Help dealing with this aries child

Need help, ill give you a check if you solve this to me 😆

She is the only child of my girlfriend, 8 years Old. Her parents divorced when she was 3 so im the first boyfriend in da house. I love them both and she loves me but this aries lil girl is anoying me all the time. Im tired. She likes me but she is constantly challenging me.. yes i know “challenge” is the keyword for aries but i dont give a damn.. i hate challenges, it gets worst when it comes from closed ones. I want peace at home mainly, quiet and nice ambient. So i want to know how to deal with this lil girl for the sake of our relation.. i feel that this could be a real problem in future, i feel i can t live with them because of that. At this moment i wouldnt move.

Please spare me aries coments or “she is only a child”. I already know that, and at this time this problem comes from enough time to write this as you might know. If you really want to help me please focus in solutions dealing with an aries lil girl.

Problem 1: her Mom. Her Mom cant handle crticism about her daughter. I think most of this aries problems and 24 hour tantrums comes from her mother, my gf. I mean she is the perfect mom but i think she shuts up since she knows she left her dad and because her dad wasn t home most of the time. I understand that but lil aries is starting to get impossible.

Problem 2:

Examples: lil aries is rude, doesn t say good bye when i left home. Its a mater of education, her mom should be more rigid but forgives because i dont know what.

Problem 3:

I know work function of aries people. Outdoor they are the best until you start to live/date with one of them. Try to live with them.. My ex was an aries and Oh MY!! The worst relation i ever had since we move tog. Nightmare, constant conflict and fight coming from her. I left her and it was the best decision of my life.

A possible solution that i start today. I read in trusted psichic. The solution is saying NO! To aries. Say no, no matter how she will get. The problem is im able to do that but her mother is not able to acept that. I told her No! Today, she was like a normal kid very sad since i didn t let her way. What do you think in this ideia? Saying no to aries several times until she stops or leave me at peace?

Thank you

Also her mother isnt ver confy in leting me educate her daughter which put me in a dificult position which is: i can t respond to her daughter tantrums and i must acept bad behaviours coming from her daughter.

you're just a boyfriend not even living together and you already want to educate the daughter?

I don't think most mom will accept that.

anyway, just wait till she's like 11 she will be all over musical.ly or something, you be dead to her 😆

Posted by Endless

you're just a boyfriend not even living together and you already want to educate the daughter?

I don't think most mom will accept that.

anyway, just wait till she's like 11 she will be all over musical.ly or something, you be dead to her 😆

We r dating almost 2 years. We are going slowly because of her. Besides that w are a stable couple, our familys are conected already, so just not just a boyfriend. Ive been staying with them at weekend since last christmas. Too much time in this environment. For example today i was with sag in her home when lik aries come from her father house. Fisrt tantrum was: im bored and i dont like tha he is here. Besides that sentence i know she loves me but it is hard to digest that sentence. Im tired

Posted by leoSunCancermoon

Need help, ill give you a check if you solve this to me 😆

She is the only child of my girlfriend, 8 years Old. Her parents divorced when she was 3 so im the first boyfriend in da house. I love them both and she loves me but this aries lil girl is anoying me all the time. Im tired. She likes me but she is constantly challenging me.. yes i know “challenge” is the keyword for aries but i dont give a damn.. i hate challenges, it gets worst when it comes from closed ones. I want peace at home mainly, quiet and nice ambient. So i want to know how to deal with this lil girl for the sake of our relation.. i feel that this could be a real problem in future, i feel i can t live with them because of that. At this moment i wouldnt move.

Please spare me aries coments or “she is only a child”. I already know that, and at this time this problem comes from enough time to write this as you might know. If you really want to help me please focus in solutions dealing with an aries lil girl.

Problem 1: her Mom. Her Mom cant handle crticism about her daughter. I think most of this aries problems and 24 hour tantrums comes from her mother, my gf. I mean she is the perfect mom but i think she shuts up since she knows she left her dad and because her dad wasn t home most of the time. I understand that but lil aries is starting to get impossible.

Problem 2:

Examples: lil aries is rude, doesn t say good bye when i left home. Its a mater of education, her mom should be more rigid but forgives because i dont know what.

Problem 3:

I know work function of aries people. Outdoor they are the best until you start to live/date with one of them. Try to live with them.. My ex was an aries and Oh MY!! The worst relation i ever had since we move tog. Nightmare, constant conflict and fight coming from her. I left her and it was the best decision of my life.

