I am Stupid Stupid

How do you uncrash yourself from someone? and why am i being soo stupid? need to get this out of my system now. lol I hope you guys have some tips for me. I just dont want to go there.
You are on page out of 6
  • WitchmitchAries
    Sun Aries Moon Scorpio Arising Gemini
    female
    How do you uncrash yourself from someone? and why am i being soo stupid? need to get this out of my system now. lol I hope you guys have some tips for me. I just dont want to go there.
  • WitchmitchAries
    Sun Aries Moon Scorpio Arising Gemini
    female
    there is this guy i been friends with for about year now. but the past 4 months i have been getting stronger feelings for him and i dont want to go there. but i cant seem to stop myself. its aready messing up my friendship with him because i hold back the real me now. there got to be something i can do and still keep the friendship.
  • WitchmitchAries
    Sun Aries Moon Scorpio Arising Gemini
    female
    here the other thing, i am married and working on my on it. My husband and i been having some problems for a long while. i cant let this get in the way. the other thing the guy i am getting this crush on lives in another country, he is also way to young for me. to top it all off. i find myself not wanting to be in any relationship at all. just friendships. am i crazy? i would say yes.
  • HeavyEntertainmentShow
    Blindly you came to me finding peace and relief in my smile.
    Oh that's easy, gurl!!! You just need to treetrunk a lot until you get sick to death of him. Get it outta yer system by getting him into your "system".

    User Submitted Image

    A lot more than just the once.
  • compy
    Librius: A Balanced mind
    You found with this young guy a gate for an open communication that is closed or clogged with your husband. He is emphatic to you and you feel supported. Being vulnerable, it is somehow normal to develop some feelings for someone that actively listens to you. I appreciate that you understand it is wrong and for sure you care about your husband and do no wish to part ways with him. Also, there is this "forbidden fruit" - an impossible relationship with someone you could possibly never have as a partner, due to distance and to already having an official partner, but which makes things more appealing to you.
    What to do? It depends on your character and your ways of dealing with emotions. What does this young guy want from you? Perhaps a period of self introspection would do you good and bring you back on track.
  • WitchmitchAries
    Sun Aries Moon Scorpio Arising Gemini
    female
    Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
    Oh that's easy, gurl!!! You just need to treetrunk a lot until you get sick to death of him. Get it outta yer system by getting him into your "system".

    User Submitted Image

    A lot more than just the once.


    it is a great idea but i cant do that. lol i have let my day dreams about him go wild hoping that would get my sick of it. its not working
  • WitchmitchAries
    Sun Aries Moon Scorpio Arising Gemini
    female
    Posted by compy
    You found with this young guy a gate for an open communication that is closed or clogged with your husband. He is emphatic to you and you feel supported. Being vulnerable, it is somehow normal to develop some feelings for someone that actively listens to you. I appreciate that you understand it is wrong and for sure you care about your husband and do no wish to part ways with him. Also, there is this "forbidden fruit" - an impossible relationship with someone you could possibly never have as a partner, due to distance and to already having an official partner, but which makes things more appealing to you.
    What to do? It depends on your character and your ways of dealing with emotions. What does this young guy want from you? Perhaps a period of self introspection would do you good and bring you back on track.


    we play video games online together and become really good friends. i think thats all he wants. i am trying to work things out with my husband but the fact remains i really dont want any relationship. i just want to focus on me for once. and that seem to be getting messed up now. hehe on me
  • HeavyEntertainmentShow
    Blindly you came to me finding peace and relief in my smile.
    Posted by WitchmitchAries
    Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
    Oh that's easy, gurl!!! You just need to treetrunk a lot until you get sick to death of him. Get it outta yer system by getting him into your "system".

    User Submitted Image

    A lot more than just the once.


    it is a great idea but i cant do that. lol i have let my day dreams about him go wild hoping that would get my sick of it. its not working
    click to expand


    I was just about to add that: I let my daydream drive me absolutely nuts for like 3 years with the guy I'm in love with. In the end it triggered suicidal tendencies, and then........I let him know. And........nothing bad happened. It made him VERY curious.

