I want my Aires man back in my life

I'm a Sagittarius girl, nov. 25. He is a Aries man, April 26. We Meet a year ago right before his birthday. At first we were attracted to each other and then we would have a few times we couldn't see each other. Witch made him pretty upset because he said I would choose my friends over him. Over the year we have had our differences and he would stop talking to for 1 or 2 or even 3 months at a time. Well this time I suggested if we could be like friends with benefits. Like Homies, lovers, friends benefits. No jealous fits and respect each other space. and if we go thur time periods of not in touch, we pick up from were we left off and no asking what happen during the time we hadn't seen each other. He was like I don't want a relationship. He don't want to be tied down. well the discussion ended with him saying I wish you well with your life and so I took as he does not want to talk to me any more. In the past I also have said the same but didn't mean it. I don't want to lose him I really like him alot. I accept him as he is. I really don't know much of him because he chooses not to tell me nothing of his life. But yet he knows everything of my life. I feel so lost !!! When everything is normal, we can talk about everything for hours on the phone and hang out and party and have a good time. oh, but alone he really does'nt like my friends and kinda always says no to my invitations to go out to places.

How do you like him if you know nothing about him? It sounds like he has zero interest, and OH HE DOESN'T WANT A RELATIONSHIP.

And wtf were you thinking addressing the situation as a fwb thing? If you really like him, that just makes you look like a doormat. "I'm willing to settle to be your sex fun toy."

You screwed up in typical Sag fashion. Move on. You can find someone who actually wants you.

Posted by TicaLinda
I'm a Sagittarius girl, nov. 25. He is a Aries man, April 26. We Meet a year ago right before his birthday. At first we were attracted to each other and then we would have a few times we couldn't see each other. Witch made him pretty upset because he said I would choose my friends over him. Over the year we have had our differences and he would stop talking to for 1 or 2 or even 3 months at a time. Well this time I suggested if we could be like friends with benefits. Like Homies, lovers, friends benefits. No jealous fits and respect each other space. and if we go thur time periods of not in touch, we pick up from were we left off and no asking what happen during the time we hadn't seen each other. He was like I don't want a relationship. He don't want to be tied down. well the discussion ended with him saying I wish you well with your life and so I took as he does not want to talk to me any more. In the past I also have said the same but didn't mean it. I don't want to lose him I really like him alot. I accept him as he is. I really don't know much of him because he chooses not to tell me nothing of his life. But yet he knows everything of my life. I feel so lost !!! When everything is normal, we can talk about everything for hours on the phone and hang out and party and have a good time. oh, but alone he really does'nt like my friends and kinda always says no to my invitations to go out to places.

He isn't Aries - he's Taurus!

OMG! I didn't noticed that he was a taurus. I thought I had looked it up right but not.... Boy did I mess up. You guys are right. I just need to leave him alone. And here all this time I thought he was a Aires.

Guess what everybody He is a aries because I meant to say his birthday is march 26th. I Remembered when we meet and soon after it was his birthday and we meet at the beginning of March not april, Because we went to the 420 festival right after that to hang out and His birthday had already past. But yeah the advice of leaving him alone is best. thanks for the advice. 😢

You went to the 420 festival after his birthday? Or before? 4/20 comes before 4/26..

We went after his birthday on march 26th, then went to the festival on april 20th.

Posted by TicaLinda
Guess what everybody He is a aries because I meant to say his birthday is march 26th. I Remembered when we meet and soon after it was his birthday and we meet at the beginning of March not april, Because we went to the 420 festival right after that to hang out and His birthday had already past. But yeah the advice of leaving him alone is best. thanks for the advice. 😢

I'm a March 26th Arian, too!