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Dealbreakers
Common Dealbreakers That Ruin Relationships
Dealbreakers vary but often include dishonesty, lack of respect, and incompatible values. Identifying your boundaries helps prevent future relationship issues. Recognizing what you cannot tolerate ensures healthier connections and personal happiness.
Dishonesty and big egos
Being ill mannered and disrespectful to people. Especially for no reason.
-Super insecure and very tight about sexuality.
-Having a vanilla personality, being vanilla in general.
-Homebody who doesn't want to travel and doesn't care about it.
-Someone who doesn't dream and think big, thinks there's no point.
-Someone who gets annoyed by my research, my ideas, my thoughts, my beliefs because they're "unrealistic"
-Someone who complains about issues but doesn't do anything to work at them and expects others to. Especially if it's the relationship
-Someone who doesn't take care of themselves and have good hygiene
-Someone who is actually an asshole to people, I get needing to have stands but to just in general be a dick hell no.
-Someone with bad negative vibes and energy. If you're a salty hoe you can forget about it.
-Someone who isn't open to trying things sexually with maybe other people
-Someone who doesn't strive to be better and accomplish more by the day. Someone who stays still, rather than moving forward.....or worst....moving backwards.
-Someone who looks down at me, versus up at me to make me feel like I'm a queen rather than take away at my confidence
But the #1 deal breaker that is an automatic no and something that is a no for me because of a cancer....
Someone who undermines our relationship and partnership in the eyes of not only me, and them...but in the eyes of another. If he/she puts down our relationship or me to ANYON! EVER it is over, if they complain about me and the relationship and how bad it is and all this shit, it is over. If they put it down, if they let ANYONE disrespect me and our relationship, it is over.
That is something I will not tolerate I don't care who, how, when, what, when, where, or why.
Controlling , clingyness.. plz don't smother me , I can't stand that .. disrespect
Drug taking is probably the worst. Not only can it ruin a potential relationship, it can ruin a perfectly good existing relationship. What could be worse than building a relationship and being in love, but then the other person does drugs and doesn't know how to love anymore, or puts the drugs first, has violent behaviour, steals money, becomes secretive and potential gives themselves permanent brain damage or psychosis. It's not worth staying with anyone on drugs.
Lack of Class (major...)
Dumb
Bad sense of humor
Clingy/Desperate
And...Doesn't know how to cook...
Its a majooorrrr bonus being a good cook...and its not (just) because of me ^^
Basicly..what clicks me is a mix of a *traditional* woman with the independencie and strong will of a *modern* woman.
Thats basicly it hehe
Posted by IamTheRam
Lack of Class (major...)Dumb
Bad sense of humor
Clingy/Desperate
And...Doesn't know how to cook...
Its a majooorrrr bonus being a good cook...and its not (just) because of me ^^
Basicly..what clicks me is a mix of a *traditional* woman with the independencie and strong will of a *modern* woman.
Thats basicly it hehe
That's right! Because Aries have a good sense of humor, are good cooks, have a major and some degree of intelligence (really depends, I know some being pretty dumb), but for us, it's just embarrassing to be with someone dumb))))
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This is actually what I worry about with my Aries-I have more life experience and have travelled extensively, I own property and this is what drives me but I feel he is more academically excellent (Ivy league educated) I feel like I need to step up my game a little, lol!
Not over their ex.
Posted by Ssuperman
Not over their ex.That's It? Are you an Aries? Aries understand that they are better than their ex!! 😈 if they don't want Aries, it's their miss, not ours! 😈
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I'm Leo
My pet peeve is cheaters and Aries are known to have a wife and have a few women in the stable. The Aries that I knew they got bored with their side chicks relatively quickly though.
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoe
-Super insecure and very tight about sexuality.-Having a vanilla personality, being vanilla in general.
-Homebody who doesn't want to travel and doesn't care about it.
-Someone who doesn't dream and think big, thinks there's no point.
-Someone who gets annoyed by my research, my ideas, my thoughts, my beliefs because they're "unrealistic"
-Someone who complains about issues but doesn't do anything to work at them and expects others to. Especially if it's the relationship
-Someone who doesn't take care of themselves and have good hygiene
-Someone who is actually an asshole to people, I get needing to have stands but to just in general be a dick hell no.
