Aries Man, Help me !

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LibraJackson
@LibraJackson
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Hi just need your views.

we were dating for few months. I'm a Libra and he's an Aries.

He's moving in 2 months time, he ended a month ago as he said he doesn't want to be with anyone and if there was going to be anyone it would be me, according to what he said.

Anyway, I met up with him few days ago after not speaking to him for a month as he ended.

We spent the night but I heard nothing from him since, What should I do ?

FYI, we had a great time and it was like good old days when we met up but I don't know what to do
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AriesJo
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I wouldn't move away with him, because you cant give up your current life for something like that where there are still unknowns.

A long distance relationship is not ideal and he may doubt whether he can trust you, and doesn't want to commit to that kind of situation. I don't mean trust you specifically, there is just a possibility in LDRs that one of you may meet someone else and they have the advantage of just being there to spend time with. He won't want to lock himself in to that kind of relationship when he can't see you when he wants. So he's trying to be logical about it. However, with Aries, emotion and passion will override what seems logical. If you want an LDR with him, if you want to try that. Then letting him know you understand the situation will go a long way. I would message him, say you don't want him to forget you, that you think you can be great together, that distance is obviously a challenge, but distance relationships can still be strong, and you wont give up on him if he wants to try it.

Something like that, slightly illogical, lays down a challenge, shows emotion. But I think if this isn't something you wouldn't normally say then you might have to change the words round a bit.

Of course it might not work, but then at least you've tried and you have no regrets, and he may find someone else, you might, or you might get back together in a years time, nobody really knows, but it is possible you can be together, and you can't live your life with fear of being hurt, so I think you should tell him how you feel.