the return of the aries

well.....he's back and confessing his love.......
And saying the things he said was out of anger due to the hurt of me talking to my ex....

I think Lv24 was the one who said that aries can be vengeful.....

Anyway my ex propose to me and gave me a ring and said he wanted to get back together and spend our lives together.....

So I see why he was calling in the first place wasn't to be just friends....so mr aries had a right in a sense to be mad about my talking to hi

I'm not in good a place in my life right now to be able to accept his proposal.....but he insisted I take the ring and think about before i give a final offer....

I accept the ring.....but after feel like I shouldn't have....

Mr aries calls and come back to see our child and sees the ring and wants to talk suddenly.....

He suddenly wants to confess feeling of hurt and love between the two of us...

I love him to death and want to share my life with him.....I do still care for my ex....
but can't seem to let mr aries go.....

Know I have allowed him back in.........Not really sure if he should be here again....
afraid he will leave again.....because I'm afraid he's torn between me and the other women who has his child...

He came back saying I'm who he loves and want to be with......and he don't want to lose me....

But It felt different when he came back.....it seems we always seem to go to another level and open up more to one another........

he's being such a fun and lovin daddy........
and so sexy,cuddly,warm,erotic and loving man to mommy......LOL

the sex is awsome its like every time we fight and make up its more intense everytime....

but a part of me still feel afraid that he will leave again.....thinking he's torn between the two of us......

I heard that aries men take their responsibilities really serious......Are aries men into leading women on...... I've heard that you can't help but to tell the truth regardless...

I can't help but to wonder if he is back being truthful this time......I left him alone to give him time to think and after we talked it seem he wanted to come right

He came running when he thought he was going to lose me......
confessing he love me and don't want me to lose me...

because he thought I would move on with the ex i had been talking to......

It scares me when they seem so loving one day and seem a little less interested the next.....

I've been trying to be more attentive and ego stroking but.....

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BlueVirgo .. why are playing these games with him, anyway?

I mean, I certainly understand that you feel for him, but, you know as well as I do that they only reason you accepted the ring of proposal from the ex was for the purpose of trying to bring the Aries back ..

Doesn't anybody want a love for real, these days? Seems like people just want to play for attention and never really have it truly.

It's really sad ..

Quote P-Angel: "Doesn't anybody want a love for real, these days? Seems like people just want to play for attention and never really have it truly."

You know, it's hard to find the right one. i had a crush on someone from the train and she let me down after almost a year of being in love with her. Luckely i'm not someone who lives for OneNightStands. I'm searching for true love too ... but it's hard to find these days.

Got another bugger ! Last week i was finished at the local radiostation where i work. So me and a collegue bicycle to the gate and this SUPERLOVELY brunette girl says "Hi " to me and at the same time she stared at me with her Bambi eyes ...... I first had no idea she was hitting on me , till my collegue told me she did. I still don't get why i didn't go back ........

And what about the ex?

You have taken his ring and he is being led to believe that you are considering being a couple again .. to be married.

When it's all just to make Aries jealous and want you back .. that's a terrible thing to do to the ex .. he's gonna be hurt really bad in this scenerio.

Why are you doing this?

Reminds me of AmiVirgo19, or whatever her name is .. she's leading two women on at the same time and KNOWS that someone is going to get seriously hurt .. and doesn't care about their feelings, only her own.

This is just fucked up, BlueVirgo .. seriously.

Stop !!!!! Please !!!!!

I know, boy, it's hard .. but, not impossible.

If one approaches a relationship with honesty and integrity, then that is exactly what will come back to you. It starts with the self .. if a person respects themself, then others will too.

I hear that herpes lasts forever, too.

"Why are you doing this?"

The reason most people find themselves in confused situations is because they themselves are confused. Only when you know who you are do you know what to do.

BlueVirgo needs to figure out who she is, what she wants and right now....these men are only a distraction to her however, she is choosing for this to be.

Sometimes, FB .. I think people do know, actually .. the just get trapped and can't find their way out. I know, I do that too .. you can see clearly what it is, where you need to go, but, just can't figure out how to get there.

P-Angel,

I see what you are saying but really, when a person KNOWS what to do, they do it. It is only when they are doubting themselves do they choose not to act upon their decision.

You are playing with fire! Be very careful you might just lose them both.

This is not a good position you have put yourself in BlueVirgo. Cant you see the wrong in all this? Its not that hard to understand. It seems to me that you just dont want to be alone. Is it even love or just comfort you are looking for?

I hear all of you but I'm not holding on to him........ I stop contact after his little incident about telling me he wanted to leave .....he came back running saying he only said it hurt me because he was hurt by me allowing my ex to call and speaking with him in front of him......

I aplogized and told him how i really felt for him and that I understood his madness because the ex was really trying to get back together....and he proposed.....

he acted as if he didn't care.....so. I agree to be his friend fo our child sake and said I will move on....if he wanted nothing else to do with me and he came running confessing love and pleading not to leave him....

i never told the ex yes.....I never said no either....I just say I can't beleive this was happening...... my ex know I love my aries.....I can't help he is willing to accept the challenge of changing ithat......