Aries as Baby Daddies

Hello everyone I'm new to the board and been skimming through the post about aries men. I'm a virgo as you must know by now and I'm dating a aries guy. I have been on and off for about 3 1/2 years with him. I have been through the hot and cold stages with my aries. We started off dating while he was still with a female that was pregnant by him. We ended up getting alot closer and moving in together and he broke it off with her due to problems. After moving in together I wasn't sure he had left her alone, so I ended up asking him to leave and move out. Then I moved away for about 6 months. He still had my cellphone # and he called out of the blue and we hooked up and have been friends again ever since. We haven't been as exclusive again as before. I started dating others and had been in other relationships and he has been with his baby mom I guess since then. He came back around wanting to chase again and I kind of showed him I really wasn't that interested anymore. He tried and tried and finally I let him in a little more. He has always been the really sweet and romantic type that takes me out to dinner,around his mom,dad,brothers,friends and daughter.He says he loves me but I can't trust that because I feel he still deals with the scorpio who is the mother of his daughter, but you wouldn't beleive since we been back on with one another I got pregnant with his child. He knows and says he happy but I'm pissed due to his inconsistency through out the years. He shows support but I don't want to fall victim to given in totally to be hurt again like before, so i sabotage it by telling him I've been hanging out with my ex and don't want to be in a relationship with him. Of course I havent heard from him in a month and he shows up one day out of the blue behind me on my way to work on the interstate. I'm lost, I want to be with him and raise our child together but a part of me feels he's not ready because of his dealings with the other baby's mother. In which I don't have any real proof....... someone help!!! sorry so long

My father is an Aries and mother, a Scorpio. It's not the best of unions, I'll admit, and I find that with male Arians, if capable of providing, will commonly provide selflessly for their loved ones. My father took 3 jobs when I was a kid.

My own father spoiled me, when he was around. Took me places far away to play outdoors. Openly tells me he loves me and says I'm his favorite. With my older Aqua brother, he had never been around long enough to develop a relationship with him since he (Dad) was going to school at the time, so they are quite detached in that sense. My brother is as a result, extremely independent, desiring dependency, and I in part, the opposite.

I can only speculate (with two separate children and two separate mothers) how this will balance out for everyone. If you have him full time, I believe he will be great as a father.

Waterpheonix Thanks for your reponse and yes Aries appear to be good dads becasue he has another child and he talks about her all the time and he likes to make sure her needs are met and spend time with her. I just hate to bring a child in this world without a stable loving foundation of two parents. I hope he would make every effort to be a part of our childs life. I dont know because i havent heard from him since our last fight.....when I told him I was seeing my ex and don't want a relationship...

I know that sounds crazy when I really do but i just couldnt allow myself to fall victim to the things we been through in the past. I just dont feel a baby will make a bit of difference in him being more devoted to a relationship with me....

I don't know what to think anymore.....