Aries Translation!

My Aries buddies, I need some insight here.

There is this ram girl I've been seeing for a little while. I like her, but defenitely have been taking things slow, since neither one of us was ready for a serious relationship right away.

We had been going on innocent and nice dates for months now and only the last one ended up with her staying over at my place, but nothing happened beyond kissing, because we both weren't ready for that and because I respect her too much to even pressure her with anything further...we had a blast that night and I just had to let her go early that morning because I had to get ready to go to work. She dissapeared for 3 or 4 days after that...and when she tried to communicate with me again I was gone on a trip...either way, this is what she has to say as of lately and I just want to make sure I'm not a jerk by letting her go by missunderstanding what she is trying to say so any inputs would help...

She says:

"I didn't mean to dissapear for that long. Baby, after the other night I found out that I like you and care for you more than what I had ever realized...more that what I'm ready for. Call me a coward...you are too good for me"

Um, so I've deattached since then (few days now) since I'm not planning to hurt her or make her feel things she isn't ready for or perhaps wants to...but at the same time I just hope I'm respecting her wishes without making her feel like I don't care...

I just never heard someone say this to me and I don't know what to think about it.

VLL

pffft, women...

hi lady m! 🙂

what is pffft women?

solitas,

well, i'm leaving to california for a week next tuesday, so maybe i'll text her and see if she wants to meet with me before i leave so we can sort this out. maybe she wants me to persue her more, but maybe she wants me to let her go to process things out and that is her nice way of doing it...she is a party-girl at heart, so she's been changing and slowing down her crazy ways with me, so maybe she isn't ready to let go that crazy world yet...even tho i never asked her to, she got the chance to know me better...

either way, i just hope she is being honest. that's one of the first things i liked about her, her honesty. so hmmm, we'll have to see what i decide to do this weekend. i'll defenitely consider having one last conversation w her before i leave, thanks solitas.

vll