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This topic was created in the Aries forum by SuperMissMan on Wednesday, June 1, 2016 and has 56 replies.

Are Aries Typically Aggressive and Dominant

Aries individuals are often seen as assertive and energetic, but their behavior varies. Not all Aries are aggressive or dominating; personality traits depend on individual charts and life experiences. It is common to find Aries expressing different qualities based on their unique makeup.

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So, we just had sex with each other, and hahahahaha it was horrible. But I got him where I wanted him!
Just a few questions: aren't Aries supposed to be aggressive and dominating? Because he sure AF wasn't.

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Getting a guy to have sex with you isn't that hard of a task or something to be enthusiastic over.

Yes, Aries are "suppose" to be dominate and aggressive but it's naive to say that all live up to that standard.

Dump him and move on. If you expect less than there's less room for disappointment.

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From what Ive seen Aries sun & aries mars males are very aggressive & dominant if you throw them a chase. If they are super into you and you aren't throwing yourself on them, then you become a "sure thing". They need a bit of a hunt.. its hard to explain. If you can use your feminine wiles to get them excited, you have to be smart about it though. They like smart females who keep them on their toes yet who are sweet & feminine.

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Posted by SuperMissMan
So, we just had sex with each other, and hahahahaha it was horrible. But I got him where I wanted him!
Just a few questions: aren't Aries supposed to be aggressive and dominating? Because he sure AF wasn't.

Girl you gotta let him tackle you! ๐Ÿ˜†

So what now? Disney Land? ๐Ÿ˜„

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Posted by Geminiam

Posted by SuperMissMan
So, we just had sex with each other, and hahahahaha it was horrible. But I got him where I wanted him!
Just a few questions: aren't Aries supposed to be aggressive and dominating? Because he sure AF wasn't.

You're Mars Scorpio. Can anyone really ever be aggressive enough?

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Thank you! We were each other's first so I don't blame him ๐Ÿ˜† We are going to try again next week

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Posted by Geminiam

Posted by SuperMissMan
So, we just had sex with each other, and hahahahaha it was horrible. But I got him where I wanted him!
Just a few questions: aren't Aries supposed to be aggressive and dominating? Because he sure AF wasn't.

You're Mars Scorpio. Can anyone really ever be aggressive enough?

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Valid point...I really don't think that's possible now that I think of it ๐Ÿ˜†

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Posted by libralotus
Getting a guy to have sex with you isn't that hard of a task or something to be enthusiastic over.

Yes, Aries are "suppose" to be dominate and aggressive but it's naive to say that all live up to that standard.

Dump him and move on. If you expect less than there's less room for disappointment.

Actually I don't mind it, it was his first time doing anything besides making out a little so I don't blame him, I prefer to dominate MOTT. But I hope eventually the roles will change here and there. He's sexy AF

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Posted by ImTheRam

Posted by libralotus
Getting a guy to have sex with you isn't that hard of a task or something to be enthusiastic over.

Yes, Aries are "suppose" to be dominate and aggressive but it's naive to say that all live up to that standard.

Dump him and move on. If you expect less than there's less room for disappointment.

I think she is still a young girl...and he must be also...

There is not much to it tbh..lol

Altough..when i lost my virginity... i just realised it when i was already 15 minutes into it...i was like.."ho shit..i am no longer a virgin! "

๐Ÿ˜†

But you are right..it wold be naive to think that All sun sign are just the way they are described. This goes for all of them ^^

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Well he seems nothing like an Aries to me except the fact he's competitive. But I agree, not all fit their sign, I don't fit Pisces at all. Anyone who knows astrology and know me agrees with that

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Posted by MiZLeo
Yeah my experience with an Aries was bad too. Took us a year to have sex from lack of him being aggressive enough. When we finally did have sex I was very dissapointed. Luckily for me he was deployed to the middle east right after that so I didn't have to bear the awkwardness that might have followed.

Well to his credit we were in the back of a hot AF truck with 35 mins to go, and we were both virgins. But I had to do everything. Take all his and my clothes off, get him to do whatever. It was fun though ๐Ÿ˜„

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Posted by ImTheRam

Posted by ElleDuMonde
I mean, I am not trying to be rude...I have mars in scorpio too...but mine is paired with libra venus...

I would at least buy you dinner first ๐Ÿ˜†

I laughed when i saw your post ! haha

Mine is paired with venus aires...i wold say...

"I am sorry...we don't have time for dinner... "

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HAHAHA me too ๐Ÿ˜† if I asked you on a date great, but if we are fucking, we are fucking, goodbye!

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Posted by Geminiam

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Posted by Geminiam

Posted by SuperMissMan
So, we just had sex with each other, and hahahahaha it was horrible. But I got him where I wanted him!
Just a few questions: aren't Aries supposed to be aggressive and dominating? Because he sure AF wasn't.

You're Mars Scorpio. Can anyone really ever be aggressive enough?

