@tatbubba
14 Years
Aries and grudges again
It isn't that we turn the situation around, it's because, in our minds, your failing to see our view, so why should we be responsible for acknowledging yours?
It makes perfect sense as we are extremely objective people, even with ourselves.
Try to take a step back and figure out what caused her to act or lash out in a certain way and then question her on that regard.
For example, "what irritated you so much that you reacted in the way that you did?"
Posted by jdugan
Try to take a step back and figure out what caused her to act or lash out in a certain way and then question her on that regard.For example, "what irritated you so much that you reacted in the way that you did?"
Bingo
Aries don't have the time nor energy to hold a grudge... lighten up! We sometimes say things in the heat of the moment but is it worth holding on to... It's just an opinion for you to take or leave, not hold on to forever!
We could all be gone tomorrow, life is short. It's definitely not worth being angry at your own flesh and blood forever.
You more often regret the things you never got the chance to say rather then the things you have.
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Ok. I'm still not speaking to my Aries sister, and of course, it's her birthday very soon. So I'm going to have to swallow my pride as I love her, she's my sister, of course I want to wish her a Happy Birthday and my dad agrees with me. But the argument I maintain was because of her behaviour... I called her out on some things, she was at fault, yet she acted and is acting indignant with me like I had done something wrong.
There's also my Aries "friend." After arguing with him, I distanced myself completely. He has made himself heard a couple of times and I have been friendly and polite, until yesterday, in the midst of a normal conversation, he made some comment that I always created arguments - sorry but if that's the case don't behave like a wazzock, simple! He also had a nickname for me, but yesterday he said that one time that was ok, but from now on he was only going to call me by name. Sorry, you were a turd with me, yet now you act like I've done something wrong?
How come Aries has the ability to turn any argument around?