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*I have mine for passion, love, extreme emotions, kinky sex, education, art...things I’ve ever craved and FINALLY he is here giving me all this. Crazy huh?*

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It seems Gems can't figure out Aries. I would say every other sign can.

In what way alex? Do they misunderstand you guys?

Geminis sometimes tend to over analyse things when what an Aries means is literal.

Do they get your humour?

OMG! I get his humor and crying laughing...however Alex is right.

I CANT figure him out.

Since he spread his arms and said ‘here...what you see is what you get!’ I became suspicious...

I hate to find out what all this I am reading about here means. I’ve never experienced most of what people are talking on here and I dont want to so I am keeping alert!

Maybe what Alex means is that we are not letting guards down when Aries known AS what you see is what you get and we don’t GET it...?

Oh lord. He is right. From 20 years with one.. what you see is what you get. And that is supposed to be comforting if you like what you see. You are overthinking & overprotecting. Aries is not a baby. They can take care of themselves. You are used to the Cap... he is the baby.

I am not saying he can’t or need to protect himself.

I just don’t want ANYTHING to ruin my friends happy times. She was r about to invite my ex but he asked her at our daughter bday and here we are!

That’s a little different than protect your Aries from ruining his life... you worry too much. It will be what it will be & it will be okay. You can’t control everything. Just enjoy!

If I can’t control who will?

Shit start happening when people are going out of control. There isn’t one good lasted union where there isn’t one who is controlling everything.

When there are 2 equals - mess happens.

So...yes! I am control freak. Maybe that’s why men don’t run away from me...I know secret. 🧟‍♀️

Omg. Only if someone wants to be controlled. And that is completely untrue that there is not one good union where one isn’t controlling everything. That’s not healthy & more I hear guys who ran from wives like that.

Secret is to make people obey you? Yikes

Not obey you. 2 housewives on 1 kitchen never works! And it IS healthy. You can’t say it doesn’t work if you’ve never tried.

There is always a leader. Doesn’t matter man or woman. There is only ONE.

Not true! You think it’s healthy cuz it’s what makes you feel better. It is not at all for the other person unless that is what they desire.

Healthy is a partnership where it’s a mutually agreed on decision. And you have no idea how much I know & what I don’t know. You think you know but you don’t listen! How could you understand when everything has to be what you think is best? When you don’t trust the other to handle themself but just handle it for them...
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I know because I am doing just fine doing it MY way. That’s why I am saying how I am doing it.

I had never said you have to. You can do whatever works for you when you find what does and share with people so they can follow or not.

Everyone has a choice. My way is one boss per couple is a must!!! What’s yours that makes you happy?
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Saturday me and Aries and my ex and his wife are all meeting at huge BDay event of the child of mutual friends.

I bought several outfits and today finally I found one I love! So this part is off the table. I’ll look fabulous!

Aries doesn’t drink. Ex does.

I am feeling uneasy about this party though I really want to introduce my man to the group.

Aries is very cool and calm but if provoked - he can be dangerous...

Ex is non-confrontational when sober. Drunk he can be an ass. Stupid jokes and shit is his specialty.

I had never been in such situation. I don’t know what to expect. I thought if ex will start shit - we are leaving. And I don’t want to leave and let exes stupid ass celebrating his victory!

But I don’t know how fire men acting when someone is getting on their nerves...

My Agua boss said make sure if ex will get his ass kicked - don’t run to save him. 😂😂😂

I am feeling bit nervous.

What’s the best strategy? Have anyone dealt with this crap? Do tell. Thanks

They don't have it.

And they always think they are right when they are angry.
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Yeah. And he said that to me at the beginning and I said yes sir! 😂😂😂
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*I have mine for passion, love, extreme emotions, kinky sex, education, art...things I’ve ever craved and FINALLY he is here giving me all this. Crazy huh?*

You GO girl

Aries men 🔥🔥🔥🔥

It seems Gems can't figure out Aries. I would say every other sign can.

In what way alex? Do they misunderstand you guys?

Geminis sometimes tend to over analyse things when what an Aries means is literal.

Do they get your humour?

OMG! I get his humor and crying laughing...however Alex is right.

I CANT figure him out.

Since he spread his arms and said ‘here...what you see is what you get!’ I became suspicious...

I hate to find out what all this I am reading about here means. I’ve never experienced most of what people are talking on here and I dont want to so I am keeping alert!

Maybe what Alex means is that we are not letting guards down when Aries known AS what you see is what you get and we don’t GET it...?

Did you put him on a pedestal? Are you secretly worried he doesn't live up to your ideal image of him?
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Yes!

Men for me to love must deserve to be put on pedestal! And he is. When I am loving somebody I am not fucking around. I am selfless...and the way he appreciates it makes it worth while...

I am not afraid of him not living up to my expectations. I am just scared shitless that I might find out some shit...and A LOT of it due to reading crap on here about ‘how men are’...

And my own serious opinion is - men the way the are because that’s how women are! So I have my opinion but I am too much on here.

I promise when we will move together I won’t be here getting all this negative shit...I’ll talk to few people and that’ll be it. 🤝
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"Whatever. Let’s agree - you have your man for comfort and probably financial stability or whatever.

I have mine for passion, love, extreme emotions, kinky sex, education, art...things I’ve ever craved and FINALLY he is here giving me all this. Crazy huh?"

Love this part! You lucky girl 🤩 I'm crossing fingers for great party and lack of drama ❤️


Thanks❤️

He just gave me educational speech on difference between rednecks and hillbillies BEFORE introducing me to Rolling Stones Sweet Virginia song...lmao

Apparently the difference is amount of teeth...hillbillies have 3 per mouth. 😂😂😂

It followed by American geography...who lives where...and all that shit. I am still laughing 😂🤪
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"Whatever. Let’s agree - you have your man for comfort and probably financial stability or whatever.

I have mine for passion, love, extreme emotions, kinky sex, education, art...things I’ve ever craved and FINALLY he is here giving me all this. Crazy huh?"

Love this part! You lucky girl 🤩 I'm crossing fingers for great party and lack of drama ❤️

Thanks❤️

He just gave me educational speech on difference between rednecks and hillbillies BEFORE introducing me to Rolling Stones Sweet Virginia song...lmao

Apparently the difference is amount of teeth...hillbillies have 3 per mouth. 😂😂😂

It followed by American geography...who lives where...and all that shit. I am still laughing 😂🤪

Lol. Even sounds fun chat 🙂 don't worry about party. Rock your dress and show those bitches how happy you are 🙂 👌💪
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Look! This is fucking amazing!!!

And btw it’s 2 teeth per mouth and one in the pocket...🤣

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Posted by Shy_Taurus

This whole situation would have me uncomfortable.

Why would ex let you know his Libra won't be there and does your Aries know the ex texted just to let you know that. If I was the Aries (but I'm not, I'm Taurus) I would feel best if the Gemitati would just make sure there are no issues encouraged.


He was supposedly drunk and wanted me to feel sorry for him or just someone to talk to.

And yes Aries knows and he doesn’t give a shit.

I do. I wish ex didn’t come. But he will. And I AM uncomfortable but I can’t let him do thi can I?

It is the same as it was at Aries son graduation party. He was missing in fun because his ex could had appeared and he told me way before that I am going with him because he doesn’t let anybody run HIS life! That’s why I love him. He is THE MAN!