p05girl
@p05girl
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Posted by p05girlit would be maybe helpful, if you stated the circumstances, why are you looking up people ("i found him through social media website") and "proposing" them marriage at the start ("i want an honest committed guy who will get marry to me") ? cultural thing?
okay so i reached out to this strange man who i get to know is aries , he seems really nice , we haven't met yet i found him through social media website. so we started talking he asked for my whats app but i straight away told him that i am not really up for any kind of relationship or friendship i am at this stage where i want an honest committed guy who will get marry to me, because my past is full of shity guys who were never going to give me commitment, he surprisingly agree to what i said but he asked me some time to get to me i thought thats fair enough everyone deserves this so i gave him my number, we talk and talk, i felt some connection and i thought i am being overly attachy as i am by nature (pieces girl here ) within like 2-3 days he confessed that he likes me , and infact two days back he told me that love me and i even told him to meet my parents and he agrees to that , i even ask him to talk to his parents about me he agrees to that too!! i dont know why he is agreeing to all this .. but he said he wants to meet me first then he will visit my house.
i am so confused i never met a guy like him who is so ready to commit plus he also asked me some weird life related question like how much time and routine is important for me he also told me about his life. i dont know what to doooo !! pls help! i want to him if he is playing any game or he is genuinely serious.

Posted by Pandora101Dear sir,Posted by p05girlit would be maybe helpful, if you stated the circumstances, why are you looking up people ("i found him through social media website") and "proposing" them marriage at the start ("i want an honest committed guy who will get marry to me") ? cultural thing?
okay so i reached out to this strange man who i get to know is aries , he seems really nice , we haven't met yet i found him through social media website. so we started talking he asked for my whats app but i straight away told him that i am not really up for any kind of relationship or friendship i am at this stage where i want an honest committed guy who will get marry to me, because my past is full of shity guys who were never going to give me commitment, he surprisingly agree to what i said but he asked me some time to get to me i thought thats fair enough everyone deserves this so i gave him my number, we talk and talk, i felt some connection and i thought i am being overly attachy as i am by nature (pieces girl here ) within like 2-3 days he confessed that he likes me , and infact two days back he told me that love me and i even told him to meet my parents and he agrees to that , i even ask him to talk to his parents about me he agrees to that too!! i dont know why he is agreeing to all this .. but he said he wants to meet me first then he will visit my house.
i am so confused i never met a guy like him who is so ready to commit plus he also asked me some weird life related question like how much time and routine is important for me he also told me about his life. i dont know what to doooo !! pls help! i want to him if he is playing any game or he is genuinely serious.
at least he said, he wants to meet you first
are you crazy to planning a marriage to a "strange guy", who you looked up on social media and havent met yet?
"i am so confused i never met a guy like him who is so ready to commit "
you havent met him either.... ready to commit or a desperate loony, like you? I am sorry, but this is INSANE
Edit: "because my past is full of buttery guys who were never going to give me commitment" - the best way how to promote yourself... like, I looked up other guys on the social media and asked them to marry me, but they wouldnt.... surprise!
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Posted by merakii did , but he is very straight forward i dont know if he is playing game or whattt
Communicate?
Posted by Sheeverthanks alot for the advise
Aries commit quick, however sometimes can ve simply over excited. Keep your ground and don't fall for his powerful push. He will stick more or depart. It will tell you if it was serious

Posted by p05girloooh, sorry.... it must be very taff for you 😢Posted by Pandora101Dear sir,Posted by p05girlit would be maybe helpful, if you stated the circumstances, why are you looking up people ("i found him through social media website") and "proposing" them marriage at the start ("i want an honest committed guy who will get marry to me") ? cultural thing?
