Aries women as cold ?

People often misinterpret my no bullshit attitude as being cold and aloof. Most of these comments come from other women at work, who I do not want as friends. I told this Sag gal, "I come here to get paid not make new friends". I have a close group of best friends that consist of 3 aries, and I'm fine with those girls lol.

Plus once people prove to me how untrustworthy or backstabbing they are, that is it!

i see nothing wrong with it.. i love a feisty fiery woman...whew i love it lol, aries and leo women are my favorites 🙂

The Aries females I know aren't cold, really. They can demand their space. They can be very clear that they don't like you, when they don't like you. I find lots of other females to be cold in the way they treat people. Just plain disdain and haughtiness. These are not characteristics I see in Aries females.

I wouldn't say I was cold, I can be distant if I'm unsure of another persons character. I tend to only put effort and time into my close friends. I will agree with the part dofacc said about how other females can be cold in the way they treat people. I can see a fake person/girl right from the start and want nothing to do with that. So I either ignore you or if you don't get the hint be a bitch and let you know. I don't put up a fake face and pretend I like you. It's better for both parties that way.

Exactly people, We aries just don't take people's shit.

ariespiscesgirl : That's the story of my life! and yes we actually take awhile to really trust like Scorpio's.

Ehhh I can be REALLY cold... but... I'm pretty sure that's my Scorp Moon. lol

ha, I'm the same way at work.

"Fuck this, I'm here to make money, not socialize or make bffs with anyone."

Posted by SingASong41
Nah, I don't think so 🙂 I've had a couple of Aries girls as friends. They were fun, and easy to get along with, but they definitely do have a tough exterior. But it seemed like after I made them laugh a few times, they became a lot more friendly. 🙂

you virgo's always make us laugh. But the tough exterior stays on, until you prove your not a robot.

Aries woman are fiery but, that's just how we vibrate. I don't care what others think about me, I have a million other things to think about. Life is too short to be hung up on the insecurities of others.

Posted by ariespiscesgirl
People often misinterpret my no bullshit attitude as being cold and aloof. Most of these comments come from other women at work, who I do not want as friends. I told this Sag gal, "I come here to get paid not make new friends". I have a close group of best friends that consist of 3 aries, and I'm fine with those girls lol.

Plus once people prove to me how untrustworthy or backstabbing they are, that is it!

Anyone who is thick enough not to be able to figger out "no bullshit" from "cold and aloof" is not anyone you need to have in your team.
Keep it real rams.

Awww thank you ladies & gentlemen ^^

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Posted by ariespiscesgirl
People often misinterpret my no bullshit attitude as being cold and aloof. Most of these comments come from other women at work, who I do not want as friends. I told this Sag gal, "I come here to get paid not make new friends". I have a close group of best friends that consist of 3 aries, and I'm fine with those girls lol.

Plus once people prove to me how untrustworthy or backstabbing they are, that is it!

Anyone who is thick enough not to be able to figger out "no bullshit" from "cold and aloof" is not anyone you need to have in your team.
Keep it real rams.

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It occurs to me that Aries females have a real "I don't need Anybody for Nothin' attitude. This attitude is quite correct, imho. Also, "if you got somethin' you think I might like, bring it on!" would be another way of looking at this whole thing.

Cold and distant, I just don't see it that way. Challenge you to prove yourself, now we are talking.

I'm an eyes and yeah I turn cold and bitter if I get pissed off or heartbroken ! But only to the ones who did to me , but always have a brave and happy face in front of others sometimes to the one that hurt is but we never forgive !

Im far from cold, i try and make everyone feel important, and its just part of my charachter. I have a handful of close friends and a whole lot of aqquaintances. My friendship is solid and loyal.. but let me tell you, you screw me over, backstab, whatever,, you will feel aries ice. They say its worse than aries fire.. just recently, my bff totally stabbed me in the back.. cut her off like old jeans... Done! My ex husband.. done!

I am action oriented and in deed, I am hot. Other than that, flame -off.

I can def be cold and aloof...its just in my nature

but I can also be hot and passionate i am a fire sign. But I am not always "on"

that would be both annoying and exhausting.

I have had guys tell me they think I dont need anyone and well that really hurt me...because who doesnt need someone some of the time? I get lonely too but people dont think so.

Cold when you break my heart.

Posted by starlover
I have known a few Aries women who seem very tough and cold, but when get closer to them,i have noticed they are not tough at all, but very fragile and child like at heart. I was amazed at one colleague i worked with..she was like the ice queen, but because she was moved to another office, she burst out crying and ran home..i was amazed and then felt so sorry that the toughness was just a facade. She was in her 50s at the time

Having said that she had been a right old bitch to me, so i guess what goes around comes around

i doubt she need your pity.

People arent one way. Just because she is tough doesnt mean she doesnt hurt.

I think bella means that her toughness wasn't a facade. She IS tough but she cries sometimes. Just like the rest of us.

You don't have to be empathetic to be strong. And how do you know what she was feeling? You don't so don't make assumptions. Unless she killed your family with no remorse you have no idea whether she was empathetic or not. All based in assuming. And just because you say you're empathetic doesn't mean you are. But I wouldn't know.

On assuming.

