being an aries sucks major ass and here's why....

because

1) you just can't be yourself around people; they are taken aback by your energy, ferociousness, and vivacity

2) people misunderstand your blunt way of being truthful and NOT beating around the bush (GOD! i hate that quality in people!) as being cruel and without tact

3) you tend to trust people from the getgo. it's only after MANY years of being fcucked over that you have learned to be suspicious and on your guard (what a crappy way to live..oh freakin well)

4) your sex drive rules you...all you think about is sex 24/7 and it sucks..lemme tell you all (unless you are a porn star, which i am not)

5) for some strange reason (and i have yet to figure this out) people just love to try the fcuck out of you....and then they wonder (oh why?...OH WHY?) when you retaliate with your full fury and fire, why they are under such punishing abuse....look, if you FCUCK with me, its very simple, you see.....I WILL FCUCK WITH YOU BACK... why is that so hard to understand? ever heard of equal and opposite actions? (like the laws of physics- what the freakin universe is based on, idiot?)

6) people who act surprised when you break down and cry or act in a passionate way besides being an angry hot-headed volcano. we are emotional creatures... mars is the planet of passion you guys...take the good with the bad. expect lots of passionate, loving affection..and on the dark side (well, expect the worst) but, shyt, at least we are balanced!!!!!!!!


sheeeeesh!!! does any freakin body out there know kinda where i am coming from?

or even better yet, i have entertained an even more likely possibility, and believe me, i am not playing the male/female card here. but, perhaps being a female aries with all that male energy is just not a socially acceptable way of being. i hate to even think it, but i have male aries friends who are off the damn chain, and they still garner much more respect, even though they act completly idiotic at times. what's up with that?

does anyone out there see an imbalance in this situation? am i just freakin crazy and idiotic? should i just say "fcuck you" to the world and be myself, no matter how much hardship it brings me, because i am being true to me?

i mean, what are we all here for? to fit into a societal norm, or to be what our hearts and souls tell us to be?

Well, I for one prefer to be myself. I'm an aries chick too, and I have to admit I DO have a problem with freaking people out with my emotions. And I've also had times when ppl get freaked out about me crying or something, even though I rarely do in public.
Not to mention society doesn't exactly take me in, I'm STILL trying to find a click. I feel that being myself around people, I'm like some kind of act they like to watch.
Although to my closer friends, I'm excellent at cheering people up without even noticing.
And although my libido is strong, I don't think about it as often as most aries women. 🙂 Though when I do...Its kind of awkward, especially to my Capricorn boyfriend.

But even so, I think I'd rather be myself, I have a carefree nature and I'll act how I want around people, regardless of what they think. I want to be depressing and rude, I'll be depressing and rude. I'll be loud, obnoxious, and laugh as loud as I want, and not care if it annoys people. I'll even be cheerful when others are down, its just how I am.

Personally, I think you should just be you, and I agree with the "I will fuck you back" thing, though it got me in ALOT of trouble during high school. lol I didn't care, just having decent marks kept me happy even if I was in detention.

i don't really want to adapt to societal norms. something about doing that just seems so FALSE and WRONG. it would be like parading through life, acting the part of someone i am not, all because i am AFRAID of offending people.

i have noticed this at school. med school is extremely competitive. some people are jackasses, some are super, nerdy and quiet, and some are just downright freakin weird. but ya know what? that is OK! because everyone is different.

if you are true, and your heart is pure, and you are NOT acting in a malicious way, or backstabbing or cutting people down to bring yourself up, or gossipping and creating malicious rumors about someone because they have more money than you/ drive a nicer car than you/have a cuter boyfriend than you/get better grades than you....i mean, WHO FREAKIN CARES ABOUT WHAT THE OTHER GUY IS DOING— be happy for people when they do well! if something about their personality rubs you the wrong way, ask yourself WHY?

is it something in them you see, that you hate about yourself? is it something that makes you feel inadequate/defensive/annoyed? when you meet someone you automatically don't like..ask yourself these questions before so immediately cutting them out of your social circle, or worse yet, creating negative energy against them.

we all have family no? they all have irritating traits, no? but, there is also something absolutely wonderful about them too, because we KNOW them! we really know their heart and soul!!

don't just decide "oh god, she is just too hyper and annoying and always too damn enthusiastic for me...what a freakin pain in the ass"

yeah, i know, a true aries wouldn't give a flying shyt, but sometimes it wears on you, and after many, many years, you become an introverted person, afraid to let anyone see your true colors, afraid to put yourself out there because people are just mean and cruel and plain ole hateful.


so that is the meaning of my original post....thanks for letting me share. i feel better now.

