How would an aries mars/moon cap man show his interest?

Here are his placements that I know:

Sun - Gemini

Moon - Capricorn

Mercury - Taurus

Venus - Taurus

Mars - Aries

How do you think a guy with these placements would show his love?

This particular guy has very little Gemini traits. I've dated a couple of Geminis and my best male friend is one too, so I know them well and I don't even look at his Gemini sun. But I can definitely see the earth in him. He has a lot of capricorn traits, some Taurus and a bit of that aries too. He's currently out of the country and will be back in a couple of months so we're currently "friends". I understand him not wanting a LDR because his last one didn't end well.

So, when we were together, we would cuddle while watching TV, we would talk a lot, he opened up to me about a lot of personal things and I can see he really cares for me. He never initiated anything other than cuddling, tho (I also think that's due to a problem with his teeth that he's currently taking care of). But he would be really expressive about his desire for me. While we texted he would tell me how I drove him crazy but that he had a lot of respect for me and that's the reason he wouldn't try anything ('cause I told him I don't do hookups) and that one day he would lose his mind. These conversations were usually light hearted and just a funny exchange of bunter.

However, I believe he actually wants something serious with me when he comes back. He offered me help to deal with some family issues (that involved actually meeting my family), he's always worried about my mother and he once took me to his aunt's place for coffee, knowing what it would look like.

It's been 2 months since he left and we kept talking to each other but he has been a bit cold these past two weeks but I know he's been busy. He's been working and redoing his parents' kitchen (he even sent me pictures of it). So, given his cap moon I understand that. The other day, we were texting and he lead the conversation in a way that made me say I missed him. And last night we were texting and he started having that flirting talk again of how he would lose his mind, etc. And I asked "What's gotten into you? Is that all because you miss me?" and he said "I think so... I really enjoyed the time we spent together when no one was minding our business" (we had a couple of misunderstandings when we first started talking because of our common friends, so we decided to pretend we didn't talk to each other in public and then hang out alone).

What I'm interested in knowing is how does his cap moon and his aries mars interact with each other when it comes to show his love. Cap has trouble showing emotions in the early stages, right? And aries has a very straightforward style of flirting, right? Could this be his way of showing me he's still interested without showing his emotions and becoming vulnerable? (He's been cheated on before, btw). Also, all these flirty conversations were all done while texting. When we were together we would just look like a couple, cuddling, pillow fights and cute stuff like that and just having long conversations about life.

If it helps, here are my placements:

Sun - Virgo

Moon - Aquarius

Mercury - Libra

Venus - Scorpio

Mars - Cancer

Rising sign - Aries

Thanks in advance! 😊

I was married to a cap moon/Aries mars. But was Aries sun. Very playful, banter, spending time with you, chemistry. They do work hard too.. work hard/play hard. They have your back when they care.

Interesting I’m aqua moon too. I think cap moon/aqua moon works well together actually.

We actually went out once, and basically were together for 20 years. But I’d really say the playfulness is the way to their heart. Flirt and banter more! 🙃

Posted by PuzzlePieces

I was married to a cap moon/Aries mars. But was Aries sun. Very playful, banter, spending time with you, chemistry. They do work hard too.. work hard/play hard. They have your back when they care.

Interesting I’m aqua moon too. I think cap moon/aqua moon works well together actually.

We actually went out once, and basically were together for 20 years. But I’d really say the playfulness is the way to their heart. Flirt and banter more! 🙃

Oh that's so sweet 😍

Well, I love the banter... But there is just one thing that kinda worries me and that is the fact that sometimes, that banter gets sexual 😅 I have boundaries and he always respected them but that sexual banter sometimes makes me think "What if he just wants to get laid and not a relationship?" I'm 99% sure he's serious about me but there's the 1% of doubt caused by my insecure bitch who's been played way too many times 😅 That and the fact that sometimes he's kinda cold while texting (busy cap moon I guess?).

That's what made me think that because he doesn't want to get vulnerable yet and because aries is a quite sexual and intense sign, maybe that's his way of showing his interest?

Posted by queeneemy

Posted by PuzzlePieces

I was married to a cap moon/Aries mars. But was Aries sun. Very playful, banter, spending time with you, chemistry. They do work hard too.. work hard/play hard. They have your back when they care.

Interesting I’m aqua moon too. I think cap moon/aqua moon works well together actually.