okay so i reached out to this strange man who i get to know is aries , he seems really nice , we haven't met yet i found him through social media website. so we started talking he asked for my whats app but i straight away told him that i am not really up for any kind of relationship or friendship i am at this stage where i want an honest committed guy who will get marry to me, because my past is full of shity guys who were never going to give me commitment, he surprisingly agree to what i said but he asked me some time to get to me i thought thats fair enough everyone deserves this so i gave him my number, we talk and talk, i felt some connection and i thought i am being overly attachy as i am by nature (pieces girl here ) within like 2-3 days he confessed that he likes me , and infact two days back he told me that love me and i even told him to meet my parents and he agrees to that , i even ask him to talk to his parents about me he agrees to that too!! i dont know why he is agreeing to all this .. but he said he wants to meet me first then he will visit my house.
i am so confused i never met a guy like him who is so ready to commit plus he also asked me some weird life related question like how much time and routine is important for me he also told me about his life. i dont know what to doooo !! pls help! i want to him if he is playing any game or he is genuinely serious.
at least he said, he wants to meet you first
are you crazy to planning a marriage to a "strange guy", who you looked up on social media and havent met yet?
"i am so confused i never met a guy like him who is so ready to commit "
you havent met him either.... ready to commit or a desperate loony, like you? I am sorry, but this is INSANE
Edit: "because my past is full of buttery guys who were never going to give me commitment" - the best way how to promote yourself... like, I looked up other guys on the social media and asked them to marry me, but they wouldnt.... surprise!
you dont know how much pressure we desi/brown girl have to bear , in our culture we get hitched to guys we dont even know properly , our families mostly decide whom should we get married too! i am not saying that we are conservative people but that's how our culture and society works , where i live and belong do thats how my parents got married , my father bring his family to my mom's house and they just saw each other and that's it after 16 days they got married ! so i am 24 now and at this age my mom had me , so my mom is finding match for me , and i thought i should do something , you are right it seems pretty off and insane that i kinda said marry to me to the complete stranger but eventually ill get hitched to someone stranger so why not get attached to someone and then get married to him. correction " because my past is full of shit yyy guys " so pls stop judging me 🙂 and if you know how aries mind works then let me know . before saying bad stuff about people you should first ASK!! you said insane about 6 times i guess how sane are you wowo!!! and i am looking up for people because my mom couldnt find any appropriate match for me and she worried about me and if i have to live my life then why should not i search the guy myself ! correction pls i did not propose him , i told him about my intentions i want to be crystal clear with him. i dont have any issue in meeting him 🙂 call me insane loony whatever you like !!click to expand

Posted by p05girlPosted by Pandora101Dear sir,Posted by p05girlit would be maybe helpful, if you stated the circumstances, why are you looking up people ("i found him through social media website") and "proposing" them marriage at the start ("i want an honest committed guy who will get marry to me") ? cultural thing?
okay so i reached out to this strange man who i get to know is aries , he seems really nice , we haven't met yet i found him through social media website. so we started talking he asked for my whats app but i straight away told him that i am not really up for any kind of relationship or friendship i am at this stage where i want an honest committed guy who will get marry to me, because my past is full of shity guys who were never going to give me commitment, he surprisingly agree to what i said but he asked me some time to get to me i thought thats fair enough everyone deserves this so i gave him my number, we talk and talk, i felt some connection and i thought i am being overly attachy as i am by nature (pieces girl here ) within like 2-3 days he confessed that he likes me , and infact two days back he told me that love me and i even told him to meet my parents and he agrees to that , i even ask him to talk to his parents about me he agrees to that too!! i dont know why he is agreeing to all this .. but he said he wants to meet me first then he will visit my house.
i am so confused i never met a guy like him who is so ready to commit plus he also asked me some weird life related question like how much time and routine is important for me he also told me about his life. i dont know what to doooo !! pls help! i want to him if he is playing any game or he is genuinely serious.
at least he said, he wants to meet you first
are you crazy to planning a marriage to a "strange guy", who you looked up on social media and havent met yet?