Lol, you sound like one of my oldest friends, she has outbursts like this too and she'll be talking to me on MSN, she'll type nonstop for half an hour and me (Being somewhat inconsiderate) will post the occasional, "that sucks", "yes", "No", or "No way!".
Then I'll say something funny and she'll be all better lol, I'm a miracle worker.

And yeah, I never bothered with rumors or gossip, or shit like that cause it never pleased me and it was just dumb. Its like "ok, if you think that about this person then just leave them the hell alone and stop talking to me, I don't know you," random people always walked up to me and stuff in high school it was odd.

Now I normally stay at the house, playing around in the yard with my neighbors kids while my Cappy is at work...Why I'm talking about my life I don't know, I'm just hyper and random right now. ........lol.

Actually whenever somebody was crying and I was in too good of a mood to feel down I'd say, "Your pain is my pleasure", then I'd laugh and then they'd glare at me. Its not my fault I just blurt out what first comes to mind, and I'm self centered and obnoxious. I refuse to hold it all in, it stresses me out thinking "I should have told the truth" so I'm always brutally honest. Its just how I am.

yeah, ya know, maybe i should stop trying to be a damn renegade. i'm getting tired of it all. a part of me says 'fight' and another part says 'let it go'. giving in kinda sucks though. i mean, you could fool yourself into thinking you really just don't care anymore and its not a big deal, but DAMNIT!!! i had a plan to make a difference in my lifetime!!!! i wanted to change things!!! i wanted to be one of those women who make their mark on the world and pave the way for their sisters that follow!!!

whatever....

but thanks for listening to my pointless rant....you're awesome!

Heh, if I try picking fights in front of my cappy, he'll lecture me out of it. Its just...I'd rather drop it then listen to him treat me like a kid for half an hour in front of the person I want to beat the crap out of! Sorry, hyperness getting to me... Wish my sister was here, I could beat her up with a pillow! LOL!

Omg I'm awesome. *nods* yep.

My Saturn is in Aquarius. I am a very lonely Aries. and with loneliness comes craziness and the desperate want to beat the crap out of everybody j00 know...Cause me don't fit in with anybody. Only person I got for company is my lover, and he's busy typing away, writing 'god knows what', and I'm here being hyper and alone....With my 4 cats, lizard, and fish. And NO tarantula! He's so mean, he keeps trying to talk me out of it but I've wanted a tarantula ever since I was a lil girl!

Ah...But little does he know that in a few days, before the next weekend, I WILL fulfill my childhood dream of owning a pet spider...And he'll never know...Till he sees it and then gets mad and then tries to find me. And then he'll start ranting about 'I don't care what', and then I'll say, 'I bought massage oil too!' and then I'll be home free. Unless he's REALLY mad, then I'll have to bring in the heavy artillery. LOL

but it shouldn't be that way.

why can't men cry when they are sad? i have seen many, many men cry in my life ( i am italian, so maybe we are just more passionate/wear our hearts on our sleeves people) and i don't think there is ANYTHING wrong with it!

likewise, if a woman is pissed off and happens to let it show (not in a psychotic way, but in a regular guy way), then why is that a bad thing too? why does a man have to have an anger outburst to show his emotion, and why must woman cry? FCUCK that!!!!

emotions are emotions. they are what makes us the special human beings we are. and for society to sit there and dictate to us what is right or wrong, or acceptable or not, is just ridiculous i believe.

why, when it comes to emotions especially, do men and women feel as if only certain displays are 'appropriate'? that to me is freakin bullshyt and always will be. i am sick of the split. it shouldn't be. i believe in the future, we will narrow the gap between us, and things wont be as rigid.

i mean come freakin on!! what year is this..uhh....2007!! HELLO!

I agree. And I want to have my tarantula!

PS-note to self: no more caffeine.