I am 17. Why shouldn't we carry on this conversation? We are not talking about anything bad or incriminating. When I question you on something or mention something that goes against what you're saying, you shoot back with you are too young. You are never too young to learn. I have lived long enough to know that one is not born empathetic. It is something we learn. We are born with an innate capacity to empathise, whether we do is up to us.

Posted by starlover
I doubt you know her? Do you?

What is wrong with feeling empathy for people

She wasn't well liked....she was known as a *bitch*. i could see why, but i still felt for her

why have you been so touchy? its palpable really

Posted by starlover
I doubt you know her? Do you?

What is wrong with feeling empathy for people

She wasn't well liked....she was known as a *bitch*. i could see why, but i still felt for her

but it sounds kinds fake the way you worded it. Passive aggressive even. Almost like you relished in her sadness.

Posted by starlover
I am an empath

That is my job, one is born that way, it is a quality, you either
are or not~~ but you are 16 so i think it better that i do not carry
this convo on with you. You are a teenager, i have one at home, adorable
but not experienced

Maybe in 20 years or so time, when you have lived, then you can pass
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SO a person your age cant carry on a convo with a 17 yr old?

Posted by starlover
I am an empath

That is my job, one is born that way, it is a quality, you either
are or not~~ but you are 16 so i think it better that i do not carry
this convo on with you. You are a teenager, i have one at home, adorable
but not experienced

Maybe in 20 years or so time, when you have lived, then you can pass
comment

The only other empath I know, besides myself, is my sister. Sure is tough bein' this way, I have to admit!

Lol after reading a bit of this, i can now pass judgement. I would be upset to if you told me I cant converse with you do to my age. Its wrong for you to assume things especially when aries are known to be wise beyond their years and speak from experience. That 17 year old seems very diligent in her wording. Sounds like she has more common sense and charisma than you. Not too be rude though. Shes totally right if you were born an empath you should be able to talk to the dead feel and see them by now.

Posted by Arietteheart
Starlover had her heart broken by an Aries. Case Closed.

its so obvious...but she will deny it

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Posted by bkbella86

Posted by starlover
I am an empath

That is my job, one is born that way, it is a quality, you either
are or not~~ but you are 16 so i think it better that i do not carry
this convo on with you. You are a teenager, i have one at home, adorable
but not experienced

Maybe in 20 years or so time, when you have lived, then you can pass
comment

SO a person your age cant carry on a convo with a 17 yr old?

Yes of course I can, but i find that particular girl petulant and difficult as i am sure her family do, sorry but i tend to save my energy for people who i choose to converse with

My teenage son is number one on my list and his friends, but beyond that i prefer more adult conversation

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Projecting much? I believe the same thing could be said about you. You're truly pathetic. Just because I don't kiss your ass when you're wrong doesn't mean I'm difficult. It means you can't take the blame. You prefer a more adult conversation? Go back to the recent threads where you have slammed Aries men. Nothing adult like about you. You don't know my family or what I'm like in the real world. But if you want to go there.. I find you bitter, bitchy, immature and whiny, and I'm sure your son, his friends and that aries man who wrecked you feel the same way too. Empath my ass. You're nothing but a burden. And as a self-proclaimed empath, I feel sorry for you AND everyone around you.

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Oh, and on behalf of all Aries, don't ever come here again. Unless you have some serious constructive criticism about our sign. Thanks.

Signed,

The petulant but lovable Aries. *muah*

Posted by starlover
*She* hasn't had her heartbroken by an Aries ladies. *She* gave him up because he couldnt grow up and *she* decided to move on from him

However *she* hopes one day to be friends with him, when he grows up some, which could take some considerable time, but *she* is willing to give him the benefit of the doubt

Seeing as there seems to be a vested interest in my love life, now you know

Okay?

😉

Case closed 🙂

why are being so passive aggressive tho? I dont really care about whom your dating but you couldnt stop talking about Aries when you were in love and now you can stop bashing them because shit didnt work out. it really obvious that is all. dont front

Posted by feby16aqua
Then we have the insults both hidden and out. There really isn't a need to make anyone feel bad. All around.
Those kinds of things...when you say them...it's just not good for your own spirit.
There shouldn't be any throwing someone's pain in their face. No ageism if we're able to see merit and be objective, and no telling people where they can and can't post.
This applies for me too.

Just some things I'm thinking about when I read this. I'm really not important though but if I can help then that's something to take here.

Your long winded today aqua sister 🙂

she has been passive aggressively bashing my sign. For a minute too. And she "Starlover" knows that.

Posted by feby16aqua
Then we have the insults both hidden and out. There really isn't a need to make anyone feel bad. All around.
Those kinds of things...when you say them...it's just not good for your own spirit.
There shouldn't be any throwing someone's pain in their face. No ageism if we're able to see merit and be objective, and no telling people where they can and can't post.
This applies for me too.

Just some things I'm thinking about when I read this. I'm really not important though but if I can help then that's something to take here.

Your long winded today aqua sister 🙂

and I dont believe anyone asked for her constructive criticism.

Hellloooooooooooooo this is an ARIES forum. We are supposed to not care about anything OR pretend we don't! Let's get back to our roots....!

Hahaha!!

Posted by dofacc

It occurs to me that Aries females have a real "I don't need Anybody for Nothin' attitude. This attitude is quite correct, imho. Also, "if you got somethin' you think I might like, bring it on!" would be another way of looking at this whole thing.

I have this mindset in relationships. My Venus is in Aries.