Aries sun/Libra moon man?

What is this combo like? Specifically when it comes to dating?

Also anybody have experience with an Aries sun that has their venus in pisces?

Thanks!

Bwahaha!! I'm an Aries sun Libra mooner with a Venus in Pisces!

And oddly enough I have dated a guy Aries sun with Libra moon. To be honest he was kind of dull... lol but thats not how I am! LOL At least I hope not 🙂
I felt we had soooo much in common. I swear he opened up his music collection and it had every single artist I liked in it.
I think we could have been good friends, but it didn't work out. There was not much that interested me about him.

I can tell you about myself and I think it would be very similar.. I know I've been told I have some masculine qualities.

I feel like I am a jack of all trades kind of person. I will pretty much date anyone, I do have a preference, but I love getting to know people so I will date them if they intrigue me. And you don't have to be necessarily interesting you just have to have a je ne sais quoi about you. I get bored easily. I move on quickly. But when I get hooked I can fall heads over heel (I am a romantic and a dreamer).

This video describes me pretty well especially at 2:15 😄

Lol I think Fergie is an Aries sun Libra mooner too 😄

I got Venus in Pisces. What ya' wanna' know?

@dofacc Well I have Venus in Pisces too lol, but I've never met an Aries with this venus before, would this placement soften the aggressiveness? Does it make them more apt to wanting to be chased as opposed to them doing the chasing?

@ Xtina as a Libra moon would you say if you weren't interested in someone you'd keep talking to them to be nice, or would you just ignore them? Honestly he's confusing to me and I'm ready to just write this one off. But every time I initiate conversation, he writes back promptly. Except recently..maybe he's bored Idk. He also has Mercury in pisces which can make a person kind of drift off sometimes. Like I said..I think I may just write it off. When it comes to Aries I'm used to aggressive chasing and I'm not getting any of that..so perhaps he was interested and got bored..oh well I guess.

I like being chased and like doing the chase (in my own subtle way lol). It's really hard to say with out more information.

Do you know his rising? I know I have a Virgo rising and I tend to attract and be attracted to a lot of earth signs.

I can't honestly say that I feel like my aggressiveness has been "softened" by anything but age. On the other hand, if I decide to pursue, off I go, and quite vigorously. I will be very clear about my intentions. I do work hard to not be offensive about it though.

I don't mind whomever doing a bit of "chasing." I do appreciate very clear messages. I tend to read way to much into "mixed" messages Flat aggression irritates me.

I checked some sites about a venus in Pisces. I have to admit that slipping inside of people's defenses is something I do very well. It can unnerve a lot of people, actually.

@ Xtina he told me his birth time was 5 am so it would put him as an Aquarius ascendant..but when I look @ him I get a very watery vibe, so when I tweak the birth time to a little after 5 I get a Pisces ascendant. My gut is telling me that's what he really is. Even before he told me his birth time I was really close. Our synastry is off the hook, he has like 3 of his personal planets falling into my eighth. The first night we met we were talking about our families, death & stuff. You could feel the connection. But perhaps it was just too heavy for him.



That's our synastry, he's on the outside. We have a lot of oppositions, but great conversation..in person though. We are also very sexually attracted to each other. But I'm to scared to ask to hang out again plus I want him to ask me but it ain't happening so I'm assuming he's not interested.

@ dofacc well in all my experiences with this venus in men they come on strong then fade. There was one that I was in a relationship with for a yr & we never had sex lol. He was an aqua sun. Granted we were in a living situation where we couldn't, but he was aggressive about it first then stopped & then it switched to me wanting to do it but we didn't. We're still friends until this day & he says he regrets us not sleeping together. He's actually confessed to still having feelings for me..but I'm not really feeling it. Venus in pisces loves chasing after what they can't have. But once things become a reality they can't handle it & want to flee the scene lol I should know 😉

No give it time and be patient. Take it by ear. You seem to have a very level head. Let him do all the initiating. How long has it been since his last contact. IME Aries men and Taurus women work well but thats just my experience.

