do u sweet talk females just 2 get in their pants?

i was communcatin with this aries thru txt and msn a while back and he was the sweeeetest guy ever. honestly it was almost too good to be true i just couldn't believe it. i was complimented everytime and he said he wanted to be with me and that he couldnt get me out of his head. anyway i hadnt spoken to him for a while, like a month or so. then i log into msn and "ta-dah" there he is. we spoke and just as i was about to get comfortable wid him i asked if he wanted to go on a date and he said he was with someone else, but that he wasnt over me just yet. this made me wonder. are you rams genuine or do u just act like butter wouldn't melt to get in a girls pants only to dump her and make her feel like a cheap slut afterward?

"are you rams genuine or do u just act like butter wouldn't melt to get in a girls pants only to dump her and make her feel like a cheap slut afterward?"

lol, well, that remark ought to get somebody's attention in here. Not an Aries here, and it's likey if one does respond it will be on the defense rather than anything constructional and honest.

What's more likely than him just wanting to get in your pants, is him just trying to make you jealous and envious of the other woman, who is probably fictional. In my experience with people who do this (not just Aries, or just males), this is their aim.

Think about it logically, if a man was really in a relationship with another female, he's NOT going to tell you that he's taken . . that would be too risky for you saying, "Hell no, asshole", because most women would consider that disgraceful. So, it doesn't even make sense that there is someone else.

It's just a game . . if you think someone else has him . . you might FIGHT for him. That's a lot of attention for just one person . . to have to be won over . . there's no such thing as too much attention for the ram, so, who knows, maybe there are many he's trying to get attention from.

What I know for sure, is a man who wants something on the side, isn't going to go through that much effort to get in a woman's pants, just to turn around and say, "Oh, by the way, I'm taken". He's attention whoring, it sounds like to me.

when i tell women that i'm interested in that i'm taken, it's for the express purpose of being honest with them . i am interested in finding another person to go out with on occasion . i've discussed it with my girlfriend and she said okay . if the other woman says okay and i find myself compatible with her, then i might go for it . the problem is the latter condition, unfortunately... :/

I think this is a phase that alot of aries guys go through. The womanizer phase. When they realize the effect they can have on women. Eighter way, you cant trust THIS one. He butters you up when he has a GF, then he will do it again if you two get together. If hes just gaming you, you dont need to put up with a guy that constantly makes you jealous. he might make you feel good, but he also makes you feel confused and bad. tight-ass, I say people are like apples. good apples, bad apples.