in love, but also in love with ..

Hi everyone

I have this weird question:

Could somebody be in love with someone and have a serious relationship,

While he or she is actually also in love with someone they have seen in a train !
(wich he or she was too shy too tell that person in the train ).

Tell me your experiences / thoughts !

In lust, perhaps... I don't know about in love.

Boy .. you still haven't approached your red-haired beauty yet? This has been a long time of you admiring and adoring her .. what are you waiting for?

Just do it .......

I know you're shy, mate .. but, this is obviously eating away at you, since you're trying to be in a relationship with someone else, while still desiring the woman who captured you on the train .. if your heart pines away for another, then how true can you be to the woman you're dating?

Does she (train woman) know that you watch her? Try just smiling at her and see what her reaction is .. you can do that .. I wouldn't be so concerned about something this ordinarily .. but, it's been what? 6 or 8 months since you first mentioned this .. that's a really long time .. it's not just some passing desire .. a moment thing.

P-angel ! this topic relate's to that train girl yes !

My adoration for her haven't calmed down since i saw her for the first time. I still think of her every time i see a red head woman. But i think u ruined my chances ...

Since i haven't seen her for a while because of my trainee. I'm on my old school times again now and i still hope i'll see her again. i now have the guts to tell her, but i first have to see her, thou....

Dude. James Blunt. "Beautiful." Haha.

indeed she is beautifull. but i don't think James Blunt is a appropiate song for this issue. Since i have to be at school by 9 o clock i have a fair chance to see her again. Still i have this feeling she will show up at the BluesRoute this year in my village, just like last year ...

boy oh boy.

Lol, gemini 😉

I'm rather thinking of David Bowie - Sorrow

That's also about a girl he saw and he lives in sorrow because he was too shy to speak to her...

(keeping the faith !!)

(@ Geminifox > I have a double cd box of David Bowie - bst of Bowie 🙂 )

I'm not a Lamb (LOL) !

I just don't know what to say to her. i have this phrase: "i don't know how to say it to you, but i'm deeply in love with you since i saw you in the train "

boy---, I've been in the same situation, years ago. Just CAPTIVATED by this beauty. So, after weeks, thinking about timing, thinking about what to say, I went to her and said, "You are absolutely beautiful! Are you seeing anyone?" She was so surprised and flattered; told me she had someone in her life. And I felt better telling her (I wasn't thinking about it all the time any more). And she'll never forget it! It was NICE, bud!

BREAKTHROUGH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I saw my red angel !!!

I was just walking in Utrecht with a friend who works at La Place. He had a day off but he wanted to visit his college's and drink something. So we went walking and what do i see at the salad desk ? MY REDHEAD !!! i couldn't believe it !fate is playing funny games with me !. I'm attempting to work at there since she is there too and i will be introduced to her as a colleque !. + i will work with my best mate, Maarten!.

I'm so excited !!!!

Wow, Boyfu .. that's fantastic !!! You sound soooooo excited.

You've been carrying this torch around for a long, long time .. I really hope she sees how much you care for her .. keep faith .. you're really sweet .. she'll recognize this and want to be with you .. I just know she will ..

Keep us posted on this .. I'll be wishing and hoping for you. 🙂

quote: Sherob"BFU - why don't you just go talk to her now that you know how to find her?"

I'm not the guy who goes flirting when she is standing with a colleque !. btw ! my friend Maarten found out her name: Milou !. I couldn't just walk to her since i had to get the train withing a short time !. I'm thinking of sending her a Valentines card. Explaining her my situation. Funny detail : She is Libra ! Opposites attract (i'm Aries). Now hopefully she is open for a relation.