Guesd who finally grew a pair and asked me out (Page 2)

This topic was created in the Aries forum by DMV on Friday, April 22, 2016 and has 128 replies.

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Posted by DMV

Posted by RamOfPeace
I threw up in my mouth a little at this thread.

Whys that? Aries arent prudes.

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Hah no we are not, but this type of endeavor to me is like permanent adolescence complex.

"Oh I'm gonna do all these awesome things to him and then... BOOM! Dump him. Ah ah ah. I'm such a bad biatch".

Lol... come onnn.

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Posted by AriesLove

Posted by DMVFangirl

Posted by DMV
Well....the aries isnt interested anymore. No sex to be had. No stories to tell.

He has a thing for my friend/ coworker.

I didnt even get to first base.

I can't believe I came back and had hope for this fuckboy. Stop messing with Aries dudes....so lame.

She was too nice. You have to be mean and don't give a D about them. They'll be all over you then.

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Agreed. You have to be a bitch to an aries man.

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Posted by DMVFangirl

Posted by DMV
Well....the aries isnt interested anymore. No sex to be had. No stories to tell.

He has a thing for my friend/ coworker.

I didnt even get to first base.

I can't believe I came back and had hope for this fuckboy. Stop messing with Aries dudes....so lame.

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2nd one that turned out not in my favor.

Yeah i gotta put aries men on the no fly list

I should have known better really

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Posted by DMV
It really burns me up inside how excited he is when he talks about liking her.

that was really mean and insensitive of him to ask you out and lead you on if he had a thing for one of your coworkers. why would he do that? you should be mad at him. and talking about her on top of that..

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Before we went out, he would talk to me about other girls he was dating. I couldn't really get upset cause he's single. He would talk about my friend to me and i found it odd but didnt i couldnt really ask him to stop cause hea single. Like he would bring her up when she had nothing to do with the convo.

Then he asked me out so i thought it was just him feeling me out, looking for consistency. We went out and i was super pumped. The second i sat down his first words was that he had a date the next day. Took the wind right out of my sail. But again hes single and i was already out with him and didnt want to make things awkward. Then i complimented him on his tan and he starts talking about my friend and how my friend teases him about his tan. By now hes mentioned her 8 times. I should have asked him then what the deal was but i wasnt ready for the answer. Hes now asked me on 2 other dates.

A few days ago i got some chocolate as a gift and quickly went to offer him one. I was really excited cause they were homemade. He took it and said that he wanted to give it to my friend. That was the straw that broke the camel's back. He ate it but i was sick to my stomach. He would actually give something away that 1. I gave to him 2. To my friend. Ouch.

The next day i finally just asked him if he had a thing for my friend because he brings her up alot. He laughed and said that yes he did have a thing for her. Ouch again.

I havent talked to him since.

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I wasnt looking for a relationship but some respect would be nice.

Hes single so he can do what he wants.

I had to say something because i found myself growing more and more insecure. And i was getting jealous of my friend and i like her.

Just alot of unnecessary drama.

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It may also be the age factor. He super casual with his dating habits. Him talking to me about his dates made me feel friendzoned and a bit less than.

However his generation is very open and honest.

Im still going to Chicago cause eveything is paid for but it will be a solo trip.

I cant take anymore convos about her or the other girls hes seeing.

Its a turnoff and leaves me drier than the sahara.

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Is this real? Is she a troll? This OP thread is vulgar and her promiscuity is whorish. Simply disgusting! You have a right to be who you are, but it comes across tasteless, and trashy. It's so sad that something as spiritual and beautiful as sex is degraded into this animalistic experience. Simply trashy! But hey if that's how you see yourself have at it. SMH!

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Posted by DMV
It really burns me up inside how excited he is when he talks about liking her.

Most men don't like vulgarity; your thread is shrouded with a woman with incredible low self esteem, and profound self-hatred. You trashiness, and the fact that you are an easy lay will turn most men off. He probably thought "Damn if she's this easy, I wonder how many other men been up her." So sad. So sad.

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Posted by Shrewdsharpe
Is this real? Is she a troll? This OP thread is vulgar and her promiscuity is whorish. Simply disgusting! You have a right to be who you are, but it comes across tasteless, and trashy. It's so sad that something as spiritual and beautiful as sex is degraded into this animalistic experience. Simply trashy! But hey if that's how you see yourself have at it. SMH!

Though it is not my style to share about my sex life in this manner, I would never think it's ok to call someone trashy and speak about how 'sad' it is that she expresses her sexuality in this manner. We're all individuals with different views, tearing her down does nothing but make you look abrasive.
Why do you care? And to such an extreme extent?

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Posted by Datariesgirl

Posted by DMV
It may also be the age factor. He super casual with his dating habits. Him talking to me about his dates made me feel friendzoned and a bit less than.

