being an aries sucks major ass and here's why.... (Page 2)

Damn you girls speak your minds - respect.

Ok so I was trying to get to sleep, and then my Cappy comes in and slowly gets under the covers. I expected an immediate lecture, didn't happen.
Then he wraps his arms around me and asks if I liked what I read. I said yes.
He smiles, pecks me on the forehead, then shuts his eyes.
I just lay there, giving him a weird look, still waiting for the lecture. lol He fell asleep! So I had to force myself to sleep too because I had to wake up early today.

I'd woken up to the sound of that damned alarm clock, and couldn't go to turn it off, because I was stuck under a pale body! Thats one difference between us, I choose a sleeping pose, I stay in the sleeping pose. He chooses a sleeping pose and-Oh no, maybe not, he changed it. Oh and there he goes again! Just tosses and turns, rolling over me like a pancake! LOL!
Anyways, after HE got the alarm clock instead (I shoved him off the bed), I once again expected a lecture...Still didn't happen.
So we made waffles and drank milk, and just sat silently together on the sofa until he had to leave for work. When he finally had to go, I expected a lecture, but when it never happened I stopped him from leaving the house and asked if I could tell you guys this.
He just told me to do what I want, and a few sweet things he told me to leave out (Heheh), then left for work.

And thats what happened. I'm still paranoid about whether or not he's gonna lecture me though. 😛

And good move on signing up for boxing, should keep you entertained and level minded, lol! 🙂

I think being your true self, bluntly honest, sexy, fiery and passionate are the things people absolutely love about us.


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Lol, yay for Aries. 😆

Lol, I'm wondering what else I can get away with now. *shift eyes* jk jk! 😛 Or am I...?

You want me to clone him? LOL, I'm not much of s scientist you know. And yes he IS amazing isn't he? Certainly not the type of guy you meet everyday. 🙂 Plus he's pretty sweet for a Capricorn, wouldn't you say?

Makes me wonder...Though Capricorns seem to be orderly and junk, maybe in reality they want to be the 'bad boy' or 'bad girl'? Ya neva know. XP LOL! Maybe I'll ask him one day when he's drunk...But no, the only time I've ever seen him drunk was at his birthday party and well...It was HILARIOUS! He was actually dancing and laughing his cute little arse off! 😆 Way different from my sober Cappy, yep, yep. 😛

You Aries girls should be proud to be Aries. My Aries girl rocks she communicates how she feels, makes all the first moves for sex and pays for stuff too!

recognize a lot in what's been shared here. Aries woman, ascendant Cancer, mars/Venus Sag/Aries, go figure. Most of the times I feel misunderstood, lonely amongst a bunch of people. Sometimes too smart for my own good yet naive when.org comes to matters of the heart.

The last two years I settled sort of there's still the Aries fire within but after beaten down so many times in friendships, trust, business I have been.focussing on my child. I severed ties with family and friends. I have little to.no.trust in the people in my life yet new people I always give my trust until broken.

I'm happy with who I am as a person I expected too much from others thus only count on me. That's my best advice, people are who they are, trust on your guy feeling and live life for you.

Posted by Nights22
Aw 2 excellent posts above.

I take it you guys would rather rely on yourself before all others?

Absolutely... I can add that I have a very very hard time asking for help or accepting help... my new boss is the nicest most accomodating person I have ever met... wanted me to take my car in for a new tire & was willing to put it on his tab till I had the extra cash... I just couldnt accept... it makes me feel super awkward.


I feel this way even with family... I just started a new career & was very tight on money. I come to find out my wonderful amazing grandmother took on the payments of one of my student loans... I pleaded with her not to (despite the fact that it would help me tremendously)

I dont know if its a pride thing... or something deeper than that but I just would rather suffer within than involve anyone with my problems.

Posted by M

Aries are immensely independent spirits that function on instinct. Once you figure that out, it's really not difficult to appreciate them 🙂

You're awesome for wording it that way. 🙂

Posted by Motsureru
I feel that being myself around people, I'm like some kind of act they like to watch.

Brilliantly said.

Hey! I totally agree! Male Aries. I always feel like Im holding back, which sux alot. I hate that feeling!

I hate having to bite my tongue, and spare others feelings... Im only being honest. LOL

I hate that I have to dumb down in conversation for some ppl, who I think are idiots or imbeciles. We seek intelligent conversation

I hate the ups and downs of our emotions, the quick temper, then everythings ok again feeling, then were like why do I do that—

And Im sooo glad you said this one!!! People always wanna try you, like your someone to be challenged, I hate that, its like mind your freakin business, do you, leave me alone, or feel the flames!! I never understood that one!

Its almost as if ppl know your an aries, and wanna push your buttons to see how hot you get sometimes, and its like, alright you open that can of worms prepare for it, it wont be pretty or cute any longer!!

So glad you made this post Jenna T! And were super hyper, insomniacs.

But as a male, I love the sex part, although I do tire of relentless, restless thinking about sex all the time!!! It has its draw backs, especially when you get bored so easily.

I think arian men are the type to buy escorts, so we can for lack of a better word, shag and be out!! Cause with relationships you dont want that person lingering around your apt or house afterwards, unless you really love them.

I stopped trying to "fit in" or please people along time ago, at work I keep quiet, and stay around positive people, it helps to calm that fire energy. Otherwise its a potential powder keg and over reaction coming ablaze

Everything you said is spot on but I'm not going to change myself

Posted by jennaT
because

1) you just can't be yourself around people; they are taken aback by your energy, ferociousness, and vivacity

2) people misunderstand your blunt way of being truthful and NOT beating around the bush (GOD! i hate that quality in people!) as being cruel and without tact

3) you tend to trust people from the getgo. it's only after MANY years of being fcucked over that you have learned to be suspicious and on your guard (what a crappy way to live..oh freakin well)

4) your sex drive rules you...all you think about is sex 24/7 and it sucks..lemme tell you all (unless you are a porn star, which i am not)

5) for some strange reason (and i have yet to figure this out) people just love to try the fcuck out of you....and then they wonder (oh why?...OH WHY?) when you retaliate with your full fury and fire, why they are under such punishing abuse....look, if you FCUCK with me, its very simple, you see.....I WILL FCUCK WITH YOU BACK... why is that so hard to understand? ever heard of equal and opposite actions? (like the laws of physics- what the freakin universe is based on, idiot?)

6) people who act surprised when you break down and cry or act in a passionate way besides being an angry hot-headed volcano. we are emotional creatures... mars is the planet of passion you guys...take the good with the bad. expect lots of passionate, loving affection..and on the dark side (well, expect the worst) but, shyt, at least we are balanced!!!!!!!!


sheeeeesh!!! does any freakin body out there know kinda where i am coming from?

DAAAAAMN! You got it!

#5 really chaps my hide and makes me even more angry
#4 for sure
#1 all day everyday
#2 I still sometimes don't comprehend this and think it's a manipulative game play
#3 I don't mind this... I have checks and balances to keep this under control.

Rock who you are! It's the Aries way! Channel your inner Lady Gaga...