Does he or doesn't he?

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Please help, I am so confused. About 2 months ago I started dating a 43 year old Aries man (I am a 43 year old Gemini) We met on an online dating site & after talking for a few days, we finally went on a date. It was GREAT, So great, that we stayed up until 4am enjoying each other and met at 9am later that day. I found out that he is a long haul trucker & can be called to work at any time & can sometimes be gone for a day or two or longer. At the time, I had been laid off & was looking for another job. He asked me if I wanted to go with him to drop off some loads while I'm looking for work. I agreed to do that so know first hand that yes, he can be gone for several days at a time. Well, 10 days later LOL (which we were with each other constantly and never argued or anything) I needed to start looking for work a little harder so stayed at my place when he was on the road. We were lucky though, for the most part they were within the state so he wasnt gone for long and he always wanted me to come "home" whenever he was home. He is always very attentive to me and remembers EVERYTHING I say,down to the tiniest detail & spoils me with bubble baths, massages, clothes etc. Several times he made comments about him being my boyfriend which I really liked hearing since I am crazy about him. (When we first started talking on the phone, I told him I was looking for something serious & he said he wasnt sure about that since he had recently been divorced 6 months earlier but would never say never since no one knows what the future holds). When I was on the road & when at his home, we put rabbits to shame with how much sex we have LOL. He's told me that no other woman has made him feel this way, that all it takes is the tiniest touch from me anywhere on his body & he wants me & that our sex is the best he has ever had. I feel the same way about him. He includes in pretty much all his future plans. Well about 3 weeks ago, I started a new job, so we cant see each other as much & that's why I'm confused. I text him, & sometimes he answers some of them & other times not (he answered all before) The other night he was telling me that he's talked to other women since we met but doesnt have the urge to see or sleep w/them. When I asked why, he said because he isnt single anymore. The next day, I told him that made me feel good & he told me that he didnt say that, that he doesnt want to be a "couple" I couldnt tell if he's joking or not.WHAT DOES HE WANT PLEASE HELP
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I jokingly told him whatever, your so full of it and he just smiled at me and changed the subject and wouldnt respond to me when I asked him about it. I just find it odd that he treats me so well, and adds me into everything he plans on doing in the future and then goes and says things like that. Is he just playing head games with me or what? Talk to me Aries men, help me out please.
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I jokingly told him whatever, your so full of it and he just smiled at me and changed the subject and wouldnt respond to me when I asked him about it. I just find it odd that he treats me so well, and adds me into everything he plans on doing in the future and then goes and says things like that. Is he just playing head games with me or what? Talk to me Aries men, help me out please.



Well he did tell you he isn't looking for anything serious. Believe him. Rams are very honest.

Next time you talk to him. Ask him what he is looking for instead of what he is not looking for. That way you know exactly where you stand. 🙂

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I got a contract position as a buyer in a manufacturing plant. Yes, I do plan on asking him straight out this weekend what he is looking for instead of what he is not looking for. I am crazy about him and know he feels the same way about me. As soon as he sees me each time, he gets this huge smile on his face and hugs me super long and super tight. Then we just laugh and have fun and talk about things we want to do in the future together. So at this point, even if he tells me that he is not looking for anything serious, I am going to just continue seeing him and see what the future holds for the both of us. Just enjoy the ride. I will let everyone know what he said after we talk. If anyone has more to add or want to tell me, please do. I welcome any advice on this Aries man LOL
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I am crazy about him and know he feels the same way about me. As soon as he sees me each time, he gets this huge smile on his face and hugs me super long and super tight. Then we just laugh and have fun and talk about things we want to do in the future together. So at this point, even if he tells me that he is not looking for anything serious, I am going to just continue seeing him and see what the future holds for the both of us. Just enjoy the ride.



This....^^^^Have fun with him. 😄

I really hope some of the Aries men come in and assist.

I personally like Gems. I haven't met ONE Gem that I didn't like no matter what other planets they have. The one Gem. I was talking too well he lied about where he works so I am upset with him.

Asshole told me he is a paramedic and he is a freaking Cop. WTF. The nerve of him. What if I wanted to do something illegal or what if we get into an argument or something? Is he going to take me jail? Now, I have to rethink the entire relationship. It's just awful. 😢.
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Sorry to hear about your problems with the Gemini, but look on the bright side, if anything bad ever happens hopefully he will be able to help you out ~smile~ Do you know how or where I can go to find out what other planets he and I have? I have been wanting to do that but have no clue where to go or what search terms to use.

I am right there with you in hoping more Aries men come and help me out with my situation....CALLING ALL ARIES MEN LOL
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Hello everyone, wanted to send an update as to what happened this weekend. I went with him to drop off a load of pipes to Oklahoma so had LOTS of time with him. I asked him about the "couple" comment he had made and he just smiled at me and told me that he was just playing with me. Later that evening, I was discussing something about health insurance and before I was finished, he was saying were not getting married, were not married and I asked him if I could finish what I was going to tell him before he jumped to conclusions and he said yes, but that were not married then he paused and said yet and looked and smiled at me. I did my best to act like I didnt hear that part and continued what I was going to tell him. (Which btw, had nothing to do with us getting married or anything, just a question about my health insurance lol) The entire weekend, he was very affectionate with me and seemed like he wanted to be touching me all the time. Was very gentle and sweet. Constantly having his hand on my leg or shoulder, touching my hair, rubbing my leg or massaging me and was staring deep into my eyes, felt like he was trying to stare straight into my soul at times. So, tell me if you think I am correct in thinking I have nothing to worry about, that he is completely into me and thinking longterm not short fling—