Aries Experiencing Other Aries

I rarely meet another Aries. I imagined that because we are under the zodiac sign that represent the God of War, it must have been a good thing??_ sorta like being a Highlander. (If you don't know the T.V. series —Highlander,?? here's a reference: (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Highlander:_The_Series). It??ll make you laugh. The series was an international hit and was nominated three times for the Gemini Awards and once for a Saturn Award in 1998 —------ and there's your zodiac reference.

Anyway, this last week I encountered two Aries. One was a dead woman.

The first was a beautician. I haven't been to a salon in years and I was just getting tired of my hair. I prayed that the owner would be the one that did my hair. The Aries is the owner and she did my hair. She was into the zodiac. She was talking about never meeting an Aries and I said, —I'm an Aries.?? She was ecstatic and I was too. I was pleased that she was into the zodiac as well; although, she only knew Sun signs. She was extremely happy to know that there was more to it than Sun signs. We talked about the zodiac the whole time to include that she is in a relationship with a Gemini and her daughter??s father is a Leo. I told her that she was doing fabulous picking mates so far as these two are our match??_ I added Sagittarius to the mix. Her employees were a Scorpio, Aquarius, and Capricorn females. She seemed to get along quite well with the Capricorn more than the others.

We talked about being Aries and how the stereotypes truths, exaggerations, and perceptions??_ I think we will become friends. We talked about dating other zodiac signs, our impression of other zodiac signs. Her birthday is March 22nd.

The other Aries is a dead co-worker I never had the fortune of meeting but, got to know through her memorial service. Her birthday was April 4th. Her ex-husband murdered her. I attended her memorial today and her birthday was on the pamphlet. Aries attributes were all over the heartfelt testimonials about her. I felt proud to be an Aries as I heard people mentioning her traits, my traits with such warmth and affection. Focus, leadership, courage, dedication, excellence, out-spoken, intimidating, open, honest??_.

the first man I fell hard for after my ex and I broke up... was an Aries. His birthday was 8 days after mine.

He was warm, he had an amazing sense of humor, and he was incredibly handsome.

I was NOT ready for a relationship but I liked him so much I kind of rushed things. Bad idea. - He lost interest.

To this day I wonder what would have happened between the two of us if I hadn't pushed so hard.

lol - Oh well. I'm happy now but I will always remember the Runaway Aries.

hahahah

I've always had a really hard time getting along with other Aries. (I have a Libra moon, cancer rising and associate with these much more) Generally I find most Aries to be too loud, too pushy, overtly sexual for no reason (generally in public), competitive (I would rather just let the other person win) and overall embarassing. I dated an Arian guy who was wayyy too physical for me almost to the point of abuse. He was always under the assumption that if something was funny to him...it should be to everyone else. I couldn't deal with it. Other run in with males include a guy in my high school gym class that was so competitive he would make himself throwup. Hes now one of those "marriage is scientifically flawed" types. Overall it just seems like everything is win or loose with Arians even if it's not verbalized there is a constant battle raging in their minds over who is better, who is prettier, who gets more attention, etc etc etc. And yes it is exactly like Highlander only I don't play into the whole win/loose game. You win, whatever😉

The only other Aries I've ever met in my life is my dad 🙂 Never thought of it before, but it is kind of weird. I think I've met more Cancers than any other sign.

Posted by arletteleigh
I've always had a really hard time getting along with other Aries. (I have a Libra moon, cancer rising and associate with these much more) Generally I find most Aries to be too loud, too pushy, overtly sexual for no reason (generally in public), competitive (I would rather just let the other person win) and overall embarassing. I dated an Arian guy who was wayyy too physical for me almost to the point of abuse. He was always under the assumption that if something was funny to him...it should be to everyone else. I couldn't deal with it. Other run in with males include a guy in my high school gym class that was so competitive he would make himself throwup. Hes now one of those "marriage is scientifically flawed" types. Overall it just seems like everything is win or loose with Arians even if it's not verbalized there is a constant battle raging in their minds over who is better, who is prettier, who gets more attention, etc etc etc. And yes it is exactly like Highlander only I don't play into the whole win/loose game. You win, whatever😉

Let the other guy win? NEVER.

Unless... it begins to eat at me and I become obsessive... then I learn to "let things go" but once you "let things go" you in turn win... because you've conquered your own emotions and not let anybody else take over control of you thus making you feel free.

I still see it as winning.

I dated an Aries once. 12 months exactly apart. We constantly fought, stupid fights, was like a battle for control. Couldn't keep calm, ended up severely depressed then left him. Never again. Can't handle my own hahahaha. I need a calm sign to even me out

Lessee, hmmmm

My father was an Aries. His BD was one day before mine. He was rather difficult for most people to deal with. I always felt that I "understood" him much better than everyone else other than my mother. She was a Leo Virgo cusper.

One of my best friends as a kid was an Aries. As we moved through out teens we grew apart. That was sad.

I know three other people who have the same BD as I. Not the same year, just day of the month. One of them I struggle with constantly to be around. Whiny, compulsive, obsessive, lazy. A second is an older male, a bit older than I. We give each other our space, but get along pretty well in small doses. We have never tried to be "friendly" as such, but we work together regularly.
The third is a female type person who I am hugely taken by. She thinks I am pushy and over the top. I am guessing it is her Taurus Moon and Taurus Venus that makes her think that sort of thing. Of course, I couldn't possibly be anything but suave and debonair.

