@WitchmitchAries
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How to Heal from a Breakup and Move On
Healing from emotional pain involves accepting your feelings, focusing on self-care, and giving yourself time. It is important to avoid self-criticism and seek support if needed. Remember that healing is a process and you will grow stronger over time.
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there is this guy i been friends with for about year now. but the past 4 months i have been getting stronger feelings for him and i dont want to go there. but i cant seem to stop myself. its aready messing up my friendship with him because i hold back the real me now. there got to be something i can do and still keep the friendship.
here the other thing, i am married and working on my on it. My husband and i been having some problems for a long while. i cant let this get in the way. the other thing the guy i am getting this crush on lives in another country, he is also way to young for me. to top it all off. i find myself not wanting to be in any relationship at all. just friendships. am i crazy? i would say yes.
Oh that's easy, gurl!!! You just need to fuck a lot until you get sick to death of him. Get it outta yer system by getting him into your "system".
A lot more than just the once.
You found with this young guy a gate for an open communication that is closed or clogged with your husband. He is emphatic to you and you feel supported. Being vulnerable, it is somehow normal to develop some feelings for someone that actively listens to you. I appreciate that you understand it is wrong and for sure you care about your husband and do no wish to part ways with him. Also, there is this "forbidden fruit" - an impossible relationship with someone you could possibly never have as a partner, due to distance and to already having an official partner, but which makes things more appealing to you.
What to do? It depends on your character and your ways of dealing with emotions. What does this young guy want from you? Perhaps a period of self introspection would do you good and bring you back on track.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Oh that's easy, gurl!!! You just need to fuck a lot until you get sick to death of him. Get it outta yer system by getting him into your "system".
A lot more than just the once.
it is a great idea but i cant do that. lol i have let my day dreams about him go wild hoping that would get my sick of it. its not working
Posted by compy
You found with this young guy a gate for an open communication that is closed or clogged with your husband. He is emphatic to you and you feel supported. Being vulnerable, it is somehow normal to develop some feelings for someone that actively listens to you. I appreciate that you understand it is wrong and for sure you care about your husband and do no wish to part ways with him. Also, there is this "forbidden fruit" - an impossible relationship with someone you could possibly never have as a partner, due to distance and to already having an official partner, but which makes things more appealing to you.What to do? It depends on your character and your ways of dealing with emotions. What does this young guy want from you? Perhaps a period of self introspection would do you good and bring you back on track.
we play video games online together and become really good friends. i think thats all he wants. i am trying to work things out with my husband but the fact remains i really dont want any relationship. i just want to focus on me for once. and that seem to be getting messed up now. hehe on me
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Oh that's easy, gurl!!! You just need to fuck a lot until you get sick to death of him. Get it outta yer system by getting him into your "system".
A lot more than just the once.
it is a great idea but i cant do that. lol i have let my day dreams about him go wild hoping that would get my sick of it. its not working
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I was just about to add that: I let my daydream drive me absolutely nuts for like 3 years with the guy I'm in love with. In the end it triggered suicidal tendencies, and then........I let him know. And........nothing bad happened. It made him VERY curious.
Howbowdah? A gay boy made a straight demigod curious. Sooooooooo if I could manage that, I'm sure you can come up with some arrangement with your boy. Assuming he's straight.
Moral of the story: don't overthink it too much and jump to conclusions without knowing his feelings for sure. Only one way to find out. And it's just a crush at this stage, it won't kill ya. Don't hold back either, show him the best you have to offer. It worked for me 😉
the only thing i can come up with is voiding him. no matter which way i go i will lose the friendship. i hate this
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Oh that's easy, gurl!!! You just need to fuck a lot until you get sick to death of him. Get it outta yer system by getting him into your "system".
A lot more than just the once.
it is a great idea but i cant do that. lol i have let my day dreams about him go wild hoping that would get my sick of it. its not working
I was just about to add that: I let my daydream drive me absolutely nuts for like 3 years with the guy I'm in love with. In the end it triggered suicidal tendencies, and then........I let him know. And........nothing bad happened. It made him VERY curious.
Howbowdah? A gay boy made a straight demigod curious. Sooooooooo if I could manage that, I'm sure you can come up with some arrangement with your boy. Assuming he's straight.