We actually went out once, and basically were together for 20 years. But I’d really say the playfulness is the way to their heart. Flirt and banter more! 🙃

Oh that's so sweet 😍

Well, I love the banter... But there is just one thing that kinda worries me and that is the fact that sometimes, that banter gets sexual 😅 I have boundaries and he always respected them but that sexual banter sometimes makes me think "What if he just wants to get laid and not a relationship?" I'm 99% sure he's serious about me but there's the 1% of doubt caused by my insecure bitch who's been played way too many times 😅 That and the fact that sometimes he's kinda cold while texting (busy cap moon I guess?).

That's what made me think that because he doesn't want to get vulnerable yet and because aries is a quite sexual and intense sign, maybe that's his way of showing his interest?

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Well it’s a tough balance with guys, some act one way some act another. My ex wasn’t very good at vulnerable. It’s like I always knew, but he showed his love in other ways. Cap moon hides very well. It was more actions, he wanted me there. We didn’t ever talk about things really, we just did them, didn’t talk about commitment, we just spent time together and it happened. I am cap dominant so I guess I understood and sag sun so fun, and doing things together/for each other is how we operated. Sexually wise it was not like that in the beginning, but then again this was pre-texting/pre-internet. We actually waited a bit for sex, but our chemistry was always off the charts.. people could just see it. He asked me “to go steady “ before we had sex. Seems so weird now lol but sex was not the first thing, but was great when we got past this first part. I was separated from my first husband at the time & believe me not so ready for a relationship/hurt etc. He was patient when I was having trouble for the first few months.

I think that it’s okay to have a little sexual banter as long as boundaries are there. He will wait to have sex if he respects you and is into you.

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Good luck. And get ready.

For what? 😮

Posted by queeneemy

Here are his placements that I know:

Sun - Gemini

Moon - Capricorn

Mercury - Taurus

Venus - Taurus

Mars - Aries

How do you think a guy with these placements would show his love?

This particular guy has very little Gemini traits. I've dated a couple of Geminis and my best male friend is one too, so I know them well and I don't even look at his Gemini sun. But I can definitely see the earth in him. He has a lot of capricorn traits, some Taurus and a bit of that aries too. He's currently out of the country and will be back in a couple of months so we're currently "friends". I understand him not wanting a LDR because his last one didn't end well.

So, when we were together, we would cuddle while watching TV, we would talk a lot, he opened up to me about a lot of personal things and I can see he really cares for me. He never initiated anything other than cuddling, tho (I also think that's due to a problem with his teeth that he's currently taking care of). But he would be really expressive about his desire for me. While we texted he would tell me how I drove him crazy but that he had a lot of respect for me and that's the reason he wouldn't try anything ('cause I told him I don't do hookups) and that one day he would lose his mind. These conversations were usually light hearted and just a funny exchange of bunter.

However, I believe he actually wants something serious with me when he comes back. He offered me help to deal with some family issues (that involved actually meeting my family), he's always worried about my mother and he once took me to his aunt's place for coffee, knowing what it would look like.

It's been 2 months since he left and we kept talking to each other but he has been a bit cold these past two weeks but I know he's been busy. He's been working and redoing his parents' kitchen (he even sent me pictures of it). So, given his cap moon I understand that. The other day, we were texting and he lead the conversation in a way that made me say I missed him. And last night we were texting and he started having that flirting talk again of how he would lose his mind, etc. And I asked "What's gotten into you? Is that all because you miss me?" and he said "I think so... I really enjoyed the time we spent together when no one was minding our business" (we had a couple of misunderstandings when we first started talking because of our common friends, so we decided to pretend we didn't talk to each other in public and then hang out alone).

What I'm interested in knowing is how does his cap moon and his aries mars interact with each other when it comes to show his love. Cap has trouble showing emotions in the early stages, right? And aries has a very straightforward style of flirting, right? Could this be his way of showing me he's still interested without showing his emotions and becoming vulnerable? (He's been cheated on before, btw). Also, all these flirty conversations were all done while texting. When we were together we would just look like a couple, cuddling, pillow fights and cute stuff like that and just having long conversations about life.

If it helps, here are my placements:

Sun - Virgo

Moon - Aquarius

Mercury - Libra

Venus - Scorpio

Mars - Cancer

Rising sign - Aries

Thanks in advance! 😊

You already know. Stop doubting yourself. You have a mars square. Your probably missing each other's signals. So your not going to flow naturally into the next stage. My question though, you talk a lot about how he feels but do you actually love this man?

Posted by Lostthoughts

Posted by queeneemy

Here are his placements that I know:

Sun - Gemini

Moon - Capricorn

Mercury - Taurus

Venus - Taurus

Mars - Aries

How do you think a guy with these placements would show his love?

