Dating/Relationship reasons. What are/was yours?

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haffo
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1. Love
2. Fun
3. Personal growth, experience
4. Not feel lonely (that one is interesting)
5. Finance (especially with married people, when love dies this reason mostly keeps them together)
6. Kids (marriage, relationship etc)
7. Feel of Security (for women)
8. Sharing house? (again finance related)
9. Age (for women, interesting too)
10. Father for kids
11. Big penises (for Cancerlady)
12. Skilled sex maniacs (for some women)
13. Many other reasons that I don't know
14. Chocolate and ice-cream? (is that possible?)
15. Family needs (espesially with women, when your family tells you to date with someone or marry with someone, well that part is not working everywhere but still a reason for some places).
16. Enviroument needs (that one is when you see that everyone is dating with everyone and you do it to do not feel in minority, works with majority or people, but not with everyone).
17. Being rich (this is the biggest reason for gold miners, still a reason for relationship).
18. Sex (sorry I forgot that one)

Please add yours. It can be more detailed part of each that I've posted above.
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The emotional reasons for being in a relationship
1. Because the chemistry between us is so undeniable great.
2. He completes me.
3. I'm comfortable and tell him my deepest secrets.
4. He is a best friend and confident
5. For the feeling security (his reason too)
6. He makes me happy, and I want to make him happy
7. My vulnerabilities are his strengths and vice versa

You could easily say, "well, that's love or fun.. or not wanting to be alone.." however, it's more than that. They are the specific reasons why I personally would want to be in a relationship. The reason listed above are fine if you want to write an article-- but not if are genuinely trying to understand the dynamics of relationships.