I know yet another female Aries. We connect very well, and deeply. She is married, so boundaries are carefully observed. I suspect it would be quite interesting if she were not already attached.

My older sister is an Aries. She's way more of a fiery person and super competitive. We have a hard time being very close but we are close with some distance between us if that makes any sense. We don't talk everyday, but when we do, we hold each other down.

I've known three Aries men. The first I had a crush on in high school and he was super mellow, smart and wise beyond his year. He was a highly evolved Aries, but the other two I met where personification of the stereotypes. AND WE BATTLED!!!! My job sort of requires me to be bossy, so you know how they feel about people telling them what to do...

They were loud, uncouth and very frat-boyish, but also could be incredibly charming when they wanted to be. I never dated these guys, but worked alongside them. Once we came to an understanding- good friends but I could *never* date an Aries male. I just don't think they are as evolved as an Aries female. The females I met are *very* strategic, more along the lines of Athena than Aries.

Posted by Aine
the first man I fell hard for after my ex and I broke up... was an Aries. His birthday was 8 days after mine.

He was warm, he had an amazing sense of humor, and he was incredibly handsome.

I was NOT ready for a relationship but I liked him so much I kind of rushed things. Bad idea. - He lost interest.

To this day I wonder what would have happened between the two of us if I hadn't pushed so hard.

lol - Oh well. I'm happy now but I will always remember the Runaway Aries.

hahahah

That's the power struggle of Aries man and Aries woman - who will take the lead.

Posted by arletteleigh
I've always had a really hard time getting along with other Aries. (I have a Libra moon, cancer rising and associate with these much more) Generally I find most Aries to be too loud, too pushy, overtly sexual for no reason (generally in public), competitive (I would rather just let the other person win) and overall embarassing. I dated an Arian guy who was wayyy too physical for me almost to the point of abuse. He was always under the assumption that if something was funny to him...it should be to everyone else. I couldn't deal with it. Other run in with males include a guy in my high school gym class that was so competitive he would make himself throwup. Hes now one of those "marriage is scientifically flawed" types. Overall it just seems like everything is win or loose with Arians even if it's not verbalized there is a constant battle raging in their minds over who is better, who is prettier, who gets more attention, etc etc etc. And yes it is exactly like Highlander only I don't play into the whole win/loose game. You win, whatever😉

I can understand and you seem to understand as well, that with your placements, just how Aries can rub you this way.

Before my recent encounters with Aries, I had one with a young Aries male. He played major power games and competed with me. Yet, he was pursuing me at the same time. He was so obvious, and the games so obvious, I saw it as an open invitation for exercising my Air dominance. He was ridiculous and extremely entertaining. He seemed to want me to submit to him which as an Aries female, and under little or no familiarity, was ridiculous to the point of well controlled rage. But, he was only 21 and I was ten years older than him so, I did not crush him. Yet, the fact that he was trying me.... Eventually, and in short time, he submitted to me and was a little gentlemen. That was the end because I was completely uninterested in a relationship, nor do I believe he was either. It was a simple little erotic game of wills.

The young Aries was practicing his seduction techniques that's all. I hope he learned some variation. Afterall, who better to teach than another Aries.

What do you mean by he played power games?

I dated an Aries guy and our charts were exactly the same. Although we broke up, I cannot get him out of my mind. My chart:

planet sign degree motion
Sun Aries 18??23'53 in house 10 direct
Moon Capricorn 3??02'52 in house 6 direct
Mercury Aries 17??49'04 in house 10 direct
Venus Aries 18??44'01 in house 10 retrograde
Mars Sagittarius 14??42'20 in house 5 direct
Jupiter Virgo 28??57'52 in house 4 retrograde
Saturn Aries 27??16'07 in house 10 direct
Uranus Libra 1??15'51 in house 4 retrograde
Neptune Scorpio 28??19'11 in house 5 retrograde
Pluto Virgo 23??08'22 in house 4 retrograde
True Node Aries 0??08'41 in house 10 retrograde

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Cancer 22??18'30
2nd House Leo 7??52'35
3rd House Leo 26??51'15
Imum Coeli Virgo 22??57'03
5th House Scorpio 0??49'37
6th House Sagittarius 16??25'51
Descendant Capricorn 22??18'30
8th House Aquarius 7??52'35
9th House Aquarius 26??51'15
Medium Coeli Pisces 22??57'03
11th House Taurus 0??49'37
12th House Gemini 16??25'51

Oopse I hit enter too fast. If I could turn back times I would have done some things differently. He was more competitive and very focused on success. Sexually, intellectually and moral compass a total match. In any case, we aries people are fascinating at least in my opinion.

Posted by lotus11
Oopse I hit enter too fast. If I could turn back times I would have done some things differently. He was more competitive and very focused on success. Sexually, intellectually and moral compass a total match. In any case, we aries people are fascinating at least in my opinion.

Do you have his chart?

Posted by AriesIntrovert16
What do you mean by he played power games?

Let's say he thought I was too fly and he wanted to clip my wings.