Do Aries men ever come back?

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Long story but I'll not take much of your time. I dated him for six months. Long distance and on and off. Things were fine and we barely had any arguments, but i have a pressure of being married early. So when my family started bringing in arranged marriage proposals, he flipped out. I always told h he can take his time n I'll handle the pressure. He came back and we gave it another shot. This happened again n we broke up. He told me he gave it a thought n we re not going anywhere. He came to town after that, met me, was behaving like nothing happened, had a nice evening, hooked up and left. Later told me we're still off and he doesnt feel the marriage way about me. I was pissed at this but didn't say anything.

I'm not talking to him since and trying to move on but it just hurts a lot
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Posted by vixen14
ime Aries men always know what they want and go for it. If he comes back and is inconsistent, then he's just using you. There's no "i'm confused".
This here.

As for what you said after..."used her"....jfc..i guess it was something consensual, i don't see that *as using* tbh.

And he was honest with her before and after that, he didn't string her along...i see no using on that tbh, but that's how i see it...tbh i saw that as him giving her a last chance.

But yes, i wold move on if i where you op...telling you he doesn't see a marriage thing...it's as blunt as you can get from an Aries.

Aries like simple things when it comes to the rship with their partner...2 many *bagage* issues...and it...well you know...it's not for an Aries...

Realy sorry, but remeber that whatever you choose to do from now on with him...it will be your own choice.
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Posted by LibraLovesHim
The issue here is he didnt "make a mistake" so its unlikely he will come back. I can't see an Aries making a mistake and leaving someone they love....they come back with their tail between their legs seeking forgiveness and a cuddle lol!

You want different things. And no one is to blame for this.
lol Yup..."He didn't make a mistake" 🙂

And it's like..all that situation with the mariage things...and family...humm...it's just 2 much for an Aries...

Unless he is on the exact same situation....it's really hard to make it happen...

But OP, don't see this as being your fault either...it is absolutly not.

He was just not the right man for you at this exact right time. It's as simple as that.

Maybe who knows in the future when things have settled down...we never know...but for now...just think about yourself. 🙂

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The issue here is he didnt "make a mistake" so its unlikely he will come back. I can't see an Aries making a mistake and leaving someone they love....they come back with their tail between their legs seeking forgiveness and a cuddle lol!

You want different things. And no one is to blame for this.
lol Yup..."He didn't make a mistake" 🙂

And it's like..all that situation with the mariage things...and family...humm...it's just 2 much for an Aries...

Unless he is on the exact same situation....it's really hard to make it happen...

But OP, don't see this as being your fault either...it is absolutly not.

He was just not the right man for you at this exact right time. It's as simple as that.

Maybe who knows in the future when things have settled down...we never know...but for now...just think about yourself. 🙂

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Thanks a lot for reading my situation and helping me. Its just that I'm a Scorp and a little sensitive so it gets a little difficult for me to stay unfazed by it all. Probably hating him would have helped but i can't do that :p but I'll do try my best to move on.

Thanks a lot! 😊
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The issue here is he didnt "make a mistake" so its unlikely he will come back. I can't see an Aries making a mistake and leaving someone they love....they come back with their tail between their legs seeking forgiveness and a cuddle lol!

You want different things. And no one is to blame for this.
lol Yup..."He didn't make a mistake" 🙂

And it's like..all that situation with the mariage things...and family...humm...it's just 2 much for an Aries...

Unless he is on the exact same situation....it's really hard to make it happen...

But OP, don't see this as being your fault either...it is absolutly not.

He was just not the right man for you at this exact right time. It's as simple as that.

Maybe who knows in the future when things have settled down...we never know...but for now...just think about yourself. 🙂


Thanks a lot for reading my situation and helping me. Its just that I'm a Scorp and a little sensitive so it gets a little difficult for me to stay unfazed by it all. Probably hating him would have helped but i can't do that :p but I'll do try my best to move on.

Thanks a lot! 😊
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Don't go down the path of hate, don't do this to yourself !

I've seen countless people on this website being stuck for years on end, with the exact same person, just because they choose the path of hate..

When all they failed to realise was something so simple...not the right person at the right time.

You probably already read that Aries are known for being selfish...me telling you that i don't see it happen "Unless he is on the exact same situation"...that's Aries selfishness at play.

Allways remember this...the right person for you will allways choose you, no matter the situation that both of you are in ^^

So take control of your own actions and be conscious about them...because the right person will also do the same 🙂

All the best !! Try not to think to much about it !! Remember !! We *fall* so we can get up Stronger ^^
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Posted by LibraLovesHim
The issue here is he didnt "make a mistake" so its unlikely he will come back. I can't see an Aries making a mistake and leaving someone they love....they come back with their tail between their legs seeking forgiveness and a cuddle lol!

You want different things. And no one is to blame for this.
lol Yup..."He didn't make a mistake" 🙂

And it's like..all that situation with the mariage things...and family...humm...it's just 2 much for an Aries...

Unless he is on the exact same situation....it's really hard to make it happen...

But OP, don't see this as being your fault either...it is absolutly not.

He was just not the right man for you at this exact right time. It's as simple as that.

