@Gemitati
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Saturday me and Aries and my ex and his wife are all meeting at huge BDay event of the child of mutual friends.
I bought several outfits and today finally I found one I love! So this part is off the table. I’ll look fabulous!
Aries doesn’t drink. Ex does.
I am feeling uneasy about this party though I really want to introduce my man to the group.
Aries is very cool and calm but if provoked - he can be dangerous...
Ex is non-confrontational when sober. Drunk he can be an ass. Stupid jokes and shit is his specialty.
I had never been in such situation. I don’t know what to expect. I thought if ex will start shit - we are leaving. And I don’t want to leave and let exes stupid ass celebrating his victory!
But I don’t know how fire men acting when someone is getting on their nerves...
My Agua boss said make sure if ex will get his ass kicked - don’t run to save him. 😂😂😂
I am feeling bit nervous.
What’s the best strategy? Have anyone dealt with this crap? Do tell. Thanks
They don't have it.
And they always think they are right when they are angry.
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Yeah. And he said that to me at the beginning and I said yes sir! 😂😂😂
*I have mine for passion, love, extreme emotions, kinky sex, education, art...things I’ve ever craved and FINALLY he is here giving me all this. Crazy huh?*
You GO girl
Aries men 🔥🔥🔥🔥
It seems Gems can't figure out Aries. I would say every other sign can.
In what way alex? Do they misunderstand you guys?
Geminis sometimes tend to over analyse things when what an Aries means is literal.
Do they get your humour?
OMG! I get his humor and crying laughing...however Alex is right.
I CANT figure him out.
Since he spread his arms and said ‘here...what you see is what you get!’ I became suspicious...
I hate to find out what all this I am reading about here means. I’ve never experienced most of what people are talking on here and I dont want to so I am keeping alert!
Maybe what Alex means is that we are not letting guards down when Aries known AS what you see is what you get and we don’t GET it...?
Did you put him on a pedestal? Are you secretly worried he doesn't live up to your ideal image of him?
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Yes!
Men for me to love must deserve to be put on pedestal! And he is. When I am loving somebody I am not fucking around. I am selfless...and the way he appreciates it makes it worth while...
I am not afraid of him not living up to my expectations. I am just scared shitless that I might find out some shit...and A LOT of it due to reading crap on here about ‘how men are’...
And my own serious opinion is - men the way the are because that’s how women are! So I have my opinion but I am too much on here.
I promise when we will move together I won’t be here getting all this negative shit...I’ll talk to few people and that’ll be it. 🤝
"Whatever. Let’s agree - you have your man for comfort and probably financial stability or whatever.
I have mine for passion, love, extreme emotions, kinky sex, education, art...things I’ve ever craved and FINALLY he is here giving me all this. Crazy huh?"
Love this part! You lucky girl 🤩 I'm crossing fingers for great party and lack of drama ❤️
Thanks❤️
He just gave me educational speech on difference between rednecks and hillbillies BEFORE introducing me to Rolling Stones Sweet Virginia song...lmao
Apparently the difference is amount of teeth...hillbillies have 3 per mouth. 😂😂😂
It followed by American geography...who lives where...and all that shit. I am still laughing 😂🤪
"Whatever. Let’s agree - you have your man for comfort and probably financial stability or whatever.
I have mine for passion, love, extreme emotions, kinky sex, education, art...things I’ve ever craved and FINALLY he is here giving me all this. Crazy huh?"
Love this part! You lucky girl 🤩 I'm crossing fingers for great party and lack of drama ❤️
Thanks❤️
He just gave me educational speech on difference between rednecks and hillbillies BEFORE introducing me to Rolling Stones Sweet Virginia song...lmao
Apparently the difference is amount of teeth...hillbillies have 3 per mouth. 😂😂😂
It followed by American geography...who lives where...and all that shit. I am still laughing 😂🤪
Lol. Even sounds fun chat 🙂 don't worry about party. Rock your dress and show those bitches how happy you are 🙂 👌💪
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Look! This is fucking amazing!!!
And btw it’s 2 teeth per mouth and one in the pocket...🤣
Ex texted last night that he is coming to the party alone! 🤦♀️
Apparently his Libra striked again and lost ‘good woman’ badge. She probably served him cold soup or criticized him for something he had done.
I really hope he would stay home. But he had asked if he will see me tonight...🧟♀️🤦♀️🤪
This whole situation would have me uncomfortable.
Why would ex let you know his Libra won't be there and does your Aries know the ex texted just to let you know that. If I was the Aries (but I'm not, I'm Taurus) I would feel best if the Gemitati would just make sure there are no issues encouraged.
This whole situation would have me uncomfortable.
Why would ex let you know his Libra won't be there and does your Aries know the ex texted just to let you know that. If I was the Aries (but I'm not, I'm Taurus) I would feel best if the Gemitati would just make sure there are no issues encouraged.
He was supposedly drunk and wanted me to feel sorry for him or just someone to talk to.
And yes Aries knows and he doesn’t give a shit.
I do. I wish ex didn’t come. But he will. And I AM uncomfortable but I can’t let him do thi can I?
It is the same as it was at Aries son graduation party. He was missing in fun because his ex could had appeared and he told me way before that I am going with him because he doesn’t let anybody run HIS life! That’s why I love him. He is THE MAN!
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I know because I am doing just fine doing it MY way. That’s why I am saying how I am doing it.
I had never said you have to. You can do whatever works for you when you find what does and share with people so they can follow or not.
Everyone has a choice. My way is one boss per couple is a must!!! What’s yours that makes you happy?