A possible solution that i start today. I read in trusted psichic. The solution is saying NO! To aries. Say no, no matter how she will get. The problem is im able to do that but her mother is not able to acept that. I told her No! Today, she was like a normal kid very sad since i didn t let her way. What do you think in this ideia? Saying no to aries several times until she stops or leave me at peace?

Thank you

Problem 1: You are fucking crazy.

Problem 2: You are fucking crazy.

Problem 3: You are fucking crazy

The child is a normal 8 y.o.

You on the other hand, are fucking crazy.

Maybe do something just you and the kid? Something fun so you two can build on the relationship. Talk to her lol she's 8

This one kills me. Is this MF serious?

"[She] doesn t say good bye when i left home."

This is THE pettiest shit ever. Are you 8? Like you the 8 y.o. lil girl.

I hope single mothers see this shit. Keep these MFs outta ya house. They don't care for ya kids. They fucking crazy. OMG.

You lucky somma bitch. You're lucky you're not with a woman with teenage boys. They would smell this on you and plot ways to FU up. Stupid.

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Posted by leoSunCancermoon

Need help, ill give you a check if you solve this to me 😆

She is the only child of my girlfriend, 8 years Old. Her parents divorced when she was 3 so im the first boyfriend in da house. I love them both and she loves me but this aries lil girl is anoying me all the time. Im tired. She likes me but she is constantly challenging me.. yes i know “challenge” is the keyword for aries but i dont give a damn.. i hate challenges, it gets worst when it comes from closed ones. I want peace at home mainly, quiet and nice ambient. So i want to know how to deal with this lil girl for the sake of our relation.. i feel that this could be a real problem in future, i feel i can t live with them because of that. At this moment i wouldnt move.

Please spare me aries coments or “she is only a child”. I already know that, and at this time this problem comes from enough time to write this as you might know. If you really want to help me please focus in solutions dealing with an aries lil girl.

Problem 1: her Mom. Her Mom cant handle crticism about her daughter. I think most of this aries problems and 24 hour tantrums comes from her mother, my gf. I mean she is the perfect mom but i think she shuts up since she knows she left her dad and because her dad wasn t home most of the time. I understand that but lil aries is starting to get impossible.

Problem 2:

Examples: lil aries is rude, doesn t say good bye when i left home. Its a mater of education, her mom should be more rigid but forgives because i dont know what.

Problem 3:

I know work function of aries people. Outdoor they are the best until you start to live/date with one of them. Try to live with them.. My ex was an aries and Oh MY!! The worst relation i ever had since we move tog. Nightmare, constant conflict and fight coming from her. I left her and it was the best decision of my life.

A possible solution that i start today. I read in trusted psichic. The solution is saying NO! To aries. Say no, no matter how she will get. The problem is im able to do that but her mother is not able to acept that. I told her No! Today, she was like a normal kid very sad since i didn t let her way. What do you think in this ideia? Saying no to aries several times until she stops or leave me at peace?

Thank you

Problem 1: You are fucking crazy.

Problem 2: You are fucking crazy.

Problem 3: You are fucking crazy

The child is a normal 8 y.o.

You on the other hand, are fucking crazy.

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Aries right?

... stupid

U sound like sensitive bitch lol

Take her outside somewhere fun & let her wear herself out. Put her in sports or something, so she doesn't have to sit around and look at ur ugly as all day.

Posted by 777

U sound like sensitive bitch lol

Take her outside somewhere fun & let her wear herself out. Put her in sports or something, so she doesn't have to sit around and look at ur ugly as all day.

😯

Won most beautiful smile of the year at my university some years ago. My ugly face suits well on your sister.

Posted by leoSunCancermoon

Posted by 777

U sound like sensitive bitch lol

Take her outside somewhere fun & let her wear herself out. Put her in sports or something, so she doesn't have to sit around and look at ur ugly as all day.

😯

Won most beautiful smile of the year at my university some years ago. My ugly face suits well on your sister.

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U missed the point of my post because you're a narcissist.

Posted by leoSunCancermoon

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by leoSunCancermoon

Need help, ill give you a check if you solve this to me 😆

She is the only child of my girlfriend, 8 years Old. Her parents divorced when she was 3 so im the first boyfriend in da house. I love them both and she loves me but this aries lil girl is anoying me all the time. Im tired. She likes me but she is constantly challenging me.. yes i know “challenge” is the keyword for aries but i dont give a damn.. i hate challenges, it gets worst when it comes from closed ones. I want peace at home mainly, quiet and nice ambient. So i want to know how to deal with this lil girl for the sake of our relation.. i feel that this could be a real problem in future, i feel i can t live with them because of that. At this moment i wouldnt move.