This particular guy has very little Gemini traits. I've dated a couple of Geminis and my best male friend is one too, so I know them well and I don't even look at his Gemini sun. But I can definitely see the earth in him. He has a lot of capricorn traits, some Taurus and a bit of that aries too. He's currently out of the country and will be back in a couple of months so we're currently "friends". I understand him not wanting a LDR because his last one didn't end well.

So, when we were together, we would cuddle while watching TV, we would talk a lot, he opened up to me about a lot of personal things and I can see he really cares for me. He never initiated anything other than cuddling, tho (I also think that's due to a problem with his teeth that he's currently taking care of). But he would be really expressive about his desire for me. While we texted he would tell me how I drove him crazy but that he had a lot of respect for me and that's the reason he wouldn't try anything ('cause I told him I don't do hookups) and that one day he would lose his mind. These conversations were usually light hearted and just a funny exchange of bunter.

However, I believe he actually wants something serious with me when he comes back. He offered me help to deal with some family issues (that involved actually meeting my family), he's always worried about my mother and he once took me to his aunt's place for coffee, knowing what it would look like.

It's been 2 months since he left and we kept talking to each other but he has been a bit cold these past two weeks but I know he's been busy. He's been working and redoing his parents' kitchen (he even sent me pictures of it). So, given his cap moon I understand that. The other day, we were texting and he lead the conversation in a way that made me say I missed him. And last night we were texting and he started having that flirting talk again of how he would lose his mind, etc. And I asked "What's gotten into you? Is that all because you miss me?" and he said "I think so... I really enjoyed the time we spent together when no one was minding our business" (we had a couple of misunderstandings when we first started talking because of our common friends, so we decided to pretend we didn't talk to each other in public and then hang out alone).

What I'm interested in knowing is how does his cap moon and his aries mars interact with each other when it comes to show his love. Cap has trouble showing emotions in the early stages, right? And aries has a very straightforward style of flirting, right? Could this be his way of showing me he's still interested without showing his emotions and becoming vulnerable? (He's been cheated on before, btw). Also, all these flirty conversations were all done while texting. When we were together we would just look like a couple, cuddling, pillow fights and cute stuff like that and just having long conversations about life.

If it helps, here are my placements:

Sun - Virgo

Moon - Aquarius

Mercury - Libra

Venus - Scorpio

Mars - Cancer

Rising sign - Aries

Thanks in advance! 😊

You already know. Stop doubting yourself. You have a mars square. Your probably missing each other's signals. So your not going to flow naturally into the next stage. My question though, you talk a lot about how he feels but do you actually love this man?

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Well, that's an interesting question 🤔 ahaha

Well, I'm trying to stay as grounded as possible in this situation, for the sake of my sanity 😅 I'm a very anxious person and I still have to make it through two months and a half before he comes back. Also, I don't want to scare him away because of my feelings 😅 That's why I avoid thinking about it at all. But to answer your question, I think I do. But I don't want to say it "out loud" just yet, so I'm just keeping it in the back of my mind 😅

Also, may I ask you why you think we won't flow naturally to the next stage? I'm curious about that 😅

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Posted by Lostthoughts

Posted by queeneemy

Here are his placements that I know:

Sun - Gemini

Moon - Capricorn

Mercury - Taurus

Venus - Taurus

Mars - Aries

How do you think a guy with these placements would show his love?

This particular guy has very little Gemini traits. I've dated a couple of Geminis and my best male friend is one too, so I know them well and I don't even look at his Gemini sun. But I can definitely see the earth in him. He has a lot of capricorn traits, some Taurus and a bit of that aries too. He's currently out of the country and will be back in a couple of months so we're currently "friends". I understand him not wanting a LDR because his last one didn't end well.

So, when we were together, we would cuddle while watching TV, we would talk a lot, he opened up to me about a lot of personal things and I can see he really cares for me. He never initiated anything other than cuddling, tho (I also think that's due to a problem with his teeth that he's currently taking care of). But he would be really expressive about his desire for me. While we texted he would tell me how I drove him crazy but that he had a lot of respect for me and that's the reason he wouldn't try anything ('cause I told him I don't do hookups) and that one day he would lose his mind. These conversations were usually light hearted and just a funny exchange of bunter.

However, I believe he actually wants something serious with me when he comes back. He offered me help to deal with some family issues (that involved actually meeting my family), he's always worried about my mother and he once took me to his aunt's place for coffee, knowing what it would look like.

