Taking responsiblity for your own actions, Aries?

Taking Responsibility for your own actions seems like a foreign concept to you guys. E.G., I let the b/f borrow my car Tuesday mornig cuz he's leaving for a month-long trip and had to pack some things into my truck to bring to my apartment(he doesn't have a car). My sister had to use the car Wednesday morning, so I asked him to return the car by 9am Wednesday,the latest, for my sister to drive to a job interview. Tuesday night, he said that he would pack everything up, drive to my house in the morning and drop the car off...no big deal...he was fine with that. Unfortunately he over slept, and called me at 9am this morning to let me know (I knew i should have called his ass b/4 I went to work).

Anyway, I asked him to hurry to get my car back to my sister cuz she needs it. He says "well, I need to get a ride back to the studio cuz i have all this sh*t to pack up" (which he was supposed to do the night b/4). I said for him to work it out with her, but to make sure he gets the car back at least by 9:30am. He hangs up on me. Calls back again to ask if she can meet him out in the city. I tell him no, cuz that wasn't the plan, I'm not going to inconvenience my sister cuz he couldn't get his ass up, and she doesn't know her way around the city. Then (this is the best part), that MuthaFucka wants to blame ME for the inconvenience, cuz I let him take my car!!!!!

This is the sh*t I'm talkin about. I know you guys have this innocence about ya...but it really makes you all look selfish. I mean, the other day he asked me where I put his memory card for the laptop...I'm like "I don't know...it's YOUR memory card, why would I know where it is?!?!" Then, when he found it, he couldn't even apologize for assuming that I lost it...you guyz NEVER apologize (at least he doesn't.)

A lot of complaints I hear about aries is that you don't take responsiblity for yourselves and/or your actions. This is true for my bf and sister. Any reason why? any explanation? am I looking at this all wrong? Insight would be nice!

truthseeker.

On one hand , your right. We Aries are lazy guys and we don't take the consequences. But if you can deal with it , then it's peace. just think before you lend a Aries guy your car. And even if you do, try to have a plan B. like letting your sister bicycle to her intervieuw.

on the other hand. don't generalize all Aries because not all Aries are like that!

hey bfromu...thanks for the info. I try not to generalize all Aries...I've learned my lesson, once!

It's so funny what you say about a plan B...I find that i have to do it w/ my BF. But sometimes, I need him to be a responsible adult...and it's very rarely that I make that request since I know he's a child at heart:-) Either way, the whole "plan B" thing is rather amusing to me, althouugh I think it's what gives Aries a bad wrap w/ other people. What do you think? Is this one reason why Aries are so misunderstood?

Well, i try not to be like that. i don't know if the Aries is misunderstood by that.

The funny thing is. i went talking to some girls in the park. and when i told that i was a Aries ... they bicycled away ......

sometimes it just happens. i have Aries friends. so when i'm going out with them, i allway's try to make a Plan B.

I think Aries on purpose delay things because they're scared of going to somewhere. If a friend invite's me for something and i said ''yes'' but i didn't want to go, then there's a big chance i come too late.

please excuse me :S

"I think Aries on purpose delay things because they're scared of going to somewhere. If a friend invite's me for something and i said ''yes'' but i didn't want to go, then there's a big chance i come too late."

So true...and I've seen this in action w/ the bf. Did those girls really bicycle away? What EXACTLY did you say to them?

well, i was just talking to them for about 5 minute's and they ask what sign i was. i answered Aries and they bicycled away....

If a friend invite's me for something and i said ''yes'' but i didn't want to go, then there's a big chance i come too late."

**Edit : Or i wouldn't come at all**

LMAO!

My Aries brother is % 100 like that. Well I don't want to generalize that for Aries, surely there are worthy people around....but.........


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If you want to deal with Aries.....Good luck!

LMAO!

LOL!

Message posted by: boyfromutrecht on 7/19/2006 10:10:30 AM
truthseeker.
On one hand , your right. We Aries are lazy guys and we don't take the consequences. But if you can deal with it , then it's peace. just think before you lend a Aries guy your car. And even if you do, try to have a plan B. like letting your sister bicycle to her intervieuw.
on the other hand. don't generalize all Aries because not all Aries are like that!

Message posted by: boyfromutrecht on 7/19/2006 10:44:17 AM
Well, i try not to be like that. i don't know if the Aries is misunderstood by that.



You've got to be kidding me? Are you so oblivious that you can't see your unacceptance in this post of responsibility that you would turn around and say that you try not to be like that? You verified it to be the absolute truth in your first post, then say you don't do it? lol

So, if a person should try to help an Aries out by loaning them their car, then it's the responsibility of the person owning the car to come up with a plan if you should fail in your honor?

OMG, yes . . . perfect example why someone should bicycle away.

It's up to you, Aries, to honor yourself. If you can't love yourself, then nobody will.

oh BOOHOOHOO!!!! yep..aries SUCK!! we are the most self absorbed, aggressive, assholes of AAAAAAAALLL the signs...

get a life and stop being so jealous...

i can't imagine having so much jealousy inside of me...it must just eat you up, huh?

whatever !

There's noting better than a Aries !