Moral of the story: don't overthink it too much and jump to conclusions without knowing his feelings for sure. Only one way to find out. And it's just a crush at this stage, it won't kill ya. Don't hold back either, show him the best you have to offer. It worked for me 😉
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lol i dont want to know if he has strong feelings for. that thing i dont want it to happen at all. i just want his friendship. this crush thing just snuck up on me. i need it to be got. to much of a destraction. it looks like i will lose the friendship no matter what i do
I am just wish there is a way to handle this without losing the friendship
What does your friendship consist of? Do you talk in private? Do you know how he looks like?
Posted by compy
What does your friendship consist of? Do you talk in private? Do you know how he looks like?
we friend each other on facebook. we use discord to chat when we play games. he the one who help me get my fire back. at first it was great, just to friends and he didnt treat me different when i told him my age. we always fun together. this has been going on for a year then i had to be stupid and start crushing on him these past flew month. so mad at myself.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Oh that's easy, gurl!!! You just need to fuck a lot until you get sick to death of him. Get it outta yer system by getting him into your "system".
A lot more than just the once.
it is a great idea but i cant do that. lol i have let my day dreams about him go wild hoping that would get my sick of it. its not working
I was just about to add that: I let my daydream drive me absolutely nuts for like 3 years with the guy I'm in love with. In the end it triggered suicidal tendencies, and then........I let him know. And........nothing bad happened. It made him VERY curious.
Howbowdah? A gay boy made a straight demigod curious. Sooooooooo if I could manage that, I'm sure you can come up with some arrangement with your boy. Assuming he's straight.
Moral of the story: don't overthink it too much and jump to conclusions without knowing his feelings for sure. Only one way to find out. And it's just a crush at this stage, it won't kill ya. Don't hold back either, show him the best you have to offer. It worked for me 😉
lol i dont want to know if he has strong feelings for. that thing i dont want it to happen at all. i just want his friendship. this crush thing just snuck up on me. i need it to be got. to much of a destraction. it looks like i will lose the friendship no matter what i do
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Too late my deer, you can't control who you got feelings for. A crush can go much further. And sometimes you might as well let it run amok, what's the worst that can happen? Stock up on birth control & condoms 😉
Imagine if you just met your life partner.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Oh that's easy, gurl!!! You just need to fuck a lot until you get sick to death of him. Get it outta yer system by getting him into your "system".
A lot more than just the once.
it is a great idea but i cant do that. lol i have let my day dreams about him go wild hoping that would get my sick of it. its not working
I was just about to add that: I let my daydream drive me absolutely nuts for like 3 years with the guy I'm in love with. In the end it triggered suicidal tendencies, and then........I let him know. And........nothing bad happened. It made him VERY curious.
Howbowdah? A gay boy made a straight demigod curious. Sooooooooo if I could manage that, I'm sure you can come up with some arrangement with your boy. Assuming he's straight.
Moral of the story: don't overthink it too much and jump to conclusions without knowing his feelings for sure. Only one way to find out. And it's just a crush at this stage, it won't kill ya. Don't hold back either, show him the best you have to offer. It worked for me 😉
lol i dont want to know if he has strong feelings for. that thing i dont want it to happen at all. i just want his friendship. this crush thing just snuck up on me. i need it to be got. to much of a destraction. it looks like i will lose the friendship no matter what i do
Too late my deer, you can't control who you got feelings for. A crush can go much further. And sometimes you might as well let it run amok, what's the worst that can happen? Stock up on birth control & condoms 😉
Imagine if you just met your life partner.
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dont get me started on life partner stuff. i dont want one thank you very much. lol so i will have to void him because it looks like i have lost the friendship already
Are you an Aries or are you a jelly-spined Libra?
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Are you an Aries or are you a jelly-spined Libra?
😆 what does that have to do with the price of apples? lol this is a big problem here. 😆 I am an Aries and he is an Aries too. I cant go with it. not this time. that was good though
Maybe i am crushing on him because he is like a younger male version of myself and i have been so focus on myself. lol i know it sounds crazy but maybe
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Are you an Aries or are you a jelly-spined Libra?
😆 what does that have to do with the price of apples? lol this is a big problem here. 😆 I am an Aries and he is an Aries too. I cant go with it. not this time. that was good though
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You're overcomplicating something sooooo simple. You're an Aries, he's an Aries. You'll bust his balls, he'll bust YOUR balls and you're both gonna luuuuuuv it. You don't even know if he likes you back.....do ya?
Stop thinking and GET GOING.
I just want to find a way i can mash the crush and keep the friendship. but it not looking so good.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Are you an Aries or are you a jelly-spined Libra?