It's been 2 months since he left and we kept talking to each other but he has been a bit cold these past two weeks but I know he's been busy. He's been working and redoing his parents' kitchen (he even sent me pictures of it). So, given his cap moon I understand that. The other day, we were texting and he lead the conversation in a way that made me say I missed him. And last night we were texting and he started having that flirting talk again of how he would lose his mind, etc. And I asked "What's gotten into you? Is that all because you miss me?" and he said "I think so... I really enjoyed the time we spent together when no one was minding our business" (we had a couple of misunderstandings when we first started talking because of our common friends, so we decided to pretend we didn't talk to each other in public and then hang out alone).

What I'm interested in knowing is how does his cap moon and his aries mars interact with each other when it comes to show his love. Cap has trouble showing emotions in the early stages, right? And aries has a very straightforward style of flirting, right? Could this be his way of showing me he's still interested without showing his emotions and becoming vulnerable? (He's been cheated on before, btw). Also, all these flirty conversations were all done while texting. When we were together we would just look like a couple, cuddling, pillow fights and cute stuff like that and just having long conversations about life.

If it helps, here are my placements:

Sun - Virgo

Moon - Aquarius

Mercury - Libra

Venus - Scorpio

Mars - Cancer

Rising sign - Aries

Thanks in advance! 😊

You already know. Stop doubting yourself. You have a mars square. Your probably missing each other's signals. So your not going to flow naturally into the next stage. My question though, you talk a lot about how he feels but do you actually love this man?

Well, that's an interesting question 🤔 ahaha

Well, I'm trying to stay as grounded as possible in this situation, for the sake of my sanity 😅 I'm a very anxious person and I still have to make it through two months and a half before he comes back. Also, I don't want to scare him away because of my feelings 😅 That's why I avoid thinking about it at all. But to answer your question, I think I do. But I don't want to say it "out loud" just yet, so I'm just keeping it in the back of my mind 😅

Also, may I ask you why you think we won't flow naturally to the next stage? I'm curious about that 😅

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I'm basing that on your placements and what you said so far. With more placement detail there is a strong possibility my opinion will change.

As it stands, your mars square and there isn't much synastry to compensate for that. When 2 people have easy mars synastry they can stimulate each other and pick up on each other's cues naturally. Basically it just flows and happens without thought.

The other reason is the earth especially Taurus placements. Once they establish/accept something it's not easy for them to change whatever the pattern/behavior.

I have 2 questions for you.

1. Unless one or both of you are holding back, the kind of relationship/feeling of the relationship by now is what your going to get. Are you ok with the dynamic?

2. " Making sure he doesn't just want sex/hookup". Where is this coming from? It's almost like a fixation for you. Is it your general mindset or something you are picking up from him?

Oh I see 🤔

Here are my other placements:

Jupiter - Scorpio

Saturn - Pisces

Uranus - Capricorn

Neptune - Capricorn

Pluto - Scorpio

Lilith - Taurus

N Mode - Scorpio

I'm not really sure what these mean though 😅



To answer your questions. Well, tbh I can't really consider the current state of the relationship because we're in different countries. However, I was happy with the dynamics of the relationship before he left. We were seeing each other everyday, he would come to my place everyday, we'd watch TV, talk, cuddle and stuff like that. I was on cloud nine 😅 I trust that when he comes back, things will go back to that?

As for the second question you asked, this might end up longer than what I intend, I'm sorry about that 😅 It kinda is my general mindset but also this is something I'm worrying about because I don't like casual relationships. That's not what I want and I mentioned that to him. However it has happened to me that that's all a guy wants way too many times, so I'm kind of like... "traumatized" 😅

Also, when we first started talking he went a couple of days without texting me and I made the mistake (once again) of listening to people's opinions and I had this friend who was telling me he only wanted sex and I guess that kind of influenced me.

Besides that, we have a lot of common friends. Basically, two of my best friends are his cousins. That's how we met in the first place. But we currently live in a foreign country and he was living in our home country so they're not close to the point that they know each other well. One of his cousins has a restaurant and there are a lot of people from our home country who go there and in the beginning everyone was enjoying the news of us "dating". They would make jokes and all and it caused a few misunderstandings between us. For example, someone thought it would be funny to tell him "*my name* was here today... she said she came here to see you" when we had been talking for a week, making me look like a creepy stalker 🤷🏻‍♀️ And you know, stuff like this... Then he went a little bit cold and I freaked out because I started thinking that he really just wanted sex and it was a mess. And this went on for a few weeks and then I got mad at him because he asked me to introduce him to my friends so he could have sex with them but he said this in a kind of disrespectful way, so I just deleted his number and didn't talk to him for a couple of weeks. During this time, he saw me talking to a guy at the restaurant and my friend's bf was even making jokes about me and that guy and he got pretty jealous and left the restaurant. And you know, I always liked this guy that I saw when we were alone together, so I decided to put my ego aside and texted him. He then told me something like "I'm about to leave and you haven't introduced me to your friends" that's when I realised that it was just to get a reaction out of me. He did that a couple of times and he wouldn't believe me when I told him that I enjoyed spending time with him and he was always trying to figure if I liked him or not so I told him "I'm not going to introduce to my friends 'cause I'm the one who's interested in you" and even then he was like "How so?".

