Aries' approach to love

I speak only for myself when I say that which I chase after, is that which I fear once I have found it.

It's so easy for me to move from one trivial relationship to the next. But when I find one worth hanging onto, I freeze.

I've known this one boy since middle school. And it turns out we're finally both single at the same time. And have been diggin' each other the entire time (even when we weren't single). He just broke up with his g/f a few weeks ago. So I completely understand his need to be alone for a while. But at the same time, I can't be living at a standstill. And it is living. Because I eat, breathe and sleep my problems away. I can't figure this one out. Patience is not my strong suit.

Ps. He's a pisces. And we get along beautifully.

I'm not sure if I should leave him be until he decides to come to me. Or if I should send him a li'l text message or leave a voicemail. . . Just to reassure him he's got an ally.

I'd totally go for it. Just ask him for a hang out or something, rent movies and eat cheese pizza and get FAT! (If this sounds dumb it because of the chocolate, its not MY fault)

But yeah, it doesn't sound too difficult depending on his mood, I know a bunch of pisces and they normally don't stay depressed all too long, and really enjoy hanging with friends whenever they feel like crap.

"is that which I fear once I have found it .. I find one worth hanging onto, I freeze."

Why? Do you know why you fear this, which makes you freeze?

Sending him a little message probably wouldn't hurt .. but, you know how Pisces are about our space issues, so I would keep it short and sweet.

I hope you're able to work it out with him, since you two are such good friends. Maybe this (friendship first) will make for a really strong love-bond since you already know each others little quirks.

I'm afraid of feeling anything that isn't a direct result of my causing it.

Feelings are a sign of weakness. And weak, I am not.

Although there are different types of strength. And someday I hope for the ability to express rather than repress said emotions.

You should definantly text him back. Like P-Angel said Short and sweet. But Pisces males by nature are kinda shy so you gotta give him a lil boost but not to aggressively. He prolly already know the chemistry between ya'll and just waiting for the seal of approval. Besides this should be easy since you and him already got the aawkard shit out the way by being friends first.

The feeling Love is the strongest of all .. some say hate is, but, I don't believe that. There's no way that the strength of it could surpass Love. Love is what makes us desire to wake up each morning and face another day with re-bound strength and courage .. love for ourselves, our mother, our puppy and ice-cream.

Well, I do love ice cream. 😉

He just went thru a big breakup. I don't know any details, 'cept that it was pretty serious.

He told me he doesnt want a relationship right now bc he's really into hanging with friends and working on his car. Said he knows he can't give me what I need right now.

I told him I'm not seeing anyone else (he dittoed). Then I said it's on him to make the next move. He said I'd be the first to know.

Basically my head is reeling and I can't be excited since I don't have. But I can't be bitter or angry because the possibility exists of having him.

I know eventually I'll work it out in my head. And be 100% dedicated to whatever I decide to do.

I'm under the impression that I should let him be since he's the one with the newly single complex.

Meh.

Ok check it out.

If you're HOT and you know it, just go hang out with him. We don't like labels...we enjoy the grey area. Have some great sex, eat some great good, and then call him tommorrow. The best thing Pisces men like about Aries women is their ability to make all the first moves.

If you're not hot, take some Hydroxycut and go to the gym. 🙂>