Aries Man/ Virgo woman

I need serious advice. I am a 29 year old Virgo woman who is dating a 22 year old male Aries. We have been together for a year and 5 months. I really love him and he tells me he loves me all the time. I am currently 4 months pregnant with his first child. I want this relationship to work badly but it's so hard. We argue a lot even have had domestic fights and everything but we always work past it. Recently, last Thursday 2/4/16 I threw him out of my home. We were living together basically the whole relationship and I have threw him out times before for constantly hurting me by his selfishness, but this time I was hurt to the core. Like I said I am 4 months pregnant and on this night I was really sick and needed to go to the hospital. He was already out with his friends at the bar playing pool. He called me around 5:30pm to check on me and that is when I was crying to him on the phone that I was so sick with a migraine and needed to go to the hospital. I told him I was gonna call my sister and ask her to take me and he told me no, that he would be home within a hour. He didn't get home for another 3 hours leaving me in pain. That hurt me so very bad I just snapped. I packed his stuff and threw him out. I think it hurt me so bad because it isn't nothing I wouldn't do for him. Just that Monday he burnt his hand in the oven and had blisters on his fingers and I left my kids in the house to take him to the hospital and that Thursday I got up early to take him to the doctors to get a note to go back to work. So I felt so badly hurt. I felt he chose his friends over me and I just lost it. He still has stuff left at my house and is not asking for it, all he asked me for was his w-2 and I gave it to him. I texted him yesterday saying I was just checking on him and I hope he has a good day and he texted back saying you too. It's crazy that I want him back but I'm about to have his child and I do need him, but that selfishness just hurt. Is there any luck that he will come back?
Please respond. I need all the advice I can get.

@OP- My ex bff was an april 9 Aries male...at this age you speak of we were both the same age. He is the one I got on birth control, changes my own place where we lived, and cheated multiple times.. I vowed never to get married or have kids. He did damage to me as you in your situation...I left when I had enough and chance to stay somewhere else entirely...I suggest at this age he is not mature enough..and will be disrespectful..

Thanks for the advice. It's like everything is about friends and video games. I guess your right. He is acting 22. Do you think he knows he hurt me and does he even care? How long do you think it will take before he comes back?

My ex bff did get some one pregnant in high school when I still took him, I didn't believe her till I seen proof.. and has a kid now that he never seen yet and is now13 years old. I know he is married and one kid with another.. so two different baby momma. I would make third baby momma. Lol life lessons right here..

Wow. Ok. Thanks

This is the one guy I actually put hands on..he would return the favor..we would fight. He is the one I am not going to have anyone else punk me. Currently.

First Decan Turian, my boyfriend birthday is the exact same day. 4/9/93. These April Aries are impossible to read. Idk what is gonna happen between us.

Skyeop, yes physical fights. Serious. Never went to the hospital or anything but holes in my wall, broken window in my house and a black eye.

We are the same age and he knows he fucked up. He apologized. But has his own thing now. I'm cool over living life in my own place again.not caring.. but you are prego @OP- hmmmm raise this baby yourself.

@OP- hugs for you.. I'm like on fire because he had put hands on you..while you prego.. I'm a laid back type so I had to fight back too. You may have to too..

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
My ex bff did get some one pregnant in high school when I still took him, I didn't believe her till I seen proof.. and has a kid now that he never seen yet and is now13 years old. I know he is married and one kid with another.. so two different baby momma. I would make third baby momma. Lol life lessons right here..

Hell 2 the no.

My boyfriend is April 9 also. Basically I should just get child support and just move on?

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
We are the same age and he knows he fucked up. He apologized. But has his own thing now. I'm cool over living life in my own place again.not caring.. but you are prego @OP- hmmmm raise this baby yourself.

Correct advice. Hes still really young. And your 29 and already have kids. So your wayyyyyyy more mature than he id.

Hope for the best but prepare for the worst.

There so much more@OP & DMV. But that's all she needs to know..

Thanks DMV

@OP- he still not taking care of his first kid. So no child support. Dead beat at that age. I accepted a deadbeat too. I however am no llonger accepting it.

Neither should YOU

I am definitely gonna try and move on. It is hard but yes I already have 3 young daughters and I don't want them seeing me weak. It crazy cause I wake up every morning thinking about him wondering if he thinking about me. I shouldn't want this relationship but it's crazy, it's like poison. You want something that's bad for you, and what about the baby? I guess he could careless. It's crazy cause I get along with all him family and his mom used to always call me but hasn't called me since this incident. Idk if I should reach out and call her to let her know my side and how I feel, or should I just let it go? I was thinking, it's her son and she gonna ride for her son anyway. And she is a Aquarius.

You are so right. I do not want them seeing this. I want them to be treated like a queen. This is no way to treat a woman.

Did he move into your house from his moms house?

Yes he did and he is back at his moms now

That's kinda why I wanna call because idk what he is saying about me. His mom usually calls to check on me since I'm having this baby so idk if I should wait and let her call and then tell her or should I call her

What? Jeez what?

You've made a few mistakes.so has he but youve played a part.

Hes not independent, never take a man straight from his mama house. He has never once had to rely on himself to keep a roof over his head. Be ontime with bills regularly. But you expect him to be on time with picking you up to take to the hospital. Then youre shocked hes still out partying.

He hasnt learned responsibility. How to be responsible for himself.

But you want him to be responsible for a newborn?

Dude you have got to get it together. Raise your kids and get smarter about men. They have to be vetted.

Yes, my 3 daughters are all by 1 man. We got married and had 3 daughters together. We broke up after my last one. The one I am pregnant with now is the one I'm having problems with. I was ify in the beginning to keep it but decided to keep it and after I kept getting this morning sickness real bad and constant headaches all the time the arguing started because of his carelessness and selfishness.