Please spare me aries coments or “she is only a child”. I already know that, and at this time this problem comes from enough time to write this as you might know. If you really want to help me please focus in solutions dealing with an aries lil girl.

Problem 1: her Mom. Her Mom cant handle crticism about her daughter. I think most of this aries problems and 24 hour tantrums comes from her mother, my gf. I mean she is the perfect mom but i think she shuts up since she knows she left her dad and because her dad wasn t home most of the time. I understand that but lil aries is starting to get impossible.

Problem 2:

Examples: lil aries is rude, doesn t say good bye when i left home. Its a mater of education, her mom should be more rigid but forgives because i dont know what.

Problem 3:

I know work function of aries people. Outdoor they are the best until you start to live/date with one of them. Try to live with them.. My ex was an aries and Oh MY!! The worst relation i ever had since we move tog. Nightmare, constant conflict and fight coming from her. I left her and it was the best decision of my life.

A possible solution that i start today. I read in trusted psichic. The solution is saying NO! To aries. Say no, no matter how she will get. The problem is im able to do that but her mother is not able to acept that. I told her No! Today, she was like a normal kid very sad since i didn t let her way. What do you think in this ideia? Saying no to aries several times until she stops or leave me at peace?

Thank you

Problem 1: You are fucking crazy.

Problem 2: You are fucking crazy.

Problem 3: You are fucking crazy

The child is a normal 8 y.o.

You on the other hand, are fucking crazy.

Aries right?

... stupid

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Pedo right?

...hellspawn.

She is an 8 year old child. Get over yourself and remove yourself from that home.

i dont know if this will help. my grandson is a leo and i am an aries and we clash a lot. he is a huge drama king. most leo guys i have met are on the drama side. sometimes good and sometime not. so he is a fire sign with a lot of energy and when i was young i had a lot of energy to. its best to get that energy out of them be for talking to them. one thing i remember when i was a little aries girls was my moms boyfriends talking down to me. the other thing is with in any child it is staying in control of yourself. a parent or adult looses control the child will loose it. my little leo grandson does not say good bye to me so i remind him. he gets caught up in himself. i am saying this because i would get caught up in myself as a child too. kids want attention and they will get it one way or the other. doesnt matter if its good attention or bad attention. you have to look for everything good she does and give attention to that. one thing that pissed me off as a child was everyone treated me like i was broke when i was just very passionate is all. the biggest is getting her energy out. lol sometimes i would cause problems because i was soo bored off my ass as a child. hope some of this helps

A child not saying goodbye to you is rude? Dude you got some issues.

Posted by WitchmitchAries

i dont know if this will help. my grandson is a leo and i am an aries and we clash a lot. he is a huge drama king. most leo guys i have met are on the drama side. sometimes good and sometime not. so he is a fire sign with a lot of energy and when i was young i had a lot of energy to. its best to get that energy out of them be for talking to them. one thing i remember when i was a little aries girls was my moms boyfriends talking down to me. the other thing is with in any child it is staying in control of yourself. a parent or adult looses control the child will loose it. my little leo grandson does not say good bye to me so i remind him. he gets caught up in himself. i am saying this because i would get caught up in myself as a child too. kids want attention and they will get it one way or the other. doesnt matter if its good attention or bad attention. you have to look for everything good she does and give attention to that. one thing that pissed me off as a child was everyone treated me like i was broke when i was just very passionate is all. the biggest is getting her energy out. lol sometimes i would cause problems because i was soo bored off my ass as a child. hope some of this helps