However his generation is very open and honest.

Im still going to Chicago cause eveything is paid for but it will be a solo trip.

I cant take anymore convos about her or the other girls hes seeing.

Its a turnoff and leaves me drier than the sahara.

Enjoy your trip to Chicago DMV!

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Ty ty

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Posted by xomelindabelle

Posted by Shrewdsharpe
Is this real? Is she a troll? This OP thread is vulgar and her promiscuity is whorish. Simply disgusting! You have a right to be who you are, but it comes across tasteless, and trashy. It's so sad that something as spiritual and beautiful as sex is degraded into this animalistic experience. Simply trashy! But hey if that's how you see yourself have at it. SMH!

Though it is not my style to share about my sex life in this manner, I would never think it's ok to call someone trashy and speak about how 'sad' it is that she expresses her sexuality in this manner. We're all individuals with different views, tearing her down does nothing but make you look abrasive.
Why do you care? And to such an extreme extent?

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The really sad thing is im used to the way ppl talk down on me on dxp just because im different.

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Posted by Shrewdsharpe

Posted by DMV
It really burns me up inside how excited he is when he talks about liking her.

Most men don't like vulgarity; your thread is shrouded with a woman with incredible low self esteem, and profound self-hatred. You trashiness, and the fact that you are an easy lay will turn most men off. He probably thought "Damn if she's this easy, I wonder how many other men been up her." So sad. So sad.

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So you just joined dxp today and all ready youre this abrasive?

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Posted by tiziani
I don't really understand your entire read on this situation.

Nor do I understand the responses in this thread.

He seems all over the place, a tease and insensitive but at the same time you know better than to take it personally.

Are you really telling a scorp moon not to take things personally?

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Posted by tiziani
I don't really understand your entire read on this situation.

Nor do I understand the responses in this thread.

He seems all over the place, a tease and insensitive but at the same time you know better than to take it personally.

I mean if this is normal behavior let me know then i wont get surprised next time.

Even tho i talk about sex alot im pretty old fashioned when it comes to dating.

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Posted by DMV

Posted by xomelindabelle

Posted by Shrewdsharpe
Is this real? Is she a troll? This OP thread is vulgar and her promiscuity is whorish. Simply disgusting! You have a right to be who you are, but it comes across tasteless, and trashy. It's so sad that something as spiritual and beautiful as sex is degraded into this animalistic experience. Simply trashy! But hey if that's how you see yourself have at it. SMH!

Though it is not my style to share about my sex life in this manner, I would never think it's ok to call someone trashy and speak about how 'sad' it is that she expresses her sexuality in this manner. We're all individuals with different views, tearing her down does nothing but make you look abrasive.
Why do you care? And to such an extreme extent?

The really sad thing is im used to the way ppl talk down on me on dxp just because im different.

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Just ignore it. Some people go out of their way to project negativity onto others; all it does it make them look bad.
And this Aries dude sounds like a schmuck; this is why I never date them anymore. I did once, and it was just a huge waste of my time.

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Posted by tiziani

Posted by DMV

Posted by tiziani
I don't really understand your entire read on this situation.

Nor do I understand the responses in this thread.

He seems all over the place, a tease and insensitive but at the same time you know better than to take it personally.

I mean if this is normal behavior let me know then i wont get surprised next time.

Even tho i talk about sex alot im pretty old fashioned when it comes to dating.

When it's outright stated that meeting up is strictly based on sex, it makes it more likely to meet people who are teases imo.

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Interesting for thought

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Posted by AriesLove

Posted by xomelindabelle

Posted by Shrewdsharpe
Is this real? Is she a troll? This OP thread is vulgar and her promiscuity is whorish. Simply disgusting! You have a right to be who you are, but it comes across tasteless, and trashy. It's so sad that something as spiritual and beautiful as sex is degraded into this animalistic experience. Simply trashy! But hey if that's how you see yourself have at it. SMH!

Though it is not my style to share about my sex life in this manner, I would never think it's ok to call someone trashy and speak about how 'sad' it is that she expresses her sexuality in this manner. We're all individuals with different views, tearing her down does nothing but make you look abrasive.
Why do you care? And to such an extreme extent?

And just like OP is able to express her hoeishness that everyone is able to view and comment on she should be able to take it.

Are you the DXP police...or her bodyguard?!? You seem a bit extreme!

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What exactly makes me a ho?

Promiscous yes

Ho no. I dont sell my body

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Posted by AriesLove

Posted by xomelindabelle

Posted by DMV

Posted by xomelindabelle

Posted by Shrewdsharpe
Is this real? Is she a troll? This OP thread is vulgar and her promiscuity is whorish. Simply disgusting! You have a right to be who you are, but it comes across tasteless, and trashy. It's so sad that something as spiritual and beautiful as sex is degraded into this animalistic experience. Simply trashy! But hey if that's how you see yourself have at it. SMH!