Valid point...I really don't think that's possible now that I think of it ๐Ÿ˜†

It's not. Get used to being in control in bed. And liking it.

๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ˜†

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Well I just discovered his Mars is in Scorpio too...maybe he needs to open up a bit!

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lol... Aries have to feel comfortable to really let loose... Some can be very idealistic... so if it seems to mean so little to you... and you just screwed him... then well maybe he did not feel much for you. Just because a guy is a Ram does not mean he is an animal. The true animal comes out when we know and feel comfortable.

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Posted by piscesmoon2
lol... Aries have to feel comfortable to really let loose... Some can be very idealistic... so if it seems to mean so little to you... and you just screwed him... then well maybe he did not feel much for you. Just because a guy is a Ram does not mean he is an animal. The true animal comes out when we know and feel comfortable.

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Ooh I like that รฐลธโ€˜

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Posted by SuperMissMan
Heya! Finally got his birthchart info.
Sun Aries
Moon Scorpio
Mercury Pisces
Venus Taurus
Mars Scorpio

The fuck?! That should have been on fire! But yes, those Scorpio placements gonna make him a bit more reserved and smoldering until he's ready to let out the raw passion.... Then call 911 bahaha

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Posted by SuperMissMan
Well to his credit we were in the back of a hot AF truck with 35 mins to go, and we were both virgins. But I had to do everything. Take all his and my clothes off, get him to do whatever. It was fun though ๐Ÿ˜„

I thought maybe he lacked in the initiative department but damn, this is bordering quadriplegic

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Posted by piscesmoon2
lol... Aries have to feel comfortable to really let loose... Some can be very idealistic... so if it seems to mean so little to you... and you just screwed him... then well maybe he did not feel much for you. Just because a guy is a Ram does not mean he is an animal. The true animal comes out when we know and feel comfortable.

PM

True true.
I admit I wanted to get it over with because I really really wanted to touch him, and I really like him, BUT I started to get impatient since we only had lunch to do it, and it wasn't working out well. We're going to try again any tips?

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Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by SuperMissMan
Well to his credit we were in the back of a hot AF truck with 35 mins to go, and we were both virgins. But I had to do everything. Take all his and my clothes off, get him to do whatever. It was fun though ๐Ÿ˜„

I thought maybe he lacked in the initiative department but damn, this is bordering quadriplegic

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Hahaha he was something. I mean I guess if I'd pull him in it would get hot, but I had to make all the moves ๐Ÿ˜ข

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Posted by SuperMissMan

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lol... Aries have to feel comfortable to really let loose... Some can be very idealistic... so if it seems to mean so little to you... and you just screwed him... then well maybe he did not feel much for you. Just because a guy is a Ram does not mean he is an animal. The true animal comes out when we know and feel comfortable.

PM

True true.
I admit I wanted to get it over with because I really really wanted to touch him, and I really like him, BUT I started to get impatient since we only had lunch to do it, and it wasn't working out well. We're going to try again any tips?

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Scorpios have the look... lol In all honesty you may try to make him feel more comfortable like naked around you. Aries can be idealistic meaning they kinda hope it is special even more so if was the first time between you. I am big on first anything.

I can say though when I feel comfortable I have gotten then "wow, talk about getting fucked." To me that was a hair of a turn off because it was the first time I slept with this girl and that was a bit much... even more so for the first time. To be honest I never slept with her again.

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Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by SuperMissMan

BUT I started to get impatient since we only had lunch to do it, and it wasn't working out well. We're going to try again any tips?

Well for one, why the hell did you set this up as a "quickie" over lunch.. seen as it's first time for you both?

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Yep... even if it is all the time you had or could get... I would have nothing and another time... in all honesty. I am sure it is not the end of the world...

Do you know if that was his first time?

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Posted by piscesmoon2

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by SuperMissMan

BUT I started to get impatient since we only had lunch to do it, and it wasn't working out well. We're going to try again any tips?

Well for one, why the hell did you set this up as a "quickie" over lunch.. seen as it's first time for you both?

Yep... even if it is all the time you had or could get... I would have nothing and another time... in all honesty. I am sure it is not the end of the world...

Do you know if that was his first time?

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I reallllllllyyyy wanted to have sex with him; yes it was his first too. I'm actually suprised how little he's done, I mean he never talks about girls to anyone but he's still pretty hot imo, and he gives of a sexy energy. But he's only gotten to second base :0

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Tbh, I am not surprised he was a bit reserved....... just seeing how you are talking about him on the net to strangers.... nothing romantic in your posts๐Ÿ™‚ you know, scorpio moon and taurus venus combo is not an easy trusting combo.... maybe he felt you dont have real feeling for him? he wants to be the one and you the one for him (especially for the first time) so, next time maybe be more romantic, not too agressive and straightforward...... try gentle kisses and be more feminine
my opinion only๐Ÿ™‚

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Posted by SuperMissMan
So, we just had sex with each other, and hahahahaha it was horrible. But I got him where I wanted him!
Just a few questions: aren't Aries supposed to be aggressive and dominating? Because he sure AF wasn't.

