Aries in need of Arian help.

Ok I feel like i give the proud Arians a bad name. I'm not at all like an Aries other than the spontaneous relationships. I'm not as out going as others. I've lived with a Pisces mother. I have an over bearing & very violent Virgo for a sister & my horns were destroyed, broken & sanded down for long periods of time I only just recently started having them grow, but I have no guide now that my ex-Aries-boyfriend left the state. Please help I'm an 18 year old Aries & my horns are now being ripped from me by a Scorpio, my Libra ex is my only escape. Is there any Arians out there that will help me gain my horns, & help me become the proud Aries that I know that I should be?

you're right, you are giving the aries a bad name because all you can focus on is how other people are bringing you down and how you can only be happy again with the help of somebody else. are you sure you're not a libra? no seriously, do you have a ton of libra in your chart or are you a libra rising?

in any case, pull it together. stop blaming everybody else for your being unhappy. sure, it may be their fault but you're giving them too much power over your sanity. any decision you make should always be about you first. you're of no real value to anybody at your current state. who wants to be around someone who can't control their own life and can't stand on their own two feet? think good and hard about what you genuinely want. you say that you want your ex boyfriend but why? i'm willing to bet it's because he makes you feel happy and secure but guess what...he's not making you feel happy or secure right now because you're not with him. that leaves you wide open to unhappiness whenever somebody can't be right by your side. you need to find a purpose other than dependency on other people. what do you have to offer

What exactly is it that you need help with?

^^^^I wonderin' the same thing.

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