We then agreed to meet and talk. And then we met but didn't really talked about it 😅 A few days later, we were texting and he said he only wanted to be friends. Now, I knew this wasn't true, so I played along with it and even told him I could introduce him to my friends to which he replied "That was only a joke". That's when I was sure it was some stupid thing that came out of his mouth to get a reaction from me.

After this, he suggested we start hanging out as friends, but away from everyone we know, so that people would stop ruining what was going on between us. He said "Our life is not their business". We even went as far as seeing each other at the restaurant, pretend we didn't know each other and then leave and hang out. Why keep it a secret if we're just friends? We both finished work quite late and we live in the country side so, there aren't a lot of places to hang out and so he started coming to my place everyday. Him initiating everything. We would occasionally go out for coffee, one of those times being at his aunt's place. Why take me there? Why taking the risk of his aunt thinking we were dating? He could've have gone to his aunt's place and then come to see me. But instead, he even waited for me to take a shower and get dressed and all that. He always tried to make a good impression on my mother. Why bother? And like I said, we would cuddle while watching TV and stuff like that. Really? Is that what you do with friends?

He's also kind of a geek about cars and motorbikes, which I find adorable. And there was this time that we were talking and he said something like "Would you like to learn about mechanics? 'Cause I always wanted my woman to learn mechanics". Really? Friends? 😅 And he once also said that he was really enjoying getting to know me and that he loved spending time with me and that "I never thought I would come here and find someone". When you say that you found someone, you don't really mean as a friend, do you? He also told me one of his dream was to be a father but he the women he'd had so far weren't the ones. 😅 So, this is already long enough, so these are just a few examples but there were plenty of other "hints" that we weren't just friends.

Now, there's another important factor. His teeth. He had a health condition a couple of years ago that ruined his teeth. They're pretty bad. Now, I don't mind it, there's more to him than his teeth, however, it is something that really bothered him. He told me that many times. And that's why he came to work here in the first place. He was supposed to work a few months and then go back to our home country to get them fixed. And that's what he's doing. Also, he had a gf when he came here. She broke up with him a couple of days after he came here and a week later she was engaged to another guy so, he thinks she'd been already cheating on him for a long time. I asked him if he would go back to her and he looked me in the eyes and said no. Is he completely over her? I can't say for sure. But I really don't think he would go back to her, so I'm not worried about his ex. However, I think this helps explaining the whole friends thing.

So, here's my theory. He wanted us be friends so it would take the pressure away from us and allow us to actually get to know each other and create a bond. Also, what would be the point in starting a LDR when his girlfriend of 3 years cheated on him and broke up with him as soon as he left? How could he trust a girl he knew for a few months? And finally, his teeth. He's very insecure about that, which is totally understandable. So my guess is, he wanted to go to our home country, stay "friends" until he comes back and then actually try something serious with me ('cause he wants to move here permanently and he already made plenty of plans for us for when he comes back). Also, there was this one time we were in my place and he got a boner. We were already cuddling, if he really just wanted sex, he would have tried something at least that one time, right? But instead, he left my house, went home and then told me about it and said that he respected me so he didn't try anything. Also, why bother keeping in touch with me after he left? He's now in our home country, in his comfort zone, he can get any sex he wants but he's still talking to me. And last night, he texted and the when I was going to bed he sent me this emoji 😘. I was shocked. He had never done anything like this. He rarely sends any emojis. He had once sent me the kiss emoji, but the normal one. This time, it had a heart. Believe me, from what I know about him, that's a big deal 😂 When I saw it, I was literally like this 😱

So, this is the rational me. Then there's the overweight insecure me who's been told guys don't want to be seen in public with fat chicks and only want to fuck them. But I hate that insecure bitch so 😂

Anyway, I just realised how long this is and I'm incredibly sorry for it 😢 But I thought all this background information was important for you to understand my point of view. Just please don't judge me 🙏🏻😅 Anyway, I really appreciate your help. Thank you so much 😊