-Someone with bad negative vibes and energy. If you're a salty hoe you can forget about it.
-Someone who isn't open to trying things sexually with maybe other people
-Someone who doesn't strive to be better and accomplish more by the day. Someone who stays still, rather than moving forward.....or worst....moving backwards.
-Someone who looks down at me, versus up at me to make me feel like I'm a queen rather than take away at my confidence
But the #1 deal breaker that is an automatic no and something that is a no for me because of a cancer....
Someone who undermines our relationship and partnership in the eyes of not only me, and them...but in the eyes of another. If he/she puts down our relationship or me to ANYON! EVER it is over, if they complain about me and the relationship and how bad it is and all this shit, it is over. If they put it down, if they let ANYONE disrespect me and our relationship, it is over.
That is something I will not tolerate I don't care who, how, when, what, when, where, or why.
You seriously messed up! Lol
Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
Actually many things, I'm picky...even bad shoes can lol)))The one real life story I remember, was when a Cancer guy found this girl who barely knew me and asked questions about me behind my back. Was such a turn off!! I have nothing to hide, but I just find this low, got rid of him right away! Scorp would never do something like that.
OMG! I broke up with a fella because of shoes! I was 18 but still...
Posted by Eddie_Vanjovi
Texting "u", "r" instead of "you", "are", "you're".For one, English isn't that hard.
And two, you're not using a friggen brick phone anymore with T9 word on it. Stop it already.
😭
Excuse me!
I know woman 54 y/old PHD in philosophy and education who texts 4 u and brb and r u and curses like a sailor...and when I told my daughter I think it's not right - she said mom - it's just texting!
So I AM NOT ALONE? You think it's not acceptable as well? Are you PHD?
Posted by Shrewdsharp
My pet peeve is cheaters and Aries are known to have a wife and have a few women in the stable. The Aries that I knew they got bored with their side chicks relatively quickly though.
Stable? Aries Fk horses?
Too clingy. Just can't do it.
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoe
-Super insecure and very tight about sexuality.-Having a vanilla personality, being vanilla in general.
-Homebody who doesn't want to travel and doesn't care about it.
-Someone who doesn't dream and think big, thinks there's no point.
-Someone who gets annoyed by my research, my ideas, my thoughts, my beliefs because they're "unrealistic"
-Someone who complains about issues but doesn't do anything to work at them and expects others to. Especially if it's the relationship
-Someone who doesn't take care of themselves and have good hygiene
-Someone who is actually an asshole to people, I get needing to have stands but to just in general be a dick hell no.
-Someone with bad negative vibes and energy. If you're a salty hoe you can forget about it.
-Someone who isn't open to trying things sexually with maybe other people
-Someone who doesn't strive to be better and accomplish more by the day. Someone who stays still, rather than moving forward.....or worst....moving backwards.
-Someone who looks down at me, versus up at me to make me feel like I'm a queen rather than take away at my confidence
But the #1 deal breaker that is an automatic no and something that is a no for me because of a cancer....
Someone who undermines our relationship and partnership in the eyes of not only me, and them...but in the eyes of another. If he/she puts down our relationship or me to ANYON! EVER it is over, if they complain about me and the relationship and how bad it is and all this shit, it is over. If they put it down, if they let ANYONE disrespect me and our relationship, it is over.
That is something I will not tolerate I don't care who, how, when, what, when, where, or why.
"Someone who isn't open to trying things sexually with maybe other people"
Like are you for real?? If i am not comfortable with threesome, it's a deal breaker?? Wow!!
Liars
Manipulators
Contact with exes
Abuse of any kind
Posted by Shrewdsharp
My pet peeve is cheaters and Aries are known to have a wife and have a few women in the stable. The Aries that I knew they got bored with their side chicks relatively quickly though.
The ones seem to have been pretty successful cheaters? Or the wives knew? lol! Based on my Aries, I can't see him being good (conscience, sneaky enough etc, he'd get caught, if he wanted to do it)
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What ruin's a potential relationship for you? What can you absolutely not tolerate....if anything 😉