Maybe who knows in the future when things have settled down...we never know...but for now...just think about yourself. 🙂


Thanks a lot for reading my situation and helping me. Its just that I'm a Scorp and a little sensitive so it gets a little difficult for me to stay unfazed by it all. Probably hating him would have helped but i can't do that :p but I'll do try my best to move on.

Thanks a lot! 😊
Don't go down the path of hate, don't do this to yourself !

I've seen countless people on this website being stuck for years on end, with the exact same person, just because they choose the path of hate..

When all they failed to realise was something so simple...not the right person at the right time.

You probably already read that Aries are known for being selfish...me telling you that i don't see it happen "Unless he is on the exact same situation"...that's Aries selfishness at play.

Allways remember this...the right person for you will allways choose you, no matter the situation that both of you are in ^^

So take control of your own actions and be conscious about them...because the right person will also do the same 🙂

All the best !! Try not to think to much about it !! Remember !! We *fall* so we can get up Stronger ^^
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Hi IamTheRam

I'm writing this post to just say a sincere thanks to you! Ive taken your advice and in trying my best to stay occupied with other things. Trying to even reinvent myself with what all i can do. Things at my job are really at worst shape, I've zero social circle in this city and overall there's a lot of struggle to prove myself evry freaking day. I miss him like hell and i know he ain't coming back ever which drives me to pieces. But i come back to read your words every time I'm low.

I know I'm just another post for you and you're quite large hearted to have helped so mny people over the years, but thank you so much for being there when i needed the most.

I wish you all the happiness and luck and success in whatever you do. Your words will always be special to me 😊

Thanks for reading my looooong post! Stay blessed
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Posted by miriyahhh
Anybody that has had a Aries come back period is very special.I never do that only on one occasion....
I think in our hearts we know most people don't ever come back. Regardless of signs. Its just a matter of how we cope with the fact and come to terms with it. Some people are lot of air in their signs to be detached. For others like me, it's s daily struggle no matter how strong we try/ pretend to be.
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Posted by miriyahhh
Anybody that has had a Aries come back period is very special.I never do that only on one occasion....
I think in our hearts we know most people don't ever come back. Regardless of signs. Its just a matter of how we cope with the fact and come to terms with it. Some people are lot of air in their signs to be detached. For others like me, it's s daily struggle no matter how strong we try/ pretend to be.
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I don't know why I'm so senti today 😀sorry, ignore my posts
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The issue here is he didnt "make a mistake" so its unlikely he will come back. I can't see an Aries making a mistake and leaving someone they love....they come back with their tail between their legs seeking forgiveness and a cuddle lol!

You want different things. And no one is to blame for this.
lol Yup..."He didn't make a mistake" 🙂

And it's like..all that situation with the mariage things...and family...humm...it's just 2 much for an Aries...

Unless he is on the exact same situation....it's really hard to make it happen...

But OP, don't see this as being your fault either...it is absolutly not.

He was just not the right man for you at this exact right time. It's as simple as that.

Maybe who knows in the future when things have settled down...we never know...but for now...just think about yourself. 🙂


Thanks a lot for reading my situation and helping me. Its just that I'm a Scorp and a little sensitive so it gets a little difficult for me to stay unfazed by it all. Probably hating him would have helped but i can't do that :p but I'll do try my best to move on.

Thanks a lot! 😊
Don't go down the path of hate, don't do this to yourself !

I've seen countless people on this website being stuck for years on end, with the exact same person, just because they choose the path of hate..

When all they failed to realise was something so simple...not the right person at the right time.

You probably already read that Aries are known for being selfish...me telling you that i don't see it happen "Unless he is on the exact same situation"...that's Aries selfishness at play.

Allways remember this...the right person for you will allways choose you, no matter the situation that both of you are in ^^

So take control of your own actions and be conscious about them...because the right person will also do the same 🙂

All the best !! Try not to think to much about it !! Remember !! We *fall* so we can get up Stronger ^^
Hi IamTheRam

I'm writing this post to just say a sincere thanks to you! Ive taken your advice and in trying my best to stay occupied with other things. Trying to even reinvent myself with what all i can do. Things at my job are really at worst shape, I've zero social circle in this city and overall there's a lot of struggle to prove myself evry freaking day. I miss him like hell and i know he ain't coming back ever which drives me to pieces. But i come back to read your words every time I'm low.

I know I'm just another post for you and you're quite large hearted to have helped so mny people over the years, but thank you so much for being there when i needed the most.

I wish you all the happiness and luck and success in whatever you do. Your words will always be special to me 😊

Thanks for reading my looooong post! Stay blessed
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Thank You for your words...I realy don't know what else to say about it...i was kinda at a loss here..

But...remember this, "It's in the presence of *darkness* that Light always shines the brightest".

Why don't you stick arround here ?..share a bit of your story, a bit of who you are..you will see that you will find some good people here...maybe people that are like you...and who knows, you can even make some new freinds, and that will surely help you forget about the strugles of real life.

As for your current Love situation...Life always finds a way...don't ever forget about that either...

And that's who we are...and what we always must be...both Light and Life...as long as we remain both, everything will turn out for the best...it always does.

I won't forget about you either and your very kind words...thank you...and smile, the best is yet to come...you will see ^^

All The Best for you and your Family.