Gemini vs. Pisces, FML.....

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uhh... im in great dilemma, just what the hell, the moment i give up on the Gemini and start liking this gorgeous Pisces girl, I find out from the Gemini that they are through with her bf and that they aren't getting back together, after all i WAS right and that was the last fukeng time i ever not believed in my own prediction because if i have then I wouldn't have had this dilemma!!

I've met the Pisces girl in the class I am taking with the Gemini, last week Gemini showed great jealousy and was pissed at me after Thursday class, i didn't know why she was being a bitsh telling me to go, so i turned around and went home and today she started bugging me so i asked her about whether she will make it to my B-day party next Sunday, and that it would prolly be all couples, having the pisces on my mind as my date whether she will be as such or not.

Frankly because I know that I am 2 clicks away from getting her, she is very into me, she ignored me in class, which I then found that its what they do if they like someone, and i spoke to her today about seeing her tomorrow in school and going to eat together which will most likely end up being a restaurant and she also mentioned that she wants to see the titanic in 3D so that could be the part 2 of the date.

BUT NOW I DON'T KNOW, I SIMPLY DON'T KNOW. I like the Pisces a lot, she is like a water Gemini, literally everything she says is the way I think, She is absolutely gorgeous, smells incredibly nice, and acts very high classy, she is a little awkward sometimes which is cute, and that's pretty much all I know about her. Today was the first time we really had a conversation over texts, though when in class we talk all the time in fact she sits near me to talk to me after she's done ignoring me. And another thing is I'm white and she is mixed Indian and black! Though the only black thing she has is her skin, which is more like brown rather than black, so she doesn't look black she looks like really tanned white girl, she is slim, small boobs, gorgeous bum, and we clearly like each other!

I don't know what to do though, even though I like her so much I can't believe the Gemini is now single, and I am still very close to her, I kept telling the Gem that she is my best friend cause she is one, and she seems to have likened it a lot, and i think if she finds out that I went out with this girl she might even cry.. and if she does let me know in any way that she likes me im afraid that ill let the fish swim a
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Facts:

Gemini:

recently broke up from a 3-4 year relationship
knows me very well just as i know her
crazy
very smart
has been avoiding me a lot recently for no reason
a good friend
can speak my native language
met most of her family

Pieces:

new girl
gorgeous
evidently single
dark skin
gonna find out more on our tomorrows date

honestly gem has been acting so terribly for the last few weeks, which i assume was the period of her break up, that I wanted nothing to do with her but to just tell her f-off, though now IDK, she definitely wouldnt want to date right after her 3-4 year relationship i would assume, but then again i can bet she will feel betrayed by me........... =[ what should I do
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Just a few general notes on Pisces-Aries compatibility... If you go for the Pisces girl, she will be slow to open up. You will really have to keep your anger and aggressiveness (as a fire sign) in check. Patience is key, she'll be indecisive, it will seem like she's ignoring you but she's probably caught up dreaming about whatever's going on in her head. She'll probably love how you're a natural leader, go ahead and take the lead, but don't force her to do things, everything she does has to be her decision. Also you'll have to be ready because she can grow suspicious fast of the littlest thing you do. She will pick up on your emotions fast, and you could get blindsided by an accusation. Be prepared to be patient, give her space, and reason with her. Basically, where you excel in mental abilities, she'll excel in emotional intelligence. The key is knowing each others' weaknesses just as much as the strengths, there will need to be compromises.

I don't know much about Gemini-Aries compatibility, but I'm sure there wouldn't be a dull moment. Just be aware that you probably won't be able to try to keep both until you decide, the Gem will get jealous or the Pisces will get suspicious and swim away.
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Posted by SilentSentinel
Just a few general notes on Pisces-Aries compatibility... If you go for the Pisces girl, she will be slow to open up. You will really have to keep your anger and aggressiveness (as a fire sign) in check. Patience is key, she'll be indecisive, it will seem like she's ignoring you but she's probably caught up dreaming about whatever's going on in her head. She'll probably love how you're a natural leader, go ahead and take the lead, but don't force her to do things, everything she does has to be her decision. Also you'll have to be ready because she can grow suspicious fast of the littlest thing you do. She will pick up on your emotions fast, and you could get blindsided by an accusation. Be prepared to be patient, give her space, and reason with her. Basically, where you excel in mental abilities, she'll excel in emotional intelligence. The key is knowing each others' weaknesses just as much as the strengths, there will need to be compromises.