Well thank you very much. my interest is right there when i create this post. Learning to understand this lil aries in order to get harmony. Yes you right. Sometimes i stay with her while her mom works. She used to stay at granparent house but start to stay with me. When this happens she is totally diferent. We play games all the time, speak, she ask me a lot of things personal and professional questions (she is very inteligent and sweet) and she s also very warm towards me in this situations. I also ask her some personal things to let feel confy with me. The problem is when the “firsts” occur. When we 3 first travelled and stayed far from home, she f* my head the whole weekend challenging me. It was a nightmare. I just wanted peace. Last weekend she was surprised knowing that i was already home when she arrived from her dads house. I think astrological here, i think the fact that i was home first, “killed her”. She must be first in everything, i already perceived that and i m ok with that, in fact i like. Of course some of her ideias has no benefit and the problem is when her idea is back of by me because i genuinely say that “that is not good”. She sudently start making tantrum and it's very dificult for me handle that situations, partially because i dont want to hurt her and let her feelings down, and at the other hand because im not her dad to say “No!”. For example: last month her uncle offered her a new bike. A bigger one, she was learning riding. I told her with cautious (i know that ideas must come from her first) “come outside ill teach you riding” my point was, if she learn with me riding a bicicle it would be a big step for us. She accepted with some tantrum because i had the idea. When we start, i embrace her towards bicicle to let her feel secure and start riding slowly, and i told her: now make force with your foot to feel the bike moving. She did it but sudently she wanted to challenge me puting lot of force in the pedal and after that my only concern was her security and we couldn t make it ☹️

We already had fun in summer playing tenis, at the sea wherever. But sometimes she challenge me like crazy, it's too much for me. Last time when she arrived from her dads home it was a nightmare. All day long challenge me while we were making christmas tree.. should be a nice day and she only wanted to challenge me. 😆 the rudness i note it is true and at this time i blame her mother, my love, sorry babe. She should stop her and teach her to be polite and nice towards people. Only with that education she will face the cold world outhere when teenager. Like i said i can t do anything at this point. Yes i do pay atention when she is food nice and has good manners. I say, thank you very much, or when she offer me candies and i dont want it i tell her, thank you very much. I know she perceive when i pay atention. When she challenged me i just want to run away 🙈

Yes i could have any other woman with no kids but who the heks r you to tell me to date with.. 😂 maybe, we love each other.... ? 🙈 and thats why i choose to get the full package.

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Posted by WitchmitchAries

i dont know if this will help. my grandson is a leo and i am an aries and we clash a lot. he is a huge drama king. most leo guys i have met are on the drama side. sometimes good and sometime not. so he is a fire sign with a lot of energy and when i was young i had a lot of energy to. its best to get that energy out of them be for talking to them. one thing i remember when i was a little aries girls was my moms boyfriends talking down to me. the other thing is with in any child it is staying in control of yourself. a parent or adult looses control the child will loose it. my little leo grandson does not say good bye to me so i remind him. he gets caught up in himself. i am saying this because i would get caught up in myself as a child too. kids want attention and they will get it one way or the other. doesnt matter if its good attention or bad attention. you have to look for everything good she does and give attention to that. one thing that pissed me off as a child was everyone treated me like i was broke when i was just very passionate is all. the biggest is getting her energy out. lol sometimes i would cause problems because i was soo bored off my ass as a child. hope some of this helps

Well thank you very much. my interest is right there when i create this post. Learning to understand this lil aries in order to get harmony. Yes you right. Sometimes i stay with her while her mom works. She used to stay at granparent house but start to stay with me. When this happens she is totally diferent. We play games all the time, speak, she ask me a lot of things personal and professional questions (she is very inteligent and sweet) and she s also very warm towards me in this situations. I also ask her some personal things to let feel confy with me. The problem is when the “firsts” occur. When we 3 first travelled and stayed far from home, she f* my head the whole weekend challenging me. It was a nightmare. I just wanted peace. Last weekend she was surprised knowing that i was already home when she arrived from her dads house. I think astrological here, i think the fact that i was home first, “killed her”. She must be first in everything, i already perceived that and i m ok with that, in fact i like. Of course some of her ideias has no benefit and the problem is when her idea is back of by me because i genuinely say that “that is not good”. She sudently start making tantrum and it's very dificult for me handle that situations, partially because i dont want to hurt her and let her feelings down, and at the other hand because im not her dad to say “No!”. For example: last month her uncle offered her a new bike. A bigger one, she was learning riding. I told her with cautious (i know that ideas must come from her first) “come outside ill teach you riding” my point was, if she learn with me riding a bicicle it would be a big step for us. She accepted with some tantrum because i had the idea. When we start, i embrace her towards bicicle to let her feel secure and start riding slowly, and i told her: now make force with your foot to feel the bike moving. She did it but sudently she wanted to challenge me puting lot of force in the pedal and after that my only concern was her security and we couldn t make it ☹️