"i am so confused i never met a guy like him who is so ready to commit "
you havent met him either.... ready to commit or a desperate loony, like you? I am sorry, but this is INSANE
Edit: "because my past is full of buttery guys who were never going to give me commitment" - the best way how to promote yourself... like, I looked up other guys on the social media and asked them to marry me, but they wouldnt.... surprise!
you dont know how much pressure we desi/brown girl have to bear , in our culture we get hitched to guys we dont even know properly , our families mostly decide whom should we get married too! i am not saying that we are conservative people but that's how our culture and society works , where i live and belong do thats how my parents got married , my father bring his family to my mom's house and they just saw each other and that's it after 16 days they got married ! so i am 24 now and at this age my mom had me , so my mom is finding match for me , and i thought i should do something , you are right it seems pretty off and insane that i kinda said marry to me to the complete stranger but eventually ill get hitched to someone stranger so why not get attached to someone and then get married to him. correction " because my past is full of shit yyy guys " so pls stop judging me 🙂 and if you know how aries mind works then let me know . before saying bad stuff about people you should first ASK!! you said insane about 6 times i guess how sane are you wowo!!! and i am looking up for people because my mom couldnt find any appropriate match for me and she worried about me and if i have to live my life then why should not i search the guy myself ! correction pls i did not propose him , i told him about my intentions i want to be crystal clear with him. i dont have any issue in meeting him 🙂 call me insane loony whatever you like !!click to expand

Posted by SuninLibraThank you! 😊 you're kind to say that
@Freebirdd17 good advice 👍
Posted by UnicornSaghey i think you didnt understand what i wrote , i didnt told him that i had bad guys in my past . i shared this info just here to let you guys know about my position. and i am writing the S word for my previous guys but dxpnet converting it into buttery !!! lol
You should never tell a guy who you haven't even met how guys from your past were or how they treated you. What kind of light does that put you into?
Posted by Pandora101no dont be sorry i can understand your point of view as you are living totally different live !! it will be hard for you to understand ! we are family oriented people , in our culture even boys get hitched to unknown girls so its not really any taboo here 🙂 plus my parents always ask my permission before saying yes or no to the potential matchPosted by p05girloooh, sorry.... it must be very taff for you 😢Posted by Pandora101Dear sir,Posted by p05girlit would be maybe helpful, if you stated the circumstances, why are you looking up people ("i found him through social media website") and "proposing" them marriage at the start ("i want an honest committed guy who will get marry to me") ? cultural thing?
okay so i reached out to this strange man who i get to know is aries , he seems really nice , we haven't met yet i found him through social media website. so we started talking he asked for my whats app but i straight away told him that i am not really up for any kind of relationship or friendship i am at this stage where i want an honest committed guy who will get marry to me, because my past is full of shity guys who were never going to give me commitment, he surprisingly agree to what i said but he asked me some time to get to me i thought thats fair enough everyone deserves this so i gave him my number, we talk and talk, i felt some connection and i thought i am being overly attachy as i am by nature (pieces girl here ) within like 2-3 days he confessed that he likes me , and infact two days back he told me that love me and i even told him to meet my parents and he agrees to that , i even ask him to talk to his parents about me he agrees to that too!! i dont know why he is agreeing to all this .. but he said he wants to meet me first then he will visit my house.
i am so confused i never met a guy like him who is so ready to commit plus he also asked me some weird life related question like how much time and routine is important for me he also told me about his life. i dont know what to doooo !! pls help! i want to him if he is playing any game or he is genuinely serious.
at least he said, he wants to meet you first
are you crazy to planning a marriage to a "strange guy", who you looked up on social media and havent met yet?