😆 what does that have to do with the price of apples? lol this is a big problem here. 😆 I am an Aries and he is an Aries too. I cant go with it. not this time. that was good though
You're overcomplicating something sooooo simple. You're an Aries, he's an Aries. You'll bust his balls, he'll bust YOUR balls and you're both gonna luuuuuuv it. You don't even know if he likes you back.....do ya?
Stop thinking and GET GOING.
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i dont know how he really feels. and you really want to make this happen. i dont want to know, it will make it worst. You are so not helping. lol
Posted by WitchmitchAries
Maybe i am crushing on him because he is like a younger male version of myself and i have been so focus on myself. lol i know it sounds crazy but maybe
Hehe
You were almost right!..
Since this crush is not about looks..but instead it is one about feelings...
Inside of you..you believe that he his the one that can save you...from yourself...your current self... 🙂
Btw, you should kick me out from your thread right now, because the odds that i make it even worse...are kinda very high...hihihi
😆
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Are you an Aries or are you a jelly-spined Libra?
😆 what does that have to do with the price of apples? lol this is a big problem here. 😆 I am an Aries and he is an Aries too. I cant go with it. not this time. that was good though
You're overcomplicating something sooooo simple. You're an Aries, he's an Aries. You'll bust his balls, he'll bust YOUR balls and you're both gonna luuuuuuv it. You don't even know if he likes you back.....do ya?
Stop thinking and GET GOING.
i dont know how he really feels. and you really want to make this happen. i dont want to know, it will make it worst. You are so not helping. lol
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I'm actually VERY helping and you can feel it, you just don't want to admit it. If you don't wanna find out, I can find out for ya lol by playing the age-old game of stirring up jealousy.
I'll send him a text asking him to wish "me and you" luck on our first date, then I'll send him THIS selfie
to turn him into a major green-eyed monster. I'll say "you could've had her but you're a slowpoke so stand back & watch how a REAL man gets the job done".
GoDAMN I'm good! But when I'm bad, I'm better.
Posted by WitchmitchAries
Maybe i am crushing on him because he is like a younger male version of myself and i have been so focus on myself. lol i know it sounds crazy but maybeHehe
You were almost right!..
Since this crush is not about looks..but instead it is one about feelings...
Inside of you..you believe that he his the one that can save you...from yourself...your current self... 🙂
Btw, you should kick me out from your thread right now, because the odds that i make it even worse...are kinda very high...hihihi
😆
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I brame you for this whole mess
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Are you an Aries or are you a jelly-spined Libra?
😆 what does that have to do with the price of apples? lol this is a big problem here. 😆 I am an Aries and he is an Aries too. I cant go with it. not this time. that was good though
You're overcomplicating something sooooo simple. You're an Aries, he's an Aries. You'll bust his balls, he'll bust YOUR balls and you're both gonna luuuuuuv it. You don't even know if he likes you back.....do ya?
Stop thinking and GET GOING.
i dont know how he really feels. and you really want to make this happen. i dont want to know, it will make it worst. You are so not helping. lol
I'm actually VERY helping and you can feel it, you just don't want to admit it. If you don't wanna find out, I can find out for ya lol by playing the age-old game of stirring up jealousy.
I'll send him a text asking him to wish "me and you" luck on our first date, then I'll send him THIS selfie
to turn him into a major green-eyed monster. I'll say "you could've had her but you're a slowpoke so stand back & watch how a REAL man gets the job done".
GoDAMN I'm good! But when I'm bad, I'm better.
click to expand
😆 did you not read the whole post. I married, he younger then me. he has a girlfriend. i am to the point i dont want to be in any relationship, but i am trying to work things out with my husband, but not going so well since i really dont want a relatoinship. but you have made me laugh. i did need that.
Posted by WitchmitchAries
Maybe i am crushing on him because he is like a younger male version of myself and i have been so focus on myself. lol i know it sounds crazy but maybeHehe
You were almost right!..
Since this crush is not about looks..but instead it is one about feelings...
Inside of you..you believe that he his the one that can save you...from yourself...your current self... 🙂
Btw, you should kick me out from your thread right now, because the odds that i make it even worse...are kinda very high...hihihi
😆
I brame you for this whole mess
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Hehe i know xD
But wait..i am going to help you now! (I will probably make it worse..lool)
So its up to you now...xD
Posted by WitchmitchAries
Maybe i am crushing on him because he is like a younger male version of myself and i have been so focus on myself. lol i know it sounds crazy but maybeHehe
You were almost right!..
Since this crush is not about looks..but instead it is one about feelings...