We already had fun in summer playing tenis, at the sea wherever. But sometimes she challenge me like crazy, it's too much for me. Last time when she arrived from her dads home it was a nightmare. All day long challenge me while we were making christmas tree.. should be a nice day and she only wanted to challenge me. 😆 the rudness i note it is true and at this time i blame her mother, my love, sorry babe. She should stop her and teach her to be polite and nice towards people. Only with that education she will face the cold world outhere when teenager. Like i said i can t do anything at this point. Yes i do pay atention when she is food nice and has good manners. I say, thank you very much, or when she offer me candies and i dont want it i tell her, thank you very much. I know she perceive when i pay atention. When she challenged me i just want to run away 🙈

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Big Hug. raising kids is very hard. everything you said i have the same problem with my grandson. lol but i also raised to daughters and some of their friends. this is what everyone would tell me about my girls. 'they are so well behaved' 😆 they were not like that way at home. So my oldest daughter has a leo moon and is married to a leo and their son is a leo so there are times the emotions run high here. a lot of drama. one tip might help dont tell her the idea is wrong. lol my grandson gets pissed off when i say that. so what i do is ask him 'what do you think will happen if you do that?' or 'this could happen?' the other thing when dealing with any kid choose your battles wisely. its ok if they win some times. its the more important battles that count. she will learn from other people not to act like a pain. its so hard to watch your kids fall but there are times you got to let them. when my grandson gets out of hand because things get to much for him i will tell him i am not going to play with you anymore till you get control of yourself. that you guys talk is a good thing but she will have days with moods just like us adults do and she will loose control like we all have. there are some great videos out there about dealing with kids. the best tips are how to keep your cool. kids loose it and it seems they always do it at the wrong time.

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Posted by WitchmitchAries

i dont know if this will help. my grandson is a leo and i am an aries and we clash a lot. he is a huge drama king. most leo guys i have met are on the drama side. sometimes good and sometime not. so he is a fire sign with a lot of energy and when i was young i had a lot of energy to. its best to get that energy out of them be for talking to them. one thing i remember when i was a little aries girls was my moms boyfriends talking down to me. the other thing is with in any child it is staying in control of yourself. a parent or adult looses control the child will loose it. my little leo grandson does not say good bye to me so i remind him. he gets caught up in himself. i am saying this because i would get caught up in myself as a child too. kids want attention and they will get it one way or the other. doesnt matter if its good attention or bad attention. you have to look for everything good she does and give attention to that. one thing that pissed me off as a child was everyone treated me like i was broke when i was just very passionate is all. the biggest is getting her energy out. lol sometimes i would cause problems because i was soo bored off my ass as a child. hope some of this helps

Well thank you very much. my interest is right there when i create this post. Learning to understand this lil aries in order to get harmony. Yes you right. Sometimes i stay with her while her mom works. She used to stay at granparent house but start to stay with me. When this happens she is totally diferent. We play games all the time, speak, she ask me a lot of things personal and professional questions (she is very inteligent and sweet) and she s also very warm towards me in this situations. I also ask her some personal things to let feel confy with me. The problem is when the “firsts” occur. When we 3 first travelled and stayed far from home, she f* my head the whole weekend challenging me. It was a nightmare. I just wanted peace. Last weekend she was surprised knowing that i was already home when she arrived from her dads house. I think astrological here, i think the fact that i was home first, “killed her”. She must be first in everything, i already perceived that and i m ok with that, in fact i like. Of course some of her ideias has no benefit and the problem is when her idea is back of by me because i genuinely say that “that is not good”. She sudently start making tantrum and it's very dificult for me handle that situations, partially because i dont want to hurt her and let her feelings down, and at the other hand because im not her dad to say “No!”. For example: last month her uncle offered her a new bike. A bigger one, she was learning riding. I told her with cautious (i know that ideas must come from her first) “come outside ill teach you riding” my point was, if she learn with me riding a bicicle it would be a big step for us. She accepted with some tantrum because i had the idea. When we start, i embrace her towards bicicle to let her feel secure and start riding slowly, and i told her: now make force with your foot to feel the bike moving. She did it but sudently she wanted to challenge me puting lot of force in the pedal and after that my only concern was her security and we couldn t make it ☹️