I've always been a tom boy and I STILL shop in the guys section. Cappy disapproves of course but he loves meh too much to take my clothes away. Plus if he did I'd be running around in the NUDE! I even wear boxers. 😛 Though I DO have the occasion...'trinket' *wink wink* that I wear for him. Of course he isn't dirt minded like me but meh *shrugs* He is when he's drunk and doesn't know whats happening. (still hyper, blabbing out life at the mo)

haha....awesome. boxing and karate, huh? here's what ya do.. go and get yourself a punching bag and a speed bag. put it in your garage or wherever it will fit. i'm lucky because my boyfriend actually owns one. you will not believe what an incredible workout it is. not to mention an incredible stress reliever. ( just make sure you wrap your wrists, cuz getting hurt sorta sucks)

start out hitting the bag, doing combos for a minute at first, with a minute to rest in between (your heart will be RACING) and SLOWLY work your way up to 3 minute sessions where all you are doing is dancing around the bag and hitting it. you will feel amazing after that, i promise you. if you can get up to doing that for 20-30 minutes straight, you are the freakin almighty queen and i will personally bow down to you...lol

LOL I'm in taekwondo and I find giving somebody a nice hard hook kick to the head, very relaxing. I'm a black belt too! HIYAH! XO

very interesting. teen daughter is aries. and black belt.

Shweet, you best hope she don't turn out like me though I'm violent. Omg! Flash back! I remember just being a lower ranking belt this one time when I was younger, I was fighting with this REALLY tall guy and he was seriously pounding me and I was getting pissed. I wrap my leg around his, swing him around and chuck him onto the ground! He sprained his shoulder and had a giant bruise! I of course said it was an accident and got away with it. 🙂

ROLES, SHMOLES! do you really think men and woman will ever come to love, respect and cherish each other as long as there is this self imposed rift between us? yes, we ARE different. i am not saying we aren't (thats what makes it so wonderful after all!)

what pisses me off is that somewhere along the way, some fool came up with the bright idea that men should ACT this way, and women should ACT that way.....why? says who? so men have more testosterone and get pissed more frequently and like to fcuck more, that is fine and i am not saying its wrong.

what i AM saying is the gender roles are far too extreme. let him cry if he wants to without being judged a wussy. and i don't mean i want a whiney guy who cries over spilled milk. come on, ya gotta admit, that a passionate man who will bust a tear over very meaningful things is very sexy. i actually find it even more manly...if you are so secure in your manhood that you can shamelessly and passionately cry in front of me, that is a huge turn on. it means you have heart, soul, passion....the exact things in this world so many men are lacking.

just like so many woman in the world who are doormats, who won't fight back, fight for their rights, see themselves as equals no matter won't, and refuse to be abused...that to me is a real woman, and i'm sure many men out there would agree. men complain that a lot of woman are passive in the bedroom. well, the way i see it, if she felt a little more powerful, perhaps she would initiate more often.

just a thought

I whole heartedly agree.

she has a number of 1st place trophies. the boys hated losing to a girl. ahe got hurt a few times, but was really focused, and determined. it IS interesting to view the writings here! i'm and older mom, and have always found her facinating.

ahe=she

Omg! She sounds like a mini-me! Though I myself am fairly young and have no children. I wouldn't mind having ONE though, I'm waiting for marriage.

Yeah, I tried other things aside from contact sports like football and stuff but...The speech club, and gymnastics, it was all just...bleh. So I got a few medals, certificates and trophies from those, then quit. LOL at least I can say I was ok at them. 😛

You should see if your daughter would like foot ball its ALOT of fun!

she does rel well in volleyball. and suprisingly into drama stuff in high school. does real well in that too! she is a trip, and verrry funny. turning 16 soon and all her friends got a car. she's WORKING on that with us.

LOL my dad made me wrok for my grandparents for 4 summers before I bought my first car for $ 10,000. But since I prefer a nice LOOOONG walk, I hardly use it and let my man use it instead, he's so lazy and so pale, I fear for his vitamin C level. But since he likes working in the garden, he HAS to be outside to get some sunshine! MWAHAHA! I'm planning on getting a nice big veggie garden for him so he can be healthier. He gets sick so easily its scarey. (Though I'd never tell him that I'm too proud)

Lol, I encourage you to sign up for something. 😛 Contact sports if your really violent, but endless movement sports if your really hyper. LOL

i prefer she work and save for a car.

how are you as a driver?

there are those inflaltable kickboxing phalic things. our was in the kitchen for months.

cool about the garden plan!!!