"i am so confused i never met a guy like him who is so ready to commit "
you havent met him either.... ready to commit or a desperate loony, like you? I am sorry, but this is INSANE
Edit: "because my past is full of buttery guys who were never going to give me commitment" - the best way how to promote yourself... like, I looked up other guys on the social media and asked them to marry me, but they wouldnt.... surprise!
you dont know how much pressure we desi/brown girl have to bear , in our culture we get hitched to guys we dont even know properly , our families mostly decide whom should we get married too! i am not saying that we are conservative people but that's how our culture and society works , where i live and belong do thats how my parents got married , my father bring his family to my mom's house and they just saw each other and that's it after 16 days they got married ! so i am 24 now and at this age my mom had me , so my mom is finding match for me , and i thought i should do something , you are right it seems pretty off and insane that i kinda said marry to me to the complete stranger but eventually ill get hitched to someone stranger so why not get attached to someone and then get married to him. correction " because my past is full of shit yyy guys " so pls stop judging me 🙂 and if you know how aries mind works then let me know . before saying bad stuff about people you should first ASK!! you said insane about 6 times i guess how sane are you wowo!!! and i am looking up for people because my mom couldnt find any appropriate match for me and she worried about me and if i have to live my life then why should not i search the guy myself ! correction pls i did not propose him , i told him about my intentions i want to be crystal clear with him. i dont have any issue in meeting him 🙂 call me insane loony whatever you like !!
do you think sometimes to leave? to move into a city, get to know people, work in a bank or live together with other girls somewhere and build your own life? I am not sure, if its possible...
you have access to internet, so you can see, how other people live, do you really want to remain in those toxic medieval conditions, where you dont know who you are marrying? where you dont decide about your life?
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Posted by Freebirdd17hello ma'am ,Posted by p05girlPosted by Pandora101Dear sir,Posted by p05girlit would be maybe helpful, if you stated the circumstances, why are you looking up people ("i found him through social media website") and "proposing" them marriage at the start ("i want an honest committed guy who will get marry to me") ? cultural thing?
okay so i reached out to this strange man who i get to know is aries , he seems really nice , we haven't met yet i found him through social media website. so we started talking he asked for my whats app but i straight away told him that i am not really up for any kind of relationship or friendship i am at this stage where i want an honest committed guy who will get marry to me, because my past is full of shity guys who were never going to give me commitment, he surprisingly agree to what i said but he asked me some time to get to me i thought thats fair enough everyone deserves this so i gave him my number, we talk and talk, i felt some connection and i thought i am being overly attachy as i am by nature (pieces girl here ) within like 2-3 days he confessed that he likes me , and infact two days back he told me that love me and i even told him to meet my parents and he agrees to that , i even ask him to talk to his parents about me he agrees to that too!! i dont know why he is agreeing to all this .. but he said he wants to meet me first then he will visit my house.
i am so confused i never met a guy like him who is so ready to commit plus he also asked me some weird life related question like how much time and routine is important for me he also told me about his life. i dont know what to doooo !! pls help! i want to him if he is playing any game or he is genuinely serious.
at least he said, he wants to meet you first
are you crazy to planning a marriage to a "strange guy", who you looked up on social media and havent met yet?
"i am so confused i never met a guy like him who is so ready to commit "
you havent met him either.... ready to commit or a desperate loony, like you? I am sorry, but this is INSANE
Edit: "because my past is full of buttery guys who were never going to give me commitment" - the best way how to promote yourself... like, I looked up other guys on the social media and asked them to marry me, but they wouldnt.... surprise!
you dont know how much pressure we desi/brown girl have to bear , in our culture we get hitched to guys we dont even know properly , our families mostly decide whom should we get married too! i am not saying that we are conservative people but that's how our culture and society works , where i live and belong do thats how my parents got married , my father bring his family to my mom's house and they just saw each other and that's it after 16 days they got married ! so i am 24 now and at this age my mom had me , so my mom is finding match for me , and i thought i should do something , you are right it seems pretty off and insane that i kinda said marry to me to the complete stranger but eventually ill get hitched to someone stranger so why not get attached to someone and then get married to him. correction " because my past is full of shit yyy guys " so pls stop judging me 🙂 and if you know how aries mind works then let me know . before saying bad stuff about people you should first ASK!! you said insane about 6 times i guess how sane are you wowo!!! and i am looking up for people because my mom couldnt find any appropriate match for me and she worried about me and if i have to live my life then why should not i search the guy myself ! correction pls i did not propose him , i told him about my intentions i want to be crystal clear with him. i dont have any issue in meeting him 🙂 call me insane loony whatever you like !!