We already had fun in summer playing tenis, at the sea wherever. But sometimes she challenge me like crazy, it's too much for me. Last time when she arrived from her dads home it was a nightmare. All day long challenge me while we were making christmas tree.. should be a nice day and she only wanted to challenge me. 😆 the rudness i note it is true and at this time i blame her mother, my love, sorry babe. She should stop her and teach her to be polite and nice towards people. Only with that education she will face the cold world outhere when teenager. Like i said i can t do anything at this point. Yes i do pay atention when she is food nice and has good manners. I say, thank you very much, or when she offer me candies and i dont want it i tell her, thank you very much. I know she perceive when i pay atention. When she challenged me i just want to run away 🙈

Big Hug. raising kids is very hard. everything you said i have the same problem with my grandson. lol but i also raised to daughters and some of their friends. this is what everyone would tell me about my girls. 'they are so well behaved' 😆 they were not like that way at home. So my oldest daughter has a leo moon and is married to a leo and their son is a leo so there are times the emotions run high here. a lot of drama. one tip might help dont tell her the idea is wrong. lol my grandson gets pissed off when i say that. so what i do is ask him 'what do you think will happen if you do that?' or 'this could happen?' the other thing when dealing with any kid choose your battles wisely. its ok if they win some times. its the more important battles that count. she will learn from other people not to act like a pain. its so hard to watch your kids fall but there are times you got to let them. when my grandson gets out of hand because things get to much for him i will tell him i am not going to play with you anymore till you get control of yourself. that you guys talk is a good thing but she will have days with moods just like us adults do and she will loose control like we all have. there are some great videos out there about dealing with kids. the best tips are how to keep your cool. kids loose it and it seems they always do it at the wrong time.

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one more thing kids learn button push fast and they are great at it. you cant let them see that they are push the right button. you got to change how you deal with something they do. they 'i want to run away' every parent has those day. i raised a scorp and Cap and had lots of those days.

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i dont know if this will help. my grandson is a leo and i am an aries and we clash a lot. he is a huge drama king. most leo guys i have met are on the drama side. sometimes good and sometime not. so he is a fire sign with a lot of energy and when i was young i had a lot of energy to. its best to get that energy out of them be for talking to them. one thing i remember when i was a little aries girls was my moms boyfriends talking down to me. the other thing is with in any child it is staying in control of yourself. a parent or adult looses control the child will loose it. my little leo grandson does not say good bye to me so i remind him. he gets caught up in himself. i am saying this because i would get caught up in myself as a child too. kids want attention and they will get it one way or the other. doesnt matter if its good attention or bad attention. you have to look for everything good she does and give attention to that. one thing that pissed me off as a child was everyone treated me like i was broke when i was just very passionate is all. the biggest is getting her energy out. lol sometimes i would cause problems because i was soo bored off my ass as a child. hope some of this helps

Well thank you very much. my interest is right there when i create this post. Learning to understand this lil aries in order to get harmony. Yes you right. Sometimes i stay with her while her mom works. She used to stay at granparent house but start to stay with me. When this happens she is totally diferent. We play games all the time, speak, she ask me a lot of things personal and professional questions (she is very inteligent and sweet) and she s also very warm towards me in this situations. I also ask her some personal things to let feel confy with me. The problem is when the “firsts” occur. When we 3 first travelled and stayed far from home, she f* my head the whole weekend challenging me. It was a nightmare. I just wanted peace. Last weekend she was surprised knowing that i was already home when she arrived from her dads house. I think astrological here, i think the fact that i was home first, “killed her”. She must be first in everything, i already perceived that and i m ok with that, in fact i like. Of course some of her ideias has no benefit and the problem is when her idea is back of by me because i genuinely say that “that is not good”. She sudently start making tantrum and it's very dificult for me handle that situations, partially because i dont want to hurt her and let her feelings down, and at the other hand because im not her dad to say “No!”. For example: last month her uncle offered her a new bike. A bigger one, she was learning riding. I told her with cautious (i know that ideas must come from her first) “come outside ill teach you riding” my point was, if she learn with me riding a bicicle it would be a big step for us. She accepted with some tantrum because i had the idea. When we start, i embrace her towards bicicle to let her feel secure and start riding slowly, and i told her: now make force with your foot to feel the bike moving. She did it but sudently she wanted to challenge me puting lot of force in the pedal and after that my only concern was her security and we couldn t make it ☹️

