Ok, so like many here, I'm wondering about an Aries male. We've been dating for 3 months or so (exclusively). He told me he loves me and that he will always love me. I was supposed to move mid May but decided to stay. When I first came back (I left for 4 days) things were amazing and he was always texting me and we spent almost every night together. He started growing distant after a 'fight' we had when he canceled on me. After that, I initiated all contact for several days. Finally, I went to see him at work and he said that we should talk after he got off. He brought up not being good in relationships and asked if we'd be friends if we broke up. I told him no. He asked if it's all or nothing and I told him yes. He told me he has trust issues because of previous relationships and that it made it hard for him to trust me (most of my friends are guys). We didn't really finish the conversation that night. He kept asking me what I wanted to do and I kept telling him that I didn't know what to do. Anyways, the next day I left on a spontaneous trip for 3 days. I told him I was leaving and we'd talk when I got back. He was very succinct. I didn't contact him all day the next day or the next and that night he texted me saying he misses me. That was the night I got back and I went over and he was so sweet. Anyways, three days later told him that I thought maybe we should take some time apart because the first time it had been really good for us. He asked "What if this time isn't good for us?" And I told him idk. He said that we should talk about it over lunch the next day and I didn't hear from him. Naturally, I went off on him, telling him that I love him and that we need to talk about it. He just apologized for being busy and told me I was fine. Since then he's been REALLY distant and I've seen him only once (I showed up at his house). It's been a week (2 of those days were NC). When I saw him there he was normal. We cuddled, had sex, watched movies... he was lovey dovey but kept talking about how depressed he's been all week and hasn't wanted to do anything. I left and texted him shortly after asking if he wanted to join me for lunch after my interview. No reply. Then he blew me off later again. We texted briefly (I sexted him but he was high) Then we talked about our sex life and how he liked it. It's now been 2 days and nothing from him. Should I confront him or just give him space? I've read a lot about Aries liking to chase. Give me something...