Inside of you..you believe that he his the one that can save you...from yourself...your current self... 🙂
Btw, you should kick me out from your thread right now, because the odds that i make it even worse...are kinda very high...hihihi
😆
I brame you for this whole mess
Hehe i know xD
But wait..i am going to help you now! (I will probably make it worse..lool)
So its up to you now...xD
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Ok i cant help myself. i just got to know. So what is it. lol
I am crinching here
stop making me wait. spit it out. lol
Posted by WitchmitchAries
Maybe i am crushing on him because he is like a younger male version of myself and i have been so focus on myself. lol i know it sounds crazy but maybeHehe
You were almost right!..
Since this crush is not about looks..but instead it is one about feelings...
Inside of you..you believe that he his the one that can save you...from yourself...your current self... 🙂
Btw, you should kick me out from your thread right now, because the odds that i make it even worse...are kinda very high...hihihi
😆
I brame you for this whole mess
Hehe i know xD
But wait..i am going to help you now! (I will probably make it worse..lool)
So its up to you now...xD
Ok i cant help myself. i just got to know. So what is it. lol
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Are you sure ?...lol
Because i will ask you some questions first, in order to measure how deep are your feelings (or not) for him are...
By doing that...you might open some more of those glowing doors....lool
Beware....hehe ^^
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Are you an Aries or are you a jelly-spined Libra?
😆 what does that have to do with the price of apples? lol this is a big problem here. 😆 I am an Aries and he is an Aries too. I cant go with it. not this time. that was good though
You're overcomplicating something sooooo simple. You're an Aries, he's an Aries. You'll bust his balls, he'll bust YOUR balls and you're both gonna luuuuuuv it. You don't even know if he likes you back.....do ya?
Stop thinking and GET GOING.
i dont know how he really feels. and you really want to make this happen. i dont want to know, it will make it worst. You are so not helping. lol
I'm actually VERY helping and you can feel it, you just don't want to admit it. If you don't wanna find out, I can find out for ya lol by playing the age-old game of stirring up jealousy.
I'll send him a text asking him to wish "me and you" luck on our first date, then I'll send him THIS selfie
to turn him into a major green-eyed monster. I'll say "you could've had her but you're a slowpoke so stand back & watch how a REAL man gets the job done".
GoDAMN I'm good! But when I'm bad, I'm better.
😆 did you not read the whole post. I married, he younger then me. he has a girlfriend. i am to the point i dont want to be in any relationship, but i am trying to work things out with my husband, but not going so well since i really dont want a relatoinship. but you have made me laugh. i did need that.
click to expand
Oh......uh.........my bad
Posted by WitchmitchAries
Maybe i am crushing on him because he is like a younger male version of myself and i have been so focus on myself. lol i know it sounds crazy but maybeHehe
You were almost right!..
Since this crush is not about looks..but instead it is one about feelings...
Inside of you..you believe that he his the one that can save you...from yourself...your current self... 🙂
Btw, you should kick me out from your thread right now, because the odds that i make it even worse...are kinda very high...hihihi
😆
I brame you for this whole mess
Hehe i know xD
But wait..i am going to help you now! (I will probably make it worse..lool)
So its up to you now...xD
Ok i cant help myself. i just got to know. So what is it. lol
Are you sure ?...lol
Because i will ask you some questions first, in order to measure how deep are your feelings (or not) for him are...
By doing that...you might open some more of those glowing doors....lool
Beware....hehe ^^
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lol you jerk. I said yes. now spit it out. i need to get this thing work out. lol
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Are you an Aries or are you a jelly-spined Libra?
😆 what does that have to do with the price of apples? lol this is a big problem here. 😆 I am an Aries and he is an Aries too. I cant go with it. not this time. that was good though
You're overcomplicating something sooooo simple. You're an Aries, he's an Aries. You'll bust his balls, he'll bust YOUR balls and you're both gonna luuuuuuv it. You don't even know if he likes you back.....do ya?
Stop thinking and GET GOING.
i dont know how he really feels. and you really want to make this happen. i dont want to know, it will make it worst. You are so not helping. lol
I'm actually VERY helping and you can feel it, you just don't want to admit it. If you don't wanna find out, I can find out for ya lol by playing the age-old game of stirring up jealousy.
I'll send him a text asking him to wish "me and you" luck on our first date, then I'll send him THIS selfie
to turn him into a major green-eyed monster. I'll say "you could've had her but you're a slowpoke so stand back & watch how a REAL man gets the job done".
GoDAMN I'm good! But when I'm bad, I'm better.
