Aries man confusing me

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cinnamongirl
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So I've been texting an Aries man for 3 months (he initiated the talk,mentioned that we had a lot in common and big chemistry).He seemed really into me and we talked almost every day ever since.

The thing is he finds me so attractive to the point that he thinks I'm dating someone else and I am playing him.I told him he is the only one I like and want to meet atm but he doesn't believe me.We haven't met yet and he takes things very slow.Sometimes he doesn't respond to my texts and when I ask him why he says he is busy.Yesterday he posted a song that said "when I don't respond to your texts I don't mean to disrespect you I'm just busy, you're the only girl that I want,girl of my dreams".He hasn't replied to my text yet about meeting up.

He has Venus in Taurus which may cause the problem.I don't want to move on with another guy instead I insist on waiting on him because our chemistry is unreal.Is there something he is afraid of or is he playing me?
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We haven't met yet

Your confused over a literal stranger.

Is someone a stranger when he talks to you almost every day and follows you on social media?
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Yes. He is a stranger if you haven't met in person.

A follow on sm means fuck all if you haven't met.

Talking on the phone, texting, dm-ing, means fuck all if he's not trying to see you face to face. 3 months is a long time to waste on someone who isn't trying to meet you in person.

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What is his mars sign?

Venus in Taurus with the following:

Mars in fire - will pursuit

Mars in water - little to no pursuit

Mars in air - maybe/maybe not pursuit

Mars in earth - hot n cold pursuit

Regardless, grab a chair and get a snack. This could take years

He has Mars in Scorpio...so should I not get my hopes up then?
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Both in fixed. Things will be on his terms when hes ready.

I wouldn't tell you not to get your hopes up but rather adjust your expectations and make sure you both stay on the same page.

Keep having a life and be his friend first. Find out if hes worthy enough for you.
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What is his mars sign?

Venus in Taurus with the following:

Mars in fire - will pursuit

Mars in water - little to no pursuit

Mars in air - maybe/maybe not pursuit

Mars in earth - hot n cold pursuit

Regardless, grab a chair and get a snack. This could take years

He has Mars in Scorpio...so should I not get my hopes up then?

Both in fixed. Things will be on his terms when hes ready.

I wouldn't tell you not to get your hopes up but rather adjust your expectations and make sure you both stay on the same page.

Keep having a life and be his friend first. Find out if hes worthy enough for you.
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I believe he's been hurt in the past and isn't sure yet about it.He seems very wise for his age and from what I know so far he is worthy.Thank you for the advice I was thinking about the same thing
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cinnamongirl
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Posted by Gemitati

Slow moving Aries is the Aries who is moving fast elsewhere.

I don’t know many but those I know are moving so fast that everyone around them having a headaches. 😂😂😂

I supposed...he could be moving fast even in few places at the same time...and if he doesn’t...I am not sure it’s a good looking future for you. Sorry.


He said himself that he was talking with other girls although I didn't ask him but said with me was different.

At the beginning we talked for hours,we even stayed up to talk until 5 am.

He admitted that he is in a stage in his life where he wants to have experiences because when he gets older it won't be so easy but if it is something serious he will get into a relationship.

Maybe I've put him into thoughts about commitment and losing his freedom and started acting like that?
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Slow moving Aries is the Aries who is moving fast elsewhere.

I don’t know many but those I know are moving so fast that everyone around them having a headaches. 😂😂😂

I supposed...he could be moving fast even in few places at the same time...and if he doesn’t...I am not sure it’s a good looking future for you. Sorry.

He said himself that he was talking with other girls although I didn't ask him but said with me was different.

At the beginning we talked for hours,we even stayed up to talk until 5 am.

He admitted that he is in a stage in his life where he wants to have experiences because when he gets older it won't be so easy but if it is something serious he will get into a relationship.

Maybe I've put him into thoughts about commitment and losing his freedom and started acting like that?

So he has literally just told you he wants to shag around and doesn't want commitment at all but can he shag you please because you're so so special.... tell him to go squat in a cactus field.... the red flags you choose to ignore now you will definitely pay for later....
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I don't know if it's the fact that we're young,I am 19 and he is 20 and he mentioned that I'm a little inpatient about meeting so I guessed that he takes his time.If he isn't planning on meeting ofc I will move on but I have a strong feeling that he wants to but something else holds him back.
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Posted by Gemitati

Slow moving Aries is the Aries who is moving fast elsewhere.

I don’t know many but those I know are moving so fast that everyone around them having a headaches. 😂😂😂

I supposed...he could be moving fast even in few places at the same time...and if he doesn’t...I am not sure it’s a good looking future for you. Sorry.


I absolutely love your first line....very very true. I found that out initially but when it was my turn on the pedestal things moved quicker. Lol