No one mentioned that it's situational? If we don't bring the fire in the bed, the we feel no fire outside of it.

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Posted by Pandora101
Tbh, I am not surprised he was a bit reserved....... just seeing how you are talking about him on the net to strangers.... nothing romantic in your posts๐Ÿ™‚ you know, scorpio moon and taurus venus combo is not an easy trusting combo.... maybe he felt you dont have real feeling for him? he wants to be the one and you the one for him (especially for the first time) so, next time maybe be more romantic, not too agressive and straightforward...... try gentle kisses and be more feminine
my opinion only๐Ÿ™‚

I understand that. I think I'm personally a little scared of getting attached to him more than I am, and so I come off as wanting him only sexually. I in a way do because I can't say I trust him yet, and that definitely could be a problem :/

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Posted by SuperMissMan

Posted by Pandora101
Tbh, I am not surprised he was a bit reserved....... just seeing how you are talking about him on the net to strangers.... nothing romantic in your posts๐Ÿ™‚ you know, scorpio moon and taurus venus combo is not an easy trusting combo.... maybe he felt you dont have real feeling for him? he wants to be the one and you the one for him (especially for the first time) so, next time maybe be more romantic, not too agressive and straightforward...... try gentle kisses and be more feminine
my opinion only๐Ÿ™‚

I understand that. I think I'm personally a little scared of getting attached to him more than I am, and so I come off as wanting him only sexually. I in a way do because I can't say I trust him yet, and that definitely could be a problem :/

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and he definitely doesnt trust you yet either....... next time, as I said, try to be more feminine, more gentle, stroking his head and back, hugging him and talking to him about some meaningful things...... his scorpio moon doesnt like anything superficial...... his taurus venus will want classy behaviour..... his aries sun would want independency.... not an easy combo, as your planet placements are not easy as well..... all this water in you (especially scorp!) and an aqua moon..... hard for you as well, with wanting too much and in the same time feeling detached...... just dont act agressive๐Ÿ™‚

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Posted by starlover

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Posted by Jesspisces234
No lol aries dont have very high sex drive. Not experimental at all in bed actually well thats my own experience anyway

You probably live under a rock

Very very high sex drives (nearly as high as mine) ๐Ÿ˜›

Experimental?...in my experience....no not at all

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There are a lot of blatantly dirty threads and questions on this website and I never reply to them to save my reputation and not seem like a complete porn wh*re. That's my reply to "experimental".

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Posted by starlover

Posted by RamOfPeace

Posted by Jesspisces234
No lol aries dont have very high sex drive. Not experimental at all in bed actually well thats my own experience anyway

You probably live under a rock

Very very high sex drives (nearly as high as mine) ๐Ÿ˜›

Experimental?...in my experience....no not at all

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No definately not experimental they are very basic lol normal sex .. Really?! you sure he was aries?! Haha ur lucky!!

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Posted by RamOfPeace

Posted by starlover

Posted by RamOfPeace

Posted by Jesspisces234
No lol aries dont have very high sex drive. Not experimental at all in bed actually well thats my own experience anyway

You probably live under a rock

Very very high sex drives (nearly as high as mine) ๐Ÿ˜›

Experimental?...in my experience....no not at all

There are a lot of blatantly dirty threads and questions on this website and I never reply to them to save my reputation and not seem like a complete porn wh*re. That's my reply to "experimental".

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That isnt dirty at all. By experimental i mean wont do anything except normal sex, same positions, wont try nothing new. Basic

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Posted by Pandora101

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Tbh, I am not surprised he was a bit reserved....... just seeing how you are talking about him on the net to strangers.... nothing romantic in your posts๐Ÿ™‚ you know, scorpio moon and taurus venus combo is not an easy trusting combo.... maybe he felt you dont have real feeling for him? he wants to be the one and you the one for him (especially for the first time) so, next time maybe be more romantic, not too agressive and straightforward...... try gentle kisses and be more feminine
my opinion only๐Ÿ™‚

I understand that. I think I'm personally a little scared of getting attached to him more than I am, and so I come off as wanting him only sexually. I in a way do because I can't say I trust him yet, and that definitely could be a problem :/

and he definitely doesnt trust you yet either....... next time, as I said, try to be more feminine, more gentle, stroking his head and back, hugging him and talking to him about some meaningful things...... his scorpio moon doesnt like anything superficial...... his taurus venus will want classy behaviour..... his aries sun would want independency.... not an easy combo, as your planet placements are not easy as well..... all this water in you (especially scorp!) and an aqua moon..... hard for you as well, with wanting too much and in the same time feeling detached...... just dont act agressive๐Ÿ™‚

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I don't want to be boring either ๐Ÿ˜ข not aggressive? I mean it just kind of happens, I don't mean to be, but I'll try to be softer.

But I know what you mean. I'll be more lovey and less sexy.

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