Aries Woman + Sag Male = Fab.....Until....

Fiery aries female shoots from the hip.....again!

Ok, so 3 dates with sag male, brilliant! Sag male goes quiet, impatient Aries female (me) manages to wait 2 days until she sends lighthearted text, "hiya, was noshing on Turkish delight last night made me think of you that was a great night. Hope you're week is going well."

Well, sag male sends epically long text saying (shortened version) every date was great but I'm not ready for a relationship. Busy at work. Need some downtime. Maybe we stay friends and things might change in a few weeks.

Aries female thinks to herself who the heck mentioned relationships and that was a bit profound for 9am and on top of not having enough caffeine was a tad miffed and replied with "fair enough, thanks for the honesty, I don't hang around for maybes, all the best".

One hour and 3 coffees later. Aries girl sits there thinking you flippin muppet, why don't you ever learn & keep your trap shut and sends a text...."at no point did I try to pin you down to a relationship, it's to soon to know that. I have spoken before I thought about it. Let's stay in touch, if we want to do something & we're both free good, if not we won't and we'll keep our options open. What do you think?"

Ugh......so has my impulsive fiery temper just ruined it? You think he might come back?

Off to give myself a slap...!!! 🙂

Well, im not a sag male...but i think the men and women are similar.

My thought is, dont expect a response for a long ass time. Maybe never. If he sees the value in you as a friend, he may be back after some time. But if he doesnt, then i wouldnt give it any more thought.

I personally wouldnt want to cross paths with you, im scared. Too much drama early on. I feel like he was very upfront which is what most women would love from a man. Just to be upfront and direct from the beginning.

In a way, yes, he rejected you before you feel you threw your hat in the race officially. And you fired back in hope to regain your dignity.

Hes probably been down that road a few times and learned to recognize the signals of someone wanting more than he does.

NOW

on the flip side, this could be a vetting process to see how you would react.

thats as plain as day as most ppl hope for no need to question it.

Thanks for your comments., I'm not scary, I'm passionate ha ha. I just can't seem to control my impulsiveness. I'm not sure about regaining dignity, I thanked him for his honesty and after all It was just three dates. I' was keeping my options open If it was a test well I dont play those games,. Ah well.....not distraught but ihe was really good fun.....onwards & upwards 🙂

Posted by Curiousram
Yeah he was pretty blunt with you. Imo don't take it personally i have respect for saggies and being blunt. I personally sometimes can't handle it as my cancer moon is sensitive as fuck.

i love you cancer moons. come to me. I shall take great care of your emojis

I think sags and aries are best as aquaintaces. Which means we can link up every once in a while. They are too laid back for me. They can be great to talk to somtimes though. Just recently broke it off with one, he kinda bored me.

Posted by aquavita8
So u arieses are vwry controlling and also sobby

Sobby? Not sure what you mean, if you mean aries sit around sobbing over things like this. Nah, we move on fast when it's done it's done and highly unlikely to remain friends.....next!

Posted by DMV
Well, im not a sag male...but i think the men and women are similar.

My thought is, dont expect a response for a long ass time. Maybe never. If he sees the value in you as a friend, he may be back after some time. But if he doesnt, then i wouldnt give it any more thought.

I personally wouldnt want to cross paths with you, im scared. Too much drama early on. I feel like he was very upfront which is what most women would love from a man. Just to be upfront and direct from the beginning.

In a way, yes, he rejected you before you feel you threw your hat in the race officially. And you fired back in hope to regain your dignity.

Hes probably been down that road a few times and learned to recognize the signals of someone wanting more than he does.

NOW

on the flip side, this could be a vetting process to see how you would react.

Well surprisingly he responded & asked to meet up soon. I am interested but not desperate, so we'll see how this unfolds.

Posted by Poppysmic

Posted by DMV
Well, im not a sag male...but i think the men and women are similar.

My thought is, dont expect a response for a long ass time. Maybe never. If he sees the value in you as a friend, he may be back after some time. But if he doesnt, then i wouldnt give it any more thought.

I personally wouldnt want to cross paths with you, im scared. Too much drama early on. I feel like he was very upfront which is what most women would love from a man. Just to be upfront and direct from the beginning.

In a way, yes, he rejected you before you feel you threw your hat in the race officially. And you fired back in hope to regain your dignity.

Hes probably been down that road a few times and learned to recognize the signals of someone wanting more than he does.

NOW

on the flip side, this could be a vetting process to see how you would react.

Well surprisingly he responded & asked to meet up soon. I am interested but not desperate, so we'll see how this unfolds.

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hmmmm very interesting. make this one chase ya