😆 did you not read the whole post. I married, he younger then me. he has a girlfriend. i am to the point i dont want to be in any relationship, but i am trying to work things out with my husband, but not going so well since i really dont want a relatoinship. but you have made me laugh. i did need that.
Oh......uh.........my bad
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lol its ok. I got a good laugh out of it.
Posted by WitchmitchAries
Maybe i am crushing on him because he is like a younger male version of myself and i have been so focus on myself. lol i know it sounds crazy but maybeHehe
You were almost right!..
Since this crush is not about looks..but instead it is one about feelings...
Inside of you..you believe that he his the one that can save you...from yourself...your current self... 🙂
Btw, you should kick me out from your thread right now, because the odds that i make it even worse...are kinda very high...hihihi
😆
I brame you for this whole mess
Hehe i know xD
But wait..i am going to help you now! (I will probably make it worse..lool)
So its up to you now...xD
Ok i cant help myself. i just got to know. So what is it. lol
Are you sure ?...lol
Because i will ask you some questions first, in order to measure how deep are your feelings (or not) for him are...
By doing that...you might open some more of those glowing doors....lool
Beware....hehe ^^
lol you jerk. I said yes. now spit it out. i need to get this thing work out. lol
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Hehe ok ok
Let me put my imaginary glasses for this one xD
So...
Lets say you just woke up...the first thought is most likely "i hate life..." (lool) then you might do your daily chores..etc etc...
But my question is...when is usualy the first time that you think about him ? Does it have any type of trigger? Or is it just "natural" ?
🙂
Btw i am working atm, so if i take more time to answer...its because of that ^^
Posted by WitchmitchAries
Maybe i am crushing on him because he is like a younger male version of myself and i have been so focus on myself. lol i know it sounds crazy but maybeHehe
You were almost right!..
Since this crush is not about looks..but instead it is one about feelings...
Inside of you..you believe that he his the one that can save you...from yourself...your current self... 🙂
Btw, you should kick me out from your thread right now, because the odds that i make it even worse...are kinda very high...hihihi
😆
I brame you for this whole mess
Hehe i know xD
But wait..i am going to help you now! (I will probably make it worse..lool)
So its up to you now...xD
Ok i cant help myself. i just got to know. So what is it. lol
Are you sure ?...lol
Because i will ask you some questions first, in order to measure how deep are your feelings (or not) for him are...
By doing that...you might open some more of those glowing doors....lool
Beware....hehe ^^
lol you jerk. I said yes. now spit it out. i need to get this thing work out. lol
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you are having fun at my expense. you dont know how to help me. lol
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Are you an Aries or are you a jelly-spined Libra?
😆 what does that have to do with the price of apples? lol this is a big problem here. 😆 I am an Aries and he is an Aries too. I cant go with it. not this time. that was good though
You're overcomplicating something sooooo simple. You're an Aries, he's an Aries. You'll bust his balls, he'll bust YOUR balls and you're both gonna luuuuuuv it. You don't even know if he likes you back.....do ya?
Stop thinking and GET GOING.
i dont know how he really feels. and you really want to make this happen. i dont want to know, it will make it worst. You are so not helping. lol
I'm actually VERY helping and you can feel it, you just don't want to admit it. If you don't wanna find out, I can find out for ya lol by playing the age-old game of stirring up jealousy.
I'll send him a text asking him to wish "me and you" luck on our first date, then I'll send him THIS selfie
to turn him into a major green-eyed monster. I'll say "you could've had her but you're a slowpoke so stand back & watch how a REAL man gets the job done".
GoDAMN I'm good! But when I'm bad, I'm better.
😆 did you not read the whole post. I married, he younger then me. he has a girlfriend. i am to the point i dont want to be in any relationship, but i am trying to work things out with my husband, but not going so well since i really dont want a relatoinship. but you have made me laugh. i did need that.
Oh......uh.........my bad
lol its ok. I got a good laugh out of it.
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That'll be hifty dollah
Posted by WitchmitchAries
Maybe i am crushing on him because he is like a younger male version of myself and i have been so focus on myself. lol i know it sounds crazy but maybeHehe
You were almost right!..
Since this crush is not about looks..but instead it is one about feelings...
Inside of you..you believe that he his the one that can save you...from yourself...your current self... 🙂
Btw, you should kick me out from your thread right now, because the odds that i make it even worse...are kinda very high...hihihi
😆
I brame you for this whole mess
Hehe i know xD
But wait..i am going to help you now! (I will probably make it worse..lool)
So its up to you now...xD
Ok i cant help myself. i just got to know. So what is it. lol
Are you sure ?...lol
Because i will ask you some questions first, in order to measure how deep are your feelings (or not) for him are...
