff just asked me straight why do you want to be this all the time! but that's just me being myself!

does it mean we are not adventurous? for me being responsibly adventurous is the only way, right? my friends being sags, leo and libra I find myself at odds with them most time! I can't even think like them, my sag friend is unemployed for 5 months now, broke up last month and still not a worry in the world, I love her for her spirit but that would be my nightmare! I sometimes think I could never talk to any of them about most of my problems in fear of hurting them because it's never relevant to their circumstances, anyway,

is it just me or are all aries like this?

sun: aries
rising: taurus

Posted by ariessungoddess
quickly disappointed by people without giving a chance! are we hard wired to keep having it together at all times or what! lately I found this about me that I just could not stop and relax and be happily superdrunk like my girlfriends are ( girls night out) or go out with a random stranger! I just had to make sure everything is planned properly and have a supervision aaaarrrgggg it's just so exhausting! my bff just asked me straight why do you want to be this all the time! but that's just me being myself!

does it mean we are not adventurous? for me being responsibly adventurous is the only way, right? my friends being sags, leo and libra I find myself at odds with them most time! I can't even think like them, my sag friend is unemployed for 5 months now, broke up last month and still not a worry in the world, I love her for her spirit but that would be my nightmare! I sometimes think I could never talk to any of them about this in fear of hurting them, anyway,

is it just me or are all aries like this?

sun: aries
rising: taurus

Are you the Uranus+Neptune in Cap conjunction generation? Do you have more earth in your chart besides your Asc? Do you have any T-squares that have a planet in Earth sign as a vertex? Where is your moon at? What is your most prominent house? Who's the ruler of your 10th house and 6th house? That could be why.

okay I guess I should go take a look at my chart for all of it!

exactly aries love.

moon: pisces
merc/ venus: aries
mars: cancer
Uranus/Neptune/midheaven: Capricorn
pluto: scorpio

and ramonpeace you're spot on!

I'mtheram, that's probably what it is, the difference between the male and the femme ram

You sound like a Taurus which makes sense because of your Taurus Rising.

Posted by SofiaV87
You sound like a Taurus which makes sense because of your Taurus Rising.

Yes I was thinking this as well.

Transit Saturn might be trining your Aries placements and squaring your moon. Making you feel more stable/responsible and introverted.

Posted by SofiaV87
You sound like a Taurus which makes sense because of your Taurus Rising.

I think so too. I'm a Taurus sun with an Aries moon and completely relate to everything the OP said. It could be the Taurus / Aries combo with Cap at midheaven. ) I have that too).

I gotta have order and consistency. Makes life easier. It sucks when I dont have control in situations, but I'm mature enough to handle it and keep it moving