Dating Advice with an Aries

Hi everyone,

Was just hoping to get some tips from any Aries people here! I appreciate it in advance!

Male, Aquarius, age 30 (that's me)

Female, Aries, age 28 (that's her)

- just 3 days ago I went out with this beautiful girl whos an Aries. Met her about four years ago at work but she left the company after only a few months. Since then we've kept in touch rarely and have met up for drinks here and there but it's always been fun.

I've always had my eye on her but until now she was in a long term relationship. We went out for drinks and had a great time. We talked about everything including our previous relationships and everything that happened and how she's a hopeless romantic. She even mentioned maybe she should stop looking and something will come to her when she least expects it.

- after drinks we walked over to the train station but before we got there, I stopped her and kissed her. The kiss was intense to say the least. She was definitely into it

- she immediately told me she never knew I felt this way about her and asked why didn't I ever try anything before so I told her I respected her relationship. She was smiling but seemed confused as like "where did this come from". We kept kissing at every corner and once we stopped and continued walking she would hold my hand and sometimes lean her head over to my shoulder.

- we kept talking as we walked and I could tell she was just thinking about what just happened so she said, you're probably drunk and you might not remember any of this happened. I said I was good and that I wasn't drunk so she then said, she wants to get to know me more. We kissed goodbye but after she told me to text her once I got home. As I walked away, I said to not overthink things! She smiled.

- I texted her once I got home and she did the same. The following day I texted her if she's heard a song we were talking about (she likes Spanish hip hop and I like metal) so she was willing to give a try. We texted very briefly but I somewhat felt I was leading the convo (she was just answering but not asking) so I let it go. The following day I didn't text her but today now I'm thinking of asking her out again but I'm not sure if it's too soon. I like her but I dont want to scare her away. I know she was surprised about what happened but I'm not sure if she's open to anything more. We're very different in our tastes and I know she overthinks things but not sure what to think.

Thoughts on how to approach this my dear rams and would it be too quick to invite her out again after 3 days?

Really appreciate it!

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Posted by Aerazo
I KNOW THAT LOGO ON YOUR PROFILE PICTURE !!!!!

Haha... awesome 😉

Run

There's no rocket science in approaching Aries. Just try not to manipulate, remain the way you are right now, express yourself and be a friend to her, show her that your interested in her stuff. Arians often are self-centerd, so it's a good thing to complement her without any preassure.

P.S. Learn more about her & your chart, maybe try to look up your synastry with her.

If she isn't engaging in conversation... That's typically not a good sign unless she has bad social skills and isn't aware. Maybe she enjoys you just asking her questions about herself.

Go boating

She could be conflicted. She just got out of a long term relationship, give her some time to repair, and explore. That's all I could say to you. Let her know you're there and interested, but down fawn over her, be there, but have fun by yourself. If she sees you can be on your own and have your own fun, when she's ready to settle again and stop exploring, she will want to have fun with you.

Aquas are bad news to me. Very similar to Pisces.

Do you plan on being real and serious? Because she was already honest in telling you she's a hopeless romantic, I don't know about other Aries but I know I am and that isn't a good thing to me. It's hurt me more than anything. So if you are real and don't plan on playing then pursue her.

Posted by Aerazo
I KNOW THAT LOGO ON YOUR PROFILE PICTURE !!!!!

this made me lol