By doing that...you might open some more of those glowing doors....lool
Beware....hehe ^^
lol you jerk. I said yes. now spit it out. i need to get this thing work out. lol
Hehe ok ok
Let me put my imaginary glasses for this one xD
So...
Lets say you just woke up...the first thought is most likely "i hate life..." (lool) then you might do your daily chores..etc etc...
But my question is...when is usualy the first time that you think about him ? Does it have any type of trigger? Or is it just "natural" ?
🙂
Btw i am working atm, so if i take more time to answer...its because of that ^^
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ok, its when i wake up. i cant wait to get on and play a game with him. I think about him before i go to bed too. things he does or have said pop in my head through out the day. If send him a message come play with me, he there. or if he says whats up, want you want the play. i stop what i am doing and play. i cant be doing that
Posted by WitchmitchAries
Maybe i am crushing on him because he is like a younger male version of myself and i have been so focus on myself. lol i know it sounds crazy but maybeHehe
You were almost right!..
Since this crush is not about looks..but instead it is one about feelings...
Inside of you..you believe that he his the one that can save you...from yourself...your current self... 🙂
Btw, you should kick me out from your thread right now, because the odds that i make it even worse...are kinda very high...hihihi
😆
I brame you for this whole mess
Hehe i know xD
But wait..i am going to help you now! (I will probably make it worse..lool)
So its up to you now...xD
Ok i cant help myself. i just got to know. So what is it. lol
Are you sure ?...lol
Because i will ask you some questions first, in order to measure how deep are your feelings (or not) for him are...
By doing that...you might open some more of those glowing doors....lool
Beware....hehe ^^
lol you jerk. I said yes. now spit it out. i need to get this thing work out. lol
Hehe ok ok
Let me put my imaginary glasses for this one xD
So...
Lets say you just woke up...the first thought is most likely "i hate life..." (lool) then you might do your daily chores..etc etc...
But my question is...when is usualy the first time that you think about him ? Does it have any type of trigger? Or is it just "natural" ?
🙂
Btw i am working atm, so if i take more time to answer...its because of that ^^
ok, its when i wake up. i cant wait to get on and play a game with him. I think about him before i go to bed too. things he does or have said pop in my head through out the day. If send him a message come play with me, he there. or if he says whats up, want you want the play. i stop what i am doing and play. i cant be doing that
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and i dont know what to do about my husband either
Posted by WitchmitchAries
Maybe i am crushing on him because he is like a younger male version of myself and i have been so focus on myself. lol i know it sounds crazy but maybeHehe
You were almost right!..
Since this crush is not about looks..but instead it is one about feelings...
Inside of you..you believe that he his the one that can save you...from yourself...your current self... 🙂
Btw, you should kick me out from your thread right now, because the odds that i make it even worse...are kinda very high...hihihi
😆
I brame you for this whole mess
Hehe i know xD
But wait..i am going to help you now! (I will probably make it worse..lool)
So its up to you now...xD
Ok i cant help myself. i just got to know. So what is it. lol
Are you sure ?...lol
Because i will ask you some questions first, in order to measure how deep are your feelings (or not) for him are...
By doing that...you might open some more of those glowing doors....lool
Beware....hehe ^^
lol you jerk. I said yes. now spit it out. i need to get this thing work out. lol
Hehe ok ok
Let me put my imaginary glasses for this one xD
So...
Lets say you just woke up...the first thought is most likely "i hate life..." (lool) then you might do your daily chores..etc etc...
But my question is...when is usualy the first time that you think about him ? Does it have any type of trigger? Or is it just "natural" ?
🙂
Btw i am working atm, so if i take more time to answer...its because of that ^^
ok, its when i wake up. i cant wait to get on and play a game with him. I think about him before i go to bed too. things he does or have said pop in my head through out the day. If send him a message come play with me, he there. or if he says whats up, want you want the play. i stop what i am doing and play. i cant be doing that
and i dont know what to do about my husband either
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I see..i see...this was a fast session...
*Takes glasses off*
You are doomed ^^ lool
Hummm...damn...ok ok
Lets see if we can do something about it...(btw..you prob cant...)...
Is he allways there for you when you are online?
Posted by WitchmitchAries
Maybe i am crushing on him because he is like a younger male version of myself and i have been so focus on myself. lol i know it sounds crazy but maybeHehe
You were almost right!..