+1

Tone it down if you're serious about her
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i would say to disregard all astrological compatibility bs and go with who you really think is right, and do not base decisisons based on fears or what you may regret. all that i have hard with gemini and pisces compatibility is that it is either A hell on earth or B destined to fail which have both proven to be drastically incorrect, but the belief is up to you my friend.
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nevermind about the gemini they are getting back i think she mentioned him today and i asked her if they got back together (we are much more comfy with each other now) while we were eating she said "my boyfriend" and im like "your boyfriend?" and she said "boyfriend/exboyfriend whatever" and i saw a tiny smile and we kept on talking.. also i now know for sure who her boyfriend is im gonna make a new thread to compare our charts and get down once and for all, as friends tbh we are working out amazingly.
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the fishy is on the hook though, she texted me tonight herself we had a brief talk kept it funny, i asked her to go eat together during the spring break she agreed and was really excited about it, we texted every day and i was very very flexible when she said she couldnt, she wasnt lying, but at the same time she wasnt planning on meeting up either, although always was very down to go for it, ill just proceed basing on what i know about fishes now i think thats a 100% success if i go for it
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thing is me and the gemini got VERY close... i've been watching her and who shes texting not once i saw her texting her bf or whatever he is, not even ONCE, and yesterday when something happened i was the first one who she texted and called, just to tell me, she didnt need any help or anything, and after she had a rough day i went to the store before i went home and bought her hot coffee cause she said she was cold and her favorite chips, she didnt see that coming, and even tho she acts like as if she hates when people buy stuff for her, i remembered my gem ex told me she secretly loves when ppl do that, so it was a nice surprise but of coarse i had to make it awkward in the end... by trying to give her a hug, that was the worst hug ive ever given to anyone, it was the kind of hug a virgin guy with mustache would give to a hot girl hot really touching her with the palms of his hands, and she said as i was leaving "smothering me" to which i laughed and told her not to be sad, i made it freaking awkward but it was still nice of me i think, then we exchanged few texts just to kill the awkwardness and today was a brand new day spent most of it together lol. Sucks I dont get a chance to chill with the pisces gotta fix that, i really dont wanna go for gem at this point cause i might just be a shoulder to cry on, basically, ive also started noticing that she is trying to improve me, like she will pick up on things and will point them out on purpose, so that i dont do them anymore
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Facts:

Gemini:

recently broke up from a 3-4 year relationship
knows me very well just as i know her
crazy
very smart
has been avoiding me a lot recently for no reason
a good friend
can speak my native language
met most of her family





ya...fuck that.



Seems like you are doing some things right with the gem. If you want to pursue the gem, just make sure the past issues aren't a stimulus for the progression of your relationship. I.e. You're just someone for here to rest her head on from the recent break up.
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thank you, i will make sure to be there for her but to keep her on the arms length, and if things go as they do, around summer, in a month, i will ask her to go eat sushi, for now ill just keep her mind off things that make her sad. Looking at how things were in the past, this is definitely a major step up, and when I just met her people were telling me to just ask her out, it would most likely make things awkward, though who knows.. there is another guy who she was friends with, also an aries, and born on the same day as me, at least he celebrated his bday on the same day, but he is an idiot beyond anything you've seen or heard of, she told me he was her good friend, i asked why, she said he shared very personal things about his childhood with her, that way he made her believe that they are good friends, well not for long, he is a sick on the head pervert, and when they were getting pizza together he said, she didn't tell me but i assume it was about cum/sperm she turned around and left, then she let me read his texts where he desperately was asking for forgiveness lol, she forgave him, they sort of talk when they are around but whenever we are all together and i have to leave the group she leaves with me she doesnt stay with him lol, that must drive him crazy, anyway when we fought she left, i, in around two hours went and found her, sat near her and started talking apologising, she covered her face but was looking at me in the reflection of her laptop lol, i looked at it and she was smiling, then she gave me(what she told me after a fake) pinky promise that she isnt mad, but we openly spoke about it later so