    Howbowdah? A gay boy made a straight demigod curious. Sooooooooo if I could manage that, I'm sure you can come up with some arrangement with your boy. Assuming he's straight.

    Moral of the story: don't overthink it too much and jump to conclusions without knowing his feelings for sure. Only one way to find out. And it's just a crush at this stage, it won't kill ya. Don't hold back either, show him the best you have to offer. It worked for me Winking
  • WitchmitchAries
    Sun Aries Moon Scorpio Arising Gemini
    female
    the only thing i can come up with is voiding him. no matter which way i go i will lose the friendship. i hate this
  • WitchmitchAries
    Sun Aries Moon Scorpio Arising Gemini
    female
    Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
    Posted by WitchmitchAries
    Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
    Oh that's easy, gurl!!! You just need to treetrunk a lot until you get sick to death of him. Get it outta yer system by getting him into your "system".

    User Submitted Image

    A lot more than just the once.


    it is a great idea but i cant do that. lol i have let my day dreams about him go wild hoping that would get my sick of it. its not working


    I was just about to add that: I let my daydream drive me absolutely nuts for like 3 years with the guy I'm in love with. In the end it triggered suicidal tendencies, and then........I let him know. And........nothing bad happened. It made him VERY curious.

    Howbowdah? A gay boy made a straight demigod curious. Sooooooooo if I could manage that, I'm sure you can come up with some arrangement with your boy. Assuming he's straight.

    Moral of the story: don't overthink it too much and jump to conclusions without knowing his feelings for sure. Only one way to find out. And it's just a crush at this stage, it won't kill ya. Don't hold back either, show him the best you have to offer. It worked for me Winking
    click to expand


    lol i dont want to know if he has strong feelings for. that thing i dont want it to happen at all. i just want his friendship. this crush thing just snuck up on me. i need it to be got. to much of a destraction. it looks like i will lose the friendship no matter what i do
  • WitchmitchAries
    Sun Aries Moon Scorpio Arising Gemini
    female
    I am just wish there is a way to handle this without losing the friendship
  • compy
    Librius: A Balanced mind
    What does your friendship consist of? Do you talk in private? Do you know how he looks like?
  • WitchmitchAries
    Sun Aries Moon Scorpio Arising Gemini
    female
    Posted by compy
    What does your friendship consist of? Do you talk in private? Do you know how he looks like?


    we friend each other on facebook. we use discord to chat when we play games. he the one who help me get my fire back. at first it was great, just to friends and he didnt treat me different when i told him my age. we always fun together. this has been going on for a year then i had to be stupid and start crushing on him these past flew month. so mad at myself.
  • HeavyEntertainmentShow
    Blindly you came to me finding peace and relief in my smile.
    Posted by WitchmitchAries
    Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
    Posted by WitchmitchAries
    Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
    Oh that's easy, gurl!!! You just need to treetrunk a lot until you get sick to death of him. Get it outta yer system by getting him into your "system".

    User Submitted Image

    A lot more than just the once.


    it is a great idea but i cant do that. lol i have let my day dreams about him go wild hoping that would get my sick of it. its not working


    I was just about to add that: I let my daydream drive me absolutely nuts for like 3 years with the guy I'm in love with. In the end it triggered suicidal tendencies, and then........I let him know. And........nothing bad happened. It made him VERY curious.

    Howbowdah? A gay boy made a straight demigod curious. Sooooooooo if I could manage that, I'm sure you can come up with some arrangement with your boy. Assuming he's straight.

    Moral of the story: don't overthink it too much and jump to conclusions without knowing his feelings for sure. Only one way to find out. And it's just a crush at this stage, it won't kill ya. Don't hold back either, show him the best you have to offer. It worked for me Winking


    lol i dont want to know if he has strong feelings for. that thing i dont want it to happen at all. i just want his friendship. this crush thing just snuck up on me. i need it to be got. to much of a destraction. it looks like i will lose the friendship no matter what i do
    click to expand


    Too late my deer, you can't control who you got feelings for. A crush can go much further. And sometimes you might as well let it run amok, what's the worst that can happen? Stock up on birth control & condoms Winking

    Imagine if you just met your life partner.
  • WitchmitchAries
    Sun Aries Moon Scorpio Arising Gemini
    female
    Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
    Posted by WitchmitchAries
    Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
    Posted by WitchmitchAries
    Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
    Oh that's easy, gurl!!! You just need to treetrunk a lot until you get sick to death of him. Get it outta yer system by getting him into your "system".