Since this crush is not about looks..but instead it is one about feelings...
Inside of you..you believe that he his the one that can save you...from yourself...your current self... 🙂
Btw, you should kick me out from your thread right now, because the odds that i make it even worse...are kinda very high...hihihi
😆
I brame you for this whole mess
Hehe i know xD
But wait..i am going to help you now! (I will probably make it worse..lool)
So its up to you now...xD
Ok i cant help myself. i just got to know. So what is it. lol
Are you sure ?...lol
Because i will ask you some questions first, in order to measure how deep are your feelings (or not) for him are...
By doing that...you might open some more of those glowing doors....lool
Beware....hehe ^^
lol you jerk. I said yes. now spit it out. i need to get this thing work out. lol
Hehe ok ok
Let me put my imaginary glasses for this one xD
So...
Lets say you just woke up...the first thought is most likely "i hate life..." (lool) then you might do your daily chores..etc etc...
But my question is...when is usualy the first time that you think about him ? Does it have any type of trigger? Or is it just "natural" ?
🙂
Btw i am working atm, so if i take more time to answer...its because of that ^^
ok, its when i wake up. i cant wait to get on and play a game with him. I think about him before i go to bed too. things he does or have said pop in my head through out the day. If send him a message come play with me, he there. or if he says whats up, want you want the play. i stop what i am doing and play. i cant be doing that
and i dont know what to do about my husband either
I see..i see...this was a fast session...
*Takes glasses off*
You are doomed ^^ lool
Hummm...damn...ok ok
Lets see if we can do something about it...(btw..you prob cant...)...
Is he allways there for you when you are online?
click to expand
all i have to do is say ' play with me' he there. it kind nice that we both respect each other space. the funny part we can play a game together for hours and not talk and are both fine with it. its when we start flirting. well lol if i need help and he online he is there for me. not sure about this
I have had the crush thing on and off all my life
It wasn't until a very wise lady i met says to me *it's nothing to do with the man, it's something you need to look at deep inside yourself"
So i did....i don't have them so much now, it's more of a finding people attractive, but the obsessive bit has gone
You have Scorpio moon?
I am going to be honest with you...
There is probably only one way out of this...but its not up to you anymore...
You will have to try to find out what he feels for you...
If its not the same...then ok...and that ends up being "good news"...it might hurt at start..but at least you will get over it...
Give it some time..and you will probably be only freinds from that point on..
If he does...well we come back to this point..
So my best bet for you is... try to find what he feels for you..
🙂
Posted by WitchmitchAries
Maybe i am crushing on him because he is like a younger male version of myself and i have been so focus on myself. lol i know it sounds crazy but maybeHehe
You were almost right!..
Since this crush is not about looks..but instead it is one about feelings...
Inside of you..you believe that he his the one that can save you...from yourself...your current self... 🙂
Btw, you should kick me out from your thread right now, because the odds that i make it even worse...are kinda very high...hihihi
😆
I brame you for this whole mess
Hehe i know xD
But wait..i am going to help you now! (I will probably make it worse..lool)
So its up to you now...xD
Ok i cant help myself. i just got to know. So what is it. lol
Are you sure ?...lol
Because i will ask you some questions first, in order to measure how deep are your feelings (or not) for him are...
By doing that...you might open some more of those glowing doors....lool
Beware....hehe ^^
lol you jerk. I said yes. now spit it out. i need to get this thing work out. lol
Hehe ok ok
Let me put my imaginary glasses for this one xD
So...
Lets say you just woke up...the first thought is most likely "i hate life..." (lool) then you might do your daily chores..etc etc...
But my question is...when is usualy the first time that you think about him ? Does it have any type of trigger? Or is it just "natural" ?
🙂
Btw i am working atm, so if i take more time to answer...its because of that ^^
ok, its when i wake up. i cant wait to get on and play a game with him. I think about him before i go to bed too. things he does or have said pop in my head through out the day. If send him a message come play with me, he there. or if he says whats up, want you want the play. i stop what i am doing and play. i cant be doing that
and i dont know what to do about my husband either
I see..i see...this was a fast session...
*Takes glasses off*
You are doomed ^^ lool
Hummm...damn...ok ok
Lets see if we can do something about it...(btw..you prob cant...)...