Hi girl! I read your posts and i can understand what situations you are talking about. I think i can relate to the culture as i also belong to same. I know it's very difficult to live up-to pressure of arranged marriage and also the thought of marrying a stranger is terrifying. Trust me I've been through all that
Having said that, i really hope you consider my words. I'm 32 years. Unmarried and in same society as urs. I know it sounds unimaginable and pathetic but trust me it's not. I'm independent, working woman who travels a lot, has financial independence and yes I've also given a chance to some men in hope of finding love. It's good to marry for love and be with someone you like but girl at least know the person! You're making a classic mistake of trustine men online you haven't met. N since he seems so over eager without even meeting you, it sounds fishy. Men are very careful in such societies who they marry n they do hundreds of background checks. It's not a good thing but that's how they do it. N you don't even know how his family will react to things. You never know if they are judgemental or not. Please be careful what you are venturing into. You should have your own decision too here.
@Pandora101 might have sounded harsh but she really means well and is in a way giving right advise that please don't jeopardize your life in haste. Meet him, take your time and then go ahead. It's really better than regretting later. I've been through the grind so i can tell you that you can get through anything as long as you don't lise confidence in yourself due to all the pressure.
Also, my humble advise would be, give an honeat chance to arrange marriage proposals too. Since you are anyways not in love, who knows you may meet aomeonee genuine.
Take care n don't stress so much😊
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Posted by Juliiettewilll this fast guy stick or what ??
WHAT'S NEW? ARIES = FAST. unless they have this shitty scorpio or cap moon.
Posted by Juliiettedamnnnn!!! thats wayyyy to quick !! are you still with him —?
when i was seeing this aries, on a second date he suggest to meet at some mall which had some awesome cakes, cause i really like cakes. when i came he was sitting there with his mother. she was there all the time lol, and oddly it wasn't weird lol.


Posted by p05girlThey can fall in love quick doll but fall out of love just as fast ..Posted by Juliiettewilll this fast guy stick or what ??
WHAT'S NEW? ARIES = FAST. unless they have this shitty scorpio or cap moon.click to expand
Posted by Librascorp80oh thats how they are then!! how to know if they are genuinely interested ?
Aires is superrr fast , aggressive & falls in love quick ! Brother is an Aries ... imagine that sibling rivalry 😂

Posted by JuliietteWas she holding his hand?
when i was seeing this aries, on a second date he suggest to meet at some mall which had some awesome cakes, cause i really like cakes. when i came he was sitting there with his mother. she was there all the time lol, and oddly it wasn't weird lol.
Posted by Fantumwhat the .... realllly — he is 26 , he is airforcePosted by p05girlWhat's his age?Posted by Juliiettewilll this fast guy stick or what ??
WHAT'S NEW? ARIES = FAST. unless they have this shitty scorpio or cap moon.
I had one meet me, sweep me off my feet, propose to me, and break up with me all in a month's time. Early 20s.click to expand
Posted by Librascorp80OMG -_- so what should i do ?Posted by p05girlThey can fall in love quick doll but fall out of love just as fast ..Posted by Juliiettewilll this fast guy stick or what ??
WHAT'S NEW? ARIES = FAST. unless they have this shitty scorpio or cap moon.
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Posted by Juliiettei guess i am gonna die alone lolPosted by p05girlPosted by Juliiettewilll this fast guy stick or what ??
WHAT'S NEW? ARIES = FAST. unless they have this shitty scorpio or cap moon.
well that's the thing. it doesn't have to mean anything. as it was told they tend to get overexcited. not their fault. it's just the way they are.