    User Submitted Image

    A lot more than just the once.


    it is a great idea but i cant do that. lol i have let my day dreams about him go wild hoping that would get my sick of it. its not working


    I was just about to add that: I let my daydream drive me absolutely nuts for like 3 years with the guy I'm in love with. In the end it triggered suicidal tendencies, and then........I let him know. And........nothing bad happened. It made him VERY curious.

    Howbowdah? A gay boy made a straight demigod curious. Sooooooooo if I could manage that, I'm sure you can come up with some arrangement with your boy. Assuming he's straight.

    Moral of the story: don't overthink it too much and jump to conclusions without knowing his feelings for sure. Only one way to find out. And it's just a crush at this stage, it won't kill ya. Don't hold back either, show him the best you have to offer. It worked for me Winking


    lol i dont want to know if he has strong feelings for. that thing i dont want it to happen at all. i just want his friendship. this crush thing just snuck up on me. i need it to be got. to much of a destraction. it looks like i will lose the friendship no matter what i do


    Too late my deer, you can't control who you got feelings for. A crush can go much further. And sometimes you might as well let it run amok, what's the worst that can happen? Stock up on birth control & condoms Winking

    Imagine if you just met your life partner.
    click to expand


    dont get me started on life partner stuff. i dont want one thank you very much. lol so i will have to void him because it looks like i have lost the friendship already
  • Recent Aries Topics

  • Closure?

    Him; Aries sun, Leo moon, mars libra and Taurus Venus Me; Leo sun, aires moon, mars cancer and Leo Venus So the Aries I had been talking to for about over a year now as "friends", has stood me up recently. I don't really want a way to fix it, but I fe
  • How should I play his game?

    Alright so this Aries sun Scorpio moon is constantly flirting with me, and the more I refuse the harder he tries, I flat out told him that I'm not going to sleep with him and now apparently I made myself more desirable. He texts and calls almost everyda
  • For Research Purposes: Aries

    Some questions for Aries or folks who are experts on Aries How would you describe the essence that makes up an Aries woman? What is their most annoying characteristic? What is their best quality? What do they want out of life? What do they look fo
  • What is the best way to deal with a sick Ram ?

    Hello there again dear Rams, Recently, I may or may not have gotten the Ram sick. Obviously, he was not happy about it and became quite moody but he did not blame it on me. It may or may not affect his work. Though I cannot quite understand if he is mo
  • Ghosting Aries Man

    Do Aries men who ignore/ghost you ever come back? I'm just wandering about the experiences of others.
  • Possible or not?

    I haven’t had much luck with my Pisces man as a Taurus female. My sister is an Aries, also just met a Pisces man. She’s much more temperamental and harsh than myself and insensitive. I have told her what I have experienced with my Pisces to kind of guide
  • Rejected?

    I told my Aries bf of 3 months that I love him last night..and he said "do you mean that"?! Whaaaaaat?
  • Aries man broke up

    He broke up. He sent me the message via text, and our lives are not exactly collided in order for me to appear around and show him any improvements or 'new beginning' as all the astrology sites are saying. Basically, if we break up and there is no inte
  • How come Aries women can detach so quickly? (Libra man)

    So any Aries woman I've dated has been able to move on so quickly. I just personally can't move on so quickly. The way I've seen all of the ones I've dated move on, like the relationship was another Monday. Very chill about it.
  • Aries men! Help!

    I just started seeing this Aries guy who’s been after me for a while. He also has a Leo moon & Taurus Venus. I’m a Cancer woman with an Aries moon & Aries rising so I like his ways... but my Cancer creeps in and he scares me sometimes lol. How do I da
  • Aries/Taurus/Libra Child-Parent

    I just gave birth to an Aries boy a little over a month ago. I’m curious to see if any of you Aries out there have any Taurus parents and how you get along with them. Also, his dad is a Libra, if you have any Libra parents I’d like to know how you get alo