Though it is not my style to share about my sex life in this manner, I would never think it's ok to call someone trashy and speak about how 'sad' it is that she expresses her sexuality in this manner. We're all individuals with different views, tearing her down does nothing but make you look abrasive.
Why do you care? And to such an extreme extent?

The really sad thing is im used to the way ppl talk down on me on dxp just because im different.

Just ignore it. Some people go out of their way to project negativity onto others; all it does it make them look bad.
And this Aries dude sounds like a schmuck; this is why I never date them anymore. I did once, and it was just a huge waste of my time.

Say it ain't so...are you calling people names?!? And being negative. OMG that's so abrasive! Hypocritical RAT!

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Her whole point i think is that why when someone shares something about their life, they are met with such unfounded ridicule.

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Posted by AriesLove

Posted by xomelindabelle

Posted by DMV

Posted by xomelindabelle

Posted by Shrewdsharpe
Is this real? Is she a troll? This OP thread is vulgar and her promiscuity is whorish. Simply disgusting! You have a right to be who you are, but it comes across tasteless, and trashy. It's so sad that something as spiritual and beautiful as sex is degraded into this animalistic experience. Simply trashy! But hey if that's how you see yourself have at it. SMH!

Though it is not my style to share about my sex life in this manner, I would never think it's ok to call someone trashy and speak about how 'sad' it is that she expresses her sexuality in this manner. We're all individuals with different views, tearing her down does nothing but make you look abrasive.
Why do you care? And to such an extreme extent?

The really sad thing is im used to the way ppl talk down on me on dxp just because im different.

Just ignore it. Some people go out of their way to project negativity onto others; all it does it make them look bad.
And this Aries dude sounds like a schmuck; this is why I never date them anymore. I did once, and it was just a huge waste of my time.

Say it ain't so...are you calling people names?!? And being negative. OMG that's so abrasive! Hypocritical RAT!

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Hypocritical rat? Hah, ok. Saying someone is acting abrasive is hardly offensive. Good lord.
My response to Shrewdsharpe pales in comparison to the magnitude of her negativity.

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Posted by AriesLove

Posted by DMV

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by xomelindabelle

Posted by Shrewdsharpe
Is this real? Is she a troll? This OP thread is vulgar and her promiscuity is whorish. Simply disgusting! You have a right to be who you are, but it comes across tasteless, and trashy. It's so sad that something as spiritual and beautiful as sex is degraded into this animalistic experience. Simply trashy! But hey if that's how you see yourself have at it. SMH!

Though it is not my style to share about my sex life in this manner, I would never think it's ok to call someone trashy and speak about how 'sad' it is that she expresses her sexuality in this manner. We're all individuals with different views, tearing her down does nothing but make you look abrasive.
Why do you care? And to such an extreme extent?

And just like OP is able to express her hoeishness that everyone is able to view and comment on she should be able to take it.

Are you the DXP police...or her bodyguard?!? You seem a bit extreme!

What exactly makes me a ho?

Promiscous yes

Ho no. I dont sell my body

I didn't say prostitue. I said hoeishness. Half these people don't know which guy you are talking because it's just that many. Yes it's your choice but this is a forum and you don't mind airing so people should be able to comment without prejudice. It is vulgar and disrespectful to some. Your choice of language and details.

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That is the risk you run being vulnerable on a forum
I

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Posted by AriesLove

Posted by xomelindabelle

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by xomelindabelle

Posted by DMV

Posted by xomelindabelle

Posted by Shrewdsharpe
Is this real? Is she a troll? This OP thread is vulgar and her promiscuity is whorish. Simply disgusting! You have a right to be who you are, but it comes across tasteless, and trashy. It's so sad that something as spiritual and beautiful as sex is degraded into this animalistic experience. Simply trashy! But hey if that's how you see yourself have at it. SMH!

Though it is not my style to share about my sex life in this manner, I would never think it's ok to call someone trashy and speak about how 'sad' it is that she expresses her sexuality in this manner. We're all individuals with different views, tearing her down does nothing but make you look abrasive.
Why do you care? And to such an extreme extent?

The really sad thing is im used to the way ppl talk down on me on dxp just because im different.

Just ignore it. Some people go out of their way to project negativity onto others; all it does it make them look bad.
And this Aries dude sounds like a schmuck; this is why I never date them anymore. I did once, and it was just a huge waste of my time.

Say it ain't so...are you calling people names?!? And being negative. OMG that's so abrasive! Hypocritical RAT!

Hypocritical rat? Hah, ok. Saying someone is acting abrasive is hardly offensive. Good lord.

I'm repeating your nonsense. Took you awhile but now you see my point. You tell a commenter they're wrong but you turn around and degrade an Aries man. What's the difference?!?