We already had fun in summer playing tenis, at the sea wherever. But sometimes she challenge me like crazy, it's too much for me. Last time when she arrived from her dads home it was a nightmare. All day long challenge me while we were making christmas tree.. should be a nice day and she only wanted to challenge me. 😆 the rudness i note it is true and at this time i blame her mother, my love, sorry babe. She should stop her and teach her to be polite and nice towards people. Only with that education she will face the cold world outhere when teenager. Like i said i can t do anything at this point. Yes i do pay atention when she is food nice and has good manners. I say, thank you very much, or when she offer me candies and i dont want it i tell her, thank you very much. I know she perceive when i pay atention. When she challenged me i just want to run away 🙈

Big Hug. raising kids is very hard. everything you said i have the same problem with my grandson. lol but i also raised to daughters and some of their friends. this is what everyone would tell me about my girls. 'they are so well behaved' 😆 they were not like that way at home. So my oldest daughter has a leo moon and is married to a leo and their son is a leo so there are times the emotions run high here. a lot of drama. one tip might help dont tell her the idea is wrong. lol my grandson gets pissed off when i say that. so what i do is ask him 'what do you think will happen if you do that?' or 'this could happen?' the other thing when dealing with any kid choose your battles wisely. its ok if they win some times. its the more important battles that count. she will learn from other people not to act like a pain. its so hard to watch your kids fall but there are times you got to let them. when my grandson gets out of hand because things get to much for him i will tell him i am not going to play with you anymore till you get control of yourself. that you guys talk is a good thing but she will have days with moods just like us adults do and she will loose control like we all have. there are some great videos out there about dealing with kids. the best tips are how to keep your cool. kids loose it and it seems they always do it at the wrong time.

one more thing kids learn button push fast and they are great at it. you cant let them see that they are push the right button. you got to change how you deal with something they do. they 'i want to run away' every parent has those day. i raised a scorp and Cap and had lots of those days.

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Yes. Thata what i did last weekend when she arrived from her dada house. She already was irritated before that day with something happened in dads house. All day tantrum and challenging me, i was tired 😆 even the christmas tree that i adore was a mere object that day for the first time in my life 😂

So at the end of the day i disnt respond to any of her provocations, and sudently she came towards me to read a nee magic book. I told her: “no, you didn’t want to play with me all day long, and i am very sad now”

I remember her eyes very surprised and sad. Her mom, didnt like my coldness.. she insisted to read the book (other times i would compromise and do that) but last weeken i stick to the “no”. And after that i would do the same thing today. Bad behaviou towards me, no play. At least she learn trough my reactions. What do you think? I spoke to my older sister about this, she has 2 kids

And she promptly said. Yes, you did right. Do always in front of her mother no matter how sad ahe would be. She is a mother and she wilg get sad no matter how you do that so you must be secure of your actions.

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i dont know if this will help. my grandson is a leo and i am an aries and we clash a lot. he is a huge drama king. most leo guys i have met are on the drama side. sometimes good and sometime not. so he is a fire sign with a lot of energy and when i was young i had a lot of energy to. its best to get that energy out of them be for talking to them. one thing i remember when i was a little aries girls was my moms boyfriends talking down to me. the other thing is with in any child it is staying in control of yourself. a parent or adult looses control the child will loose it. my little leo grandson does not say good bye to me so i remind him. he gets caught up in himself. i am saying this because i would get caught up in myself as a child too. kids want attention and they will get it one way or the other. doesnt matter if its good attention or bad attention. you have to look for everything good she does and give attention to that. one thing that pissed me off as a child was everyone treated me like i was broke when i was just very passionate is all. the biggest is getting her energy out. lol sometimes i would cause problems because i was soo bored off my ass as a child. hope some of this helps

Well thank you very much. my interest is right there when i create this post. Learning to understand this lil aries in order to get harmony. Yes you right. Sometimes i stay with her while her mom works. She used to stay at granparent house but start to stay with me. When this happens she is totally diferent. We play games all the time, speak, she ask me a lot of things personal and professional questions (she is very inteligent and sweet) and she s also very warm towards me in this situations. I also ask her some personal things to let feel confy with me. The problem is when the “firsts” occur. When we 3 first travelled and stayed far from home, she f* my head the whole weekend challenging me. It was a nightmare. I just wanted peace. Last weekend she was surprised knowing that i was already home when she arrived from her dads house. I think astrological here, i think the fact that i was home first, “killed her”. She must be first in everything, i already perceived that and i m ok with that, in fact i like. Of course some of her ideias has no benefit and the problem is when her idea is back of by me because i genuinely say that “that is not good”. She sudently start making tantrum and it's very dificult for me handle that situations, partially because i dont want to hurt her and let her feelings down, and at the other hand because im not her dad to say “No!”. For example: last month her uncle offered her a new bike. A bigger one, she was learning riding. I told her with cautious (i know that ideas must come from her first) “come outside ill teach you riding” my point was, if she learn with me riding a bicicle it would be a big step for us. She accepted with some tantrum because i had the idea. When we start, i embrace her towards bicicle to let her feel secure and start riding slowly, and i told her: now make force with your foot to feel the bike moving. She did it but sudently she wanted to challenge me puting lot of force in the pedal and after that my only concern was her security and we couldn t make it ☹️

