best sign for longterm/ marriage for Aries woman?

Just got out of my longest r/ship which was with a Gemini guy. He wasn't my first Gemini. The first one was a true Gemini who's moods would swing from elation to down in the dumps quite quickly....he also wanted to pursue a career in acting and live in London. So our passionate r/ship was short but we still remain good friends who talk once or twice a year. After him I was a bit skeptical of Geminis but then met my last Gemini (was together 2 yrs) who was very consistent in his mood and affection towards me which I loved. I always knew how he felt about me and where I stood with him. I really thought he was the one I would spend many years with despite us coming from opposite backgrounds, and opposites in many ways. His love for me was geniune and it was mutual....I pictured us getting a house and settling down...kids in a few years....but when it came to it...he wants to move abroad (traveller blood in him) and work antisocial shifts. I have to be honest with myself and say I want/need someone who will be around to spend time with (not working evenings & weekends) and I have a good career path here so I dont want to move abroad for at least 5-10 yrs!

Anyways, I am trying to adjust to single life again and not really looking to jump in to another r/ship for a while....want to work on a few things in my own life (qualification, hobbies, get on property ladder!)

I am just thinking of who my next love could be? I am not a girl for having fun with lots of guys, thats not me....I don't see the point in a r/ship that isnt going anywhere...I am 26 and want to find the guy I will marry and have kids with and be my forever sweetheart.

What sign is the best for marriage and long term commitment to an Aries woman?
What works best about this r/ship?
Downsides?
What aries decan are you?

My previous r/ships have been Scorpio (just sexual boyfriends/girlfriend....didnt really stimulate me intellectually)
Pisces - love like a brother, not really turn me on
Aries - great banter but not sure I fancy them sexually, like fancying a boy version of myself?
I get on fab with capricorns but dont feel sexual towards them.
Leos are a bit too arrogant (the ones I've met)
Cancer's are too quiet

I click with geminis soooo well...mentally and physically...but I am scared that I dont have this feeling towards other signs 😢 I am worried that only geminis do it for me and that I will fall for another one who in the end will want to go off and chase their own dream.

my mum says I just need to find a gemini guy who has a similar outlook on life as me....maybe 3rd time lucky lol.

Im 21st march so first decan

One that isn't a douche

Going by Sun sign, the best match for Aries is Gemini.

its really hard to say...havent had luck with any signs

Posted by BlueSandCacoon
Going by Sun sign, the best match for Aries is Gemini.

don't forget the REAL life marriage statistics thing. I don't recall what Aries women's top three is. (generally speaking)

my favourite real life celebrities couple for aries women is Pisces man.

I love Buffy! and Freddie Prince Jr. is such a very sweet and kind man.




my other fave is Aries woman/Cappy man (Orlando Bloom)

Posted by xxnightbynight
OP:

Although I get along with Geminis I don't like them the way they like me. THey usually tend to want to get to know me and I tend to... not care enough. They bore me, tbh. - Romantic wise at least...

I enjoy water signs although they're exteamely manipulative - but thank God I have enough water in my chart to call out a bullshitter. - You can't bullshit a bullshitter. 😉

I like Capricorn men... I had a fling with one. He was so much fun. - Not very romantic... but a blast in a glass.

Fellow fire signs (Leo, Aries, Sag) are amazing. - I'd say they're the best for us... I've had a fling with a Leo and we were inseparable. - But I could never imagine being with HIM my entire life.

but for ME personally... I can't seem to get enough of my water signs. I love them. - Cancers can be a bit quiet... but they're so sweet, romantic, loving, and caring... you just have to be patient with them.

2nd decan Aries.

Id have to agree with you. i attracted a gemini before. we were GREAT friends but he wanted me on a more romantic level. he just didnt strike my interest. now when we get together its usually for school, we attend the same college. we've been friends for a year now and though i turned him down several times he always tells me "you can say you dont want me all you want, for now. we'll be together sooner or later" little does he know comments like that turn me completely off. Caps are my favorite ! i've been in love with a Cap for 6 years. I guess i like them because im so used to them, i know them, and they interest me. dated a Leo bt he was too self centered for me.. cant hanve that lol. Tried dating a cancer & he was just too much for me. his emotions were EVERYWHERE & i cant deal with a man who cries more than me & over little things. If i had to chose id stick with Capricorn, possibly Leo, and Sag

Posted by tiziani
It really depends what you want from a marriage. Everyone wants something different. A lot of people want first marriage material where it's based on love, passion and discovery. Some want second marriage material (even in their first marriage) where they want discovery but security of knowing they are with someone who sees things largely the way they do.

For the second type, possibly Gemini might be the best for Aries.

I want both in one marriage

Gems are too wishy washy for me...and they play a ton of games...and they lie too much. not gonna work

I still love Libra for myself. Earth signs generally click with me. Gemini just didn't work out nor Pisces.

I would say Taurus man -Aries woman

An evolved Aquarius.

Posted by firewaterearthpiscesvenus
An evolved Aquarius.

Best of luck locating one.

Posted by cleopatra
Just got out of my longest r/ship which was with a Gemini guy. He wasn't my first Gemini. The first one was a true Gemini who's moods would swing from elation to down in the dumps quite quickly....he also wanted to pursue a career in acting and live in London. So our passionate r/ship was short but we still remain good friends who talk once or twice a year. After him I was a bit skeptical of Geminis but then met my last Gemini (was together 2 yrs) who was very consistent in his mood and affection towards me which I loved. I always knew how he felt about me and where I stood with him. I really thought he was the one I would spend many years with despite us coming from opposite backgrounds, and opposites in many ways. His love for me was geniune and it was mutual....I pictured us getting a house and settling down...kids in a few years....but when it came to it...he wants to move abroad (traveller blood in him) and work antisocial shifts. I have to be honest with myself and say I want/need someone who will be around to spend time with (not working evenings & weekends) and I have a good career path here so I dont want to move abroad for at least 5-10 yrs!



I click with geminis soooo well...mentally and physically...but I am scared that I dont have this feeling towards other signs 😢 I am worried that only geminis do it for me and that I will fall for another one who in the end will want to go off and chase their own dream.

I think maybe you should try Libra, I'm a Scorpio, been with my Aries Girl for 12 years we've had are ups and downs best relationship for me, I've learned a lot from her and experience things I would have otherwise passed up. She grounds me when I get pissed off and make's me rational.