Do you prefer to be contacted?

This topic was created in the Aries forum by kissmygrits on Wednesday, October 23, 2013 and has 11 replies.

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@kissmygrits
14 Years5,000+ PostsCancer

If you don't hear from someone. I know we all get busy. I just don't like bothering people. And I'm a dork. But I don't want to make someone think I'm ignoring them.

Usually if I don't hear anything in a few days I send a funny picture or youtube video of a cat in a shark suit on a roomba or something.

What's the point of smothering? What isn't? I don't want to be THAT chick.

Much thanks!

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@upss
18 Years

hehe...i know an aries who sends funny photos all the time.. so wait.. what do want to hear as a response to the funny pics? do u like the person to start chatting or prefer just a short answer ?

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@Diora_Capri
17 Years

Lets go for Chatting -howd we do that? I read that aries is intellectual so maybe a stimulating conversation about current news? Lol. Yea I know, im bad at this, I admit:p

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@kissmygrits
14 Years5,000+ PostsCancer

Those are good. I mean you hang out with someone a lot then work gets in the way and both are very busy and only have time to hang out on the weekend and even then it's at social gatherings. I'm trying to keep it going and keep it interesting without being a clinger.

That probably didn't make sense either.

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@kissmygrits
14 Years5,000+ PostsCancer

Yes that is so true! I'm just trying to be considerate and not be a derp. This past week I got paranoid and was all "Oh my gawd he's tired of me! /facepalm" then after thinking about I hadn't been keeping in touch myself.

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@dragoneyes
15 Years

Im an aries woman and believe me we do not initiate contact and not sure if all aries is like this but i dont like texting or speaking or being in contact with anyone every 5 min. Life is to short to for an aries person to spend it chatting the whole day. We just cant sit still to long.

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@kissmygrits
14 Years5,000+ PostsCancer

I noticed that. I haven't seen nor heard from him in a week but I was doing my own thing anyway. Problem is even though I respect he's busy with everything. It's just the saying "out of sight, out if mind" is starting. I'm fighting it though because he's awesome.

I did meet up with him last night to catch up. I get annoyed with last minute call ups but for him I let it slide because I know he's been working a lot.