So I'm a libra woman. Everything that I read leads me and him to be allot of hard work. I don't want anything serious with him though. Just sex..
So he's one of my coaches and I was instantly attracted to him like a magnet. The first night we hung out with our team we. got along really well. At first he made it clear that he was extremely attracted to me. At this current time I don't want a relationship because I'm in the process of a divorce and have a one year old son. I've been confused with him from the start. We've hung out and he says he enjoys my company and we get along really well but he said he wouldn't sleep with me cause I'm technically still married? I've been over to his house to hang out and he hasn't made a move. He makes flirtatious comments here and there but that's all.
I feel so confused because he talks to me about all these girls he sleeps with or has slept with and even told me about one he took home because she was "having problems at home just like me". But he won't sleep with me? It's all so confusing and just the other night he said he wouldn't drink with me anymore because I was too mean?
I honestly cannot believe that he thought that. I can be an ass sometimes because I have a strong personality but if I asked anyone they would say how much of a good person or how nice I am. Anyway, when I'm with him I don't see how I'm being mean. I think he wants a woman that's delicate. I'm not. I said I would time it down a bit. Any help? But one night when we were drinking we kissed but I had to really ask him. He also said to talk to him when I officially get divorced but he knows I don't want a relationship, but yet he's sleeping with women that are in relationships themselves?
He can't possibly want more from me. The only way I can get him to text me sometimes is if I text him first.
Haha! My Aries totally had me confused also in the beginning. They do alot of testing the waters etc I think. They want to know they are really wanted before going for it, I hear how aggressive they are at chasing but this to me was only true now that he has me. He proves himself to me everyday, and me him. We've both had butterty experiences prior to finding one another. In the beginning there was alot of to and fro-ing (imo he didnt want to get hurt) Now, he doesn't want to lose me, or risk it even.
Oh and sorry to answer your question yes I believe he is interested. Aries is the first that taught me to take everything they say at face value. They are people pleasers but not in the way that Libra's are known to be (more afraid of hurting peoples feeling so others may feel lead on) Aries want to please the ones they love and in the workplace-they are big fans of instant gratitude. They like to be useful also.
OMG, he played the etiquette sex card on you. Don't fall for it. Touch his balls through his jeans and he is all yours. Eff his brains out, and he'll leave his current woman.
The point of my post, is to see that this guy is a douche and only worth the time you give him. You are a leeb, and every guy is interested in you whether real or imagined. Bypass that b*tter and fart in a guy's face to see if he still accepts you. If he does, you seriously might want to consider asking him to the movies, paying for it, offering more butter for his popcorn, and letting him do you as soon as his junk gets happy
Don't lose out on the guy that actually lets you fart in his face, and he freakin embraces it.
Even when Libras are trying to sleep around, they’re still classy about it, not your typical floozy. It doesn’t surprise me he’s treating you differently. But I think this could be something to do with how emotionally dependant you are with him, does he support you emotionally, through divorce etc? Aries men can still friend-zone women, even women they are attracted too, and he could be thinking about what it’s like after you have sex.. how does that change things? what if you get attached or something? It sounds like he could be interested if he’s trying to postpone things a little. And he’s getting sex at the moment anyway from someone else, how many women do you expect him to sleep with at the same time? If you keep getting drunk with him, then I think you'll end up having sex at some point.
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Gonna say that you should take him at face value when he says he doesn't want to do it with a 'married' woman. That might just be part of his set of standards, since married is different than being a relationship. We Aries are known for being straightforward and blunt and his reason seems valid for turning someone down.