Can anyone explain this Aries man behavior

So I (Virgo) met this Aries man at a lounge back in December. We switched numbers and began texting each other a few days later. A couple of weeks later he asked me on a last minute date to which I declined. I didn't hear from him for about a month.

Super Bowl Sunday he reached out to me randomly asking me to come with him to this bar and watch the game. I gave him a piece of my mind, politely and then took his offer lol... While we were at the bar he kept apologizing about the last minute date that he asked me on the month prior. Before I left to go home, he asked me on a planned date that following Friday night. I accepted.

Friday night rolls around, he made reservations at this really nice restaurant. We get there, eat, and have a few drinks. The date was going really well. He asked me about previous relationships...I gave him a summary and then asked him the question in return. He told me that he has been engaged twice. I asked if he ever married, divorced, still engaged, to which he responded I don't want to talk about all that right now and asked if we could talk about it on another night. I respected his wishes but all I could think about the rest of night was if he was still engaged or not.

The next morning...

I wake up to a text message from him saying that he had a great time and that he really likes me (a little clingy to me). I thought to myself, let me do some investigation on social media. I get on and saw that he blocked me!!! (red flag number two). I called my friend and asked her to do some research for me. She finds a picture of him and another girl on a beach in a different country, this girl had the biggest rock on her finger. The picture was from December 2015. So I just deleted his number. A few hours later he sent me a picture of himself. That night he sent me a goodnight text. I responded to none of these messages.

During the week, he text me again asking me if I was doing okay...I didn't respond.

What is going on with this man— Is this typical Aries behavior. I have never dated one before and want to know more....

The blocking is strange and is the only red flag to me. We can be aggressive if we want something and the fact that you are ignoring him and he still try's shows it. And we are not the type that want to talk about past relationships right away or if at all unless maybe for the wrong reasons?

OP, you wrote: " I wake up to a text message from him saying that he had a great time and that he really likes me (a little clingy to me)."

do you really think its clingy?

how would you describe your own behaviour (stalking him on social media, asking a friend)

I am not sure, you are honest either........if he texts you a nice message, he is clingy, if he is not communicating, you give him a piece of your mind....... what do you want, princess?

sorry

You're dealing with an Aries, you want to know the answers-go to Aries and ask him directly. This may all be confusion and mix up and you've been ignoring him asking dxpers all this time lol.

does he have some weird settings on who can see what, I have it as default that nobody can see anything unless I click "close friends" .. because I thought it was an idea to separate who could see what, and then got bored and haven't changed it back.

If he has the photo on his FB then something is going on, because if the wedding fell through then I think he would delete the photo, no point holding on the bad memories. You could check her profile to see if she has more photos.

Generally not good to talk about ex-GFs that early on in dating, it's not the greatest conversation topic, and then why does he ask you about it when he doesn't want to talk about it himself. Maybe he did almost tell you but then he thought it was too much info, and backed down. It might be that he was engaged, but she moved away or just left him for someone else, something bad which might not have been his fault. 2015 was a long time ago.

Not sure what you are asking, is it typical? Well he doesn’t know what you know, so he can’t manage it. I think the fair thing would be to ask him and let him explain. But if you get the wrong vibe then you should leave it.

Posted by LibraLovesHim
You're dealing with an Aries, you want to know the answers-go to Aries and ask him directly. This may all be confusion and mix up and you've been ignoring him asking dxpers all this time lol.

Thank you we need to be told straight up or we will overthink or just be like fuck it. We are smart but dumb as shit with certain things if it's not straight forward.