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Posted by p05girlIf he after you and being aggressive about it he is sincere .Posted by Librascorp80oh thats how they are then!! how to know if they are genuinely interested ?
Aires is superrr fast , aggressive & falls in love quick ! Brother is an Aries ... imagine that sibling rivalry 😂click to expand
Posted by Librascorp80how to check his aggressiveness ? any tips ideas?Posted by p05girlIf he after you and being aggressive about it he is sincere .Posted by Librascorp80oh thats how they are then!! how to know if they are genuinely interested ?
Aires is superrr fast , aggressive & falls in love quick ! Brother is an Aries ... imagine that sibling rivalry 😂
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Posted by p05girlTrust your gut follow your heart.Posted by Librascorp80OMG -_- so what should i do ?Posted by p05girlThey can fall in love quick doll but fall out of love just as fast ..Posted by Juliiettewilll this fast guy stick or what ??
WHAT'S NEW? ARIES = FAST. unless they have this shitty scorpio or cap moon.
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Posted by JuliietteOmgPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by JuliietteWas she holding his hand?
when i was seeing this aries, on a second date he suggest to meet at some mall which had some awesome cakes, cause i really like cakes. when i came he was sitting there with his mother. she was there all the time lol, and oddly it wasn't weird lol.
Lol
lmao. no, she was like this modern mom, easy to talk to, and he totally admitted that he invited her to check me out lmao. she sent a text after with the thumbs up!
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Posted by p05girlConstantly texting calling wanting to be with youPosted by Librascorp80how to check his aggressiveness ? any tips ideas?Posted by p05girlIf he after you and being aggressive about it he is sincere .Posted by Librascorp80oh thats how they are then!! how to know if they are genuinely interested ?
Aires is superrr fast , aggressive & falls in love quick ! Brother is an Aries ... imagine that sibling rivalry 😂
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Posted by Juliietteyess may be ! thank you so much for your time !!!Posted by p05girlPosted by Juliiettei guess i am gonna die alone lolPosted by p05girlPosted by Juliiettewilll this fast guy stick or what ??
WHAT'S NEW? ARIES = FAST. unless they have this shitty scorpio or cap moon.
well that's the thing. it doesn't have to mean anything. as it was told they tend to get overexcited. not their fault. it's just the way they are.
no. just don't read too much into it. maybe he is good for you.
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Posted by Fantumdamn he is jerk!! sorry to hear this. yes i hope that toooPosted by p05girlThis guy was only 21 when he did that. Hopefully the five years help. He did really fall in love with me. I found that out from his own mouth years later. He was just a fuck-up back then.Posted by Fantumwhat the .... realllly — he is 26 , he is airforcePosted by p05girlWhat's his age?Posted by Juliiettewilll this fast guy stick or what ??
WHAT'S NEW? ARIES = FAST. unless they have this shitty scorpio or cap moon.
I had one meet me, sweep me off my feet, propose to me, and break up with me all in a month's time. Early 20s.click to expand
Posted by Librascorp80actually he is in airforce so his schedule is pretty tough , from last 2-3 days we are not able to talk like properly , maybe he had enough of me and dont wanna talk more, but does message me one or twice about how am i and just general questionsPosted by p05girlConstantly texting calling wanting to be with youPosted by Librascorp80how to check his aggressiveness ? any tips ideas?Posted by p05girlIf he after you and being aggressive about it he is sincere .Posted by Librascorp80oh thats how they are then!! how to know if they are genuinely interested ?
Aires is superrr fast , aggressive & falls in love quick ! Brother is an Aries ... imagine that sibling rivalry 😂
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i am so confused i never met a guy like him who is so ready to commit plus he also asked me some weird life related question like how much time and routine is important for me he also told me about his life. i dont know what to doooo !! pls help! i want to him if he is playing any game or he is genuinely serious.