Aries Vs Aries

hello people, long story short i'm in a relationship with another aries, the 28th made it 11months since we started dating, can't it's been easy and i've been reading threads about aries that are not particularly pleasing. when i'm with her life is enjoyable,crazy,and intense....we do fucked up shit. be it flying across the world without a thought to plan, working on my expensive hobbies importing sports cars or arm wrestling over a bottle of beer we have a fun relationship. however my job takes me across the world to different countries for weeks at a time and while i'm gone we fight like no tomorrow, over the phone,skype. where ever..most of the reasons being she has a few slutty friends and it annoys me when shes with them..especially when i'm across the world...makes me think of what she maybe up to.............just curious i wana know more about Aries + Aries relationships 🙂 any scrap would do.

thanks

Posted by BloodofAries
hello people, long story short i'm in a relationship with another aries, the 28th made it 11months since we started dating, can't it's been easy and i've been reading threads about aries that are not particularly pleasing. when i'm with her life is enjoyable,crazy,and intense....we do fucked up shit. be it flying across the world without a thought to plan, working on my expensive hobbies importing sports cars or arm wrestling over a bottle of beer we have a fun relationship. however my job takes me across the world to different countries for weeks at a time and while i'm gone we fight like no tomorrow, over the phone,skype. where ever..most of the reasons being she has a few slutty friends and it annoys me when shes with them..especially when i'm across the world...makes me think of what she maybe up to.............just curious i wana know more about Aries + Aries relationships 🙂 any scrap would do.

thanks

Ok now i get why you said that in your other post.

I only dated one Aries guy and it was a rollercoaster and not a good one. But you should expect your girl to be loyal, has she given you any reason to think she wouldn't be, besides the fact that she is a Aries?

oh shes given me many reasons...i'm not proud of what i am about to say buut last month i was out of the country in rio when i recieved a facebook message out of the blue...it turns out one of her friends got pissed at her and turned against her..earlier in our relationship she used to hang out with a rather stupid and irratating friend of hers who used to bring her to weird guys places for parties n shit...i grew suspicious so i voiced my complains and she said she wouldnt hang out with her anymore..a few weeks later i came home earlier than expected and she was hanging out with the same girl so we decided to go out for supper afterwards her friend asked me if it was ok if they could "blaze" thinking she was an amatuer and just trying it i said ok...next thing i know we're over at this trippy guys house and there are like 6 dudes all smoking pot and my gf hitting the bong like a pro..i suspected she had done this before..more than once in the company of these guys who kept looking at the two girls like hungry wolves every time they thought i wasnt looking..i snaped, got up grabbed my keys and stormmed outa the house..later after i calmed down we fought and she said she was not a chronic who smoked weed everyday,,it was a one time thing so i let it fly on the promise whe wouldnt hang out with those guys anymore believeing my suspicions that she smoked dope everyday were idle imagination..anyways 6 months later this is the message her friend sent to me while i was out in the field..it broke my heart and destroyed my trust..here are the contents:

Heyy (my name), so its jessica one of chars "good" friends, I figured since she decided to be not a very good friend to me and she can't keep her mouth shut ,I might as well tell you the truth about your "honest"and "trusting" girlfiend, incase your not aware your girlfriend smokes a 20 bag or more a day,she has a pipe named dobson Saturday when ur girlfriend went to "bed" she was at kyles drinkin and playin sociables, she talks and hangs out with brock my ex , so he can get her weed n shit, ur girlfriends planning on moving in ur house n blazin on ur balcony when your not home, when I first started messaging you this I watched them meet up so she can give him money for weed, seriously watch ur girl and make her shut her face and mind her own buisness and then I will mind mine, ur girlfriend lies her face off to you all the time and maybe you should realize that before you let her move in if you'd like more info on ur girl lieing to you just let me know

January 10
Maybe if she wasn't so sneeky and said the truth and dint do rude shit to me and not be a good friend this wouldn't of happened,ooh and boxing day for a bit she came and blazed with me brock and vicktor, I will be sure to leave you alone now happy new year bud

that pissed me off and i was on the verge of dumping her..yet again her promises got to me..promises that she would not hang out with her stupid little friend and go out smoking weed at creepy dudees places....i love her...so i tursted her...so she moved in...

4 days ago i caught a flight out to florida to a business meeting..one of my coworkers who is constantly on his phone voiced a complaint to me the moment we landed...the stupid friend of hers Taylor..who might i add lives about a 2hr drive from the city where my gf and i live..was suddenly in the city..i deleted and blocked her on facebook so i suppose she thought she would be safe to add a status about what she was up to..too stupid to realize she had my cooworker added as a friend..apparently she was with my gf...in my city...in my house...i fuckin snapped.upon calling my gf she lied and said that she had picked taylor up to drop her off at a friends in college rez....unlikely story..i called her bluff...she admitted to lying...i'm sitting here wondering what to do...she just moved in..dumping her and kicking her out is beyond me..it would destroy her parents who were so keen to announce how happy they were that she was finally making good decisions me being among her best...yet she has lied so much..which leads me to question what else is she keeping secret...i fear that i am losing affection for her...and when it is all gone..i will once again become a monster..i will kick her out..and it will not be pretty...im afriad i'm going to lose control.

I read your other post about this girl. Trust is EVERYTHING in a relationship and she is shady at best. The biggest issue is her drug use. Does she have a job? Because I don't know anyone with a job that doesn't get drug tested. Aries/Aries relationships can be great. My brother, an Aries, married one, plus I have a few Aries/Aries couples as friends. It's not her sign, but the fact she loves to party more than care about your relationship with her. You voiced your concerns but she's only putting out fires (to appease you) rather than getting her own shit together and being a real woman to a man who only asks what he's willing to give.

She's living with you now? Get a home drug test and make her take it or she's out. Seriously. I'm not carrying anyone's ass, especially a fucking liar. No, I need to know who the fuck I'm getting involved with and once I matured and was ready for something real, I didn't hang out with dogs anymore. I DO believe who you hang out with does tell you what someone is about.

This girl needs to grow up and stop lying to you and herself and her family..... By taking care of her and letting her live with you, you're only enabling her lazy ass life style .
Look, you want a woman who can handle her own, right? AND someone you can trust. She's broken that already. The writing is on the wall. I know you got that gut feeling something isn't right. Listen to it.

Um...what's treetrunking?