A driver? I'll respect the law and I've never gotten a ticket in my life! Nor has my Capricorn. But I do have a habit of being annoying to my passengers. LOL 😛 I turn up the cheesiest song and sing as loudly as I can to them. Though my family loves doing that, everybody else gets so irritated its hilarious!

Oh, and I have good insurance and have never crashed. I'm such a good girl. (Not really) lol🙂

and thanks for the garden comment, I just want him to be healthier. He gets depressed so easily, but loves garden picnics. 🙂 He's my sweety pie.

i like that in aries. generous and compassionate.

i think she will be a responsible driver. it's just a bit nerve wracking facing it.

Lol, thanks. I'm gonna plant all his fav foods and I'll even stop complaining about working in the garden with him. He seems to like it and theres no other way to get him out of the house and away from his job. Other than stealing his best tie and running around the yard with it, lol. I did that once, he got mad but thats just because he's a grumpy butt. MY grumpy butt. And he forgave me anyways because I made pancakes. 😛

LOL I'm using his user name again SSH! Don't tell him kk? He just phoned me to say he's coming home from work and I'ma surprise him. I know he's been talking about me...Heehee. (Think you can find his post?) Didn't realize I aggravated him THAT much though. 😢 Makes me feel bad. Wanna know where I got the name Motsureru? Stole it from him so he made a new name. 🙂 I stole it to annoy him.

Aaah, I'm so nosy...

sweetheart, one word of advice, and from my experience, aries doesn't cotton much to advice! check out local community centers for such classes. alot of "schools" make you get into contracts that are hell to get out of. if that's even possible. at her karate school, one of the dads of a student was called up by the guard to serve in Iraq. the family on a scaled down budget could not afford the payments. did that matter to the holder of the contract? hell no!!

Yeah, school clubs I find are the worst.

LOL I know! I know! I'm actually really bad at doing this to him but I think he's gotten used to it. Chances are though when he sees it he'll come to 'talk' to me. I'll get out of it though. And besides, its HIS fault for asking me what his password should be here. 😛 He had no idea what to use. He prob knew I'd peek at some point...I have nothing better to do here except wait for him anyways.🙂

uh oh...You know who is home...I'll go greet him with a smile and a cup of tea and he won't notice till tomorrow if I'm lucky...>.>

ha ha good one!

BTY, i'm a cap. too!

Oh no, he borrowed a friends lap top... But he has the tea, and he's happy with it, PLUS he's in the toher room. If he tries calling me I have the chance to lock the door... Then scurry out the window and out into the night! No I'm kidding, I won't do that to him or he'll mope, if he's aggravated I won't mind listening to him complain...

Your a Capricorn too? Sweet, maybe you'd understand his ways better than me then! And no thats not an invitation, you start asking him questions and he gets easily suspicious, I learned that. Actually its because I lost his watch this one time and in order to distract him I kept asking questions about his day...I think he thinks I'm predictable. 😢 Ah well...

lots if differencs between male and female caps..

my dad is cap male, and we are soooo different!

ugh, no fair you could have given me advice you bum! 😛 Ah well...You know my moms trying to teach him how to knit? Its not fair, I can cook like a tv chef but I can't sew worth crap! GAH! He's way better at it. 😛

teach him how to knit!? hilarious!!! that's too funny , besides the picture of him!, is that i've been thinking about knitting lately!!! wow! very cool!

LOL 😆 Yeah, she's already tried teaching me but I'm hopeless, then he came along and after awhile I was thinking "Omg! Heres my chance! I'll distract her away from me and she can focus on teaching my cappy to knit instead!" He likes it anyways. He likes everything I hate, lol, but thats not a bad thing I find. In fact it makes me interested in them. Like the gardening thing, I hate working in gardens but love watching him. Can't stand trying to learn how to knit but like hearing him talk about knitting. Weird eh?

no not weird! kinda awesome!

lol thanks. That bum, came in here and tried to make me brush my teeth for bed. He always plans my curfew and stays up hours after I'm sent to bed! But nope not tonight! 😛 Heheh. Don't FEEL like it.

Uh oh, somebody ratted me out! Surprised I haven't gotten a lecture yet...

well i'm gonna turn in.

been fun!!

yeah thanx bye! I think that now he knows we gonna be up talking, but he seems calm about it so..*shrugs* later!