I'm an Aries, and he's a Virgo... I'm SCREWED lol

Is there any hope for this combo- ever?? I've dated (long term, had a kid with lol) a Virgo before, and I've dated another since. I know it's like trying to combine chaos and order into one.. but I REALLY REALLY like this Virgo... Has there ever been a sane amount of compromise that has ever made these 2 work out?

IDK what you mean by that lol

I'm an Aries married to a Virgo.

My Virgo brother is married to an Aries.

Posted by VenusAquarius
I'm an Aries married to a Virgo.

My Virgo brother is married to an Aries.

That's awesome! How do you guys deal with the chaos/structure??

We have a Grand Air Trine in our composite chart....communication.

We'll talk 'til sick if we have to but, after many years together, we have no real problems.

I am heavy into astrology.

If anything,you can't go on Sun sign alone.

Total chart always.

For example, my Virgo and I have two Grand Air Trines in the composite chart. The anchors are Jupiter and Uranus. It goes Jupiter, Uranus, Sun; and, Jupiter, Uranus, Moon.

Add to that the fact that I have three Grand Air Trines in my natal chart.

Honestly, Aries/Virgo combo is not as bad as some other combos like Aries/Cancer... there can still be mutual understanding between Aries and Virgo, it will just be more work than Aries with Leo/ Sag or Aqua/Gem.

VenusAquarius..

What are your views on grand trines in synastry?

Also composite vs synastry? I see a lot of differences between the two. I read a lot but I'd like to see your thoughts on this.

Uh, just go with it and see what happens?

You guys are awesome 🙂 Thank you for helping to put my optimism back on track 🙂 Now, if there was ever a certain way to tell if the Virgo male is interested LOL.

i have no clue what our charts are lol

I guess his is Venus/Virgo and mine's Sun/Aries... is that helpful? I read his chart, and I'm very intrigued lol

That may not be right, I have no idea how to read the charts to see what we are lmao!!

Posted by Damnata
VenusAquarius..

What are your views on grand trines in synastry?

Also composite vs synastry? I see a lot of differences between the two. I read a lot but I'd like to see your thoughts on this.

I see grand trines in synastry as a specially potent attraction...perhaps even psychic, psychic understanding. I think that the kind of understanding, perhaps attraction, that occurs with trines in synastry. But, it really depends on what planets are involved and the rest of the synastry. Working on the premise that synastry is fundamentally energy between two people...that energy being attraction (or repulsion),the verb; whereas the composite is the noun, the relationship.

I find the composite the most useful in prediction, highly useful in predictions and solving real problems and answering the toughest questions.

You can have a trine with anyone...so trines in synastry is a strong friendship, kindred souls, dynamic duo.

A lot can be discovered using the natal, synastry, and composite together.

For example, you can discover who will have to compromise the most, whether good or bad, when you see the composite most clearly is representative of one persons chart over the other.

Thank you VenusAquarius..I recently got into synastry and composite and trying to find interesting sites and absorbing everything. 🙂

Searching for books it's a nightmare because Amazon screws me up on the delivery, since I live so far away from the US.

My Dad said what reeled him in to marry my Mom was seeing her work and live in a dump with a kid with an ex who was an acoholic. It brought out his cape and rescue mode. So be helpless hahahaha that's a good one! Aries woman helpless?! LMAO! I crack myself sometimes.

Yes it can work. Just communicate and be patient when he's "set in his ways".

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Posted by GingaSnapKrakle83
I guess his is Venus/Virgo and mine's Sun/Aries... is that helpful? I read his chart, and I'm very intrigued lol

Would you be able to post it here? I'm just curious. 🙂

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You want his chart? Or mine?

Posted by champranger

Posted by GingaSnapKrakle83
Is there any hope for this combo- ever?? I've dated (long term, had a kid with lol) a Virgo before, and I've dated another since. I know it's like trying to combine chaos and order into one.. but I REALLY REALLY like this Virgo... Has there ever been a sane amount of compromise that has ever made these 2 work out?

What was your prior experience with Virgos like?

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The first one (baby daddy)I was crazy about... but we never agreed on anything, fromt he movie we wanted to watch together to the dynamics and the details in our relationship. He is an OCD germaphobic neat freak, and i'm a barefooted chaotic mess lmao.

The second one, was short lived, but there were a lot of times (for a while before we dated he was my employee - interoffice dating was totally accepted) and no matter what we were to each other at the moment bf/gf or boss/employee we always disagreed on things, he was way too anala nd OCD for me and I was too chaotic for him. He's now one of my best friends lol

I'll post our charts later when I have time to re-search them. Yes! I can't deal with OCDness lol. I am anal and detailed oriented about a lot of things... but both of them were just super neat freaks, germaphobic & scheduled lol.

Just for the lulz..let me show you how this relationship works.

Guy's a Virgo IRL, she's an Aries.

Watch the story 😄