Hmm, I haven't heard from him since last Friday. Meh..I mean if he's not interested anymore it is what it is. It's never a good a idea to chase after a man who may not want you. I do have my dignity lol I've dated an Aries before which is why I'm thinking this one is not interested. Because when Aries wants you it is known and he is very aggressive about it. That relationship ended in violence though and I had to send him to jail for nearly choking me out..uh so yea. I've seen this Aries/Libra mooner guy before months ago, but kept away because of my last experience with one and I just figured it wouldn't work with them. But this time he approached me so I decided to see where it goes..and so far nowhere. Like I said perhaps he's bored. Or just busy. I noticed when it comes to messaging we are sorely lacking in that dept. But in person we talk non-stop...

@Xtina could you elaborate more on what about the Aries/libra moon guy that made him dull to you? Like I said thru messaging he just kinds of gives short answers and doesn't really ask questions. It gets pretty boring. He's a much better conversationalist in person which I love. I just need to see him again haha!

"Venus in pisces loves chasing after what they can't have. But once things become a reality they can't handle it & want to flee the scene lol I should know "


Hmmm, I am failing to see where moving on once a situation is revealed as being unworkable is a bad thing. If it is indeed true that I can't have it, why would I continue to chase?

Posted by dofacc
"Venus in pisces loves chasing after what they can't have. But once things become a reality they can't handle it & want to flee the scene lol I should know "


Hmmm, I am failing to see where moving on once a situation is revealed as being unworkable is a bad thing. If it is indeed true that I can't have it, why would I continue to chase?

Well maybe you're one that doesn't like to chase the unattainable. The idea behind my statement is that some VIP's prefer to focus on the ideal of a relationship as opposed dealing with it in reality..because relationships take hard work. You know I think the problem here is that I'm speaking as someone who has an afflicted venus. I have venus square neptune AND venus opposing mars. Venus square neptune is the biggest offender of chasing after the unattainable and not seeing things for what they are. Self deception, then when reality hits they leave because they can't handle the fact that the fantasy has been broken or things have "changed". In reality nothing has changed it's just the person was finally forced to open their eyes and see the truth. You know the whole taking off the rose colored glasses. Like with this situation, I am trying my hardest to be real about it and not hold on to the false hope that he's still interested but just busy..which could be the case. But it's very important that I look at actions and not their words to get a clear idea of what their intention is. And as of right now, his behavior is showing me that he's not as interested as I thought or even *he* thought he was. Which is fine, life goes on.

And upon a bit of reflection on my part, I have to admit that it can take me a loonnngggg time to give up on a relationship. I always put it up to my Virgo moon, though. "I can fix this, I can make it right!!!" Could be a bit, bunch, of double whammy going on here.

Heh, I have a virgo moon as well and it didn't even occur to me to attribute it to wanting to "fix it" lol my moon is afflicted as well conjuncting mars lol I'm a mess. 😄 Me and him have a LOT of double whammys one of which is Venus square neptune, but my Neptune is squaring his Venus tighter than his Neptune is squaring mine. Who knows maybe he thinks I'M not interested. I honestly hate neptune hahaha! So much confusion, I need cold hard evidence but Neptune likes for us to trust with blind faith and I just can't do it!!!

Posted by MintSprinkles
Heh, I have a virgo moon as well and it didn't even occur to me to attribute it to wanting to "fix it" lol my moon is afflicted as well conjuncting mars lol I'm a mess. 😄 Me and him have a LOT of double whammys one of which is Venus square neptune, but my Neptune is squaring his Venus tighter than his Neptune is squaring mine. Who knows maybe he thinks I'M not interested. I honestly hate neptune hahaha! So much confusion, I need cold hard evidence but Neptune likes for us to trust with blind faith and I just can't do it!!!

I'm an Aries with Libra moon and lots of Pisces (and Libra to be honest)


Sun - Aries
Moon - Libra
Mercury - Pisces
Venus - Pisces
Mars - Aries
Jupiter - Libra
Saturn - Libra
Uranus - Scorpio
Neptune - Sagittarius
Pluto - Libra
Lilith - Scorpio
Asc node - Leo

Ascendant - Virgo
II Virgo
III Libra
IV Scorpio
V Capricorn
VI Aquarius
VII Pisces
VIII Pisces
IX Aries
Midheaven Taurus
XI Cancer
XII Leo


The short and sweet version of love and relationships for me at least is that I fall quite easily, but if the man I'm interested in does not show a lot of interest or pursue I get fed up and move on to someone else.

