Aries DON'Ts

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Let me go ahead & say this...I DO NOT expect for everyone (whether you're an Aries yourself or know alot of Aries) to agree with me. This is my personal opinion from an Aquarian point of view about the Aries I've personally observed. I'm in NO way labeling all Aries or saying that how I feel about this topic will be the same way others feel or the same thing others have observed. But, I am doing what this site allows me to do & that's to state my opinion.

DON'T:
-Cling too tightly or chase too hard (Aries will quickly take steps to preserve their freedom). Aries don't mind a partner who shows their passion for them but they personally don't feel the need to shadow over their partners 24-7 & expect for their partners to be the same way

-Be too critical of them or their friends. Aries don't mind constructive criticism every once in a while but if they can sense that you are always complaining or are always have something against their friends & loved ones, they will quickly place you outside of their inner circle

-Get overly critical-they will get hurt & leap to defend

-Don't hold grudges against them. They like to be forgiven & for others to understand their imperfections. They will be quickly turned off by those who constantly bring up past imperfections, flaws & mistakes.

-Try to get extra attention by flirting with others or by bringing up past flings (These tricks will quickly backfire with an Aries, who would prefer that you leave the past where it belongs & give your present relationship full attention. They want to know that you are with them b/c you are emotionally available, & not b/c they were the first "rebound" you saw walking. They want to know that you personally picked them b/c they earned your trust & your interest.
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-Decide you are not in the mood once you lure in Aries into your arms (Aries will take it to mean that you don't want them anymore, even if it is the opposite of the truth). If you want your Aries around, don't purposely try to mess up a "good thing" or a good day just b/c you can't keep your emotions in check. Aries don't cling to situations full of sadness, depression, & pessimism.

-Try to dampen your Aries' spirit (high spirits are part of Aries' personality). When they're happy, let them be happy, & when they're mad or upset, let them be.
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-Standing too firmly in their way (emotionally, educationally or financially) as they move headlong through life. They want someone who can "keep up" with them. They don't want to constantly have to turn back around to go catch you.

-Never force them to compete when it is obvious that they do not want to ?fight?-Aries like to pick their OWN fights & battles & competitions. They don't need their partners on their sides always trying to hype up a situation when they feel that it is unnecessary.

-Boasting or bragging too much about your greater achievements & successes around them
You will not seduce Aries when you are always trying to take the lead. Aries should be in command. Always! You should follow his desires and appetites.

-Wear cheap perfume or aftershave. They put their all into impressing their partners & expect for their partners to have the same mindset.

If giving them a gift, never give them old, or second-hand gifts. They like to know that you took time & effort to impress them.

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Any experiences with any Aries men? Actually yes, I dated 2 back when I was a freshman in college. They were a little too fast-paced for me but at the same time I was intriged by their non stop energy they put into everything. But I have ALOTTT of friends & 3 of the guys in my inner "circle" are Aries & even though I've done alot of research on astrology, I still learned alot from just being around them all the time, learning their mannerisms & basically seeing if what astrology says about them is of any coincidence of their behavior. And it usually is 😉
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"that was accurate! but, i like my partners to be proud of there achievements just not arrogant about them aries is there to inspire all not just themselfs. um, i would prefer my lover to simply pick a rose because he thought of me when he seen it not buy me a diamond because he has the money. apart from that you're pretty accurate!"

Of course. I think Aries are naturally attracted to others who have the same drive & energy as them but when they notice that their partners are always bragging about something, I can see why the Aries immediately gets turned off. Aries's let's their accomplishments speak for themselves; they don't have to wear signs on their forehead saying "I achieved this" or "I achieved that" so I can understand why it bothers them when their partners feel the need to broadcast their achievements 24-7
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"I have a good one. NEVER get an Aries to do something by trying to coerce or jerk them into it, you will end up worse off than when you started and what you wanted to get done won't be. We love to fight but hate it when someone pisses us off enough to want to."

Exactly! If an Aries picks a fight or a battle, it's because THEY personally chose that fight & never b/c someone else chose it for them.