Challenge Seekers...

Challenges in life don't arise haphazardly, no matter how accidental or coincidental they may seem. They only arrive when you're ready for them.

Not when you're ready to be squashed, but when you're ready to grow,
overcome and be more than who you were before they arrived.

Challanges are always there. Just pick one and you will be overwhelmed. Our subcosciousness is just programmed that way to stay away from them if we do not know how to handle them. It may go to the point where we simply think that there is no more challange left. But they are definetly there. You just need to face with your fears. And hooopp, here they come.

Funny Haffo how we each perceive situations so differently. I personally thrive on challenges, I welcome them. I personally do not become overwhelmed by a challenge...I see it as an opportunity for me to grow and learn something. Ugh..life would be soooooooo boring without them.

I also think that when we get "to the point where we simply think that there is no more challenge left." is when we have begun to perceive the situations that come to us differently - with ease.

Freebird

"I see it as an opportunity for me to grow and learn something. "

It is true. But most people do bump on the wall of challange and fall off without gaining anything. Then they do it again and then again fall off. This could continue indefinetly, until you find out that it is better to learn how to exctract the information first then welcome the challanges.

There is nothing wrong with challanges if you know how to grow on them. Unfortunately not everyone can do that.

Good Morning to you, Haffo 🙂

I agree with you that there are people who meet a challenge/opportunity and don't learn anything. That is okay because that challenge/opportunity will surely come back around for them again and again till they do learn it. Time is irrelevant here, what is important is that the lesson is learned.

And it personally proven method for me to first learn the methods of extracting information, learning about how things work and then welcome challange. Because only then you will larn the most out of your challanges and that seems to be the most efficient way to deal with reality.

Well, there is my point 🙂 "and it personally proven method for me to first learn the methods of extracting information....." this is what YOU have learned works for YOU...and I think this is great! What I have been saying is that everyone else also has found what works for them - it may not be what you think is right but for them it is.

I am a bit different in that I actually enjoy putting myself smack dab in the middle of life and learning as I go - what a rush! 😉

"I am a bit different in that I actually enjoy putting myself smack dab in the middle of life and learning as I go - what a rush! "

Did that too. But I've come to conclusion that judgement of people cannot be as good as my own judgement for myself.

I have found that the easiest way is to not judge people but like you said, trust myself and my judgement! Right on!

Looks like we are on the same page in a roundabout way 😉 isn't life grand 🙂

Also, if you would have only others judgement always speaking behind your eyes (subconscious) you would probably become someone like them rather than yourself. I don't think someone could be peace with itself this way.

" Looks like we are on the same page in a roundabout way isn't life grand "

Life is grand Freebird. But many people are not in that page. I hope more people would be aware of that, then we would have alot of meaningful conversations.