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Degrade an Aries man. Honey, please. Schmuck, yet another word that really doesn't fucking equate with level of odious remarks that came from that poster.

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Posted by AriesLove

Posted by DMV

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by DMV

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by xomelindabelle

Posted by Shrewdsharpe
Is this real? Is she a troll? This OP thread is vulgar and her promiscuity is whorish. Simply disgusting! You have a right to be who you are, but it comes across tasteless, and trashy. It's so sad that something as spiritual and beautiful as sex is degraded into this animalistic experience. Simply trashy! But hey if that's how you see yourself have at it. SMH!

Though it is not my style to share about my sex life in this manner, I would never think it's ok to call someone trashy and speak about how 'sad' it is that she expresses her sexuality in this manner. We're all individuals with different views, tearing her down does nothing but make you look abrasive.
Why do you care? And to such an extreme extent?

And just like OP is able to express her hoeishness that everyone is able to view and comment on she should be able to take it.

Are you the DXP police...or her bodyguard?!? You seem a bit extreme!

What exactly makes me a ho?

Promiscous yes

Ho no. I dont sell my body

I didn't say prostitue. I said hoeishness. Half these people don't know which guy you are talking because it's just that many. Yes it's your choice but this is a forum and you don't mind airing so people should be able to comment without prejudice. It is vulgar and disrespectful to some. Your choice of language and details.

That is the risk you run being vulnerable on a forum
I

Exactly so tell your butch bodyguard you don't need her D1CK

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Your irrationality is really quite comical. I have no patience for visceral neanderthals. -block-

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Posted by AriesLove

Posted by DMV

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by DMV

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by xomelindabelle

Posted by Shrewdsharpe
Is this real? Is she a troll? This OP thread is vulgar and her promiscuity is whorish. Simply disgusting! You have a right to be who you are, but it comes across tasteless, and trashy. It's so sad that something as spiritual and beautiful as sex is degraded into this animalistic experience. Simply trashy! But hey if that's how you see yourself have at it. SMH!

Though it is not my style to share about my sex life in this manner, I would never think it's ok to call someone trashy and speak about how 'sad' it is that she expresses her sexuality in this manner. We're all individuals with different views, tearing her down does nothing but make you look abrasive.
Why do you care? And to such an extreme extent?

And just like OP is able to express her hoeishness that everyone is able to view and comment on she should be able to take it.

Are you the DXP police...or her bodyguard?!? You seem a bit extreme!

What exactly makes me a ho?

Promiscous yes

Ho no. I dont sell my body

I didn't say prostitue. I said hoeishness. Half these people don't know which guy you are talking because it's just that many. Yes it's your choice but this is a forum and you don't mind airing so people should be able to comment without prejudice. It is vulgar and disrespectful to some. Your choice of language and details.

That is the risk you run being vulnerable on a forum
I

Exactly so tell your butch bodyguard you don't need her D1CK

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I wasnt actually agreeing. Just stating how its not a good thing to be vulnearable.

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Posted by AriesLove

Posted by xomelindabelle

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by DMV

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by DMV

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by xomelindabelle

Posted by Shrewdsharpe
Is this real? Is she a troll? This OP thread is vulgar and her promiscuity is whorish. Simply disgusting! You have a right to be who you are, but it comes across tasteless, and trashy. It's so sad that something as spiritual and beautiful as sex is degraded into this animalistic experience. Simply trashy! But hey if that's how you see yourself have at it. SMH!

Though it is not my style to share about my sex life in this manner, I would never think it's ok to call someone trashy and speak about how 'sad' it is that she expresses her sexuality in this manner. We're all individuals with different views, tearing her down does nothing but make you look abrasive.
Why do you care? And to such an extreme extent?

And just like OP is able to express her hoeishness that everyone is able to view and comment on she should be able to take it.

Are you the DXP police...or her bodyguard?!? You seem a bit extreme!

What exactly makes me a ho?

Promiscous yes

Ho no. I dont sell my body

I didn't say prostitue. I said hoeishness. Half these people don't know which guy you are talking because it's just that many. Yes it's your choice but this is a forum and you don't mind airing so people should be able to comment without prejudice. It is vulgar and disrespectful to some. Your choice of language and details.

That is the risk you run being vulnerable on a forum
I

Exactly so tell your butch bodyguard you don't need her D1CK

Your irrationality is really quite comical.

Glad you can laugh at yourself.

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I'm sorry you weren't hugged enough as a child.

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Posted by starlover
I would have said that a while back DMV, that it's not good to be vulnerable

Now I discover it is.....I am healing all my past hurts by allowing myself to feel vulnerable

Scary stuff....but worth the risk. IMO

My story can help someone. Plenty of ppl read here only and never post.