We already had fun in summer playing tenis, at the sea wherever. But sometimes she challenge me like crazy, it's too much for me. Last time when she arrived from her dads home it was a nightmare. All day long challenge me while we were making christmas tree.. should be a nice day and she only wanted to challenge me. 😆 the rudness i note it is true and at this time i blame her mother, my love, sorry babe. She should stop her and teach her to be polite and nice towards people. Only with that education she will face the cold world outhere when teenager. Like i said i can t do anything at this point. Yes i do pay atention when she is food nice and has good manners. I say, thank you very much, or when she offer me candies and i dont want it i tell her, thank you very much. I know she perceive when i pay atention. When she challenged me i just want to run away 🙈

Big Hug. raising kids is very hard. everything you said i have the same problem with my grandson. lol but i also raised to daughters and some of their friends. this is what everyone would tell me about my girls. 'they are so well behaved' 😆 they were not like that way at home. So my oldest daughter has a leo moon and is married to a leo and their son is a leo so there are times the emotions run high here. a lot of drama. one tip might help dont tell her the idea is wrong. lol my grandson gets pissed off when i say that. so what i do is ask him 'what do you think will happen if you do that?' or 'this could happen?' the other thing when dealing with any kid choose your battles wisely. its ok if they win some times. its the more important battles that count. she will learn from other people not to act like a pain. its so hard to watch your kids fall but there are times you got to let them. when my grandson gets out of hand because things get to much for him i will tell him i am not going to play with you anymore till you get control of yourself. that you guys talk is a good thing but she will have days with moods just like us adults do and she will loose control like we all have. there are some great videos out there about dealing with kids. the best tips are how to keep your cool. kids loose it and it seems they always do it at the wrong time.

one more thing kids learn button push fast and they are great at it. you cant let them see that they are push the right button. you got to change how you deal with something they do. they 'i want to run away' every parent has those day. i raised a scorp and Cap and had lots of those days.

Yes. Thata what i did last weekend when she arrived from her dada house. She already was irritated before that day with something happened in dads house. All day tantrum and challenging me, i was tired 😆 even the christmas tree that i adore was a mere object that day for the first time in my life 😂

So at the end of the day i disnt respond to any of her provocations, and sudently she came towards me to read a nee magic book. I told her: “no, you didn’t want to play with me all day long, and i am very sad now”

I remember her eyes very surprised and sad. Her mom, didnt like my coldness.. she insisted to read the book (other times i would compromise and do that) but last weeken i stick to the “no”. And after that i would do the same thing today. Bad behaviou towards me, no play. At least she learn trough my reactions. What do you think? I spoke to my older sister about this, she has 2 kids

And she promptly said. Yes, you did right. Do always in front of her mother no matter how sad ahe would be. She is a mother and she wilg get sad no matter how you do that so you must be secure of your actions.

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Just the fact that you are trying to have a good relationship with your girlfriends daughter is a big huge plus in my book. my mother was a single mother and the guys she went out with were asses. would act one way when she was around and acted other way when she was not around. to many people try to control kids which is stupid. the key is being in control of yourself which put you in a better state of mine to set boundaries and fit the consequences with the action. you standing your ground that 'i dont let someone treat me that way' and doing it in a com and controlled way. then have the good consequences for when she nice and a bad consequence when she is mean. is good. but if you use consequences to control a child they catch onto that real fast. sometimes as parent we make the mistake and do that because we are tired or got a lot going. watch yourself with that. i will tell you this. if i get the feeling someone is trying to control me enough just a little bit i go into head ramming mode 😆. there might be times where she thinks your trying to control her and you might not be meaning to, because as parents we want the child safe. i see signs that the child is heading for a tantrum before it happens and try to redirect them before shit hits the fan. but there have been time i miss the signs. i am human after all. 😆 just wait till she is a teen and boys piss her off. there were times i punched holes in the wall because of a stupid boy. lol