Is he allways there for you when you are online?
all i have to do is say ' play with me' he there. it kind nice that we both respect each other space. the funny part we can play a game together for hours and not talk and are both fine with it. its when we start flirting. well lol if i need help and he online he is there for me. not sure about this
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😆 you so crack me up
...it often happens to people when they are married/living with someone more often than when single, i have noticed
Posted by MyStarsShine
I have had the crush thing on and off all my lifeIt wasn't until a very wise lady i met says to me *it's nothing to do with the man, it's something you need to look at deep inside yourself"
So i did....i don't have them so much now, it's more of a finding people attractive, but the obsessive bit has gone
You have Scorpio moon?
i can see that advice. its good. yes i am scorpio moon
....we commit to someone, start getting restless, look at other people......get with them, start getting restless, look at other people
etc
etc
Posted by MyStarsShine
I have had the crush thing on and off all my lifeIt wasn't until a very wise lady i met says to me *it's nothing to do with the man, it's something you need to look at deep inside yourself"
So i did....i don't have them so much now, it's more of a finding people attractive, but the obsessive bit has gone
You have Scorpio moon?
i can see that advice. its good. yes i am scorpio moon
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My sis was a fire sign with Scorp moon. She had a lifelong crush on a succession of men, well they were obsessions, normally famous ones. It was actually quite scary
She never dived deep into herself to find out why....she tended to ignore the inner workings of herself
They say when we are fixed up, there isn't such an incessant need to reach out to get our kicks or to be satisfied
🙂
Posted by WitchmitchAries
Maybe i am crushing on him because he is like a younger male version of myself and i have been so focus on myself. lol i know it sounds crazy but maybeHehe
You were almost right!..
Since this crush is not about looks..but instead it is one about feelings...
Inside of you..you believe that he his the one that can save you...from yourself...your current self... 🙂
Btw, you should kick me out from your thread right now, because the odds that i make it even worse...are kinda very high...hihihi
😆
I brame you for this whole mess
Hehe i know xD
But wait..i am going to help you now! (I will probably make it worse..lool)
So its up to you now...xD
Ok i cant help myself. i just got to know. So what is it. lol
Are you sure ?...lol
Because i will ask you some questions first, in order to measure how deep are your feelings (or not) for him are...
By doing that...you might open some more of those glowing doors....lool
Beware....hehe ^^
lol you jerk. I said yes. now spit it out. i need to get this thing work out. lol
Hehe ok ok
Let me put my imaginary glasses for this one xD
So...
Lets say you just woke up...the first thought is most likely "i hate life..." (lool) then you might do your daily chores..etc etc...
But my question is...when is usualy the first time that you think about him ? Does it have any type of trigger? Or is it just "natural" ?
🙂
Btw i am working atm, so if i take more time to answer...its because of that ^^
ok, its when i wake up. i cant wait to get on and play a game with him. I think about him before i go to bed too. things he does or have said pop in my head through out the day. If send him a message come play with me, he there. or if he says whats up, want you want the play. i stop what i am doing and play. i cant be doing that
and i dont know what to do about my husband either
I see..i see...this was a fast session...
*Takes glasses off*
You are doomed ^^ lool
Hummm...damn...ok ok
Lets see if we can do something about it...(btw..you prob cant...)...
Is he allways there for you when you are online?
all i have to do is say ' play with me' he there. it kind nice that we both respect each other space. the funny part we can play a game together for hours and not talk and are both fine with it. its when we start flirting. well lol if i need help and he online he is there for me. not sure about this
click to expand
Haa shit....we are off to a bad start 😆
Ok ok..so we know that he does really like to spend time with you...
This is not going well Aries !!!
😆
Posted by IamTheRam
I am going to be honest with you...There is probably only one way out of this...but its not up to you anymore...
You will have to try to find out what he feels for you...
If its not the same...then ok...and that ends up being "good news"...it might hurt at start..but at least you will get over it...
Give it some time..and you will probably be only freinds from that point on..
If he does...well we come back to this point..
So my best bet for you is... try to find what he feels for you..
🙂
that still means the friendship is over with. I dont want that. see no matter which way i go the friendship will be lost. i dont really think i want to know his feelings. your right if he only has friendship feeling then that will help with the crush, but i still lose the friend. if he has strong feelings for me, which i dont think he does, i really dont think i want to know them.
Posted by MyStarsShine
....we commit to someone, start getting restless, look at other people......get with them, start getting restless, look at other peopleetc
etc
The restless part i have been feeling for a long time
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How do you uncrash yourself from someone? and why am i being soo stupid? need to get this out of my system now. lol I hope you guys have some tips for me. I just dont want to go there.