Aries man & Sagittarius woman

so i am in a relationship with an aries man. i love him so much, never felt like this about any guy ever before. things have been pretty awesome with us so far despite the heated arguments from time to time. as a female there is something that just doesnt sit right with me, n it has been a source of most of our arguments, he always seems to be adding randoms on facebook and always on messenger and it sort of makes me paranoid and jealous n makes me feel inadequate and so sad. but he always spends alot of time with me n treats me really well. I just dont know if i am being crazy and paranoid for no reason. 😢

So I should be worried? He's talked about marriage etc and have a great relationship with his parents as well. I do my best to make him happy and I still can't feel completely comfortable it's frustrating

That's the thing, his Facebook activities are the only questionable actions. Other than that he's the guy I can be with for the rest of my life. Idk if it's the attention he likes or what. Thing is he spends so much of his time with me and shows interest and affection and what not but it's just that damn Facebook crap has me going nuts

So jus leave him be with the flirting and whatever n jus continue being the good gf? It jus has me down in the dumps. Ugh I hate feeling like this

I have....several times always lead to arguments n that I shouldn't feel insecure and whatnot

I am an aries guy with a sag girl... we have been together for 7 years and now married almost 2 years. Beleive me this is a good match but it comes with its ups and downs. I personally find that aries guys just have a naturally wandering eye... but its not always a bad thing.. honestly i look but I dont act on it. If you used to dress up for him and look your best.. dont stop doing that once you're comfortable... aries guys love the red lipstick on a woman beleive me!!!!!!

Also be willing to go out and do something!!! Sag girls imo can get pretty comfortable in my opinion...

Other than that just be your self... aries guys love to be themselves and saggitarius is great at letting people be themselves!!!

Let me tell u one thing looking at other women doesnt fall down to the zodiac... ALL MEN LOOK EVEN CUTE OLD GRANDPA!!! It just falls down to how well they do it not getting caught!!! Just be happy most aries are an open book!!!

Hope this helps!!!

Posted by SagiWoman123456
That's the thing, his Facebook activities are the only questionable actions. Other than that he's the guy I can be with for the rest of my life. Idk if it's the attention he likes or what. Thing is he spends so much of his time with me and shows interest and affection and what not but it's just that damn Facebook crap has me going nuts

I hear you. The other day I was going through Instagram and I realised I can see my followers activity. Who they like, what they comment on, etc

I was shocked to see a lot if my male friends liking and commenting on these random girls, porn lookalike, pictures. Mind you, a lot of them are married or in relationships.

I guess we all look and stuff. Even on diet you can look at the menu, right? 😉 But the liking and commenting I found very inviting for the other person.

I was thinking if it was my man I wouldnt like that a single bit.

It’s a difficult one for sure, FB and Instagram are like part of a day to day routine now, most people nowadays check it first thing when they wake up and any spare five minutes we’re waiting in traffic or something, we check it then, it’s so easy. It’s almost an addiction, and not easily given up. I think he’ll be defensive because it’s such a big part of who everyone is now, it’s like asking him to give up an addiction?

I think you’ve done the right thing, express your feelings and tell him it makes you uneasy, and you done this now. But I don’t think you can raise it too much, because too much and you may be seen as having insecurities, anti-trust issues, and you risk acting like you don’t respect his privacy. (when I was much younger I broke up with someone who read my emails, I don’t know why it upset me so much when I found out, but it felt like too much invasion of privacy).

FB doesn’t mean much, the word “like” is not the same as in real life, clicking “like” doesn’t even mean like anymore. Most people “like” out of courtesy.

You could go through all his posts, and see if it’s anyone specific he’s always “like”ing. You could check what the women look like where he works, his past GFs.. but don’t, it will just send you "mental", and I think you have to tell yourself it means nothing. Focus on everything else, if his action are great with you in person, then that’s what really matter. And go with your feelings, Sagi are extremely good at understanding Aries, they will know Aries better than they know themselves, so go with your feelings.

I must admit, I don’t use FB, I only post “happy birthday” messages to friends and nothing else. My Instagram is full of women, I think it naturally happens. But it’s more because the women I follow do diets and gym routines I copy, and I like the motivation it gives me to go to the gym, gym variety, the motivational quotes. I follow them for that. My defence would be that I would never meet these women, I think Insta is different to FB, but it depends how people use it. I’m healthier now, because of Insta women, they are my support network. I would give it up gradually if I thought it was damaging GF relationship, it’s almost like a compromise thing. I don’t know if this is an answer but, maybe suggest he does FB less if you do something he doesn’t like less? We are not talking complete shutdown, just suggest he does it a little bit less, and it will make you feel a lot better? (Almost sounds economical that way).