I absolutely HATE chasing and initiating all the time. Mind games and silly cat and mouse thing aggravates me to no end. If a guy really wants to put me off playing mind games and —playing it cool?? is a great way to make me lose interest.

I can be very romantic, and sometimes be a bit confusing and speak in riddles if I feel shy about expressing feelings or if I don't have enough trust. And trust just doesn't happen like that for me. I trust ACTIONS not words. Talk is cheap it's that consistency and reliability that I look at. Also if you let me down I don't really give second chances. It has to be a very very good reason you let me down.



But then I'm female so I don't know if this relates the same for a male 🙂

Could work, or maybe not. Depends if you're willing to meet each other halfway

@ Lcrc

Wow!!! You have the EXACT same placements he has all the way down to Pluto!! I don't like to chase either I want to be pursued but I always find myself being the initiator but the men are very receptive to it. Perhaps I just attract guys who are shy. Oh and speaking of riddles I was rereading the last message he sent me last week and I think I may have missed something he was trying to tell me. I am seriously feeling the urge to text him, but I'm so scared 😢.

I hope it's no too late though. I mean I'm sure he realizes I'm interested, we hung out and had a good time and I felt like I had been bugging him so I decided to give him space..but maybe that wasn't the right thing to do? He does seem quite shy thru messages but in person he seemed very comfortable opening up to me. He's really sweet so even if he wasn't interested anymore I know he wouldn't be mean about it. I think I'm just going to suck it up and message him and see what happens.

@mintsprinkles

I hope you get a positive response. I would say as a buffer just date other guys and be distracted. Focusing on the issue will make it worse. Be light and friendly and that won't intimidate him (or you) so much. Also when you talk to him just talk about what your ideal love is. Get him to talk about it. That way you can see if he's actually worth the uncertainty. He might just not be interested or you might see that you aren't! lol! I'm sure after he opens up more and more it will get easier. Just be clear on what you want, that's the most important thing 🙂

Hey so update lol

I heard from him and we talked, he seems to be only looking for a fwb and doesn't want anything serious right now, so I told him he could go somewhere with that! Me rejecting his fwb idea is a big deal for me because normally I would have gone along with it, because in my old twisted way of thinking it was "something" (this is me being totally honest here). So me saying no thanks and leaving the situation was growth for me and what made it extra was he was gorgeous too. But I said NOPE I'm worth more than being a plaything or just something for your back burner while you chase "the one". I was a little sad about it, but I'm over it already and feel I dodged a major bullet.

Anyway I appreciate those who took the time to answer my question though, thank you!

Good for you! You deserve more than to be someones fuuuck buddy.

@MintSprinkles Glad you decided to talk about it. Being in Limbo is lame and you seem nice and genuine

I'm going through the same with a man I meet and —liked??. I say that in the past tense because I listened to my heart and it told me casual is not what I want, I deserve better and to run now before it's too late and I get hurt.

Yes it does make you feel disappointed but it's better to be disappointed about a crap relationship that didn't happen than heartbroken over a crap relationship that did.

Well done! xx

Thanks guys!

@ lcrc--YES!!! You are so right! I am glad things came to a halt early on as opposed to a month from now where I would have wasted time & energy on a situation that would have went nowhere.

You know this is the 3rd venus in pisces guy I've met that said they didn't want anything serious...it makes me think. Perhaps the men sacrifice just as much as the women with this placement and in order to protect themselves they only want something casual. I will give them credit for being up front though. They could have easily pretended to be into something serious we have sex & then they drop the "don't want a relationship" bomb. I hope more men are deciding to be honest about what they want & more women are rejecting this nonsense! I mean there is nothing wrong with fwb if you as a woman can handle it, but for me I know it just wouldn't work.

I also think maybe it's time I just focus on myself & forget about romance for awhile anyway.